Getting Help (Hour 1)

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Getting Help (Hour 1)

Daybreak w/ Brian and Jamie · Wed Jun 3, 2026

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Jamie, working right up until the intro started.

Everything all right?

You

good?

bunch of emails I had to answer.

Here's the problem with this connecting early in the evening to go take the dog for a walk.

You miss out on stuff and then you realize when you get up and you open everything up that there was stuff that you probably should have handled the night before or there was news that you probably should have kept an eye on and you know it happens to the best of us but sometimes you just got to put your phone down for a little

bit.

That used to be more important with the news back in the day.

Now, news is happening nonstop.

It's 24-7.

You can't possibly watch everything.

That's why we got to have Parker just stay up all night.

That's

right.

Monitoring things, updating the rundown every five minutes.

We want the most up to date, up to the minute.

things have ready for us when we come on.

Can you handle that,

Parker?

Yeah, I could start doing play-by-play if you want.

All right, you could take

a nap from like

two to like

four every day.

Okay, I like

this.

Okay, so two to four

and then

the rest of the day you're up and then you're just watching the news.

22-hour day, that's not awful.

That's

right, we'll handle those two hours, you're on it the rest of the day for us.

Sick.

I

mean, it's essentially, you're right, it is a 24-hour news cycle.

There's no way you can keep on...

up with everything and it and also I I do it like by by seven thirty eight o'clock that's the end of the day we've been we've been up since four you know it's like okay people need to I think all of us not just not just us you and me everybody but everybody needs to take time and say you know what work is great right but in the at the end of the day

We're all we're all replacement.

Yes, and you have to have a life and you have to get some rest.

Yes.

Yes,

it was just thinking man.

I am perpetually tired

That was just it I put my phone down last night about nine o'clock and this morning I woke up and I was like oh Look at all of the emails that came in after like 9 30 last night So there are people who are more tethered to their phones than I am if I was

getting

emails that were of somewhat importance at 9 30 10 between 9 30 and 11 last night

Let me and I'm not asking you to shout anybody out.

I'm not but but let's be honest Any of those emails that were sent at 9 30 10 10 30 last night

Couldn't they have waited till this morning?

They probably could have, but I wonder if they kind of operate like I do, where I will send emails at weird times because.

Oh, I don't.

Because,

well, and here's what usually happens for me.

And I will sometimes schedule out emails to send like the next day at a certain time.

I do

that as well.

That's better.

I do

that as well.

But a lot of times, if it's, you know, before 10 o'clock and it comes into my head, it's one of those things where I need to write it.

Because I also know that other people

will check their email like me when they have time, right?

And if it's really, really important, I'm gonna wait till the next day because I probably need an immediate answer.

If it's just something that I can send out and I'm like, hmm, I need you to kind of ponder this or let's connect on this a little bit later on, then I'll usually send it out.

But that's usually because it's not a rush thing, right?

Like I know that they can, they can

get back to me when they have time.

I was gonna say, but also if you send it late at night, it's gonna be buried by the next day.

And I don't expect them to usually answer.

So if it's really,

important.

I'm going to wait until the next day.

If it's somewhat that, you know, I know we need to connect on something, but it's it's a little bit more leisurely.

I'll send those out whenever.

If it's something that I need a response on, but I know that there's a more appropriate time for somebody to get it in their inbox and I schedule things.

So it really just depends on my grade in my head of the importance of the email.

These were some things that that came in last night that I needed to handle for later this morning before like

noon today.

But now they're handled.

So we're good.

No

big

deal.

It

wasn't an emergency.

It was just

questions I had to answer.

I remember reading.

number of business things and you know don't send emails after I know I know

I don't think there's

any

etiquette on it anymore because we're all always on our phones

well because we're expected to be available 24-7 because we've allowed ourselves to become and this is with a lot of jobs that's why sometimes I envy

people who, you know, shift work.

Because at the end of the shift, you're done.

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You

walk away.

And, you know, our job is different.

It is more of a continuation during the day.

We're always watching stuff and doing stuff.

But there is a point where

It's just your job.

Yeah, I know.

I know.

I know.

It's

hard.

I'm not singling you out.

It's a phenomenon that's everywhere.

I

think about these things, though, all the time, especially when I have conversation with friends or when we're talking about our work-life balance.

And here's what I've learned.

I also have friends who live in Europe.

I have a really great friend going all the way back to high school who's been living in Scotland now for, I don't know,

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about the

last 25 years.

her work-life balance, the fact that they untether and they have this, they'll just be like, nope, we're done for the day.

They're so much better at it in countries that are not the United States.

And they really are good at it in a lot of, especially in Europe.

They're really good at just being like, nope, you know, they do a lot of four-day weeks in some of those countries in Europe.

And they're productive.

I know.

I mean, as long as you...

As long as you do an honest day's work when you're at work and you work hard, you do deserve to go home and

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not have to

work anymore.

It's like, yeah, I want to relax.

I want to see my kids.

I want to go to the grocery store.

I don't really love grocery shopping, but the other day I said to Corey, because we do a lot of delivery to our house because of our schedule.

And I said to Corey the other day, I said, you know what I kind of miss?

And I thought he, like I literally thought he was going to have the big one, right?

Because I looked at him and I

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said,

I kind of miss going to the grocery store and doing my own shopping.

And he goes, but you hate grocery shopping.

I said, yeah, but it feels normal when I do it, right?

Like having delivery does not feel normal.

to me, even though it is a convenience for me, it doesn't feel normal.

Going to the

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store, getting my

own groceries feels normal.

It's one more level of isolation.

And yeah, it is a convenience, there's no doubt about it.

But it does, it's one more level of us not having to, and trust me, I hate leaving out.

Every time I leave, I can't wait to go back.

But it connects you in some way to the rest of the world.

Right.

And I like to, I like to

Bill pick my own apples when I'm at the store.

I like to I like to look at the steaks go I don't like to look at that one I like to look at that one

now after I'm there for about 10 minutes and I run into about four people I'm usually like oh, please bring me my sweatpants and that delivery again because this is too much but

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Yeah,

it feels normal to be in the store and do things that other people are doing and not have my groceries delivered and I will never complain about delivery service and I will never complain about having to tip because I am

one of those people who is so appreciative of the actual service.

But yeah, he did.

He had the Red Fox moment, right?

Like where he's like,

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I'm going to have the big one.

Because I'm

like, I kind of want to leave the store and do my own shopping for a change.

And he's like, wow, OK.

So he kind of knew at that point that I probably needed to disconnect a little bit.

Well, yeah, you can disengage from everything else because you're focused on getting through the store quickly.

Avoiding people.

Getting around the people who are draped over the cart like they had their spines removed on the way in.

people who put their cart crossways across the aisle and are completely oblivious that there's other people.

Yeah, the screaming kids.

Can I add one more beef to that list?

The people who walk on the side of their cart.

Yes, why do you do that?

I don't know.

I've had just about enough of it.

You guys know I'm bothered by pretty much everything.

But they put a handle on the card for a reason.

You don't have to walk next to it like it's your girlfriend or boyfriend or

whoever it is.

I've done this before, but only in occasions where if I'm in an aisle, because sometimes you'll have your list, right?

I go in with my list,

I'm armed,

because otherwise I end up with things in my cart that I don't need.

But if everything is in the same aisle on the same side, and I'm just literally going down grabbing it and putting it in, I'll walk by the side of my cart to do that, but I won't do it if it's normally, right?

I have multiple things in a row that I can just grab

and put in.

Sure, there's always exceptions.

But otherwise, I

don't understand that.

Right.

I'm talking about the people who, that's their MO.

Because now you're taking up basically, because I think of stores as like traffic lanes, right?

Like you've got

some people

going one

way, you've got

other people going one way.

Why are you stopped in the middle?

Because now you're holding it up for everybody.

And so if you're doing the side on the cart thing and you're pushing, now you're taking up two lanes.

You're essentially taking up both lanes of traffic.

So you would be annoyed at a driver doing that in the car.

So please don't do it the store.

There's, and I know, I know sometimes I catch myself going, dude, just take a breath and relax.

But those, the breaths are very short.

They're wrapped in succession.

I don't take a deep in cleansing breath.

It's like, come on, just remember there's other people.

And then, all right, I've been.

Got to get this out.

Okay, please.

No, but everybody everybody can get everybody can I think Feel for me and you've had these experience where people just ask you dumb questions just really stupid questions and I want to lose my mind So I've told you I move this week.

I'm moving

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my

mom from one assistant.

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How is that

going?

It's going okay It's you know, I got all the pictures hung up in the new place yesterday Wow, so so she can

the goal is when she comes in tomorrow

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feels like home

day feels like home

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yeah

so today it's gonna be packing um but anyway it's all fine it's it moving sucks no matter if you're 25 or 85

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yes

it doesn't matter moving moving is awful well now uh you know because i'm doing most of the most of the logistical stuff debbie and i are handling i get a call from my aunt the other day after i told her that my mom was moving

I just want to know, are they going to be giving her medicine at the new place?

What?

No, that's not a thing.

I

know.

I was, I had to pause and I had to go, all right, remember this woman is also 80.

Relax.

Okay, all right.

Yeah, of course they're gonna give her her medicine.

Well, I'm just asking, will they be taking...

I said, they're going to do it.

Why don't you just ask me if they're going to feed her there, too?

Or if they have indoor plumbing.

Will you have to go out in the field to take a dump?

No, she's going to be fine.

I'm like, just.

What do you think?

What do you honestly think I'm gonna take her somewhere just like leave her in a closet like Harry Potter?

Did she think that you had to spend hours and time researching

these facilities?

I don't know.

You were

just going to leave her somewhere like tired to a chair?

She had the senior citizen think of well I have a friend who lives in a place and they didn't give her her medicine and I said well I wouldn't put my mom in a place like that.

It

was good that

she was concerned, though.

It was

very nice she was concerned.

Jamie, is it nice that she's concerned?

Can't she just be concerned at home and live with the doubt that somehow my mom's going to be mistreated but she's not?

I just love that she

didn't trust you enough to make this decision for your mom.

Everybody, well that's a family trait.

Just get in line.

But are they going to give her her medicine?

What?

Yes, yes, yes.

So just for the record, in case anybody from, you know, some government department is listening.

Yes, my mom's going to be getting all her medicine.

She's going to be very well taken care of.

She's going

to have all of the amenities that she needs in order to live, survive, including the medicine and food in case you're

on.

I'm not tying her up to a tree and just leaving her out in the woods.

Anyway, hey, New Jersey is suing a ice detention center.

We'll get it all of that.

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A lot to get to today, but we've been seeing the footage over the last few days of protesting New Jersey outside of Delaney Hall, which is where they have been.

holding ice detainees.

There have been complaints about inhumane conditions.

There have been complaints about hunger strikes, all kind of things.

Well, New Jersey has filed a lawsuit against GEO Group, that's the private company that operates the Delaney Hall Immigration Detention Center in Newark, seeking a court order that would allow state health officials to conduct a full inspection of the facility, which it surprises me that that's not already a thing.

You would think any

business licensed in a state that houses human beings would be under some sort of oversight from the state authorities.

Right.

We just need to send your aunt in.

Yeah, she got a lot of questions.

Are they getting their medicine?

Is she eating?

Do they have indoor plumbing?

I mean, I hate

to

joke, but I mean, honestly, it sounds like she's doing more of her due diligence than maybe this facility is doing with the state inspectors, right?

Well, yeah, but I will also once again reiterate

My mom not being an entertaining.

She's not living in inhumane conditions.

Anyway, so the detainees and advocates alleged unsanitary conditions, inadequate medical care, spoiled food, psychological mistreatment.

Some detainees reportedly launched a hunger strike to protect protest conditions inside the center.

State officials say they were only allowed to inspect limited areas of the facilities such as food service operations and were denied broader access needed to evaluate health and safety concerns.

That should be a monumental red

flag right yeah I also I also don't like this idea of privatizing jails and privatizing these detention centers because once you're paid what obviously there is no oversight right we're hoping New Jersey can get some sort of

figure out what's going on in there.

Right.

Well, and that's just it.

But I mean, with the privatization of some of these facilities, this has been a dream of the Republican Party for as long as I can remember.

They like the privatization.

And I'm not going to say that there's not some Democrats who haven't been on that bandwagon as well.

But it really, I think, deters how much control

the state has, I think it deters how much the federal government has, and then you end up with issues like we're seeing in New Jersey.

And by the way, this isn't new.

This is exactly the same MO that we've been watching happen across the country with these facilities, right?

Whether they're privatized, whether they're not, it's the exact same thing.

And so, I mean, I'll give New Jersey some credit here because they've been watching what's been happening across the country, and they're not backing down.

I mean, they're-

Not and I can appreciate that because the more that these facilities come under fire whether they are state facilities whether they're federal facilities whether they're private facilities and the more the federal government tries to interfere with these facilities

the more that these states are able to draw up their own playbooks as to what's been happening across the country.

And New Jersey is, obviously they've taken some notes, right?

They're like,

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we're going to,

we're going to bring our state officials in.

They're taking that playbook from Minnesota right now.

So I, you know, good for them for making sure that there's some oversight here.

Well, and what's the, you know, when, when it's all just for profit, which

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this

is, and when you have the,

mentality on one side of the aisle that these people who are being held there are the worst of the worst even though we're finding a lot or not not even not even close to being able to see the worst of the worst but there's no incentive for them to treat

these people humanely if they're not if there's no government oversight they're not going to as long as they're getting their checks they're going to just do the bare minimum uh it's basically you're warehousing people

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you're not

and as much as people scream about humane treatment when it comes to animals chickens pigs being jammed into warehouses uh there should be that much outrage really there should be more outrage

more

but

There should be at least at least at the bare minimum the equal amount of outrage when you hear these things.

and see this footage.

This is a facility that can hold 1,000 detainees.

So think about the amount of people who are stacked in there and now we're being told that the conditions are unsanitary, there's no, the

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medical

care is uncertain.

I mean, think about what that is like in that facility and what that is doing to the people.

And you gotta imagine, and here's the other thing that I always go back to, it doesn't matter if it's adults or not, but you think about the effect that this is gonna also have on kids that are being held in this facility.

I mean, I don't understand.

I understand that if you are, you are a legal immigrant and you need to be detained in a facility, but these are still human beings who have rights and they're still human beings who deserve some actual comforts and, you know, food and the medicine and all of that going back to that previous conversation.

Food and the bathroom.

All of it.

Imagine how you...

Right.

You know how crowded it is at, uh, when you go to a baseball game and you need to go to the bat.

That's why people run up the aisle at between innings.

Right.

Now imagine that just in a more cramped spot with a thousand people.

Right.

And I'm sure they didn't budget in extensive bathroom facilities.

I'm sure it's just

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whatever,

whatever.

State guidelines you have to have this many for this many people.

There's nothing extra in there it the whole thing just It's cruel but

it

cruelty has been part of the deal

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right

the cruelty is what we've what we've experienced in the way

these are treated.

And I don't have to apologize.

I know most of our listeners know that everybody believes the immigration system needs to be fixed.

But that doesn't mean that while you're fixing it, you treat the people that are being caught up like they're animals or even worse.

It shouldn't be inhumane.

And that's just it.

And I know there's been arguments over the years of, you know, Barack Obama, he detained families.

Well, yes, but the facilities were still clean.

You know,

they

still had basic care needs that they

were given in that process.

So doesn't sound like that's happening, maybe in Newark right now.

No, in Newark itself is sometimes you if you've been in Newark, you know, it feels like you're being detained somewhere unsanitary.

But that's, you know, that's just you choose to be in Newark.

All right, when we come back, Portage Schools are going to put mental health at the forefront.

It is 6 30.

I'm Brian Nunez, Jamie Martin.

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Local news, community stories, and the conversations that matter most.

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635 right now, thank you for joining us this morning.

If you're a Madison listening on WMDX or in Eau Claire on 93.5 the tap or in Wisconsin Rapids this morning listening on WFHR, we're glad that you decided to join us.

My name is Jamie Martinson.

And good morning.

I'm Brian Noonan.

How important do you think mental health care is in elementary schools?

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Very important in Portage because the Portage Community School District is planning to create an in-house clinic offering mental health support to students at school.

The new grant is going to help the district provide a centralized location, quick access, and an open door to students who need help finding treatment.

Studies show the rural districts face challenges in addressing student mental health because they typically have fewer resources and less access to experts and funding for students.

That, according to Steve Goldberg of the WEA Member Benefits Foundation, that's a charity focused on schools.

They awarded Portage $41,000 to help organize the clinic, train teachers, and offer counseling sessions on campus.

They say, according to the head of the Portage School District, she said mental health is a

priority for us.

So that district serves about 2100 students from kindergarten through 12th grade and they're seeing an uptick which is it's a shame a big uptick in anxiety and all sorts of mental health issues and yes I know they they they use COVID as a thing that it's gotten worse since COVID and I did see

A lot more kids with it, they like to say big feelings.

A

lot of big feelings.

A lot of big feelings.

Honestly, if you're listening to this this morning and you have a kid in K through 12 and I obviously don't want to dismiss college students either because the mental health services are very important for them too, I think this is a good thing, right?

Because there's so many families out there that as we talk about the health care and the state of trying to even get resources at this point,

The fact that these schools are stepping up and saying, you know what?

We want to take care of these kids.

We want to help them.

And these kids have a place to go where they feel like they can be heard.

They can get the help they need if they feel like they're struggling or teachers notice that they're struggling.

That's

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always

a good thing, right?

We've, you know, and I've talked about this, both of my boys have dealt with mental health issues.

They have, my younger son has de-habilitating anxiety.

It took about two years for him to really accept the fact

that he had anxiety.

It took him about two years for him to accept the fact that he was probably going to need medicine for that for the rest of his life.

And it took two years of his life because he literally went leave the house and he woke up every day.

uh, wanting nothing more than to not be in this world.

My older son, we had, uh, we had issues with him as well, where he literally tried to take his own life at one point.

And it was simply because, and we, and we were present.

Let me tell you, we were there with them every single day, but it was just things inside of them that they felt like they couldn't get out or that, that they felt guilty about when there was no guilt or shame that should have been involved.

So the fact that, uh, these schools are able to offer this.

service and because we were lucky our insurance covered the mental health care that both of my our boys needed and our older one in fact just the other day about three weeks ago four weeks ago he said to me goes you know I have a counselor again right a therapist I said no but thank you for recognizing that you needed one as a 22 year old adult

and

went out and found

one for

yourself right so I think that this is a great great program

Well, and the the issue isn't always with the teachers or the schools and I was very disheartened to see this a number of times when we had kids who definitely had issues and Parents wouldn't when the social workers would Suggest or the teachers the teachers would talk to the social workers in the admin and we'd all come to a conclusion Okay, and the parents would come in and we'd say this is what's going on and we would suggest that they get some sort of therapy and there's

There's agencies that do it for free.

Even if you don't, because we were in a pretty financially strapped district.

But there were parents who just wouldn't do it.

And some of it's cultural,

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some of

it's shame, some of it's...

And I don't know if you felt you had to justify it, because I don't think people would think you weren't present for your children, but you threw that in.

You have to justify it, right?

Because you feel like

as a parent, you're like, what signs did I miss?

When our older one told us that he tried to take his own life, we were like,

we're here with you every day, right?

You were still living in our house.

How did we miss these signs?

And then as a parent, there's this immense amount of guilt that you feel because you're like, oh my gosh, my kid's been struggling and life is hard enough as it is that as a parent, you aren't able to recognize those things because when he was with us, he was quiet, but we thought it's because he was trying to contemplate life.

He had taken a year off from school.

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plans

had completely changed and we...

were like, OK, well, maybe he's just he's a very introspective person anyway.

And so we had noticed that he was quiet, but not acting any different.

He was getting up.

He was going to work.

He was he was doing his thing.

He was, you know, gaming with his friends.

He was going out with his friends who lived in the area.

And then all of a sudden one night Corey came home.

It was about 1 a.m.

He'd come home from the station in Baraboo and here was our kid running by the side of the road at 1 a.m.

In the cold in the dark with his headphones on and it just was this thing and it expounded in the garage with dad and kid and crying and and all of it came out at one time and of course at the point that time he's 18 years old so as a parent Your hands are kind of tied because they're legally

adults, right?

So it had to be him who had to make those calls to set up those appointments and we did it with him every step of the way.

But you do.

You're right.

It's an immense amount of guilt and you do feel like you have to justify it because you're

like,

how the hell could I have been such a bad parent that I miss the fact that my kid didn't want to be here anymore?

Well, that's what made me so mad that it wasn't it.

The parents were just, no, we're not we're not going to do that.

They don't need that.

It's like, boy, and I listen, I get it.

I'm I come from

a generation and a family

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of people

who, you know, most of us have therapists.

A number of us are on medication.

There's a lot.

But back then, you shut up, you sucked it up, you put your head down and just kept going.

And that's what I try to tell Molly, I try to tell younger people.

I go, don't wait, don't wait till you're old to finally get help because you waste a lot of time and it's scary.

But according to DPI, nearly 60%

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Wisconsin high school students report experiencing one mental health challenge, either anxiety, depression, emotional distress.

State surveys found about 52% of students report anxiety.

I would venture a guess.

And again, this is just a theory.

But these numbers are probably the same as numbers were when I was in high school, but nobody talked about it.

So thank goodness that now we're more open about it and we realize

Yeah, there are mental difficulties and people have mental illnesses and it's not a character flaw.

Just like we don't look at other things as a character flaw.

If you have cancer, we don't go, oh man, I got cancer.

No, we treat it.

And so now kids are open about it.

And just like kids do, there's kids who will escalate it and exaggerate it.

But the majority of kids who

you can tell or they finally open up to you.

It's legit.

It's serious.

It is needs to be addressed.

And since kids spend a lot of time in school, that's a good place to start.

Yeah.

And if parents get defensive ago, will you try to tell me how to raise my kid?

No, I'm just trying to help educators job is to help your kids.

Yes.

Yes.

And they do it in a number of different ways.

And if if

Portage and that because portage is not the only district where they're seeing these kind of numbers, right?

A lot of rural districts a lot of districts all over the state all over the country are going through the same thing Portage is just being proactive.

They thankfully got this grant and I hope now as it goes forward It can be used as an example for other districts around the state to go.

Oh, all right.

This isn't just

yeah

throwing money away

Yeah, absolutely.

And I mean, there's other districts, big districts like Madison, Milwaukee and Eau Claire that already partner with healthcare providers to offer on-campus counseling therapy and then some behavioral health services as well, which then help students and they also help those students that access care without ever leaving school.

What I think too is an important discussion right now is the fact that for a lot of families, this is the medical resource, right?

There are actually schools in this state

that are partnering with hospital facilities and putting clinics in their hospitals so that students have some kind of healthcare as well.

Which is a, I think it's great, but it also speaks of the sad state that we're in with our healthcare, our mental healthcare in this country that schools are actually recognizing this and being like, you know,

We're a resource for these kids and we're going to have to help provide some of this.

And, granted, when we're talking

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the

clinics, it's minor things, like illnesses, fevers, all of that, but the fact that these even exist so that our students and our families who have students at those schools feel like they can get their students taken care of.

I mean, I think it's a sad state when that is the source of healthcare for a lot of

our families.

I think it's horrible.

for on a lot of levels but I also think I don't know I wonder how many even if even if there was mental health care on your insurance say mm-hmm I wonder how many people would still access it I like that it's in schools because the teachers and administrators and social workers they see these kids all the time yes and kids

You know this, I know this.

Kids can be a lot different at school than they are at home.

Yes.

And vice versa.

And their parents who think their kids, oh, everything's rosy all the time.

Yeah.

And so they wouldn't even be thinking about it.

They'd just say, oh, you know, oh, that's, that's Timmy.

He doesn't, you know.

Right.

Emotional.

I also love too when you talk about the mental health care is that it doesn't even necessarily need to be for the anxiety, the depression, suicidal thoughts.

I mean, some kids just put a lot of pressure on themselves and sometimes they just need to have somebody to bet to.

I was one of those kids, right?

Like in high school.

That does not surprise me at

all.

I would have loved to have these resources because my person was my English teacher who had just

I just graduated from college about two years before she came to our high school.

So she

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was

younger.

She was about our age.

She was also an overachiever.

And she became, she's still a very good friend of mine because we were very close in age, right?

And when I was a sophomore, she was only two years out of college.

So we were fairly close in age.

She was that person for me.

And because we were such a small school, I graduated with 18 in my class because South Dakota

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rural

schools.

I went from a school of 400 in my graduating class to one of 18.

And so

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it

was very much a different experience for me all the way around.

But she was that person for a lot of us because she had smaller classes.

She knew us very, very well because all of the classes were small in our particular high school.

So she could recognize those things in us right away.

So she was that person.

But it doesn't even need to be for big things.

And your point about insurance, if you are a parent and you are recognizing that your kid is

may be struggling.

I will say this as somebody who's gone through this.

sit on the phone.

I know it's hard.

I know you don't always want to sit on the phone on hold waiting for insurance.

See what they will actually cover because

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for

us, our particular insurance and we've been very fortunate, our particular insurance treated over the years has treated mental health care just like regular doctor visits.

So it was

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literally a

copay and that was

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it.

Sometimes they consider it to be specialized medicine.

So your copay if you have one might be a little bit higher, but a lot of times

your insurance will cover it as regular medicine.

So be prepared to sit on the phone, because that's always fun.

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But

ask the questions and make sure that you know if you want to get that private care for somebody in your life, whether it's you, your kids, whatever.

But I know, I know, nobody wants to sit

on a phone with

insurance.

And if you don't have it, there's county programs, there's state programs, there's ways to, there's ways to avail yourself.

of those kind of services.

So do it.

Well, we've got an artist who is suing FIFA.

You know, the World Cup, folks.

Yes, Art versus Soccer in court.

Why?

We'll tell you about it.

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This story hits close to home.

One, because I am not a huge football fan with FIFA.

But that's beside the point.

Wyland is, if you don't know Wyland, he's a Hawaiian artist and he does a lot of whales and dolphins and seascapes and it's beautiful stuff.

He paints, he sculpts, it's just gorgeous and he's been known for murals all around and there used to be a beautiful whale mural in Chicago and as you drove up Lakeshore Drive you could see it on the side of the building and then

progress came.

And by progress, I mean, we got to put up more buildings, and it blocked the mural.

So now, in downtown Dallas, there was a mural of life-size swimming whales.

Well, Weiland has filed a $25 million lawsuit against soccer's international governing body and others saying that they illegally painted over it to promote the World Cup matches.

Wow, so not only did they, it's not blocked because of construction, they chose to paint over a piece of public art.

or commerce.

This is a knowing act because this

was

huge.

It was roughly 17,000 square feet across two buildings walls.

So it wasn't like you just, oh, we accidentally painted over it.

There's no way you can say that this was accidental.

This was a masterful planned project to take down this particular, to paint over this particular mural.

Painting over it is just, that's the...

It's like low rent graffiti at that point.

It was there for 30

years, Brian.

This particular mural was on these buildings for almost three decades.

Well, then we've seen enough whales, Jamie.

We got to tell people to come and buy overpriced FIFA World Cup tickets.

We got to get it.

We got to get them in.

footballers life.

Now, and I'm sure, you know, I'm sure football soccer, let's call it soccer.

And if you're gonna if you're gonna be a purist and call me up and say it's football, I know it's football, but we talk football here.

Yeah, we talk soccer.

So that's that's the way it is.

Anyway, so yeah, let's get let's really monetize this World Cup soccer thing.

And let's paint over art.

And I'm

I don't know.

I did not see the mural.

I don't know how weathered it is after

30

years, but I know if you look between the buildings that have been up for a long time in Chicago and you still see the mural.

it's holding up pretty good.

I don't think Weiland is painting with watercolors that are going to smear on the side of a building in a storm.

It is.

It was amazing how those murals do hold up on sides

of the

building.

It is pretty incredible.

But the area's World Cup organizing committee put out a statement and said that in place of Weiland's mural, new artwork is planned that, quote, captures this current historical moment and reflects the energy, unity, and global spirit surrounding

the World Cup 2026.

Also going on to say that a portion of the mural would be preserved.

Well, it doesn't sound like a portion of the mural has been preserved

at this point.

What part?

Just a whale tail.

Right, considering that Wyla filed this lawsuit earlier this week in a U.S.

District Court and he basically said that they did this without even notifying him or

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even

asking for his consent.

And he now is seeking $25 million in damages

and says the lawsuit says that the soccer's governing body, FIFA and other defendants, hastily and you're a vet, I can't even say the word this morning, you're a vocably, there we go, destroyed a civic landmark to promote the World Cup.

I just

had

to get my brain functioning there for a second.

Now, FIFA of course, Brian, says that they have nothing to do with this.

You have to

go to a organizing committee.

I don't want to say about it, sorry.

We'll help

you.

That's what they're saying.

FIFA, you are the umbrella organization, so you're going to have to hold it.

And there is a law that was passed, a federal law, to protect visual artists from destruction or publicly displayed work.

So if you do a mural, and they don't, it's not like he showed up and did this mural 30 years ago without any consent from the city.

They knew it was happening.

They probably commissioned it.

So they've got this.

Well, that's protected.

You can't just paint over it.

And even if after 30 years, you take it for granted, right?

You've driven by it a million times.

If you live in the Dallas area, you see

all the

whales.

Yeah, that's pretty cool.

It's public art.

You can't just take it down.

You can't just paint over it.

I mean to me some of the best communities and some of the biggest events that I've ever been to actually celebrate What's already there with combining it with with the that particular event or future or whatever?

I don't know why we always have to just automatically destroy things that have been there for

decades

They're the little town I used to live in and I know we only got a minute Parker.

I'll make this as long as possible.

Snappy.

Come on now.

Yeah.

Anyway, we saw there was a big thing because we were getting three murals in town and they were putting them they just said and they turned out great

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and it

was it's a big deal and even now now I haven't lived there in a while but if I go back through town and I see the murals it reminds me of that time and

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the

excitement around it and it just

All of that makes me feel good.

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