
Good morning.
It is 6.06 on this Monday morning, November 17th.
Another beautiful morning to have you here up north, live from Lake Wissota.
From wherever you're spending your mornings listening across the Civic Media Radio Network.
or listening to the podcast or online or through the app, watching us on social media.
It's great to have you here to get the day started.
I got a question for you.
Can we talk about your friends?
Because we have a Sunday morning newsletter with a question of the week.
And the question that I asked was just based on a national survey.
I think we might have even talked about it on the program here Friday.
I ran it yesterday and I mean the responses just came flooding in.
The story that we talked about was a national survey on how many Republicans have a close friend who's a Democrat.
How many Democrats have a close friend who's a Republican?
Close friend.
Now we all have casual acquaintances of all stripes.
A good good friend, but you are political opposites.
And that's how I asked it in the newsletter, not Democrat or Republican.
I just said, do you have a friend who is politically the opposite of you, a close friend?
And if not, why not?
Is that by choice, by circumstance?
If so, how do you make it work?
and I was really surprised at how many responses came in so quickly and so many not just yes or no but I mean really wanting to explain their situation that they just cannot make room in their lives for somebody that they have to fight with all the time or I really love this person and so we try not to talk about things.
and by the way it wasn't just close friends it was uh you know it was kids like adult kids or parents uh co-workers things like that so what we're gonna do is at 735 we're gonna open up the phone lines and we're just gonna ask people to come you know share their their stories that uh you know without giving away too much we don't need names or anything but just talk about
how they make a friendship work or maybe how they lost a friendship and You know what we do about that in these divisive times There are people that say well there there's no more important time than ever To have close close friends even if you are politically opposed other people would say this is no time to turn a blind eye and you have to confront somebody
if they're embracing an extreme view.
So we're going to get into that in in the 735 half hour.
So I want you to stick around for that.
And if you can't, I want your comments, put them in the comment section, and I'll get over to Facebook or YouTube and put them in there.
Or if you're listening on the radio, get that civic media app on your phone, go to the text message or the the voice note.
We'd love to get a few voice notes from people saying, yep, I got a friend this or I got a friend that.
And we'd like to find out.
Let's see.
Tony up in Ashland, jumping in right away in the comments section on YouTube.
Not really I would, but I moved from Ohio, so we aren't near each other.
My dad is pro-Trump, so we don't talk much about it.
We are both non-confrontational people.
See, and that's the thing.
We're Midwesterners.
We try not to be too confrontational about these things.
Again, in the times we're in, I don't know that this isn't like disagreeing on health insurance premiums, okay?
This is like disagreeing on secret police kidnapping people off the streets and leaving two-year-olds alone or things like that.
I mean, somebody's gonna tell you, somebody you really trust and love is gonna say to you, well, you know, that's just the way it's gotta be.
And you know, you have to somehow agree to disagree on that.
So we'll get into that, but again, you can use the voice note feature to tell us your point of view on that.
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You can get in the comment sections.
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And there's the story that we talked about last week about Washington County Executive Josh Showman, a candidate for Wisconsin governor.
Republican and his new election quote-unquote reform ideas which involve things like removing absentee ballot drop boxes.
But also in the newsletter we'll tell you about a Wisconsin city where an annual book drive has a goal of acquiring 2,000 books for distribution to children and raising funds to buy many more.
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dot com uh let's see right now it is six eleven it is time to head down to madison studio a two where parker olson is standing by i thought maybe he'd be in his green and gold so happy yet a a long overdue packer victory but i'm actually glad he's he's not because it just means a packers one life returns to normal we we can we don't have to live and die by the by the team although there were times in the first half i wanted to die yeah olson good morning
Well, it's not like the kicker thing where we've been saying for a couple of weeks now bring the substitute kicker back and then he misses an extra point.
Then he makes an extra point that he misses another extra point.
I'm like, we're going to lose this game on extra points with the substitute kicker that we thought should be the permanent kicker.
That one.
Why
way But thankfully the the Giants they also Missed one of their extra points the Packers got a two-point conversion So if all the extra points have been made we'd be talking about just a regular final score of 28 21 the Packers winning by a touchdown but because of all the other things the final score was 27 to 20 as the Packers and they're losing skid
There were some Jordan Love heroics on the go ahead drive in the fourth quarter.
He connected with rookie Savion Williams on a 32 yard gain under pressure on third and 10 and he found Christian Watson in the end zone with 402 left to take the lead and I got to say again I think the first two maybe it wasn't the first two times that he threw the Christian Watson, but you know close enough that You know Watson didn't make the catch or it was overthrown or whatever and I was really starting to think
This is the beginning of the end for our hopes that Jordan loved a Christian Watson was gonna be a worthy combo, but I was wrong.
You know, okay, those those connections did come later on.
You had a yeah, like I said after the first couple he had some really some really good catches and I was was happy by and large with what I saw though.
I have to admit I didn't see
much of the game.
I heard a lot of it from Wayne and Larry on the radio because yesterday the sun was out.
It was 50 when we first woke up and we're like, okay, we've been putting this off long enough.
So put the game on the radio, washing the windows before
Back to the game.
Tony says if they didn't drop four potential interceptions, it would have been a blowout.
Yeah, that one was really frustrating.
That sucked.
Yeah.
Not not going to lie.
I was having a hard time.
Tony also says Malik Willis is a good regular season QB in the playoffs.
When you need some big passing plays, you need love.
Okay.
And let's see, Tony says, I miss laundry when I was single with a wife and three kids.
It's a daily requirement.
Oh, yeah.
I, it was pretty much daily for us when our daughters were in their teen years.
And by that, I mean, they all did it.
I had a job that I had a job that kept me away.
Oh, yeah, I'm now doing more of that than doing more laundry and things than ever before.
But thank
Thank goodness the rest of the family was able to pitch in here.
Back to our question of the day, Alicia writes in, I went no contact with my mom because she is so mega and ma-ha.
It wasn't healthy for me or my kids.
She is okay with everything this administration is doing.
So we've got that input from Alicia.
And let's see, it looks like we also have a voice note from somebody who is listening to our station up in the Wausau area.
So we'll
play a little bit of that in the next break.
And like I said, at 735, welcome your phone calls as well.
So anyway, the Vikings come to town next.
They come to Lambeau Field on Sunday at noon.
And then there's going to be a quick turnaround.
The Packers have the Thanksgiving Day game in Detroit.
Thanksgiving at noon.
So we're going to plan our meals accordingly, I guess.
That's tough for the Olson family.
I'm going to be honest with you.
Oh, are they like very much like
130.
Everything's giving
I saw it because I was cleaning out the shed, getting that all.
Fixed up and putting you know, putting the bicycles up on racks and things like that.
Sure.
And our old TV cart is still there.
You know, it looks like fake, you know, the fake wood thing and your TV you go on there and then down below you could put your VCR or, you know, yeah, whatever.
Yeah.
And yeah, you could wheel it around the corner if you needed to put it in the dining room to watch the Packers or whatever it was going on.
Oh yeah.
Lots of places still have, you know, the old TV sets on a TV cart.
Huh.
Well, I don't know if they have that.
They might still have the cart, maybe not the TV
But you can bring the TV with you, you know, on your screen.
That's the thing.
You've got either the 72 inch screen that you can't wheel that puppy, but you can also just people sitting all around the Thanksgiving table, you know, watching their screens and mom going, put your phones down, put your phones down.
Hey, coming up after the break, you're never going to believe why beef prices are so crazy these days.
According to Trump's Treasury Secretary, we are facing an invasion on the southern border, an invasion of cattle.
Live from the heart of America's Up North on Lake Wissota, I'm Pat Crightlow.
This is the Civic Media Radio Network.
It is just about 6 23.
I'm packed right low up here in Chippewa Falls, Parker Olsen down in Madison.
Nice to have you here on the Civic Media Radio Network.
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You can sign up for our Sunday morning newsletter.
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Tomorrow on the program, we will have Hans Brighton Moser.
He's a dairy farmer from up near Merrill.
We'll have Camp Stevenson from Courier Newsroom reporting live from the nation's capital and Dan Schaefer from the Recombobulation Area will join us to talk a little Wisconsin politics as well As I mentioned in our Sunday newsletter our question of the day is do you have a close friend who is your political opposite?
We're going to take a bunch of phone calls on that, I hope, around 7.35.
So I want to give you ample room right now.
And in fact, I think some folks are already leaving voice notes on this.
So let's give a listen to one that was that has already come in off the Civic Media app.
After the disastrous Zalonski meeting this spring, I confronted my mom and I confronted my uncle, who are both big Trumpers.
My mom was more willing to have a conversation.
My uncle who's basically like an adapt by the end of the conversation said well I can tell this is really upsetting for you, but At the end of the day most of the things that happen at the federal level They're not going to affect you that much So I wouldn't stress about it too much
I appreciate that you called in and left a voice note and I encourage everybody else to use that civic media app to do so and it
It's a tough thing because on the one hand, yes, so much of what happens at the federal level does not impact us right away.
But it can, and it also sets the tone for our values.
Blowing up boats in the Caribbean isn't going to change anything that happens in Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin today.
But is that really what we want from a president and from a military?
that can do things like, again, have masked secret police on the streets, can cut off, you know, benefits to struggling families and yet import beef from Argentina and give Argentina $40 billion.
All these things happen on the federal level.
They don't affect us right away, but they're still important enough
the question becomes, what does that do to your discussions with your friends?
And that's part of our question of the day here today that we're talking about.
Speaking of beef from Argentina.
You know, when we talk about caravans, when we hear Trump and others talk about caravans coming from Mexico, the caravans are coming from Central America, the caravans are coming to the border.
Did you know that in those caravans are
cows because that's what Donald Trump's Treasury Secretary Scott Besson said in an interview over the weekend.
Let's give a listen.
The beef market is a very specialized market.
It goes in long cycles and that this is the perfect storm.
Again, something we inherited and there's also because of the mass immigration a disease that had been
We've been rid of in North America, made its way up through South America as these migrants, they have brought some of their cattle with them.
That's fabulous Cassandra OMG Besson's face palm.
Yeah, I I don't know what else to tell you on that except that it just sometimes it feels like
the folks in the in in Moga world are playing a game with us.
I feel like we're being punked that they sit around and they try to see how far they can go.
to make some Americans believe their wild excuses and their accusations to justify all the things they do and the latest one has got to be uh as as Eith put it you know the cow jumped over the moon she puts that on facebook hey if it can jump over the moon they can jump over a border fence it's a southern invasion of cattle you know
Uh, yeah, I know, Tony, I was just a surprise to see Money Python reference from Parker, but yeah, there it is.
Believe it or not.
All right.
Well, now that we've got you up to speed on what is happening with the American beef market in the here and now, and then we'll hear more in the Midwest Farm Report coming up less than two minutes away.
But we already told you about the Packers beating the Giants 27 to 20.
They'll host the Vikings next Sunday at noon.
The Badgers football team did not look terrible.
at first.
Parker thinks I might have couched that little bit too much.
I mean, the first quarter.
Yeah, you're right.
And then Indiana was like, oh, wait, we should get started, shouldn't we?
And they ended up just spanking Wisconsin 31 to 7.
The Badgers are now 3 and 7 overall, 1 and 6 in the Big 10.
They lost to a ranked team for the fifth time this season.
They have still not beaten a top 10 team on the road since 2019.
They will next be in action at Camp Randall hosting Illinois.
That's a Saturday night game coming up, last I saw.
Badger men's basketball.
They're hosting Southern Illinois University Edwardsville tonight in the final matchup of a four game home stand to start the 2025-2026 season.
The Badger women's basketball team defeated UW Green Bay on Sunday afternoon.
Men's hockey split with Ohio State.
Badger women's hockey swept St.
Cloud State and the Bucks they lost Friday and Saturday.
Today's history lesson and Dr. Kristen Lahrle, all on the way.
I'm Pat Critello.
This is the Civic Media Radio Network.
Critello.
Welcome to this happy place.
Welcome.
Ladies and gentlemen, the Beatles.
That's one small step for man.
Well, I'm not a
You believe in miracles yet?
You know, this depression is gonna be so great.
We'll be the ones eating the cats and the dogs.
That's gonna be fun.
Once again, it is time to take another revealing peek back into history.
So Elton John was, he wasn't an unknown, but he was still like an up and comer way back then, 51 years ago.
Elton John played piano on the track and he made a bet with John Lennon.
Elton John was sure the song was gonna hit number one.
John Lennon said no.
John Lennon lost the bet and as the bet's loser, Lennon had to join Elton on stage at one of his concerts.
He picked Madison Square Garden and got a manic ovation, all from a song that hit number one this day in 1974.
Welcome to today's history lesson where we are joined by Dr. Kristin Lierly, who had a...
did not go to New York to watch the game like like the Pittsburgh thing.
Or to forget that we ever talked about this.
On this day in 1993, the all new Mickey Mouse Club made its debut.
Among the Mouse Cateers on this day in 1993, Britney Spears.
Justin Timberlake, Christina Aguilera, and Ryan Gosling, and Carrie Russell.
They were all Mousketeers this day in 1993, and they all did pretty well after that.
Being a Mousketeer was a stepping stone.
It worked for Annette, which again, you know,
Two thirds of the audience was like, look it up.
The Four Seasons had the number one hit on this day in 1962.
All right, let's see.
We got the birthdays today.
Hey, Danny DeVito is 81 years old today.
RuPaul is a senior citizen now 65 years old today Rachel McAdams is 47 and Milwaukee Brewer Ryan Braun 42 years old today
We'll just leave her at that.
All right.
Did you hear us on Friday mocking Gordon Lightfoot?
Because today is the anniversary of his birth.
He was born this day in 1938, passed away a couple years ago.
But that prior to the wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald, he'd written a different song about his shipwreck?
Well, then, Kristen, you, like so many other people, can head over and subscribe to the show as a podcast.
Listen to Friday's first hour, where we talk about a shipwreck, play a song that was made about the shipwreck, and tell you that that's Gordon Lightfoot.
Apparently, he has a type.
He likes the shipwreck songs.
Anyway, he had other songs, like Carefree.
Carefree Highway, which I meant to queue up today, but he was born this day in 1938.
On this day in 2003, Arnold Schwarzenegger became Governor of California, which sounds, you know, like second nature now.
But again, I want to take you back to Election Night 2003.
Arnold, oh, there's Gordon Lightfoot now.
Arnold Schwarzenegger elected Governor of California in 2003.
It was kind of like when Jesse Ventura got elected Governor of Minnesota.
It was just like.
What what is happening here?
What?
There were only there only a couple of times where I was truly speechless on air delivering That was one of them the other was one of our reporters picking up a downed power line, but I'll save that story for another time Yeah, yeah comes back to me on camera, and I'm like, oh you would never want to do that folks
The
So there you go.
All right, on this day in 2007 was the first episode of Live from Daryl's House, Daryl Hall of Hall & Oats, performing from his home in Millerton, New York.
I really liked that show.
I bet you did.
I haven't seen a ton of episodes, but I mean, what a nice premise for a show.
You know, get some of your music friends or make new music friends and jam together and do some recipes and tell some stories.
I really
Just so the long road out of Eden was the number one album this day in 2007.
Let's see, on this day in 2019, the first COVID-19 case was traced to a 55-year-old man who'd visited a market in Wuhan, China.
And then finally, because I wanted to end on a more upbeat note than that, the number one hit this day in 1984 was by Wham.
We hosted, you know, our third daughter from Russia back in 2004.
And you know, there's always been a part of the family ever since then.
We went to Russia for her wedding back in 2011, I believe it was, yeah.
And yeah, I would encourage anybody to host international students.
We also hosted an international student for like a weekend.
Do you remember the old Up with People?
I think ours is still down in the basement someplace buried but like we had a couple of times when it didn't quite work and we thought well maybe there's something off with with the heating element or whatever and we just never
I brought it back upstairs, but it's somewhere we should make homemade bread again.
I
You're on notice.
I've got a special friend on Facebook.
Man, maybe today's the day we unfriend.
And yet, that gets us back into our question of the day, Kristen, and that is, do you have a close friend who is your political opposite?
And again, at 735, we'll open up the phone lines and we'll get people to tell their stories.
I've collected so many stories already from people.
This really struck, I want to say it struck a nerve isn't right, but struck a chord with people.
So many emails have come in explaining why they do or don't have a close friend who's their
political opposite.
So Kristen, I'll throw that right at you out of the get go.
Because you get along with everybody.
But when it comes to close friends, not acquaintances, but a close friend, you have one who's like politically opposite.
If so, how do you make it work?
If not, why?
it's like a diet, like you are here and they are there.
And that's not how I see the world.
I see the world as like a continuum.
So I would say that I have friends who have very different, a very different perspective, but we find common ground.
And the thing is respect, we respect each other, even if we don't agree.
So yeah, I do.
And it evolves and we learn from each other.
I think respect, when you talk about that, I think that word is getting a tougher workout than ever these days.
Because of some of the things you're being asked to respect in terms of a difference of opinion.
And you're going to hear that in some of the responses that we're going to be reading a little bit later on.
But I mean, we've already seen in some of the comments today, I mean, you know, Alicia mentioned earlier, no contact with her mom.
Because of Megan never never mind friends.
We're talking parents and adult children and things like that This has been a it's not like there haven't been other trying times in American history But this is one of them right now, isn't
Yeah, so you got to know, is this a time for just setting things aside or is it time for letting go?
So we'll be talking about that more in our seven o'clock hour and State Senator Jody Habers-Sinneken at 830 talking about saving the Wisconsin stewardship program.
I'm Pat Krightlow.
This is the Civic Media Radio Network.
Go whitewater or water drops or whatever.
Selena is going to be telling us later about, well, let's just talk about it briefly, Selena, because you've got a report that's running on Up North News and we're going to play some snippets after the seven o'clock news where, you know, a farmer was nice enough to say, well, I'll talk to you about stuff, but you're going to have to sit in the combine because I got to harvest these soybeans.
So how was that?
He was nice as Phil.
like we hung out a good part of the day and he just he was so lovely we just I climbed up into the combine with him and we went combining and I was telling him so before this I was like well you know we had Oliver's and we were just chatting on the phone beforehand so we're just you know kind of reminiscing and everything and he's been farming for 45 years in Pierce County so we talked a lot about that and then we just I mean we talked about so many
things while we were combining soybeans but I had never been in the combine combining soybeans before only corn so but we grew soybeans, hay, and corn on when I grew up so that was that was really fun for me.
Dr. Lirely had the Dr. Kristen Lirely show on this past weekend, as always.
And I can say this without any hesitation, that I was one of the first members of the Kristen Brie fan club, because I got to know her shortly after she moved back to Wisconsin from many years in California.
And you know, just she was doing a little
bit of work for Up North News and a little bit of work for Civic Media.
And you just knew, you just knew like she's going places and now she's got a great show on a big time radio station, but hasn't forgotten the little people like Kristen Lyrely who wanted to have her on as a guest.
I mean, she's had a really fascinating journey.
And now the work that she's doing in Milwaukee with a competing radio station is really visionary for a woman of her age in this political environment.
So we talk about everything, including the latest New York Times op-ed about whether women ruined the workplace.
That got a little.
So great conversation, so much fun, so grateful to her.
But the thing about Kristen Brie and
Kristen Lyrely, neither was trained in journalism or media.
And but yet I could tell right away that Kristen Brie like she paid enough attention to the news and had a sense of curiosity.
She's a first class networker getting to meet people.
And it was clear she was without the journalism training, she was still going to excel at it.
Then there's people like Selena and me who
took all these journalism courses to get to where we are.
And you want to be jealous, but you can't be because you just have to admire folks like that.
But I mean, I wouldn't take anything away, Selena, from the training that we had.
It's a couple of different things covering your city council versus talking about the big issues of the day.
So many county board meetings and and town boards and my very first beat that he gave me, I still wanted one of the coveted ones like Eau Claire City Council, Eau Claire School Board.
And
It was the Eau Claire County Board Committee on Solid Waste.
And I was, I was crest falling.
He's like, Oh, no, no, Mr. Crichtlow, that is where the money is.
The money is in
Right, but in both cases, the folks who are pretty good at it kind of make it look easier than it really is.
The things that you do and that Kristen Bride do, you know, yeah, anybody can have an opinion, but to do it in a way that connects with people and can be funny at the same time, I mean, that's something we really admire to both of you.
Oh,
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