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Good night on the mayor here on a Wednesday morning special.
Thanks to Nick Slepsky, farmer's market cheese curry, Nick.
He will be in action this afternoon starting at three o'clock on Broadway Street, the very first farmer's market of the year.
And you know what?
We were talking about how nasty it was out there.
We just had two ladies walk in, Jessica and Jessica.
And they both, they're just wearing like tank tops and shorts.
And they're like, what are you talking about?
Doing great.
Thanks for having us on the show.
This is so
It's the local combat veterans segment.
Veterans salute brought to you by the Olson legal group.
Well, go ahead, whoever wants to jump in first and let's talk a little bit about the wonderful things that you guys are doing for female veterans, which I think never get enough credit.
So whoever would like to jump in, you go right ahead and talk about the great things.
Great.
Yeah, we're really excited to serve.
the local community and help women veterans understand their commitment and their connection to each other and to the community.
So we do a lot of speaking.
The last couple of weeks ago we did a...
kind of a meet and greet question and answer situation with the Little Shoot High School, which was an incredible, incredible meeting.
And we got to meet some really great people and we reached out to a lot of women.
And we also have a focus in sort of development and leadership and helping women understand that they can make the world around them a better place.
And we also explain a lot of things about how veterans interact with their communities and what they can expect if they decide to join the military, especially when we talk to younger women.
No, no, it's just educational purposes.
We're not interested in trying to persuade anyone.
We just want to kind of share our stories, sort of the good, bad, and the ugly, and let people know what it was like being a female in the United States military, Air Force for me, Army for Jess.
I swear, every time we don't give the female...
Enlisted enough credit.
We just don't because when my little trips overseas They were outside the wire.
They're going into little villages in Baghdad They're working with the civilians in a way that the men could not And I saw it firsthand the women and the kids wanted nothing to do with the guys But as soon as the female Soldier walked in they would run up there armful of kids hugging and things like that It was and they got so much more information and doing it that way than the men could
Once you guys agree,
I would agree with that.
What do you think Jess?
Yes
I think it's a really important aspect of kind of female involvement in the military, not just in the military, but I think in humanity in general.
The human side of women is a little bit easier to, I think, relate to, especially in a softer sense.
I
mean,
it's important.
For a kid.
For
a kid,
for sure.
And other women.
You're talking to anybody over the age of 21.
I think those guys need a script.
Sure, it's very comforting.
But I mean, there's definitely a time and a place for, you know, a male influence in a child's life, absolutely.
22 years, United States Air Force, active duty, I retired in 2018.
I joined as living in Chicago, traveled the world.
I have four daughters, two of them were born in England.
I adopted another one of my daughter's friends, and she's my kid, and my youngest daughter just graduated high school, Appleton West.
Awesome.
And just finishing up raising kids, and I got two granddaughters.
So my time in the military, I lived in England for a few years.
I've been to Afghanistan, Iraq, Kuwait, and Bosnia as far as deployments go.
I was a helicopter mechanic in special operations for 15 of my 22 years.
You know, I lived a life, my hair on fire, traveling around the world and seeing a bunch of stuff.
I was in Northern Iraq at Erbil.
Erbil is the first, is now an international airport.
We've built it up since then.
But I was there way before that when it was just a couple of police officers and some chicken wire.
Yeah.
And
In Afghanistan, I was at Bodrum, which is the big base, center for the entire operation.
So I did a lot of work out there.
Okay, I have to ask you, so when I was over there, middle of the night, my hooch was right next to this one area that had cyclone fences all around it and a gate that you could not get into this one little place.
And I'm not even joking about this.
I thought that's maybe where they held detainees.
Sure, but it wasn't sort of special ops guy
stayed and that's what all snake eaters
Yes, but it's like they want it's like you don't even talk to them They just do their own thing in the middle of the night you'd hear helicopter take off and right before the Sun was coming up the helicopter would land and it's like don't ask those guys where they've been what they've been doing So we're those the guys you dealt with
that certainly.
I was maintenance on those types of Wow So we had a very tip of the spear Opportunity to be involved in the wartime effort over there
It was pretty
My source is completely different.
I did Reserve Army for nine years and Human Resources...
No.
Okay.
Six-four-six Regional Support Group.
Training division in Fort McCoy.
I also did a career counselor as well as post-operations.
Okay.
In nine years, never deployed.
Mine's all been state side.
And that's part of kind of like why we're doing the veteran story is that we each have a story and a different path that took us.
Awesome.
And every veteran that has enlisted has their own reasons of enlistening as well as whatever direction has taken it.
I
where they were
in what's going to happen.
That's very true.
I put on my dream sheet when you go through basic training and you get through your tech school where they train you how to do your job, you can tell them where you want to go as far as being stationed, right?
So, and I scrawled on the top of my page, you know, no overseas.
My first set of orders was to get a dean of Japan.
Exactly.
They were like, thank you for playing the organist send you where you
Actually, I got fairly lucky.
I went in open general, which meant I went in under the guise of, you can make me do whatever you want.
So in the Air Force, I wouldn't have been standing out in the grass with a gun.
However,
I could have had any number of jobs and I ended up with maintenance.
I was pretty mechanically inclined even from a very young age and the Armed Forces Vocational Battery Aptitude Test, right?
can't believe I remember that.
I need to retire.
That tests your abilities across a certain number of areas and they found out that I was pretty good at mechanics and it actually ended up being an incredible fit for me because I did love working with my hands and so that job actually ended up being
a perfect fit for me.
I loved it.
whether they're going into the military or not with some kids in certain grades, because there's kids that have an aptitude for mechanics, for engineering, we've had engineers in here, and yet their parents, oh, you got to go to college and get a liberal arts degree.
It's like, that's not for everybody, you know, and I just think that's awesome that you took the test, and did you take the same test in the Army?
I did, and it's interesting that you mentioned that.
I had to college first.
So I said no way in hell was I going to join the military.
So I enlisted after college.
And so technically I should have gone as an officer route.
And that's why I went in the HR department.
Because everyone just assumes that you're inventory and that you're one and only job is to, you know, shoot things.
But mine role was more so making sure that the older soldiers are taken care of, that they're getting paid, that their families are taken care of.
And so the career counselor role was later on in my career to actually help the soldiers.
determine why they should re-enlist.
But another part that you just mentioned, we have a young lady that comes in here, Nicole Stockman out at UW Green Base, runs a veteran service office.
And she was talking about, she was 21, she wasn't in the military, but she was married to a career military for 21 years.
And she, like what you said about placement and families and things, she'd get a phone call from her husband and break, hey, pack up, we're going to Japan.
Wow.
I'll tell you, being on the ground in Afghanistan on the round, Jessica, she was my savior every time, because we had to be responsible for filing our own travel vouchers and taking care of our own pay.
We didn't know what we were doing, and we were like, well, please, somebody help us.
And Jessica was her particular MOS in the Air Force, we call it an AFSE, but her particular job was the most valuable.
In fact, I
I would always seek her out and say, come a person in her role, come and speak to my airmen, come and speak to my soldiers and tell them how to, how to manage their stuff, how to manage their career, because it was absolutely instrumental.
Sure, we can do the deployment stuff on our heads easily, but the job that's really hard and the one that's really, really.
behind the scenes is the things that Jessica did.
Absolutely.
When I'm too tired to fire on my chabobotcher because I've been working 18 hours and we're fixing helicopters and I need to have somebody help me through it because I can't see straight anymore.
I would just because the type of person that I would have definitely leaned on at that
have it?
well.
I think we've all had our own challenges.
Interestingly enough, my career was actually helping our service members transition.
So previously working for the state and as a National Guard contractor, I actually helped write resumes and get those service members back on track.
Let me just throw this out there and tell me, like we had a guy in here yesterday, or two days ago, Don Carper's name is.
He's the navigator, we call it Veterans Village.
Okay, now then.
And it was shocking at times how these guys would come in who fulfilled their military careers or whatever, but they didn't have a clue on the next step in certain ways.
Some of the things we almost take for granted, that was
And it's really, really important.
And you know, there's all those programs to get, you know,
apples and oranges, but let me just give you an example that I've dealt with with prisoners coming back into society because they've been off the grid.
I mean, these guys, there's some people that, well, I don't know what cell phones are, but you guys are, we assume you're in the loop the whole time and they come back and they struggle a
little bit.
Sure, reintegration is always a struggle, actually.
And it's interesting that you bring that up because my,
My current job is I'm a Reserve Component Transition Assistance Advisor.
I work for the government currently.
And so my job is to actually make sure people getting out and transitioning and who have questions about their benefits know who to talk to because honestly there's a hundred different agencies that you need to talk to about.
Maybe I need to change my retirement.
Maybe I want to get a
education benefit, and there's 50 different agencies that you need to talk to.
And they're changing.
And they
change all the time, and you don't know who to call.
So the questions are always there.
So my job is to sift through all of that red tape, jargon, which office you need to see, and find the information that you need, give you that information, and then hook you up with the right offices.
a veteran so that you can utilize all of the benefits.
Because we have guys, I'm in the VFW, up by where I live, I live up in Tomahawk.
And I'm in the VFW, there are guys in the town that should be getting a retirement or a medical disability from their service and have never applied for it.
And they're in their 60s, 70s, 80s.
Exactly.
But I
is the educational opportunities that they have.
It's incredible and you don't have to study a certain track.
You can do anything you want.
You go back in horticulture and I teach at TC and we're getting more and more people and it's, if they, actually it's getting paid for.
I know they got to pass the class and everything, but I just think it's too bad if somebody's sitting there bored.
What am I going to do?
It's like, well,
We'll help you.
Yeah.
The cool thing about Wisconsin is actually word number one in the United States for offering benefits, a military benefit.
You're going to be a veteran.
Do it in Wisconsin.
Jessica Williams and Jessica George, both United States military veterans, one Jessica in the Air Force, the other in the United States Army.
When you have young people, or not even young people, I don't care who it is, some guy at a bar when he says, tell me something I don't know about female veterans.
What do you say?
I would say like we bleed blood like everybody else.
That's very true and I actually was pretty fortunate in my career.
Jessica said that she was absolutely helpful and supportive of her troops.
That was her capacity.
I ended up being a first sergeant for a little while in the military, which was tough because I got to see both the side of the person.
of the the soldier and the airman and then I got to see the side of the person who Struggled through things had the same problems as everybody else or if your wife left them Or they they've got a lot of debt or they're in trouble with the law or whatever and I saw that side of them too and had to help them in both those capacities Which was really great.
So Jessica and I kind of similar in that way She did that like kind of a lot more in-depth, but I did that for a brief period of time in the military
if you ask my daughters, they might have
something
else to say about
that.
Once you put the uniform on, I don't know.
Maybe
honestly.
Yeah, actually, the military's been in my family for a long time.
My grandfather was in World War II.
He fouled Patton up through Germany.
And he had a lot of not so awesome stories, but a lot of really great ones as well.
He
passed away.
He did.
He
just recently actually, just
two years ago.
96 years old.
He served well, got a
field commission, very decorated, great service to his country, sure.
And my dad was in during Vietnam.
My brother spent four years in during the Gulf War and then you know My turn so I stepped up and did the same thing.
What did you
I was east seven.
Okay, so pretty good non-commissioned officer
Yep.
I really enjoyed the military and a lot of people ask me often You know, why did I join and that's that's a very common question.
bet and I wish I sometimes I wish I could say the well I want to travel want to see the world But truth truthfully it was I really want to serve my country that really was it
100%
Sure.
I mean you're writing a blank check, right?
You
can catch this up into my life,
Recruitment is down a little bit and everything but the Air Force.
Israel, kids got to do it after high school for two years.
I mean you, if you
I don't get political here.
I'm just curious what you thought because we do need good people, you know, defending our country and working in so many, there's just so much more than just the infantry, right?
They're just, like you talked about.
We had a basketball player
Am I personal?
I guess opinion, I would almost wish that America would be like other countries where it was a obligation that you had to give two
Mostly because you get the structure, you get the same norms and the values and the brother-sisterly vibe and like protecting one another and just kind of more of a basic where I feel like
just in civilian life, everyone's kind of disconnected.
They're floating.
They're
You guys come out of a structured environment and reporting, and that's healthy for someone to just know it, whether they want to live that.
I think there's so much more than, like you said, just...
the combat side.
I mean, you talked about the camaraderie and kids at 19 years old, I think that's a good thing.
There's that leadership.
There's the strategic planning.
There's that process and like there's steps of exactly what direction you're going to go, which is why normally the transitions are hard because in the civilian life, it's kind of like, well, whatever this company does is different than this company.
But in the military, regardless of what branch you're in, you actually are kind of following the same rules for the most part.
I think yeah, Jessica, I totally agree with you and I think I don't know about two years, but it's a long time.
Yeah, I know.
At least based on training.
I think it
would be really great for people to, because it really builds the self.
It
helps with identity.
It helps with your humanity.
It helps us be more connected as people when we can have a common goal and work towards something together, even if it is just a two-year.
hitch for you know a common goal to protect the safety and peace of your nation.
I was
working on a chapter for my new book last night and this guy was in the Marines and for whatever reason it's the biggest toughest drill sergeant had something he thought had something against me something against me and he would always make him carry the heaviest guy that we put around the shoulders and he's like I my leg physically I couldn't do it but I did
Because that guy was right alongside me the whole time.
And he said, at the end of boot camp, he said, I knew I was going to get kicked out of the Marines, but this guy was so mean to me.
At the end, I went to his thing.
I wanted to punch him just once.
I didn't care if I went to the break.
He'd made my life so miserable.
We sat down in the bunk.
And when I walked out of there, I thank God that I had this guy in my life.
Because I realize now, when I go to Vietnam, how horrific it's going to be if he hadn't.
Right.
tested me and took me beyond what my mind told me I could do, I never would have made it.
Yeah, that's interesting that you say that.
I'm interested to hear about your book for sure.
That's why I stayed in the military as long as I did, because I ended up crossing over and becoming that mentor, that leader, that somebody that was right beside a lot of my airmen, kind of cheering them on and giving them kudos and helping them reach their goals.
And that was where I found meaning in my life.
I bet
I don't know.
I was special operations and that was maintenance.
We'll
The other thing is that it's so important that people learn to work as a team.
And we don't have a lot of that.
That's being very, very important to companies, but very important in schools that we work as teams now because there's, you know, there's diversity and you get, there's so much more when, you know,
come together right when the hole is so much greater than the sum of its parts
so that's great connection human connection right
because i feel
i still
thank you thank you both so very very much thank
Welcome back man.
What's some great guests right there?
Jessica Williams Jessica George couple of local veterans Veterans salute brought to by Olson legal group talked about the female version or not version of female aspect and outlook of being in the military I want to get them again my honor great
cookies?
No, that was cheese curd Nick
in town with the pond.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, kind of right
lives in Chicago, his son's 25, and he was just, it's everywhere.
They're just, they haven't kept up with the building.
I mean, and he's like, is this going to change?
He doesn't want his kid living in an apartment because you're not building equity.
And I would agree with that, but on the other hand-
You know what I
far
And I think, you know, when you're, when you're right sizing, when you're downsizing and you're looking at, okay, we've got this huge house that we don't want to take care of anymore.
And or it's two stories and we're trying to find that ranch home or those zero entry kind of homes.
they're more expensive than the house that you have.
And
that are, you
And the next person is like, this is out.
I like staying wood.
You know, so, you know, the cosmetic part of it don't really know, but you've got to have a ranch home.
You've got, you know, if you're going to build something right now that you want, you want to know that it's going to resale no matter what.
that when they put really bizarre colors on their house, like we were gonna do a thing at two rivers.
And I swear, the neighbors, the quote unquote neighbors there, had such ugly, bizarre doors, they were turquoise.
Out of this normal looking house, these bright, unbelievable turquoise, it's like.
I wouldn't want to wake up every morning and look at that ugly door next door to me.
I think that
vinyl siding
Absolutely.
I mean, it's really nice.
I mean, it'd be nice for, you know, everyone.
But if you have small children, all the bedrooms are together upstairs.
So, you know, you find a lot where you've got like the master downstairs and all the, you know, extra bedrooms upstairs.
And that's tough when you have little kids because they want to be on the same floor.
So all the bedrooms are upstairs.
The primary suite is
It's a perfect location.
Well, you're super close to the Fox River Trail, too.
So if you like to walk or bike or, you know...
Skateboard, whatever.
We were going to say rollerblades.
Actually, I was going to say roller skating.
Oh, roller skating.
It could come up with rain, and I was like, that's going to sound really old.
Yeah.
And
Everything.
Right now, we're working with a lot of buyers that are looking, 325, 350, and below.
And that's a really tough market to be in.
We still have our buyer looking up in Door County for waterfront on the bay.
So if you have a beautiful home for bedrooms on the bay side or a lake in Door County, they'd be really interested in that.
So
One is a beautiful home, honestly.
I think it's, you know, and I may be biased, but I think it's one of the, well, it's definitely the prettiest on their street.
It's not the largest, but it just has such great curb appeal.
They, when they built it, they just did such a nice, yeah.
It's full of like reclaimed barnwood.
Yeah, really neat stuff.
we have a show yeah all they need to do is reach out to us we can meet them over at the show room and we can walk through the whole process so those are kind of hopefully going to be starting this summer but
you want to reserve them now, because I think that once they get going, they're going to go real fast.
No.
And we don't hear it a lot from our buyers anymore.
We don't.
You know, quite honestly,
a good rate
Yeah.
Oh,
those.
Yeah,
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