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Meals with a Friend: Combatting Isolation One Meal at a Time
Maino and the Mayor · Wed Apr 23, 2025
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We got Chad Francoor Meals with a friend and Chad get up at about three o'clock this morning drove down from Marinette Okay, did not complain about what a long day he's going to have the way some other people in the studio complain about what a long day they had yesterday
Todd?
All
it.
OK.
So what Meals with a Friend is, is more than just a meal delivery service.
a community driven program that delivers connection along with every plate, every time we connect with the phone.
So we pair volunteers to bring quick to meals or bring with a
yes.
And
Yep.
And they share a friendly.
whether it's a friendly visit, a shared story, or a meal, or walk around a block.
Meals with a friend is about replacing isolation with companionship.
That's awesome, because there's the meals on wheels, and you know, I think we all know, but somebody drops it off.
And they're in a hurry.
I mean, they've got another, you know, 30 meals in the back of the van, and they just don't have that time.
And I think some people would wish they could talk.
Yes.
Yeah, and my grandfather, who passed away this past summer,
Voice that to me when he first when he first experienced it that that's exactly what he what they said They just give it to you and they leave Well, they have to I mean
Yeah, so you started this.
Yeah, I'm really impressed.
How do you get?
Both sides of it, right?
You got to have people like you like to visit or me or John or Todd or the intern we like to talk But then the recipients and how does that work?
Well?
So,
well, starting out, I mean, so this is brand new.
So
we, we kind of, we're kind of in the works.
So, I mean, you just get started,
program
Yes.
And so, and are you the contact?
Yes.
Yes.
Okay.
Well, Marinette, Menominee and Pestigo.
Okay.
Yep.
and then hopefully it will get picked up by someone else that will or we can get someone that actually knows how to do things because I only know so much that that's part of my crutch.
Well, you're lucky because we know everything.
I was going to say,
Yeah, they're drastically in.
OK, so.
It's the site and the only reason in isolation is it's not epidemic.
So in the 2023 the US surgeon Surgeon General found that loneliness is dangerous to health.
It's equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
Thank you, Jamie.
And I mean
just just the the the the like media or the response that I'm getting from people like they're they're they're saying hey hey help help me I'm like I would love to but I I only know so much and I only and I need help so
Well, we deliver more than meals low.
We understand that companionship like friendly visits is it two things we do we deliver meals and then and then we do friendly visit right
friendly visits are about four five minutes to an hour
And with the meals so and they just in the friendly visit is just interacting with them and asking them about what are the what are they excited about for the next week or so and What are they looking forward to and stuff like
oh at least and
Or
more than likely, yes.
And currently, we have about four to six volunteers that I can trust.
But obviously, this is a volunteer mission, so we need that to grow substantially if we want to affect the population.
that we want to serve.
Yes, the volunteer makes it at their home.
Got it.
And it takes it to the clients.
Got it.
And I'm in discussion with the Department of some, like,
regulations
Wisconsin and there
Let me tell you, at least it's better than it used to be.
Let me tell you something, I tried doing things back in the day when I was at a different radio show and we would have brought fries downtown here and parks and stuff for our listeners and the city inspector on orders of the mayor shut us down.
Well, we can't meet.
Yes, Chad.
It was
him.
And you know that
illegal.
You can't share meals with another.
All right, so this is this is great.
And you're going to start off and once the word gets out.
And I think you should also go to your local parishes there and tell the pastor that you're offering this program to get people to sign up.
I mean, I think there's people who want to do this.
And I think the recipients are definitely
And you get these individuals who have kids or that their spouses pass away.
Absolutely.
lonely, too.
And they may have siblings or they may have kids.
in the air, in the town, but loneliness and isolation affects us all different ways.
And even though we can be in a crowded, crowded room, we can still feel alone.
I mean, this, I experienced this firsthand with my traumatic brain injury 21 years ago when I got hit by a truck.
I deep depression and we're had a
Six weeks in a coma and then I Spent 120 days in the hospital when I was 16 years old and I had a Downing Green Bay, so
Well, yes, I got hit by a truck while crossing the highway on a snowmobile up in Marinette Wow, yep, and that was stabilized phone down to
to, uh, to Green Bay, St.
Vincent Hospital, where I spent 120 days.
And out of the, at six weeks after the coma, I came out of the third grade re-level.
So I had to really hard to walk, talk, do the simplest things that we all had.
At 16 years old.
kid, going to be gone.
University of Minnesota on a hockey scholarship Going to pharmacy school.
I mean I world
Yes, and just like that and Now I'm just trying to I graduated college in 2013 with the degrees with the BS in psychology and human development good for you.
Yeah, and I mean I Don't let my disability affect how I live my life
For example, you're showing it and drove down here.
You started this program.
Yeah.
And for example, I, I bite, I rode my bicycle, my, my, my road bike.
3600 miles last year.
Wow.
Well, then I'm thunder.
Nice.
Yeah.
So I mean, just life happens and what I want to like summarize this up as.
Yeah, oh, yeah, yeah We're gonna keep
this.
You're
I'll tell you what overcoming your horrible injury from a getting hit by a truck when you're on a snowmobile and You know, we talked about people who can do one of two things that can say woe is me or they can say bleep it Yeah, but you know what I'm gonna just say something that we're talking about you're a hockey player.
Okay.
I talked to so many
Trainers physical trainers medical people and it's like hockey players They are there's such a man code or women called with a hockey player with the hockey women He said but there's like if you're gonna play that sport you better be tough
Across the board true.
Yes.
Yes, and you're a great hockey player And you're overcoming getting hit by a truck and everything you've been in a coma for how many days?
Six weeks six unbelievable and here you are Getting up at four o'clock this morning driving down for Marinette to get the word out about this program You're doing called meals with a friend.
So Chad you've got center stage.
Go ahead again, buddy
Okay, so if you want to like get connected with us check us out online
We're at MuseWithTheFriend.com or MuseWithTheFriend.org.
We transferred the .com to the .org, but we're still in the beginning process of making sure this stuff gets...
Well,
know.
Because I'm
Yes,
yeah, and I think if I Think the first step you can go do is contact me right I because the website is just so brand new and everything else.
I mean we have a Facebook page
friend right and and
I mean we can kind of garnish a lot of support through the Facebook because I mean but
well I mean we have a I like I want to develop a like a promotions
If someone volunteers five times, they get X, $20 to a guest ticket to somewhere, and then $10 promotions.
We really have, they're very snarky and insulting at times.
But our listeners are phenomenal when it comes to great causes.
Okay.
Um, and they're only snarky and insulting to me and him, but in general.
But what we're saying is they got big hearts and would you, is there a way people could donate some cash to buy, buy, you know, quick trip or whomever gas cards or some things like
that.
Yes.
And the, and so if you like, we could appreciate like gas cards, like, cause incentive for, um,
I'm some of the the volunteers like if they volunteer if they refer a friend Yeah, and then they serve at least three times to get they get a $10 gas.
Yeah,
at $10 Starbucks card, okay, or stuff like that.
Okay,
it's just it's not It's
it's not it's not up.
No It
be like right developed
phone number.
You could you're willing to give out?
Yes, it'd be seven one five nine two three seven seven one six
people
agree.
out there.
that I was here a month or two ago and I was on his show first and he
And he didn't offer me anything.
No, no, that's problem.
Yeah.
Oh, Hollywood.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I totally
agree.
Yeah.
And we've been doing this for.
couple years and it's people like you that make communities work.
You know, I mean, people sometimes don't know the politician or this business and that all helps.
But it really, it's people like you.
Thanks for doing this.
And I hope this does franchise out.
I hope you do this other places, but we got to just make it really, really work up in Marinette where you are.
And the final thing, the way to end isolation and loneliness is to connect.
That is the premise of the whole.
Open up.
I mean, we don't live in a glass bubble and we need to connect with people.
okay
So this comes from the heart and Jim and I talked about some Todd We talked about this all the time the people we appreciate so much on this show are people that are doing something for others
but because it started with them.
And that's where you know the passions from versus somebody who's just hired to promote something.
When it's from their heart, their own experiences, those are the real, those are the ones we take real serious.
So for a situation like yours, man, we're gonna back you as much as we possibly can.
Or volunteer,
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Just on the way out, but so meals with a friend up in Marinette
Yeah.
Wow.
There's a Berkshire Hathaway branch up in Marinette, so we'll have to tell them.
very giving branch.
Oh yeah, you love hearing those stories.
but it's such an inspiration
amazing.
A whole different course in his life that he thought he was
at what he's doing with it.
your- Yeah, yeah, we missed
It's real, it's really nice.
We had a great, we had a great turnout.
I
we had well over 70 people there.
Wow.
And it, you know, it's our nice little office space.
Everybody made it up the stairs.
could live here.
kitchen, you're good to go.
it's quiet, it's happening.
the history of the building at all?
You know, other than, you know, Trepman Hardware,
lot
Yeah, that's a beer you order out of the
cool little part of town.
I mean, there was Racine office supply, which was in that building, too, which I used to go into all the time as a kid.
And then, of course, Johnson Fish Company
at the corner.
And my mom used to drag us little buggers in there.
you know, grab something for dinner.
no, you know, our family business was downtown.
So I spent a lot of time down.
I used to, you know, work for my dad as even
I probably shouldn't say this, through grade school.
You know, I used to work at paint windows.
I think it's okay
when it's family.
yes, exactly.
don't think you needed to work from
And did you make any money on him?
Yeah, anything.
although although I gotta say one thing Jim knows his story Jim knows his story for the football cards I have paid football cards yeah where the Packers would get beat by somebody if I had some of their players in the cards I tacked them to a tree in our backyards and I shoot their eyes out with my baby
If
there's any psychiatrists
there, call in.
So when we question anger issues, it goes back pretty
First of all, I have to say that's a really good shot.
I
know,
right?
That's impressive.
Exceptional sniper level.
And exactly
what the Christmas movie was
Yeah, it's it's it's prime time Deanna Deanna had actually looked up some statistics before we came here what between?
200,000 and 400,000 the inventory and is it
in Brown County
and Brown County is
36 active homes
normal,
you know
You know what, it's low.
Our inventory is low.
When you hit April, that really
spring market, but we had a lady stir and we have the draft.
So I think our buyers are gonna see a lot of homes hit the market that they can start going through after this draft.
Okay, not to belabor the same old things we talked about, but I think it's at the point now where interest rates are, they are what they are.
No more sitting around, oh, once that happens, I mean, let's just accept they are where they are.
And if you want to buy a house or sell your house, that's what you're dealing with.
Yeah,
I think so too.
If they end up going down, I know there's a push for them wanting to be lowered, but if that happens, that's a gift at that
point.
But yeah, consider
where they are, where they are.
It is.
Yeah, not to talk politics, but we
You may have a new Fed chair.
That ain't going
to happen.
happen.
I think you always look at Jim.
I
hate to
and that's just it.
When you're looking for a place, location is one of the only things you cannot change about the house.
Yeah, right.
So.
find something in the location that you want.
Even if it is not your ideal house, you can make changes while you're
So, you know, most people buy a house to live in at long term.
They're gonna be there at least seven years, if not a little bit longer.
for the show that's on Sunday.
She just, the kids, she goes, it's too small now, we love the house.
She goes, we really don't want to move.
But I said, that's why we moved.
We didn't move, but she's just looking for something with, it's amazing what another bedroom can do though when you have kids, right?
Oh my God.
Or like
a finished basement.
It's
is.
You know, you will always find whether you are younger and a growing family or just, you know.
whether you have roommates, however, your life is always gonna change.
You might need something bigger, you might need something
also want their own space.
really interesting.
And then, you know, downsizing on the other end of it, you know, we were just talking about this, you know.
when you've lived in your house for a while at this point, because we had such a drastic change in price over the past, you know, five years or so, you know, you are going to downsize in the size of your home, not in your mortgage payment, you know, and I
that's really hard for people to consider.
easier, you know, there's, there's less stress, there's less yard work, look for something that makes your life easier, even though the payment may be a little bit higher, because on the flip side, you're now going to have something.
of higher value to sell.
I mean, years and years ago when I was looking for my first house and it's like the ranch houses were like, well, those are starter homes.
The rich people have, you know, two, three, blah, blah, blah.
And it's now that that's completely flipped.
Everybody wants the ranches, right?
Everybody
wants the
ranch.
Everybody can live in them.
They're usable for.
Everyone,
whether
you are, you know, have young kids, whether you're seniors and everything in between, everyone can live
in a ranch.
But you know what?
When you're talking to buyers and sellers, it's hard for them to grasp when you compare the square footage to a two-story, to a ranch, and then the ranch is more expensive.
It's more expensive because of the accessibility, you know?
It comes at a premium.
You've got everything you need on one floor.
Well, and I think there is this, you see this kind of, you know,
cross everything but you know our first-time homebuyers are getting older and they are now at an age where they know what they need in life they know what they want in life
so and they're buying homes kind of that fit those needs versus just it's the biggest one on the street
100%
You know, I honestly, that kitchen island has taken that away.
Now that islands are so big, that's where everyone sits.
I interviewed one of my, for my book, A Vietnam Veteran.
Nice how he had built it in Swamco.
You know, very nice, whatever.
And we said at the island, I said, this is like the size of the old, what do they call them, the farm tables?
Or we could have like 10, 12 people.
That's the way they're building islands now.
It's crazy.
Huge.
Yeah.
Sometimes the whole length of the
kitchen, we've seen
some huge islands.
But you know, who, who even eats at their table anymore?
If you have an island, if you have one of the islands, you know, I mean, do they even build houses with dining rooms anymore?
Well, they will custom build, but, you know, most of the spec homes are kind of a dining area where you have room to put a table if you want it.
built, when we built our house, which we sold last year, we put a dining room in it.
Yeah,
we did, I loved using
we didn't use it very often
we also had the kitchen island.
So unless it was Christmas or a company or whatever, we sat in the kitchen,
family.
people converting
to?
Offices
primarily, you know another sitting room You know we had some friends just a few doors down from us.
They kind of converted it into a TV room
Yeah, they well they kind of yeah, they made it into well They had their TV in the other room, but and actually a couple
Steven Jennell.
Yeah
I'm not gonna say older, because they're about our age.
When you don't have your kids at home anymore, and you don't need that dining room table, they had an island, they ended up just putting, because everybody congregates in the kitchen
people over, so they made it into a little sitting room,
was perfect.
So she's like, it's when we have parties, everyone sits in here anyway, now
have a comfortable seat.
What's hot out there right now?
If you're thinking about selling and listing with you guys, what types of houses were you just?
Sounds good.
Cool.
All right.
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Anyway.
Then they had a mallet car, moving with the mallet cars.
OK, the questioner was going to ask her before we went to break again.
If somebody's out there thinking about selling their house, thinking of listing, and they want to come to you guys, and they say, yada, yada, yada, what makes you guys like, oh, yes, what type of house, what type of complex, what type of whatever, whatever.
Yeah, I
would say honestly a one-story up to
450,000 would just fly off the shelves.
But
honestly, we work with everybody.
So no matter what you have, we try to put your home's best foot forward.
So there isn't anybody that we wouldn't
process.
But yeah, those homes that are like Ben just said in that category, they're gone.
It's crazy.
I know our first home was 75,000, so we totally get it.
Yes.
was a ranch.
We should have never got rid of
Yeah, no.
And it's
you paid for.
I know, at least.
Right.
82,000
A lot of houses went, they went from 88, 89, 92, 102, 103.
And people, older people couldn't, 100,000 was like this thing.
And I'm like, look, and I'm being interviewed about that.
They're like, how can you justify that?
Because as I said, the house was the same.
It was the same brick.
It was the same siding.
And I'm like, look, we value houses at what they will sell for.
That's our new assessment policy here.
Well, then we had the fourth of July parade.
I'm walking across the bridge.
What about my house?
But now those houses are probably worth 250,000.
Oh, yeah.
Crazy.
Crazy.
You know, from COVID on, that just kind of changed the market around to
everywhere.
All right.
You
guys
minute?
Yeah,
talk about our open house.
We've got an open house this weekend in the condos that are being developed on South Broadway.
The open house, though, is at the showroom, which is on Ridge Road.
It's on the corner of Ridge and Circle Drive.
And it's Sunday from 10 to 12.
And these are kind of a 55-plus community and, you know, all ranging about 1.1 million.
They're Sunday from 10 to 12.
OK.
West Point Center condos and the open house is at their showroom on the corner of Ridge and Circle Drive.
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