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y'all, man.
Y'all be happy before your baby.
I love y'all.
Love y'all.
Love y'all.
Hey, but let's keep it real, man.
My aunt used them in the 70s.
My mom's in her 70, 78.
And she told me the other day that my grandfather was abusive to my grandmother.
My grandmother was living today.
She would probably be about 94, 95.
So the black generation has a history of having domestic violence.
Inside the home on both on both sides and people stayed for whatever reason they stayed for so we got a I don't I don't know what we do about it because it's It's a history and it's been going on for decades of the sudden new You know what I mean?
I don't I don't know what we do about it.
All I all I can tell is all people are here.
We got to just be careful Because I definitely I definitely got to be careful my baby mama told me she catch anybody in my vehicles She blasts and now everybody in there
Don't you
to tell you bruh
You just told her, buddy.
Hang up now.
Hang up.
Save yourself.
Save yourself.
Yeah, we love you more, bro.
But listen, let me just say my opinion on what Brother Mahdi just said.
I would say, bro, don't you believe it?
I get it that we're talking about, you know, black people and some of the black white people beat the hell out of these spouses.
White people hold guns up against their spouses here.
White people say that they're going to commit suicide if the woman leave and the woman talking about what she's going to commit suicide.
They are beating the hell out of a lot of white people.
So I'm just saying, don't think that this is just to the black family and to the black community.
Oh, hell no.
And it's not even just to black and white.
Yeah.
Everybody.
Everybody beat the hell out of it.
People yeah, and that is just crazy.
I don't know what the hell that was You got to see it
I didn't know I don't know but now so Yeah, so just do not think
that this is a black only problem.
One of the things that tends to happen is, you know, um, ours, in my opinion, some of ours is brought into the public like more.
A lot of those we pointed, we point
The woman be scared to death.
No, that's not the reason that I believe.
I just believe that the person in that relationship, that a white relationship, they're so timid.
They're so like, no, he's going to beat me again so they don't speak out.
And then when they finally do get the opportunity, they end up telling the truth.
talking about what is going on since we first got married or since we first got together since I had his child or whatever the case may be and saying vice versa in that relationship.
So it's there, but they don't end up using law enforcement and it's not usually in an open forum to where law enforcement can get involved.
So if you ain't saying nothing, then yeah, it would seem like it's not out there, but I'm telling you.
These certain people, they ain't got purple eyes and all of that and wearing these shades and it's raining and thundering outside.
They ain't just wearing them just to wear them.
They're wearing them to hide the abuser that they are in a relationship or a marriage with or sometimes just to jump off.
You feel what I'm saying?
So, but in some of our situations, they are so exaggerated.
It's all down the street.
Everybody is involved in your domestic violence relationship because they hear in the arguing because the walls that of some of our apartments and homes are paper thin.
So you can't help it.
Damn, they over there arguing again.
They be fighting all the time.
They upstairs fighting.
But in those situations, I just think that sometimes it's, they don't say anything for a long time.
They don't say anything for a long time.
And that's just my opinion.
Y'all need to make sure if you have kids, young adults, let them know that nobody should be putting their hands on them.
My dad and my mom told me, hey, listen.
You know Nobody should be putting their hands on you.
No man You and my father told me you have never seen me hit your mother And you ain't gonna see that and nobody should be hitting you or abusing you in any way whether it's mental or physical Something like that happened, you know, that's not the person for you to be with you need to get out that situation right away correct
And that's it.
That's
But you know, I had him and had him do an interview.
And he was saying that one of the things I'm like, you know, what is it?
You know, first, like, why do you do this?
And why do you do that?
But how do you end up getting these different women like that?
He said, well, you know, they always talk about the mind thing.
But he said, blow, so many women are so quick to tell you.
about their whole history about how's your relationship with your father and first thing they do a lot of them is cuss and be like I don't you know forget him but in other colorful language right and so he said so that takes the father out the equation so I ain't got to worry about dealing with
her father because she don't deal with her
father.
And she may say she got none.
She may say I got two, uh, but I don't really mess with them like that.
That's the other thing that he's listening for to hear because now when he tries to do his mind control over you, he's not worried about you trying to run and go tell your brother or.
Uh, get your brother or
they'll
You don't even care for them.
So you're not going to run to them.
You feel like, you know, like I'm your daddy.
And so this is where they get to saying, you know, I'm, I'm, I'm your dad, my daddy, my daddy, because what is a daddy supposed to do?
Take care of his children.
It's supposed to take care of daddy's little girl.
Daddy's little girl.
And I'm saying that this information was shared on a public forum that I have on blow radio, right?
And a lot of women was like, wow, they never thought about how openly they may share certain information.
And then the other thing is they will find out where you live.
Now,
y'all
Here you go.
Oh, what's on your ID?
What's on your driver's life?
Your address.
Yeah.
So he know where you stay now mm-hmm And I was just like I mean so it was blowing my mind with all of the things and you know I had some women in the studio on that particular panel as well women who have been abused and things like that and so they was like wow they they were even Blown away by like wow.
I've done that before with men you know saying and so it was just a mind-blowing conversation and
He did end up getting indicted, you know, he was I want to say some years after the show like it wasn't like oh right away, but he is currently and he might be Yeah, he might be I want to say maybe 10 to 11 years into a 25 year
I wouldn't have
I'm not
rotten piece of crap like that.
Cause I'm
But yeah, I just I was like wow we everybody in there the the women who had been abused I mean it was some crying in the studio and all of that because It was you know bringing up, you know raw right emotion, but I was just like wow I would have
I wouldn't anew to think about it in that way.
as as as always if You're someone that is Experiencing domestic violence and you need help to get out of the situation Remember there are many resources here in Milwaukee.
So during a truth house is just one of many The women's center in downtown Milwaukee all of that so you can also call 211 for assistance.
All right
Well don't call him on me Homer.
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we didn't say that a lot and listen, so that's what we gonna tell the kids that you already talk about the Satan can't read so you gonna tell them That's what they meant though.
So you're gonna give them passing grade Serious cuz you an adult so you grown grown you gotta be careful you gotta be careful
I'm just saying.
I got an education for a reason.
But, uh, so if I had to get one, you gotta get one too.
Even if you got degrees, you gotta make sure that you don't get the red mark.
Okay.
But anyway, but, uh, he said, uh, I make a fool.
A lot of both of us that was my mom professional at work, but at home verbally abusive especially after my dad had Two strokes later on he said he took it because we were little kids But one day he got physical believe me her voice never raised above a two after that Now It's how do you take that Bailey I mean would you
Is domestic violence domestic violence?
I get it.
Yeah, you never done anything, right?
But if you do it later and then it doesn't happen, you know what I'm saying, right?
Is does that make it right?
minister and She was saying when I was cuz she has these little morning things that she does morning inspiration
And this morning she was saying when she was coming in, you know, be calm.
You know, and it says that in the Bible because I don't know which verse y'all, but to be calm because the power that you have.
Rest in your calmness, right?
So no matter what situation you're in.
Try to always be calm and you can think
better.
okay.
nothing.
That's
Why?
You
That was because my dad, my mom didn't play.
My dad didn't play.
So you know, if she said that's it, I'm tired of y'all.
And she was going to tell him it was over.
It was over.
You was going to get it.
You was gonna get you a good whooping and you didn't want him to you.
You know, my sister was the heavy cracker.
Can you just want me now?
No, no, no.
Please.
Patience and just be it you know cuz everybody.
Oh you so cool.
You so calm You don't explode.
You know, you know, I can tell you many conversations I have with Reggie Brown And he was like why don't you go in there and jump on their desk and demand this and demand that and I was like Listen We get more bees with honey.
They don't want us to stop what we doing
They gon' come back around, wait about five or ten minutes.
They gon' be over here going, well we upset the apple cart.
Let's go see what's happening.
And that's exactly what would happen.
But it wasn't gon' happen if I went in there and acted a fool.
Right.
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Before going to break was talking about a Kenosha police shooting Bar homicide suspect shot and arrested so we do have an audio clip on that we're gonna have our producer Xavier play this audio clip and We're gonna talk about it another one of Bailey's favorite places.
Uh, police confirmed the victim is Arturo Medina, the third neighbor said he was a father of three.
Police also say the suspect and the victim are not believed to have known each other.
Wow.
Uh, Kenosha fully say the suspect is Adam threat killed.
A 45 year old man from Milwaukee who has a long criminal history in Milwaukee including sexual assault, strangulation, suffocation, exposing himself to a child, battery, disorderly conduct, vehicle theft, and burglary.
Most recently he was arrested in Milwaukee in connection with an allegation of battering a police officer while armed with a knife.
Police were not able to state why Threckold with his criminal history was out in Kenosha Wow Threckold shot at police when they found him less than a block away from the tavern But he only hit the squad car and no police were injured police shot black at the suspect hitting him and that is when police were able to arrest him a Neighbor whose house is only a couple dozen feet from where this suspect was arrested Stephanie Radisky ducked for cover when she
since she heard around 20 gunshots during the incident.
And then before I even had time to react, there were two shots and then just a barrage of shots.
Radisky said it was just pop, pop, pop, pop.
And it was just so many so rapidly.
And that part was terrifying, too, because I'm down on the ground.
So I don't even know where they're coming from.
The suspect is still at the medical facility he was brought to after the incident where he is in stable condition.
Both the shooting in the bar and the officer involved shooting continued to be investigated.
I know the clip is ready now, but we kind of read everything that that it was going to say.
So what's going on with Kenosha?
Hmm that part that part that part, you know, that's why we got to be careful because people are walking around here Minds all messed up.
Mm-hmm.
You know getting hold of guns and they shouldn't have them.
Mm-hmm Just doing whatever they want to do
right
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah because you know the other people they damn should never gonna use theirs and they
license.
They're not supposed to even have a weapon.
Right.
They're not even supposed to have a weapon, but they locked and loaded that part.
You know, it's now it's something that I was able to kind of send to you and Xavier.
What do you think is happening with some of our youth with the little clip that I sent you?
And I mean, I said that before.
I don't think
I don't think that they care.
I don't think that they have hope.
I don't think that they think about a future and I don't think that the enough.
People are talking to them about a future outside of, you know, and they come up as kids like small ones in in that culture like that.
I mean, they're they're little kids now.
Probably they start priving them at eight or nine years old if not sooner and they see these things.
Yep.
They see their parents fighting.
They see other kids robbing other kids.
They see all those things.
And as they get older, they're like, well, that's what I want to do.
That's where I am.
And there's people there.
There are people talking to them, but they're not saying the right things, right?
And they're grooming them to do what we saw, you know, robbing pillaging people, joining other little gangs and this and that.
They had weapons.
No doubt some adult had to be involved in them gathering those weapons together Somebody had a hand in it.
Yeah, you know, so there are people there's a lot of people That have no hope or that aren't talking to their kids and doing the right things and spending the time You know what I mean?
I think that
One thing that I've always talked about and I actually got to hear Jazz Tyler tap in with Jazz Tyler 4 p.m.
The 7 p.m Central Standard Time here on the truth 101 7 fm is something that I think is One of the biggest problems that we face When the youth and the children are put around those positive people those people who are
trying to instill morals and values and and and respect and all of that.
They go into those spaces.
Sometimes they're in those spaces, maybe two to three hours.
And then they go spend the next twenty two or twenty one hours black inside of the madness.
and
I say that because when you think about some of these different programs and some of them hell are only a hour long Yeah, you don't understand so but you know I say between one to three hours Which you know for some people like okay?
That's a pretty long time Not if when you go black you're going to be bombarded with all of the things that you were told to try to Stay away from right and and and
Don't be around this and don't be around that.
And when you go black to your home environment or your apartment, you're around all the things that you've been told why this is not a good thing.
This is not a healthy thing.
So how do we deal with that?
How do we, you don't understand, get them out of these situations when, you know, we're trying to feed them truth.
We're trying to feed them things that will help them become a productive.
citizen, uh, get jobs, you know, all of the things that we know they're going to need, be able to get their education, all of these things, but then they get home and there's just no support.
There's no support for, and whenever you're trying to teach people, in my opinion, positive reinforcement is a must.
Yeah.
You gotta have some positive reinforcement.
So if you're telling them like, yeah, you addicted to these pills and you only 14 years old, you know, but now you go home and the first thing the PWK says, whether it's the mother or the father, biological, hey, you got any pills?
Hey, hey, hey, you know what I'm saying?
So it's like now they've been mandated to go blackout into the wilderness and get some more pills.
which we don't, we try to get them to stop that and don't be around it.
So how do we, how do we get inside the home and, and help that?
Because if the sickness is inside the home, that whole home needs to be fumigated.
I'm just
I mean, because, you know, just like,
with extermination like and I'm not saying exterminate the people but I'm saying you know you gotta be like hold on you gotta everybody you know we gotta bomb the whole house yeah in order to make sure that we get this out and then just we also remember that even though they may bomb the house with uh extermination chemicals or whatnot that's not the only thing they gonna do they gonna come back again
And they got to go in and do, you know, the follow up, the treatments, the actual treatments, and it takes treatment.
So even after you end up letting off whatever fumes or chemicals that you have to, to try to exterminate whatever may be upstairs, downstairs in the basement, wherever the case may be, then it takes treatments after that.
So it's like, we can't look at it as a one and done.
Right.
Because some of these people are.
have become resisted to the spray.
Yeah.
You feel what I'm saying?
Oh
you know.
an
Don't take the time to spend and let me tell you some moms and dads I'm pretty sure the choir right here because I'm talking to our audience but You know, even if that child is your grandchild or your great-grandchild or whatever it is Or you know, maybe it's your cousin's kid or somebody they just if it's a kid in your sphere and You can just take a few minutes every once in a while to spend with them
Y'all ain't, you ain't even gotta go spend no money.
Y'all could walk down the street and just have a conversation.
Y'all could sit on the porch and have a conversation.
They just wanna be around you.
That's it.
And know that somebody cares.
Somebody's taking a minute out.
You know, you may not have long.
You know what I mean?
It may just be.
10 15 minutes five minutes that you got whatever right the fact that you sit down and take the time to talk to that kid find out what's going on with them you know what it's interesting because you could just do that and maybe plan a seat for college
reinforcement that I'm talking about.
You give them saying that that's that positive reinforcement.
So we can't be telling them, hey, you should be thinking about this when we send them to school and trying to let them know, like, hey, these are things you need to think about now.
Instead of waiting until later.
Exactly.
Because, you know, then you're going to be behind
You know what I'm saying?
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community this is again this is where community usually comes in to try to help and I guess how do we deal with the defiant people with kids because parents I think will be more open and receptive to be like yes because I need some help I need some help
either it's a father raising his children alone or a mother raising her children alone.
You feel what I'm saying?
And sometimes it is both, which is obviously a great thing when it's healthy.
It is not healthy to have both when it's some sickness involved.
So some people be like, well, that's why the father, that's why, that's why I've been a hold up.
We.
They have to want help themselves and they have to realize that their situation isn't healthy, right?
My thing with it is trying to get in where you fit in and do what you can do.
If what you can do is provide a vehicle or something for those parents to connect with their children, right?
Maybe you have, you know, some.
Art stuff that you know appeals to someone the age of their child, right?
Maybe a coloring book, you know, my mom used to sing color with me on time That's all they want so maybe you give them an extra you had an extra at your office or extra somewhere
or you saw it at the store and you said, I'm going to pick this up and get this for so and so.
You know, I do stuff like that all the time.
Don't y'all every once in a while home.
I know you do.
Yeah, you know, I'm going to get this for so and so.
Let me let me get this for so and so
because
Because it's it goes black to when I say that we want to try to be the village.
And if we see a little one doing something that we know is not safe or not healthy or they shouldn't be doing period and we try to address it, we become the villains.
because some of those people will turn on you.
Yeah, that will black in the day.
It we didn't get turned on like that.
You know what I'm saying?
It was like,
what I'm saying?
Yeah.
They're like, okay, uh,
This is a this is a disease.
Yes.
And so you have to go right to the root of it all.
Yeah.
And try to let them like that mother that may be struggling dealing with three kids that may be wayward.
You know, she can't handle it and doesn't know how to reach out for help or hasn't reached out for help.
Minister Kevin said Homer.
Uh, that is the biggest thing with me trying to help, but having to deal with the disrespect.
And that's it.
Uh, Anita Nicole said, parents will turn on you, but it may help when you approach people showing you can relate.
Some get offended.
It may feel like they're being judged.
I'm just letting you know what you're not going to do.
Listen.
We were judged and you're going to get judged too.
You don't get the soft road.
You're going to have to take the hard knocks of what's called life.
You don't, we don't get to pacify you.
You're going to be held accountable and you're going to have to make sure that your children and the people that you have around you, uh, have self accountability for the madness that they create.
one thing I always told my son, if anybody going to tell you the truth about a situation, it's going to be me.
There you go.
And we do need to come with the honest truth with our people, you know, with our young people, especially so that when they get down the road of peace, they'll understand why, you know, I still get epiphanies to this day.
That's why mom told me not to do that.
All right.
I tried Homer and laughing.
Listen, I'm just saying.
Jasmine Tyler.
Great afternoon in this afternoon.
4pm to 7pm.
You can check in and tap in with Jazz Tyler.
We love you Jazz.
Great interview with Michelle.
Look, it fits on yesterday.
Sherwin is in the producer studio telling us to get the hell out.
I see him making gang signs.
He got to kick in the door.
He up there rolling his hands like this and doing this and doing that.
I'm like, oh, hell no.
Sure.
We got them people, Bailey.
Sure.
We got them people.
If
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Now, there is a situation that took place in Racine and a woman has been charged with homicide after running over her boyfriend with her car.
and killing him in Racine.
And I do believe we have a clip, but Adacia Jones, 22, is charged with homicide by intoxicated use of a vehicle after police say she ran over 26 year old Darius Allen following an argument at his Racine home.
Yeah.
I'm gonna, well, I mean, I won't say it, but I'm gonna send you something when we talk about the attitudes of some of these young people and these are people that are younger than this and.
I'm telling you, we got some situations that we are dealing with that some people won't take as serious as we need to take it.
It's a lot of teens that have been shot, as I said on yesterday as a recent.
And unfortunately, it appears that there's going to be a lot more.
Yeah.
I came back to the area near the intersection of Hubbard and Wisconsin streets in Racine on Monday.
This is where police say a woman was drunk when she ran over her boyfriend and killed him early Sunday morning.
I spoke with that man's grandmother who says the family is heartbroken.
It
was loved by a lot of people and.
You know, he was a good young man.
Martha Allen is grieving the loss of her 26 year old grandson, Darius.
Police say he died at the hospital after his girlfriend, 22 year old Adasia Jones ran him over with her car.
I was crying and the whole family was crying.
We were all upset.
We were crying.
Jones was in court for the first time Monday.
Her bond is set at $15,000.
I obtained a criminal complaint that says Jones went to Alan's home to talk about quote issues they were having in their relationship and quote.
That's when Joan said the argument turned physical.
She told investigators Alan choked her, jumped on the hood of her car and refused to get off.
She says she began to drive away and Alan fell off of the car.
She says she turned around to check on him, did not see Alan still in the road and accidentally ran him over.
But Alan's grandma's story is different.
She was not allowed at the house.
And she came anyway and she was drunk.
And she said, I'm going to kill you and I'm going to murder you.
And then she ran over him with the car.
Jones admitted to police that she was drunk.
Allen was taken to the hospital where he died from his injuries.
Jones is now charged with homicide by intoxicated use of a vehicle.
I think she needs to be prosecuted for what she did because he was.
He you know, he didn't even really was able to defend himself because she just ran him over
reporting in Racine Ryan Jenkins TMJ for news Tragic
These situations these relation quote-unquote relationship situations And then they take it too far and it's just like people just out here right now.
They don't yep Yep, you know Yep, and and the reality is that life is Precious and can be lost at you know at any point
The blink of an eye at the blink of an eye one minute you're arguing and the next minute, you know, I try to tell people listen You get out here you get emotional about this and that Mm-hmm.
The power is in your calmness
Great morning.
Love you.
Appreciate you.
And if your birthday is already past or if it's coming up, happy born day or happy belated born day.
Right.
Laurie Patterson.
Great morning.
Love you.
Appreciate you.
Will D nine.
Great morning.
Love you.
Appreciate you.
He said, good morning.
If she admitted that she was drunk and driving a car, it's a wrap.
So yeah, they were able to, but again, we, we talk about this often Bailey, like some of these volatile relationships that can usually be filled with DV.
I think, and I think that this is one of those relationships in my opinion.
Because why would you not be allowed by his grandmother's house?
You feel I'm saying
I don't think that
she just you know her grant his grandmother said I don't want her around here you gonna send it had to be Some pattern of something going on or even if it was both of them and right, but it's like you know Well when you over here she can't come over here right so But it's crazy it is crazy and
Unfortunately, in my opinion, it happens far too often.
People.
It's a lot of people that just won't go try to get help.
It's a lot of men, in my opinion, with mental health issues that will not go and seek help.
There's a lot of women with mental health issues and they will not.
go and get help.
And I think in turn, we see these volatile relationships that can end in death or someone being injured or somebody just getting locked up for a long time.
Yeah,
You oh, we we down we passed our break.
I'm sorry.
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Welcome black to truth in the morning on the award winning one oh one seven of them the truth Currently we're talking about a woman that has been charged with homicide After running over her boyfriend with her car and killing him in Racine
Adacia Jones 22 is charged with homicide by intoxicated use of a vehicle after police say she ran over 26 year old Darius Allen following an argument at his racing home so and her boyfriend and The thing that I was talking about is like with the mental health situations a lot of our youth are I'm telling you Bailey
I see videos and all of that all the time.
People are like, well, you've seen it.
Well, you've seen that.
And it's a lot of these young girls and a lot of these young boys that are in very volatile relationships.
you
Yeah.
And the man say, you know, you know, I love you or the woman saying, you know, I love you.
And it's all supposed to be all good, but you just beat the hell out of one or the other.
You know what I'm saying?
Because it's men and women that are doing it.
Yeah.
It's a lot of women that They like they ready to fight like just at the gate like it's a trigger in them and we've talked about it where we say that Some of these women they know how to push all the right buttons to create an effect and it is not smart.
It's not cool.
Everybody is not going to do their best to stand down
That's why it's a lot of people in jail and some in prison because Sometimes you have to just understand fellas Go see a psychiatrist go go get you a real mental health therapists because the anger that You may be holding from even if it was when you were a child and you saw your father beating your mother's ass
Mean this it trickles down it trickles down and you have that's why they say the hurt people hurt people It's a lot of people that saw people that they love and care for it's a lot of best friends that have a friend that's in an abusive relationship and they're trying to get them out Girl, why you stay?
Why do you stay?
You know, he's not gonna stop bruh
Why don't you leave her alone?
You know that she's going to do this.
She's going to always find some reason to act out.
And they stay.
And that's why, in my opinion, we get these kind of situations.
All of them may not end in homicides, but they definitely end in situations that a person could be charged with something.
And some people are trying to, because it's so common.
Some people try to normalize it as if it's normal.
It is not normal Keep your damn hands to yourself.
Mm-hmm If you feel that somebody is not good for your mental health and your mental well-being You got to let them go that they say if you love somebody set them free
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Yeah.
But yeah, it is crazy.
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You know, sometimes it's you feel helpless, Bailey, because sometimes you got to let them get to the very bottom themselves.
Not for me.
Xavier and Bailey, we can't play this, but I just sent both of y'all some, I sent you it first Bailey.
But yeah, but no, like it's so much sensitivity out here that, that, um, that we, we gotta, we gotta find some resolutions to it.
And the sad reality is until they're ready, until they're ready.
We can do all of the intervention that we want to do.
We can do all those things
for him
If they're not done, the same thing as a person that is alcoholic or on drugs and tell they're done and they're ready to truly put their best foot forward to try to beat the addiction.
Yeah.
You have to pray all you, you know, for those who pray, all you can do is just pray.
that it doesn't end the way that you've seen so many situations in.
We got Al MKE on our truth call in line 833-212-1017.
Great morning, Al.
Love you.
Appreciate you.
You hear the conversation.
What's your truth?
My truth is I don't think it's mental health.
The thing is, is don't nobody want to be beat out by the next man and the next woman because they don't want to start over.
They don't want to start over again from a new beginning with somebody else.
But you better to let it go.
But if you speak to some of those people from back in the time when they tear the house up, the usually reason they tear the house up and they stay is because the orgasm is so intense because all that.
that testosterone
is
going.
But
I don't think so.
And
I ain't no, and no concussion is really cause I knew a woman back from Iron Mountain, Michigan, big 300 pound woman.
She said her husband used to beat all through the house and then they have sex all night, but nobody wouldn't leave because the orgasm is intense.
I'll go a step further.
I was in a relationship sort of like that, but I went and I left because, you know, it's too many people out there.
The moral of the story is you don't have to stay with that.
It's too many out there because if you are a woman and you kill that man, only thing you're going to be doing, you're going to be a dyke in a bull dagger in prison, licking on cat.
And if you are a man and you don't let that woman go, you're going to be up and then turning tricks for biscuits because you're giving up your biscuits.
It's too many options out there.
Why would you beat on that woman when you can go?
Why would you run that man over when you can go sleep with his granddaddy?
It's bigger, deeper, tighter, more durable than the deal with it.
Life is too short.
Let it go and start fresh.
Just because it look good on the outside doesn't mean it's good on the inside.
It's like buying a beautiful Cadillac, but the engine is still trash.
Let it go.
Alright wonderful
group.
truth?
Thanks for taking my car, barely on run today.
Yes, she
she is.
Condolence into the young man lost his life, but you all have to realize that you've got to, you've got to see the signs of a person you know is crazy as hell.
And like the first call I said, I don't care how good it is, you've got to know to read the signs.
If you haven't, some people just can't rule the verbal argument.
If you have the burden of argument and they got to put their hands, you try to put their hands over your mouth so you can stop talking or they hit you, that's a sign that they're going to get MS guys and girls.
And you go to the prison, I'm like, Dylan said, Dylan, you said something like, too young to be emotional, something like that in the beginning of the show.
All these young people, they're just a ball of emotion.
That's all they are in motion.
Go to the prison system and visit.
That's all that's in that prison is emotional people because they could not control their emotions.
And somehow it became from verbal to physical.
And here you go.
The grandmother of the deceased young man.
They did.
She was allowed to be at the house.
You know, so they knew that there was something going on there.
I know some people.
I know some people who family members see that their son is fighting with the girlfriend.
They go, oh, that's the way they always get.
No, you need to absolutely tell your son or daughter, hey, you need to break up with this person.
I don't know if it's in your business, but I've seen too many people that start off like you young people I've started off and somebody ends up in prison or in the hospital and unfortunately they're dead.
And I know what Sherwin said on his show and I know it's all kind of cold, but the taxpayer's money
goals into these homicide and these deaths because you got the police, you got detectives, you got the ambulance, all that.
That bill comes back to detectives on top of all this because you can't control, you can't control your stupid emotions or you just can't let the big thing go or the tight thing go, whatever else.
And it all falls on your family and it falls on
us.
connected.
Yeah.
Thank you, Ryan.
We got to get ready.
Take care of some bills.
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We're talking about a real serious situation that we've seen though, although this homicide by intoxicated use of a vehicle here in Milwaukee, this is why this still hits home.
Yes.
They have the highest rate of DV.
And, you know, some you would say, well, you know, they didn't want to.
because they were trying to get away from sometime.
Now, I'm not saying that's for everyone, but there are some that, you know, it's like, you know, I'm tired of having to deal with that, but it's like, it's number one.
Mm hmm.
Yeah.
And is that is that crazy to you?
Would you think that it would be that way?
I mean it surprised me to hear that because again, I'm you know, so used to being involved with trying to neutralize situations between men and women that are in DV relationships.
Sometimes it's on behalf of the men.
Sometimes it's on behalf of the woman.
And so I'm so used to, you know, so I just did not think that that would be the statistic.
And and saying you love me, right?
I don't care what they say.
You love me, right?
Yeah.
Yeah, she's afraid of you.
And Bailey, when you say that people got a.
Vet people, right?
Mm-hmm.
Let me that that is very very true, but let me just tell you what has improved over the decades Decepticons these people are Decepticons they come out with their representative and Sometimes they never take it off.
So you thinking that oh, this is the perfect woman for me.
Oh, this is the perfect man for you, right and Yeah
of doing all of the things Martin Lawrence in one of his comedy specials I believe it was the you so crazy right but he done the perfect thing where the man ended up luring this woman before they really you know got into the serious relationship
boasting to her her girlfriend girl he does and he that and he that and he like she ain't thinking he crazy deranged yeah and I'm going out with the girl oh here you need some money better than I'll get he's so good you know so they both are boasting boasting
And she was like, whoa, you know what I'm saying?
So people can I'm telling you actors, these people are actors and actresses.
I mean, extraordinary because they can I know people that are in relationships and they just
Really still haven't met that person sometimes two to three years down the line.
That's a great as decepticon.
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supposed
y'all, man.
Y'all be happy before your baby.
I love y'all.
Love y'all.
Love y'all.
Hey, but let's keep it real, man.
My aunt used them in the 70s.
My mom's in her 70, 78.
And she told me the other day that my grandfather was abusive to my grandmother.
My grandmother was living today.
She would probably be about 94, 95.
So the black generation has a history of having domestic violence.
Inside the home on both on both sides and people stayed for whatever reason they stayed for so we got a I don't I don't know what we do about it because it's It's a history and it's been going on for decades of the sudden new You know what I mean?
I don't I don't know what we do about it.
All I all I can tell is all people are here.
We got to just be careful Because I definitely I definitely got to be careful my baby mama told me she catch anybody in my vehicles She blasts and now everybody in there
Don't you
to tell you bruh
You just told her, buddy.
I would say, bro, don't you believe it?
I get it that we're talking about, you know, black people and some of the black white people beat the hell out of these spouses.
White people hold guns up against their spouses here.
White people say that they're going to commit suicide if the woman leave and the woman talking about what she's going to commit suicide.
They are beating the hell out of a lot of white people.
So I'm just saying, don't think that this is just to the black family and to the black community.
Oh, hell no.
And it's not even just to black and white.
The woman be scared to death.
No, that's not the reason that I believe.
I just believe that the person in that relationship, that a white relationship, they're so timid.
They're so like, no, he's going to beat me again so they don't speak out.
And then when they finally do get the opportunity, they end up telling the truth.
talking about what is going on since we first got married or since we first got together since I had his child or whatever the case may be and saying vice versa in that relationship.
So it's there, but they don't end up using law enforcement and it's not usually in an open forum to where law enforcement can get involved.
So if you ain't saying nothing, then yeah, it would seem like it's not out there, but I'm telling you.
These certain people, they ain't got purple eyes and all of that and wearing these shades and it's raining and thundering outside.
They ain't just wearing them just to wear them.
They're wearing them to hide the abuser that they are in a relationship or a marriage with or sometimes just to jump off.
You feel what I'm saying?
So, but in some of our situations, they are so exaggerated.
It's all down the street.
Everybody is involved in your domestic violence relationship because they hear in the arguing because the walls that of some of our apartments and homes are paper thin.
So you can't help it.
Damn, they over there arguing again.
They be fighting all the time.
They upstairs fighting.
But in those situations, I just think that sometimes it's, they don't say anything for a long time.
Y'all need to make sure if you have kids, young adults, let them know that nobody should be putting their hands on them.
My dad and my mom told me, hey, listen.
You know Nobody should be putting their hands on you.
No man You and my father told me you have never seen me hit your mother And you ain't gonna see that and nobody should be hitting you or abusing you in any way whether it's mental or physical Something like that happened, you know, that's not the person for you to be with you need to get out that situation right away correct
And that's it.
That's the right thing.
Your parents need to tell you, and if you're a friend or a good friend of somebody, let them know.
That ain't love.
But you know, I had him and had him do an interview.
And he was saying that one of the things I'm like, you know, what is it?
You know, first, like, why do you do this?
And why do you do that?
But how do you end up getting these different women like that?
He said, well, you know, they always talk about the mind thing.
But he said, blow, so many women are so quick to tell you.
about their whole history about how's your relationship with your father and first thing they do a lot of them is cuss and be like I don't you know forget him but in other colorful language right and so he said so that takes the father out the equation so I ain't got to worry about dealing with
her father because she don't deal with her
And she may say she got none.
She may say I got two, uh, but I don't really mess with them like that.
That's the other thing that he's listening for to hear because now when he tries to do his mind control over you, he's not worried about you trying to run and go tell your brother or.
Uh, get your brother or
they'll
You don't even care for them.
So you're not going to run to them.
You feel like, you know, like I'm your daddy.
And so this is where they get to saying, you know, I'm, I'm, I'm your dad, my daddy, my daddy, because what is a daddy supposed to do?
Take care of his children.
It's supposed to take care of daddy's little girl.
Daddy's little girl.
And I'm saying that this information was shared on a public forum
y'all
Yeah.
So he know where you stay now mm-hmm And I was just like I mean so it was blowing my mind with all of the things and you know I had some women in the studio on that particular panel as well women who have been abused and things like that and so they was like wow they they were even Blown away by like wow.
I've done that before with men
Yeah,
I wouldn't have
I'm not
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Okay.
But anyway, but, uh, he said, uh, I make a fool.
A lot of both of us that was my mom professional at work, but at home verbally abusive especially after my dad had Two strokes later on he said he took it because we were little kids But one day he got physical believe me her voice never raised above a two after that Now It's how do you take that Bailey I mean would you
Is domestic violence domestic violence?
I get it.
Yeah, you never done anything, right?
But if you do it later and then it doesn't happen, you know what I'm saying, right?
Is does that make it right?
Maddie He was saying That it's it's been going on in our culture for a long time which effects that's true That's true, but not everybody right not everybody.
You know, it's real interesting because I Listened to Joyce Meyer a lot.
Okay, y'all know who I hope you know, yeah, right the minister and She was saying when I was cuz she has these little morning things that she does morning inspiration
And this morning she was saying when she was coming in, you know, be calm.
You know, and it says that in the Bible because I don't know which verse y'all, but to be calm because the power that you have.
Rest in your calmness, right?
So no matter what situation you're in.
Try to always be calm and you can think
better.
My dad didn't play.
So you know, if she said that's it, I'm tired of y'all.
And she was going to tell him it was over.
It was over.
You was going to get it.
You was gonna get you a good whooping and you didn't want him to you.
You know, my sister was the heavy cracker.
Can you just want me now?
No, no, no.
Please.
You
You know, you know, I can tell you many conversations I have with Reggie Brown And he was like why don't you go in there and jump on their desk and demand this and demand that and I was like Listen We get more bees with honey.
They don't want us to stop what we doing
They gon' come back around, wait about five or ten minutes.
They gon' be over here goin', we upset the apple cart.
Let's go see what's happening.
And that's exactly what would happen.
But it wasn't gon' happen if I went in there and acted a fool.
Wasn't gon' happen.
It was gon' be like, see, that's how they act.
This is how it's goin'.
You know?
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Of course, before going to break was talking about a Kenosha police shooting bar homicide suspect shot and arrested.
So we do have an audio clip on that.
We're going to have our producer Xavier play this audio clip and we're going to talk about it.
Another one of Bailey's favorite places.
okay.
right?
okay?
Wow
Uh, police confirmed the victim is Arturo Medina, the third neighbor said he was a father of three.
Police also say the suspect and the victim are not believed to have known each other.
Wow.
Uh, Kenosha fully say the suspect is Adam threat killed.
A 45 year old man from Milwaukee who has a long criminal history in Milwaukee, including sexual assault, strangulation, suffocation, exposing himself to a child, battery, disorderly conduct, vehicle theft, and burglary.
Most recently, he was arrested in Milwaukee in connection with an allegation of battering a police officer while armed with a knife.
Police were not able to state why Threco with his criminal history was out in Kenosha.
Wow.
Threckles shot at police when they found him less than a block away from the tavern, but he only hit the squad car and no police were injured.
Police shot black at the suspect hitting him, and that is when police were able to arrest him.
A neighbor whose house is only a couple dozen feet from where the suspect was arrested, Stephanie Radisky, uh, ducked for cover when she said she heard around 20 gunshots during the incident.
And then, before I even had time to react, there were two shots and then just a barrage of shots, Radiski said.
It was just pop, pop, pop, pop.
And it was just so many so rapidly, and that part was terrifying too because I'm down on the ground, so I don't even know where they're coming from.
The suspect is still at the medical facility he was brought to after the incident where he is in stable condition.
Both the shooting in the bar and the officer involved shooting continued to be investigated.
I know the clip is ready now, but we kind of read everything that that it was going to say.
So what's going on with Kenosha?
right
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah because you know the other people they damn should never gonna use theirs and they
license.
They're not supposed to even have a weapon.
Right.
They're not even supposed to have a weapon, but they locked and loaded that part.
You know, it's now it's something that I was able to kind of send to you and Xavier.
What do you think is happening with some of our youth with the little clip that I sent you?
And I mean, I said that before.
I don't think
I don't think that they care.
I don't think that they have hope.
I don't think that they think about a future and I don't think that the enough People are talking to them about a future outside of you know, and they come up as kids like small ones in In that culture like that
That's where the thing is there.
I mean, they're they're little kids now.
Probably they start private them at eight or nine years old if not sooner and they see these things.
Yep.
They see their parents fighting.
They see other kids robbing other kids.
They see all those things.
And as they get older, they're like, well, that's what I want to do.
That's where I am.
And there's people there.
There are people talking to them, but they're not saying the right things, right?
And they're grooming them to do what we saw, you know, robbing pillaging people, joining other little gangs and this and that.
You see the weapons they had.
They had weapons.
They had weapons.
No doubt some adult had to be involved in them gathering those weapons together Somebody had a hand in it.
Yeah, you know, so there are people there's a lot of people That have no hope or that aren't talking to their kids and doing the right things and spending the time You know what I mean?
I think that
One thing that I've always talked about and I actually got to hear Jazz Tyler tap in with Jazz Tyler 4 p.m.
to 7 p.m.
Central Standard Time here on the truth 101 7 fm is something that I think is One of the biggest problems that we face When the youth and the children are put around those positive people those people who are
trying to instill morals and values and and and respect
and
to just
Yeah,
and
Yeah,
How do we, you don't understand, get them out of these situations when, you know, we're trying to feed them truth.
We're trying to feed them things that will help them become a productive.
citizen, uh, get jobs, you know, all of the things that we know they're going to need, be able to get their education, all of these things, but then they get home and there's just no support.
There's no support for, and whenever you're trying to teach people, in my opinion, positive reinforcement is a must.
Yeah.
You gotta have some positive reinforcement.
So if you're telling them like, yeah, you addicted to these pills and you only 14 years old, you know, but now you go home and the first thing the PWK says, whether it's the mother or the father, biological, hey, you got any pills?
Hey, hey, hey, you know what I'm saying?
So
and get some more pills, which we try to get them to stop that and don't be around it.
So how do we get inside the home and help that?
Because if the sickness is inside the home, that whole home needs to be fumigated.
I'm just
yeah
in order to make sure that we get this out and then just we also remember that even though they may bomb the house with uh extermination chemicals or whatnot that's not the only thing they're gonna do they're gonna come back again
And they got to go in and do, you know, the follow up, the treatments, the actual treatments, and it takes treatment.
So even after you end up letting off whatever fumes or chemicals that you have to, to try to exterminate whatever may be upstairs, downstairs in the basement, wherever the case may be, then it takes treatments after that.
So it's like, we can't look at it as a one and done.
Right.
Because some of these people are.
have become resisted to the spray.
you
an
Don't take the time to spend and let me tell you some moms and dads I'm preaching to the choir right here because I'm talking to our audience but You know, even if that child is your grandchild or your great-grandchild or whatever it is Or you know, maybe it's your cousin's kid or somebody they just if it's a kid in your sphere and You can just take a few minutes every once in a while to spend with them
Kids
Y'all ain't, you ain't even gotta go spend no money.
Y'all could walk down the street and just have a conversation.
Y'all could sit on the porch and have a conversation.
They just wanna be around you.
That's it.
And know that somebody cares.
Somebody's taking a minute out.
You know, you may not have
long.
now.
Right.
You know what I'm saying.
So
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Community, this is again, this is where community usually comes in to try to help.
And I guess, how do we deal with the defiant?
People with kids because parents I think will be more open and receptive to be like yes because I need some help I need some help either it's a father raising his children alone or a mother raising her children alone you feel I'm saying and Sometimes it is both which is obviously a great thing when it's healthy It is not healthy to have both when it's some sickness involved
So some people be like well, that's why the father me.
That's why that's why been a hold up.
We they have to want help themselves and they have to realize that their situation isn't healthy, right?
Mm-hmm my thing with it is Try and get in where you fit in and do what you can do if what you can do is provide a vehicle
Or something for those parents to connect with their children,
Maybe you have you know some Art stuff that you know appeals to someone the age of their child, right?
Maybe a coloring book, you know, my mom used to sing color with me on time That's all they want
So maybe you give them an extra, you had an extra at your office or extra somewhere or you saw it at the store and you said, I'm going to pick this up and get this for so and so.
You know, I do stuff like that all the time.
Don't y'all every once in a while home.
I know you do.
Yeah, you know, I'm going to get this for so and so.
Let me let me get this for so and so because they on your mind just because and that's an opportunity for them to connect with their children.
Yeah, you know.
We can only play as much of a role as they'll allow us to that and
Because it's it goes black to when I say that we want to try to be the village and if we see a little one doing something that we know.
is not safe or not healthy or they shouldn't be doing period and we try to address it.
We become the villains because some of those people will turn on you.
Yeah,
It was like, OK, well, I think now I think nowadays we have to change.
Maybe we need to change our approach because everybody's changed.
You understand what I'm saying?
So maybe now we just need to tell the pair.
Hey, they were grabbing the candy off the shelf.
You know, and if they go off or what at what this is my but at least you said something.
or
Yeah.
and be like,
I
okay,
I'm just letting you know what you're not going to do.
You're not listening.
We were judged and you're going to get judged too.
You don't get the soft road.
You're going to have to take the hard knocks of what's called life.
You don't, we don't get to pacify you.
You're going to be held accountable and you're going to have to make sure that your children and the people that you have around you, uh, have self accountability
The one thing I always told my son, if anybody going to tell you the truth about a situation, it's going to be me.
There you go.
And we do need to come with the honest truth with our people, you know, with our young people, especially so that when they get down the road of peace, they'll understand why, you know, I still get epiphanies to this day.
That's why mom told me not to do that.
Yeah,
Right.