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Rearranged.

Thursday, September 10th, 2026, even though it's not until tomorrow, it is the 25th anniversary of the terror attacks on September 11th.

I'm trying to figure out exactly how I want to approach that quarter century milestone.

It was a monumental moment in not just American history, but global world history.

So many things have changed.

You really can divide the world or at least the modern era into a couple of different eras.

You've got before COVID and then after COVID in which we are still in the post COVID era right now.

But then there was the world that was before September 11th and the world that was after.

And when I say the changes were overwhelming and dramatic, that is the understatement of the year.

So I do plan on tackling the issue and talking about it and those of you that are old enough to remember where you were.

It was one of those moments, wasn't it?

So we'll sort that out for tomorrow depends on how I feel when I wake up.

I might feel like going full blown conspiracy theory, just full nuts, a tin foil hat or or I might take a much more somber sympathetic.

Disciplined approach and talk about the facts and maybe the emotional impact of the September 11 So we'll sort that out for option one, please tomorrow.

I know which option you want Xavier.

I could go I've talked about so many September 11 over the years I have run the gamut as far as conspiracy theories and all of the details in the deaths and all of

So we'll figure that out tomorrow.

I reckon so there's some things I want to share with you today Trump wants to give you a $5,000 dividend if the Republicans maintain congressional control So he is reduced to bribing people.

So that's pretty cool I think that's gonna have an impact on some of you because I do know that money does move people to the polls There may be some point in American history

and American democracy where we just they find a loophole they find a way just to pay Americans to vote because that's the only way my opinion that we're going to get anywhere near 100% voter turnout because we don't want to change our elections for some reason to a weekend have no idea why we won't do that it's not like it's difficult states could do that states control the elections we can move our elections so I don't know make it a whole weekend

You have the Friday evening and the whole Saturday and Sunday to go and vote.

Why not?

Why it's got to be the first Tuesday after the first Monday.

Dumbest thing I've ever heard my entire life.

Or why don't we do this?

Make Election Day a paid holiday.

Everybody gets a federal holiday.

It's election day.

This is when the American people get to use their voices and they get to exercise this very fundamental premise of our great Republic where you get to select your leaders.

Everybody has the day off.

Still wouldn't necessarily reach 100% voter turnout, but I think he could help improve some things because a lot of folks very busy and they have to work and they can't vote.

And who knows what's going to happen with mail-in voting.

But Trump has been reduced to bribing folks.

So we'll talk about that at some point in time on today's program But I just had a real brief conversation with Homer and Bailey and apparently they're sensitive about their ages.

They never should let me know that That's a problem now.

I know I Have a legitimate question and no one has been able to provide me an answer and I have this legitimate question because

It isn't an issue for me and most people that I know.

I freely share my age.

I have no problem.

Anybody ask me.

I don't lie about it.

I don't change the subject.

I just, I'm proud of the years that I've lived.

I've learned a lot.

I've grown a lot.

I wouldn't want to be young ever ever again.

I really wouldn't because the lessons that you learn through growth and maturity are more priceless than your youth.

The saying is the youth is wasted on the young.

You don't even know what to do with your youth.

You just think you're going to be young forever.

You are not.

I don't even get offended when like younger people call me old.

Not at all.

I know some people get very angry.

They get like real super sensitive when somebody calls them old and I think to myself when this person just younger person than me calls me old and they think it's some kind of a Slur or a put down.

I'm thinking to myself I have gained an advantage that you may never see So I don't get offended by that, but here's what the legitimate question is and

I really would like an answer.

Maybe you can answer via the YouTube chat.

I suppose you could text your answer to 833-212-1017, but I have no idea where that text message goes.

It goes floating out somewhere in the ether.

But Xavier, you have a way to...

To read and to capture the text messages that go to a 3 3 2 1 2 1 0 1 7 So I may have to rely on you because before I get started with this program and it's really gonna be about Today's gonna be about privacy and how do you feel about your privacy?

Are you guarded about your privacy?

Are you a private person?

There are some individuals who?

As a part of their personality, they call themselves very private people.

They don't like to share a lot of things.

So I'm going to get into the details of that and just how much information that even us private people.

And I call myself private, but I blab on the air three hours a day, five days a week.

But when I'm not here, I'm just regular old Sherwin.

I just like to live my little quiet little life.

More private person for the most part.

I don't need to go to big events.

I don't need to be on stages.

I don't need to do all of that stuff Just leave me alone.

Let Sherwin do his thing sometimes I'm thotting around the city sometimes I'm doing hood rat things because I'm a normal regular person I want to have a private life as well, but what happens sometimes y'all show up at my house don't do that that warning shot fire, okay?

You show up at my house You guys know the story the lady that won the summer fest tickets here and then Wanted to give me the summer fest ticket that she won on 101 7th truth and wanted to personally deliver them to my house And here's what's crazy.

What was the MPS teacher?

Wonder why the damn kids can't learn the damn teachers or stalkers, but here's the question I Really wanted answers to this and not fellas don't you chime in I'm you don't need to chime in on this men are always trying to mansplain stuff

I don't need to hear from you.

Why are women reluctant to reveal their age?

Why is that?

Do you think that you look older than your chronological age?

What are you embarrassed about?

Why are you hiding that?

I'm legitimately curious.

I have no idea.

And when I asked this question, because I have no idea how Bailey is.

Bailey is a range of ages.

That's in my opinion could be pretty vast Because like when Bailey started in radio See I'll remember back in the day show and see we had the photograph indeed.

We did.

That's right We didn't have telephones.

We use a telegraph.

That's right.

What we did.

Yeah, she She ashes her cigar I Don't know how old she is and I asked her she got all meek.

Oh Yeah, I heard him talking about me

Oh, yeah, they think I didn't hear that okay My turn to be on air.

They're not on air until tomorrow.

I got the whole next three hours No, I'll leave him alone.

I ain't gonna mess with him, but I that did prompt something That question that I had when I was asking Bailey how old she is and it's typical

Women almost have any age it's almost like once they get out of their 20s now all of a sudden their birthdays or not the birthday is not a secret because some of y'all celebrate your birthday for a whole month That's why you will celebrate your birthday for a whole month But so you're proud of who you are.

You're proud of what you've done.

You're proud of your accomplishments Why not brag on those years like every year is Monumental is it not think about when you started a year that January 1st?

Maybe you're out New Year's Eve and you're speculating on the year to come

By the time you get through that entire calendar year, all 52 weeks, all four seasons, you never could have predicted.

You never could have predicted what happened in that year.

There has never been a year where I was like, oh, XYZ is going to happen.

This is going to happen.

Oh, I know what's going to happen this year.

Wrong.

Wrong.

Opportunities fall in your lap.

You meet incredible people.

You might change jobs.

You might change careers.

Uh, people might die.

You never know what's going to happen.

And these years, they build character.

If anything, I think your age is your character quotient.

I sometimes gotta know how old you are.

I might not wanna engage with you, because if I'm talking about stuff, and if I'm talking about things, and if I'm talking about the greatest decade of human history, you know, the 90s, I wanna know that I'm speaking to somebody that can at least somewhat relate.

Were you there, or did you just read about it?

Were you there or do you just like that era of music?

Were you there or those just the movies that you prefer from that decade?

You know what?

I mean so ladies I'm very curious man.

I don't need to hear from you because I don't know if we're shy About telling our ages and so this is a personal opinion.

I'm gonna give and I'm gonna give you that disclaimer Oh speaking of disclaimers does my disclaimer play before my show starts every day.

Okay good And just because I can't relate to this it doesn't

Say anything negative About men that don't want to share their age But this is a sure one opinion a man that is reluctant to share his age to me That's kind of feminine because I just relate that to women Women don't want to share their age.

Are you afraid of getting older?

And if you're afraid of getting older, why is that now?

I do know whether people admit it or not there is an association With youth and beauty

whether people want to admit it or not more Profoundly felt amongst the female species They don't want to get old They'll do the makeup and they'll do the Botox thing and they'll they'll do so many things to appear young and they'll dye their hair at the front not all women some of y'all are going full-blown gray God bless you if you do that But there is this

competition to defeat or slow father time from taking its effect and Women will tell you if you ask them When they were younger they were getting so much attention.

It was unwanted attention They would leave the house and guys would just be always hitting on them and it was annoying They had to beat these guys off with

Pause with a stick that there's so much attention every time they went out they got attention But then as they get older it gets a little bit quieter and some women relish the quiet and the the Lower amounts of attention that they get as they get older But there are some women especially those that need attention and crave attention for their self-esteem They realize how quiet it gets when you cross that threshold of 35 when you cross that threshold of 40 or 45 I'm not saying that you don't still get approached and talk to

But it ain't like it was and you begin to take it for granted.

Right.

So ladies, I'm very curious and maybe we can just get an answer to this question and I can move on with my life and I can move on with my show.

But I've never gotten an answer to the reason why women find it almost like policy to not reveal their age or if I ask because I'm going to ask you.

Because you can ask me that question.

Hi, Sherwin.

How old are you?

I'm 51 years old.

I was born March 6 1975 at 1137 a.m.

And my mother said it was damn cold outside Any any other demographic information you need I'll share it But I will ask a woman how old she is Not to judge her just so I can place her in a generation because then it makes it easier for me to engage her in conversation like if she's an 80s baby

I know what I can talk about.

She's a 70s baby.

I know what I can talk about if she's a 60s baby.

Mostly I'm uninterested, but I know what I can talk about with.

You know what I mean?

It just it helps me help me help you.

Just want to know why you guys don't.

Did you think you'd be in a different place or a different space at this age?

Are you not proud of it?

I'm just curious.

There's got to be some reason because it's.

Very common thing in fact they almost shame us for asking it's like if I ask you Then I am disrespecting you as a lady a lady never tells her age well then stop being a lady then or some of you say you're ladies and Not really okay, so hopefully I get an answer to the question I wonder if we could have phrased that in a poll question.

No, we're gonna our poll is said I'm

I am curious about your privacy concerns because I'm going to reveal today.

I'm going to reveal a little bit, just a little bit of what companies, businesses, corporations, internet service providers, your browser, Google, or you might use Linux or whatever browser you use.

I'm going to reveal to you just the taste of what they know about us.

And as I was going through this information, I was blown away.

It's so bad, ladies and gentlemen, I'm going to get to the details of it in a little bit.

It made me want to stop using the internet.

But then I realized the information that I need is on the internet.

I can't.

I can't stop using the internet.

What's my alternative?

The library can't go to the library because that's where you blacks are having your hip hop concerts.

You guys know they had a hip hop concert last weekend.

And actually it was mostly white, too, which I didn't even touch that story because it was embarrassing because.

A library must be kryptonite to black people because first of all the hip-hop that was featured there were mostly black artists There was some racially ambiguous people there too.

Not really sure what DJ Mondo and his brother are not really sure what they are, but God bless them But I would think like oh, this is gonna be an excellent opportunity to get more African-American youth or just young people in general like under the age of 25 Into the library utilizing the services because when I told you all the previous week

that we spend something like thirty two thirty three million dollars on the library that's more money than we spend on like public works that's more money than we spend on like thirty or forty different city departments we really invest in our libraries in the city and when a library closes it's usually it's a tragedy because there are people in that surrounding neighborhood they rely on those services but when I saw the pictures and the videos of all those white people

So we can't even throw a damn hip-hop concert in a library and expect black people to go to the damn library But what do you think is in the library the FBI the CIA the police you wouldn't they're gonna check for warrants So that there's a place for books.

It was too early It was a six o'clock

6 30.

Yeah, the hooligans don't come out until about 10 10 or 11.

There's some that aren't hooligans

But whatever ladies why are you afraid to tell your age cuz here's the thing when you say some stuff like

Well, why don't you guess my age?

I'm gonna hurt your feelings.

You wanna play games?

I'm gonna hurt you.

Let's say this woman is 37.

Hi, woman.

I'm Sherwin.

I'm 51 years old.

What's your name and how old are you?

Yes.

My name is Sally Sue.

Guess my age.

You're 71 years old, Sally Sue.

Why did you just tell me then?

I'm playing a game with you why it's got to be a game anybody do you want me to say something stupid like girl you look 14 oh My god, thank you when you tell a woman That she looks younger and we were lying.

We know how old you are most of the time We know the range, but we it's so weird.

It's almost pedophilia

the younger we say she is the happier she gets like the closer to girlhood we think she is the more that's a compliment to her hold on sister that ain't cool she's 34 years old and we girl you look illegal oh my god i do i look like statutory rape that's why i'm wearing purple i call it statutory grape take a break come back

I'm gonna rant.

I'm gonna rave.

I'm gonna complain.

I'm gonna be word and moan.

I'm gonna do all them things today.

No more corned beef though.

Corned beef I've had two days in a row.

I'm good on the corned beef.

So no more eating on air.

I watched that one too Xavier.

I shoved that damn sandwich in my face.

I need to be more mindful of how I look when I eat.

You're a hungry man.

I was.

We're listening to apparently a hungry man the truth with Sherwin Hughes the question is Why are women so bashful when it comes to sharing their chronological age?

Hopefully we get an answer on the other side.

I'll be right back

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It ain't nothing but a number.

That is the excuse to justify an insane age gap between two people.

The person that appreciates and that likes and that loves and that seeks, sometimes they fetishize an age gap.

That's when they're the ones that say, oh, it's just a number.

It's a real important one.

It's very

Important like 18 is for a bunch of different reasons.

It separates like jail time from not jail time It determines whether you can vote sign a contract get a lease get a loan Go into the military fight and die for your country 21 another big number That means you can destroy your body with alcohol and it's it's a fun time, but

21 is a very important age, so age is more than just the number.

There's legal requirements.

I'll tell you what age is such a number that also has commercial consequences as well.

I can point to a couple of places.

Maybe they're open right now.

Certainly places that used to exist in the city of Milwaukee where you had to be 25 to get in.

You had to be 30.

They weren't just checking your identification to see if you were of legal drinking age in that state or territory.

You had.

So imagine being 24 years old and a mother or 24 years old and you have your father.

I'm sorry, you're too young to get into this place and have a drink here.

30 and up is even crazy.

So age is extremely important 30 and up is wild do we believe that?

Well somebody believes it The older the person is The less likely they are to Act disorderly when they've been drinking I have seen 90 year old people act disorderly after a couple of shots of Jackie Daniels

Jackie Daniels is disgusting by the way really any brown liquor for the most part is gross Hennessy any kind of a cognac foul Absolutely foul.

You know what else is falling.

I know this gets a lot of people angry because it's become cultural Tequila is just it's dreadful it it tastes like something You shouldn't drink

Those of you that remember here here.

I am again referring to age There were these green stickers that we would put and that people would put that adults would put on things that were poisonous His name was mr. Yuck mouth you guys remember that I think that's what his name was It was a green sticker with a with a face with his tongue sticking out.

Mr. Was that his name mr. Yuck mom?

You're probably too young Xavier now.

I need to Google this Tequila tastes like something the human beings Shouldn't drink

Now shout out to the Mexicans the Mexicans clearly That's for them.

I suppose it's gross Hate it can't stand it's nasty, but imagine being 29 years old and trying to get into a bar that is 30 and up and Then oh, I'm sorry come back next year You're a year too young because you're 29 even like oh, I have I have children.

I had to get a babysitter

To come to this nightclub and then the bouncer says sorry You shouldn't have gotten a babysitter because you're 29 years old and this place is 30 and up because when people are 30 they stopped fighting and shooting and bars and nightclubs I don't know about that.

I'm not entirely sure if that's the case So here's what I'm gonna do I'm gonna go and check the YouTube chat and if you don't know how to get there is very simple go to youtube.com or

Open up your YouTube app from your smartphone tablet Laptop your desktop computer YouTube app search one oh one seven the truth I Mean I would say to subscribe but people are not subscribing to our YouTube channel anymore So we'll I know that there's been some motivation for us to get to 9,000 subscribers We're never gonna get I just I hate to admit that we've been at

8,250 subscribers for five months.

So we're done getting subscribers.

So don't subscribe But please answer the question why are women so sensitive about their age?

What is it?

And is it like who's putting that pressure on you?

Is it men because it certainly isn't me.

Is it other women?

No one stays young unless you die there So why not celebrate every year?

Past youth unless unless unless you're one of these kind of people that I'm about to describe And these people are insufferable if you ask me, you know those that peaked in high school Like that's where life was the pinnacle in high school.

I don't know prom king homecoming king like that was the best their life ever could be because high school

I tell my friends now that if they're referring to any glory, we're middle-aged, we're older than middle-aged now, people I grew up with.

But if you're still referring to something that happened in high school as like the glorious time, like what have you done in the 30 plus years you've been out?

You've been alive two and a half times as long.

As the age you were when you were in high school like all my fun stuff has had and I had some fun in high school But it was it was kid fun.

It was what I thought fun was at the time No, no, no real fun doesn't really happen till you're like 40 until you can afford fun Fun takes more money than you had in your teens.

You know what?

I mean you weren't Doing all sorts of wonderful and fancy and extravagant things even when you were young you

You had the taste of a child.

My taste didn't really start to mature until I got older, till I started to explore the world.

But why are women shy about their age?

Aaron, as him says, shout out to the pretty women showing their gray hair.

God admit, freaks me out a little bit.

Freeze me out when they have like that shock of gray hair.

I'm like, oh grandma Sometimes it could be

hot.

No.

Uh-uh.

Yeah.

No Oh, you don't like uh, I guess that's your age group.

I didn't say you don't like a nice Krueger Is it a Krueger?

Yeah You never heard of the term No a Krueger like isn't Freddy.

No a Krueger is a older woman that likes to

Krueger

Yeah, Krueger

You said Kruger.

Oh, what difference?

Trust me.

No, a Kruger can look.

And have not gray hair.

Oh, yes.

Reserve the gray hair for me.

That's me, men.

I just I'm not a fan.

It's not sexy to me.

I hate to admit that.

Maybe that's why women want to lie about their age, because if I see a woman is like screwing and her hair is all salt and peppery.

No, thank you.

It's salt and peppery and done up.

No, put on a bonnet.

Kids I can't do it.

I'm sorry.

I like what I like.

I can't do the gray That's that's not that's like oh ma'am.

Oh You are a sophisticated lady ma'am.

Shall I shall I get that free?

Oh, no, no, no, no, no, I'll carry that for you But sure when it's just my purse.

No, no, no, I don't want you to hurt your back Don't please ma'am.

Don't break a hip when I see gray hair like ma'am.

You shouldn't be walking Can I get you a wheelchair?

No, no, stop everybody stop this lady needs help walking

Sure when I'm a marathon trained athlete, but ma'am your your gray hair No, please I don't want you to oh Not a call.

Why don't we do this take a break come back?

Trying to figure out why women are So shy when it comes to revealing their age or do y'all just want to be stuck at 25 Why would you want to be stuck at 25 because when you were 25 you're getting played by everybody like everybody was playing you everybody was lying to you

Thought you'd be married at 25.

Now you're 52.

Wondering what went wrong.

I'm not trying to be condescending.

I'm just curious as to why it's such a damn secret.

So I'm taking a break.

Come back.

We have Leslie on line one.

Leslie, you sit tight.

Maybe Leslie is going to finally put this whole thing to rest.

Because I just want to get it over with, put it behind me, and I'll never bring it up again.

I promise I'll never bring it up again.

I won't talk about it for at least another couple of weeks if I can find out what it is about women wanting to hide mask and shield their age from view.

Oh, I know that breaks your heart.

You know, you got to sign up on a website and you have that drop down menu.

You got to select your age and you got to scroll because like the drop down menu might start at like 2005.

You're like, damn.

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Stephanie says, I'm not ashamed of my age.

I celebrate every year and will continue as long as God is willing.

Love that Stephanie.

I love it 1026 is her birthday.

But you know what's crazy?

She didn't tell her age We know when your birthday is how old you gonna be Stephanie unless you said it later on in the chat She said I'm not ashamed of my age.

I celebrate every big year will continue as long as God is willing hashtag 1026 it's coming Oh 1026 or use a Scorpio.

Come on.

I love me a Scorpio.

Y'all know that

Let's talk to hi Leslie.

Thank you for holding.

How are you?

I'm doing good.

How are you sure?

I'm doing wonderful.

Can you finally put this to rest, please?

Why do women shield mask and are reluctant to reveal their age?

Well, I think because women everything they do revolves around how a man view them and

especially nowadays when you tell your age and um

women

feel that because men nowadays I hear it more now they say that women over 35 is has been washed washed up so they don't like saying their age because men view women as they age as yuck like yeah I mean

You kind of just said a whole lot of different things yourself when you was speaking like when you said that you don't like women with mingle gray hair But that's

the thing that's my opinion who cares what I think there's so many men that love that and if you earn that gray hair You've worked your whole life.

You put a little money away.

You got that nice house You got that promotion you got that corner office.

You earn that gray hair

Who cares what a man thinks?

And that's what's crazy because modern women, y'all really don't care what we think.

You live your lives outside of the beliefs of men.

When it comes to certain things, though, y'all start listening to us again.

I don't know what it is about the age thing, though.

Leslie.

Well, we still want to be looked at as desirable.

And if we say our age, which I don't have a problem saying my age, how old are you three years old?

All right.

63 and I look good for 63.

I know you do.

So I don't have a problem I don't have a problem at all saying now did I ever yes when I was approaching 40 I had a problem with you.

You got applause for being 60.

Look

how proud we are of you.

We love it.

That was because I was I had just got divorced and I was dating men that was younger.

So I didn't like saying my age, but now I don't have no problem with that.

I'm not dating younger, but women genuinely have a problem saying their age because of how society view them.

They put men on a pedestal when they age, especially with them able to pull women that's half their age.

While women on the other hand,

normally can't do that.

They might get a man that might want to hit it, whatever, but they can't keep them around even though the men are only keeping them around because it's a transaction.

But the reason why women don't like to say their edge because they feel like they're less desired by men once a man know that that woman is getting up in the age.

That's what I feel.

Thank you Leslie.

We appreciate your call and your honesty and I know you look good for 63 In fact, if I was the guest I say you ain't a day over 37

Okay, thank you, you know, we like to hear that

I know you do all right.

Have a good day.

You see how she lit up when I said she was 37

I Find it so perplexing and I'm just gonna have to be confused by this because this is never gonna be explained to me

If, either consciously or subconsciously, women may shield their age, not want to reveal their age because they believe, and maybe society does too, obviously, that an older woman is the less desirable she is by a man.

But then if, let's say she is desired by a man.

And then we approach this woman because she is desired and then you shoot us down.

So you want to be desired, but don't want what comes with being desired, which is being approached.

So you want the attention.

But when someone acts on the attention, we are we're perverts and we're stalkers and we're thirsty.

See there, this is.

That don't make no sense to me.

You want to be desired.

Look desirable even be at an age in which you believe your desire level is high.

But then when someone actually desires you they get shut down and you wonder why you can't find a good man because you told him to buzz off.

He was genuinely trying to get to know you and trying to go on a date with you.

You just wanted the attention.

And here's something else I got to push back on because.

Women sometimes when they get approached a lot they take men for granted and they talk about how easy we are Oh men are so easy and they'll brag about they can have a new man whenever they want They can meet a man whenever they want to but none of those men want to marry you ain't that wild?

You can meet you can have sex with whoever you want like that's not a flex and Please don't get us into body count because a woman that has a high body count takes almost no effort You know what a man has to do to get laid nowadays

Who we have to be The money we have to have we've got to be charming.

We got to have a sense of humor We have to be competitive amongst all other men men can't just go to the grocery store and go bust one We that's not at all how that works.

So when a woman's like, oh, I don't care about body count That's look no effort whatsoever because basically most men you've met or boys you've met since you were like I don't know 13 I've been trying to sleep with you like constantly that's gotta be annoying

I'd be annoyed by it if every time I left the house

well not all of annoyed is the right word like ladies not today some women like it

like being approached or

yeah and then you know all depends on the man

that's approaching them

and the way he talks to them some men are very disgusting vile and smell bad

if you look good enough it doesn't even matter what you say

Yeah, if you look good enough If she let me put it this way not it not if you look good enough if she is attracted to you You never got to spend any money.

You don't got to take her on no fancy date.

She'll have a standard For men that she doesn't really desire but for the man that she craves and that she lusts for Dude can be mean to her not respect her not call her back.

He doesn't have to spend a pet.

She'll buy dinner

If she likes him enough, he didn't even have to lie to her.

She lied to herself.

She lied to her friends.

It's the craziest thing ever.

I mean, men, I suppose we could be the same way, but who we have to be to even be considered?

Assuming you're not paying a prostitute, but out in the dating world, if a guy goes out on a Friday night, like his chances of meeting a woman and being involved with her intimately.

In any of the upcoming weeks is diminished a woman can go to a Barbie there for 10 minutes.

She's sitting there by herself a guy buys her a drink She's attracted to them.

She'll take them home What happened to those days when women used to take men home that used to happen like in I can't speak for other cities, but It still happens Okay, maybe I'm aging out of that.

Yeah, women nowadays have but it's crazy cuz now women my age have their own houses to take us to

Yeah, I mean the dating scene it's a it's a lot of work.

It's almost a full-time job Especially if you juggling multiple women

We used to so a whole bunch of us when Tom bear first got elected shout out to Tom bear because he hired a Lot of younger black men so most of us that worked in the Department of Administration a lot of black men were all under 30

And city hall is basically on Water Street.

I was back when Water Street was fun and not dangerous and not militarily occupied.

So most days of the week, we would go out to Happy Hour or we'd all have a plan for the weekend.

We'd meet up, you know, Friday after work and one person may drive.

I pick everybody else up or if we're all meeting at one place, we'll hop in somebody's car, we'll go to Milwaukee Street and we'll go, you know, to Brady Street or wherever.

And if the person, this is a risk that we used to have to take, it was a calculated risk, right?

So if we all hop in one, my guy Chris had a land cruiser, so we all could fit in the land cruiser.

And back then a land cruiser was a big deal, it's a nice car.

But if Chris met somebody, right, and he drove, we'd be stranded.

And that was always the risk that we would run.

And so then we decided to have like this new program.

So if Paul drove and Paul met a woman and Paul is leaving with that one because once you meet somebody that wants to leave with you, what are you staying at the club for?

What are you hanging out with us for?

Go handle your business.

But then what we would do is if we meet somebody and we drove, we would give our keys to somebody else in the group and let them take everybody home.

And then we would just figure out how to get our car later.

I don't really, I don't know if people do that anymore.

Take a break, come back.

Do I have the damn the answer my question I guess Leslie kind of answer but her old ass is 63 Oh Leslie, I love you.

I'm just kidding.

I bet she's beautiful for 63.

I bet she don't look a day over 62 Why are people over here?

Oh sure when you're acting like you're young no the hell I'm not You can't remark on my gray beard.

I'm clearly not trying to hide.

I love my beer.

I love it

I'm manicured and he's a little trimming now.

But this is like I earned this and not to mention they like it.

Yeah.

All ages.

Sure.

I'm starting getting a little gray in there.

Wait to rock

though.

Celebrate it.

My guy told me he was like, oh, you know, sure.

I was getting ready to go and I put a little stuff in my beard.

I'm like, why would you do that?

Come on.

Don't do that.

Don't don't cop out, fellas.

Let that great come through to change your life.

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Hands down.

And I'll die on this hill.

Stevie Wonder.

By far and away.

Single most talented.

Writer, producer, arranger, and performer of American music in the history of human ears.

Better than Prince?

Yes, because I know that Prince would say he was heavily influenced by Stevie Wonder.

Stevie Wonder's music inspired generations and genres alike.

Disco, pop, rap, probably rock music.

And he's blind!

He couldn't even see.

I bet he was mad when he found out he was black.

Why would you tell me that?

I didn't even know.

Now I gotta be all civil rightsy.

You know the happy birthday song that black people sing?

And when we sing it, the whites are baffled.

Happy birthday to you.

Happy birthday to you.

Happy birthday.

So I'm y'all are clapping right now.

That's not a take on the original happy birthday song That was a song that Stevie Wonder wrote arranged and produced to celebrate Dr. King's birthday and because of that song and its popularity and its cultural appeal Dr. Martin Luther King's birthday became a national holiday signed by the most

Unlikely of American presidents, Ronald Reagan himself, not even Ronald Reagan could deny the importance of.

The life and the legacy and the accomplishments of Dr. King Stevie Wonder wrote a damn song and created a national holiday show.

Prince wrote a lot of songs, too.

I don't know if they encourage any national holidays.

I think Prince did a lot for like the.

the color of purple he also did a lot for androgyny too because in 1970s prince used to wear panties and high heels and nobody even cared nobody even it was the weirdest thing ever in the 1970s you could be transgender even in the 1980s here's what i don't understand boy george was very much transgender and it it didn't even matter like we would remark on it a little bit but boy oh boy do we love his music if there was a transgender

Performer now they would have there'd be more more cultural opposition to them than there was back when people were really really mean in the 1980s I can't say a good 30 35% of the words that we used to use routinely in the 1980s We used to say really naughty slurs to people we did but it was almost like the world was more accepting though We were politically incorrect

You knew where people stood like now people lie to you the lie in your face.

They'll be nice to you.

They'll be sweet to you and literally hate your guts Back then you knew But boy George was a little he was a man But he looked David Bowie had a whole character That was androgynous and nobody even I Don't know if you guys are familiar.

Well, if you're old enough age again being brought up

There was a Popular music in the 1980s it kind of died out by the By the early 90s of the mid 90s it was certainly gone because then grunge took over and Seattle music and Pearl Jam and all that other stuff was becoming popular, but there were these like glam rock bands Poison was one rat was another motley crew was one twisted sister was one

These were men, long haired men that wore full, full women's makeup and wore heels and platform shoes and skin tight outfit.

They literally were in drag.

And this was some of the most popular rock and roll pop music at the time.

Brett Michaels, the front man for poison would wear lipstick and mascara.

And what's the difference between blush and rouge?

Is there a difference?

I don't know.

But whatever.

Full women's makeup and and people loved it.

Men were going to the concerts.

Women were going to the concerts.

Someone needs to do a study on that because now if such a group existed, there'd be protests and parents would ban their children.

From listening to cross dressing drag queen rock and roll superstars and it was it was a whole decade worth of white men Dressing up as women and performing power ballads.

That's just Some things just make no sense to me, but also bringing back the age question

You have to be old enough to actually remember that so if I'm engaging with someone and helps me to know their age because I know then What things I can talk about I want to talk about things with people If they were there as opposed to oh, I saw a movie about that or oh my mom used to listen to that music That's not the same thing as talking to someone Who was actually there and can relate on much more of a personal level that we I think we got our answer Leslie answered the question

I'm still gonna ask Bailey tomorrow morning how old she is.

I'm gonna keep I'm asked Bailey every time I see her until I get the age out of her Put in the YouTube chat how old you think Bailey is just out of some curious who she gonna get mad Or she might be pleasantly surprised right what if she's dramatically What if she's older than what people are guessing then I would suppose she should keep it a secret Homer's just I Homer knew Jesus

How he gonna get mad to the truth with Sherwin Hughes on 101 7 fm where I am 51 years old We'll be back for hour 2 The

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Welcome to our three of the truth with Sherwin Hughes.

Talking about how our data's being breached and our privacy is not very private, but we can order things via Amazon.

You can order food and have it come to whatever location you're at.

If you have DoorDash, you can be at a friend's house.

And they'll bring your food to the friend's house.

You know what you can do?

You can DoorDash.

to somebody else's house.

Like if you like somebody a lot and you ask them if they're hungry and they say, yeah, I'm hungry, but you can't go out to eat with them and you don't want to be burdened with bringing them any food.

You can just door-dash food to their house and you pay for it.

That is a kind gesture or you can be like Mr. Mahdi that went way out of his way and went to McBob's yesterday.

Shout out to McBob's.

You got a pan of chicken wings got a Ruben for myself got a Ruben for Xavier Xavier had never had McBob's before had never had a Ruben before he rated it at 8.5 I think that's a little low, but I'm slightly biased All this convenience that we have in the world it does come at a cost when asked Before I ask a question, let me answer one

Curly Q wants to know who reported that she said go with God.

I'm just wondering That girl in Florida made a bunch of money Casey Anthony her psychologist Lindsay Clancy thought that that was the expectation because of the something about Catholicism and what they think suicide is whatever so she thought her she was doing her kids a favor

to send them with God.

She admitted that she said that you're a depraved human being.

Shout out to that one lone juror.

I hope they write a book.

Apparently it was a man.

You know, it was nine women and three men.

And even two of the men.

Allowed themselves to be convinced by those nine women.

This should tell you something exceptionally frightening.

about a jury of our peers, of her peers, of somebody's peers, because I bet you that each and every one of those women can relate.

You have a whole thing trending online right now.

If I stand with Lindsay Cleance, I stand for murdering my kids.

If you are a man or a husband or a father and your child's mother, I don't care what her relationship is to you.

If she is supporting that woman, get custody of your kids.

Please.

Asked whether the comments could provide an option for appeal the defense attorney said He would rather not say an appeal means Clancy has to be found guilty first which Reddington Said he's he preferred didn't happen.

He also said the Clancy Doesn't have a mind set at the moment.

She just sits and listens as Hella Brun who was a forensic psychologist began talking about

mortal sin and Clancy's Catholicism.

Reddington could be seen throwing his pen down on the table.

Clancy and her parents did not appear to react to the comments as the drama of the mistrial motion unfolded.

The crowd in the courtroom began whispering.

This drew an ad admonition from an officer.

That court was still in session and that spectators should remain quiet a statement from a forensic psychologist regarding Catholicism's view of suicide led to a fiery courtroom moment just as the trial was coming to a close hella brun the forensic psychologist was speaking to his alleviation No evaluation that Clancy's case and her understanding of what is immoral he said

Clancy reported that she told each of her children to quote go with God while killing them and That was part of her expectation That she and the children would be together in heaven with God She was raised as a Catholic and I understand Catholic considerations That's not necessarily what happens the judge pause the testimony moments later

when Hellebrunn said he asked Clancy whether suicide was a, quote, mortal sin.

Reddington previously objected to an interjection that Catholic teachings of mortal sin when prosecution cross-examined Clancy's mother-in-law last week.

Judge William Sullivan also instructed jury members to strike it from the record in that instance.

I don't know if you can get more plainly and patently evil than that.

That is a depravity that just Why would you waste the money rehabilitating that person these are just my personal opinions I'm not a judge nor am I on the jury.

Oh, I'd love to be on that jury if I get called to jury duty Give me a case like that Let me get a good case where I can write a book or or or give me a case where I can come talk about it on the radio It's not even

That I believe that Lindsey Clancy is Satan reincarnate It's the millions of women that support her and that believe her and that in some kind of way Identify with her I am I'm terrified Because you don't know Who those women are right if you just meet somebody like there needs to be a new question that we ask fellas Do you support Lindsey Clancy or not if she does run?

Mean hit it first, but then don't don't you know what I mean don't commit because it don't get a pregnant But she'll abort after birth.

That's not how you do it.

You do it When you got the first trimester or something

I Don't know I've been doing a little independent study with all the white women that I know and I know you're scared because they're all damn your universal agreement

anything

Yeah, it's damn bad bro.

I'm here.

It's pretty crazy

black women will just

Verbally abuse emotionally abuse commit emotional incest and like physically abuse their kids, but they're gonna live You know what I mean?

They're gonna be screwed up They're probably gonna end up drinking too much smoking too much weed and have a bunch of problems with relationships, but they're alive They all think the husband did it for some reason they can think whatever they want because Why would you put that kind of responsibility on a woman that murdered her kids?

She clearly

Either didn't do it or the husband he didn't help her enough around the house is what it was and then she had to kill the kids I Told you that I need help with the laundry I'm gonna murder the kids now because they had a nanny a Nanny is a person It raises your kids because you don't like your kids and you pay them To do mommy stuff

Cuz mommy ain't sucks You pay a person you pay a nanny so you don't kill your kids if you have enough money You can pay someone to take on the inconvenience of Taking care of your kids So you don't So you don't kill them now if that's the case money will spend

If hiring a nanny is The roadmap To not murdering a baby Then I think the government should give grants Really we should consider maybe taxpayer funded nanny in because if The mom is like if I can't afford this nanny somebody's gonna sound socialist to me Well, call it whatever you want to is anti-murder

really it's more moral I think it's more it's a moral thing because you don't I mean it's very frustrating you know kids they're I don't know they don't sit down they don't listen you get tired of hey sit down I told you to sit down already well now come here now I gotta kill you you know I mean break your little baby neck I you should have sat down now go with God now you're gonna sit down for God I bet

Let's talk to Hey Al, how are you today?

I'm doing wonderful and you know a lot of people died in the name of God But here let's be a person nanny in the house died out of tinder health and probably will sleep it with a nanny But rather killing the kids wouldn't it just be easier just to put a gun to your head and blow blow your brains out

Why would you want to do that?

Well, why would you want to kill the kids the kids are innocent?

If you if you don't have enough to make the cut and you want to kill some kids You should have been on birth control or use your freaking mouth But if you were rather killing the kids that you supposed to be protected and then you want to use God for it Why not go out like a real OG and blow your freaking head off?

Wait out to her credit She did try to commit suicide

by jumping out of a second-story window.

I think she fell about five feet, sprained her ankle, hurt her back.

That's not high

enough.

That's not high enough.

She should have went higher.

Okay?

A lot of times when they do it and the suicide doesn't work the first time, it's because they really don't want to do it.

That's why when people call you and say, I'm gonna kill myself, call me in the morning and let me know how it goes.

Don't call my phone with that drama.

If you don't like your kids, instead of you killing your kids, kill your goddamn self.

Be a real G about it.

Stop playing with people.

And then the people who were back her, they're some sick animals anyway.

Those are the same people who say, yeah, I got pregnant by my brother.

And now we got this beautiful family.

And now the kids look like Alf and Jabba, the hood and ET.

Now they got funny shaped heads with big old ears and nose like Pinocchio.

Okay?

So let's keep it 100.

If you don't want the kids, don't have them.

Instead of killing the kids, kill yourself.

Why?

Why?

The kids are not asked to be born, okay?

And I'm not fit to sit here and be more like, oh, she had a problem.

She didn't have a problem opening her legs and letting that man out of her side, huh?

She didn't have no problem saying, give it to me, Daddy.

You decide to be the toilet, right?

All he was provided, that's fine.

If you don't want your kids and you want to kill your kids, damn it, kill yourself.

And I stand on it.

And anybody that's offended, be offended.

I don't give a damn.

But I want to ask you a question, please.

You brung up earlier that Cavalier Johnson gave himself a raise.

I thought that was very fried hard extra lemon pepperish.

During the time when MPS is effing up money and you decide to be a true color and slide, I mean slide, you're raised up in there.

What did you do profound to get that raise?

And we don't care about your mama having seven kids and couldn't pay her rent.

That is not your attachment to black people.

You don't even like black people, okay?

So I wanted to ask you, what did he do profiled to earn that rate?

Because you know every single time it's either my mama had a boy, I grew up in the house with jockeys.

We don't give a damn who you grew up with.

What are you doing for black people?

And to the black and until you politicians if you don't found your black people vote goddamn it Give their vote back and you take your bow naked to not near pigeon to doubt extra water in the knee ass to the white people And that's them and see what they can do for you And you can take it any way you want to before you brush your teeth and after you do number two and don't wash your hands How do you feel about that mr. Hughes?

Give it to me raw Talk to me from your soul.

We don't want to we don't want to spare no feelings hurt day feelings Talk to me like you drinking night training.

You want to cuss everybody out?

Well, you know, I can't do that.

I'm on broadcast radio So I got to be a little bit censored here's where so he didn't do anything to earn the raise one of the Justifications for the raise was it had been a while since the mayor had gotten a raise.

That's number one number two

If you want to hire a qualified city attorney and you want to have a qualified or you want qualified people to run for city attorney and if you want a qualified person to be chief of police by the Constitution, the mayor's got to be the highest paid executive.

So if you want to give any of those other people to raise because we do want good lawyers and good attorneys to run for city attorney, but they're not going to do it because the pay is not nearly enough because you can't make enough money.

as a city attorney, as you could a private practice attorney.

So the mayor has to get a raise because by law, he's got to be the highest paid city official to give everybody else underneath him a raise.

That's that's the

reason

he didn't.

It's nothing

about

earning it.

It's just if you want to give other positions adjusted for inflation, a little bit of a boost, then the mayor's got to get a raise automatically.

OK, and my last two

questions

is.

You knew that before you took it, right?

And do you feel since black people vote is not value, you think these so-called black politicians should be the bigger person and give that vote back?

I guess how do

you give a vote back other than they maybe they shouldn't run?

Are we saying that our black politicians shouldn't run for reelection because they're not doing enough for the black people?

You know, I think I think that's a good.

I think we should weaponize our vote and we tell these color who got their head in their ass.

Get your stuff and get the F out.

Give me three black.

I want I want names now because some are good.

Some are not.

So you know, are you think they're all that give me three of people that should run again?

Yeah, you can.

Give me the

names.

Okay.

I think Malayla Cox.

I don't think she should run again because I don't care about Brownsville.

Okay.

I don't care.

I care about what's on the other side of center going north.

I don't care about Brownsville and some Kenny Lattimore person who's on prime time PD and having the key to a city.

I think she should step down.

Okay, let me see.

Who's the guy who said his mama had an abortion?

Free with my body, my choice at all.

He's not around.

Mandela.

No, he ain't in office no

more.

Okay, good.

I think he's he sure he shouldn't be around.

And I think we should just go through there and just pick the ones who just sitting on their ass and sitting on their sugar honey iced tea box and that brown eye.

I think we just need a group of all new

people.

Thank you.

Well, we appreciate your comments areas and

I want to say thank you so much and do something kind for yourself Get you a tropical bird's ball and may every day be a good day And even though it's cloudy outside the sun is always shining on you and to the rest of the people who are offended f off Bye-bye.

Bye-bye So Malay-Lay and Mandela

I think we, and I appreciate Al's commentary.

Maybe we should get all new people, but here's the part that we oftentimes don't discuss.

Only certain people are even willing to represent us.

Only a certain kind of person will want to run for office and represent a community that might be overrun with illiteracy, poverty, crime.

Hopelessness joblessness etc etc only certain people see value in sacrificing who they are their family time their private life to represent people who Fundamentally hate government so when we say oh, we need all new people and we probably couldn't identify a number of folks who we would love love love to see an elected position I probably could give you a list of 10 or 15 people that I know most of you would vote for in a second.

Here's the thing.

They don't want to represent us

They'd rather die.

They don't want to have anything to do with being a county supervisor, an older person, a state senator, or a state assembly representative.

So we have to look at the available people that even want to do it.

And they're not going to be perfect, but you got to keep in mind the folks that we have currently occupying elected office, those are the ones that actually had some interest in wanting to represent us.

We are a miserable group of people.

We really are.

We're always angry.

Nothing is ever good enough.

There needs to be more done.

A lot of us don't even understand how government works.

So we put more responsibility on them that is even humanly or legally possible.

Who wants to do that?

It's too hard to represent people that don't understand the law, don't understand the Constitution, don't understand what an ordinance is, and doesn't even understand what most of our elected officials do.

And at the end of the day, black people in particular, you can't tell us what to do.

I think a lot of us need direction.

We need guidance.

I think we need something to strive for.

But if you try and tell us that, we'll be very angry at you because you're trying to tell us how to live our lives.

So it's almost like it's a catch 22.

So I would say this, if you are an elected position, get all you can out of it, meet a bunch of people, do a lot of networking, maybe get a raise or two, and then maybe get a good job in the private sector because actually representing people so where the people will follow your lead, damn near impossible.

Because we're all individuals and you can't tell an individual what to do.

We're not sheep Okay, fair enough

and the community is gonna suffer and burn when you leave a community to its own devices The foundation of that community becomes evident a Community that is well educated that has opportunity a community that has hope a lot of businesses a lot of entrepreneurship a lot of homeowners.

Oh easy to represent easy They don't want much you know how to do nothing for them, but take all of those things away

And then look at how incredibly miserable that community is, let alone representing them.

Take a break, come back, talk to Al from Sherman Park on the other side.

Donald Trump wants to pay every American $5,000 if the Republicans maintain control.

I have a sneaking suspicion that that's not going to happen, but at least he's offering $5,000.

I don't know a single person that couldn't use the extra five Gs.

You know, I mean, five Gs move the needle a little bit, you know, so.

I guess we'll see.

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I don't need an answer When are we gonna get sick of black owned restaurants serving the same goddamn menu you guys Lamb chops and macaroni and cheese.

That's really that's that's all we get, huh?

If there was a black-owned Italian restaurant, the food would be better than Italian food you get at an Italian restaurant.

Trying to tell you.

A black-owned Mexican restaurant would make better tacos.

No, we're not better than Salito Lindo.

I don't know why we serve the same.

It's not any diversity in the menu, you know what I mean?

All right, let's talk to...

Al from Sherman Park.

You're on 1017.

The truth

is sure with how you do it.

I'm good.

What's on your mind?

That Lindsay Clancy verdict.

But I'm quick retort on the soul food when we ask Chinese people to diversify their menu.

It is diverse, though.

Well, they have a lot of different things that they eat culturally.

There's

90 most Chinese restaurants have 90 different options Most blacks own soul food restaurants.

I don't know oxtails macaroni and cheese.

Maybe you get greens Maybe you get cornbread dressing.

It's not You can get Kung Pao chicken egg food young general souls chicken orange chicken

Jerk chicken chicken with rice chicken broccoli beef and broccoli pork rice pork egg foo young pork pork pork fried pork Porkity pork noodles drunken noodles Kung Pao noodles kung fu noodles all the noodles are white rice fried rice shrimp fried rice pork fried rice chicken fried rice beef fried rice Don't get me started Chinese people offer all sorts of food.

Well, we got lamb chops.

We ain't got no lamb chops today.

We got oxtails pork chops

You gotta say what the people like, I guess.

You know, I'm drawing a parallel here with Gloria Steinem dying the same week as this mistrial.

I think men are waking up.

This whole white liberal women abortion agenda has just gone too far.

And I do see the Lindsey Clancy groupies.

Hold on, hold on that.

So abortion is not, let's not make that a part of some.

White woman's agenda, if a woman does not want to carry a pregnancy to term, why would we ever make her?

Just realistically.

If a woman doesn't want to be a mother after the fact, why would we ever let her?

We, we, uh, not work in healthcare and I do understand there are medical reasons and we do abortions for medical reasons.

In my organization, we don't do them.

As elective because you just don't want the child is just a medical reason safety health and baby Those reasons not just because willy-nilly you made a mistake and you don't want it

Why not hold on if I go to a damn restaurant and I ordered some food and I don't like it Oh, I'm stuck with this meal even though I don't like it and let's say they brought the wrong damn food.

I'm well I ordered it.

I gotta eat it

The responsibility of bringing a human being into this world is is overwhelming and most people are not equipped for it.

And if they're not ready for the responsibility, why would we make them?

Because neglected and abused children turn out to like they murder people.

They're a drain on society, they fill up prisons, they do some of the most unspeakable acts and we ask them and do a deep dive into the psychology of the worst people.

They weren't loved, they were abused, they were neglected, their mother didn't want them.

If the mother knows ahead of time, because getting pregnant can be, it can be an accident.

Here's the thing if a woman gets pregnant don't worry She can get pregnant again next time if she does not want to have that baby if she's not ready If there's no person to help her take care of that baby if there's not a whole Community if there's not a whole village to help her raise that child.

She shouldn't have it period I stand on that because then

we get mad when

it wouldn't okay She has the baby.

Okay, and now the baby is out here terrorizing the damn community And we're happy with her decision to have that baby.

Come on now Think about it logically.

I think about it emotionally

I'm just saying our organization doesn't do it because we're a faith-based organization,

and you

can go to Planned Parenthood, but we direct you over to Planned Parenthood if you just want to electively get rid of your child.

However, the thing that offended me most about Lindsay Clancy is that she was a labor and delivery nurse, and

she very

well knows what postpartum depression is.

I think she uses it as an excuse.

But this woman to have taken the oath not to harm people.

And then went and killed her three babies and he had to methodically do that.

That was when I snapped on a whim.

That was thought out.

It was premeditated.

It was.

But I think her oath was to not harm other people's children to harm patients.

And she might have been good on that oath, but I don't think that oath necessarily applies to her.

There's a

bunch of

old some things we agree to on our jobs that we don't necessarily exercise in our personal and private lives Right

Again she's a sick woman.

I agree And I work and I think I told you the story my coworker kills his whole family at least he went to the mental institution

Well, that's what she is now she's she's there

Not out going to McDonald's and going to Chick-fil-A she's institutionalized these

groupies that are down with Lindsay up There's the same ones I guarantee would believe in abortion after the fact I'll leave it at that men get busy men stay righteous Watch these women out there.

They got men out there talking about maybe we should repeal the 19th a minute.

It won't happen.

It's a fantasy, but

Maybe women are the downfall of America.

You're a gay man.

Of course you're gonna say that you're not credible Of course, you're gonna say well and women are not the downfall.

They're the uplift I don't care how crazy they are.

I love them.

I need them.

I have to have them Thank you

And then you do still if you're a gay person you do want to meet other gay babies, I guess

Don't want people snuffed out and then the black Americans we'd be farther along in our population Probably advanced past Hispanics as we didn't snuff out our own kind

Yeah, but everybody shouldn't be a parent So we can't look at in turn.

Oh, let's just have more babies.

So we have more people and more people is more problem That means we need

more money for

education.

We need more money for resource.

We need more hospitals.

We need more.

No, no, no, that's because

Who do we expect black women should just carry the burden of just getting pregnant and having babies so we can have more population?

Al we don't know what to do with a goddamn population We have right now adding more on to that.

I promise she

was not

gonna help

And your body changes, and you get all moody and emotional, and you eat pickles and ice cream, and you're going to get fat, and your ankles are going to swell, and you're not going to look good in a swimsuit anymore.

And he's got damn stretch marks.

And you know what's going to happen to our boobs?

Our boobs are never going to look the same ever again.

I would totally empathize with a woman if she says, I'm not letting all that happen to me.

I like my boobs.

They're going to get all messed up.

If they don't want to have the baby.

They shouldn't.

You can't make somebody do something like that.

It's sad that a mother cat has more instincts than some human.

Okay.

Well, sometimes cats eat their babies.

Oh, too.

Thank you.

Why am I having this conversation with somebody that can't even, that doesn't even like the beauty of the woman.

Yeah, it is even like women.

That's crazy.

A gay black Republican.

That's all you really need right there.

When you said that, that just.

Yeah.

sums up everything

I wonder when a gay man Looks at a re like a beautiful.

There's some women that are so beautiful.

They transcend everything They're just even other women notice them right when a gay man sees a woman that beautiful What I what goes through his head is he like oh wow, she's cute or she's pretty like I say oh my god girl you look cute not always not always

When I see a beautiful woman, it's almost like spiritual.

It's like I just want to I just want to get close It's it calms me down even and especially don't let me lock eyes whether I have her smiling me Who is no feeling like it, but as a gay man, how do you not respond to the gaze of an exceptionally attractive woman?

I mean just Damn I'm glad I'm straight I am

Cause I love, I can't believe how much I love women.

Like I go to bed thinking about them.

Let me go to sleep to a pleasant memory in hopes that I have a dream about her.

And sometime man, listen.

Thank you, Zach.

Whoa.

I had a dream.

I texted her immediately.

Immediately when I woke up, I was like, did that, I was like, where were we last night?

What do we, cause I thought it actually happened.

She's like, oh, I was at home.

I said, no, you wouldn't.

It was doing tricks.

Oh, you be having dreams like that about women?

Oh, Lord, yes.

Yes.

It's so good.

I must be desensitized.

I'm not.

I'm telling you, as you might hit, like, once you get a certain age, it gets worse.

I

told you, I'm tired out.

I right now.

Oh, hell, I'm not.

I remind myself.

17 year old Sherwin knows just why it opened right now.