What up, y'all?
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Welcome back.
Welcome back to the Tap In.
It's your boy Ray Nitty, Philly Nien.
For Ms.
Jazzy Tyler, I'm one half of the lunch break when my homegirl, maybe, Shannon.
Speaking of Shannon, she in the chat, she said, when men are cheaters,
They cheat with whoever willing.
I don't agree with that Shannon.
That's a terrible, that's a terrible stat to be perpetuating out there.
I would say women.
You know what?
I ain't even gonna open that Pandora's box on the tap in.
E.Dot Wright says, the only white lie I want to hear is, I look beautiful when you know I look a mess.
Shannon said intent you step on my foot on accident.
I can forgive you easier and Have some understanding that you didn't try to hurt me But if you stomp on my foot because you wanted to cause me pain is different So and then E dot right says a person who may seem like a downgrade in appearance
Is it necessarily a downgrade in overall value?
That's why the ugly dudes be out here just slow playing homies chicks, man, because dudes be messing up and there's always some rock face dude.
I'm sorry, baby, you had to go through that.
Just let me know if you need $20 for your Apple Pay or something.
Says, why we don't just be putting it in anything available?
That's nasty, collector's rain said.
I agree collectors, right?
I agree.
I think that's a it's some man out here that is definitely just throwing whatever in the ground.
But not everybody, man.
Some fellas out here with decency still.
How long pause should someone wait before seeking clarity?
about the status of a relationship.
This is a good one.
How long should someone wait before seeking clarity about the status of a relationship?
That's, that's, that's a very interesting.
I would love to know what are your thoughts?
833-212-1017.
How long should one wait?
Chat, talk to me.
How long you waiting?
Before you making that call, like, hey, what are we?
What are we doing here?
You could call and text that phone number, y'all.
Don't hesitate.
Don't be shy.
We have some amazing callers today.
You could also catch us on YouTube if you want to see, you know, some chocolate melanin.
You know what I'm saying?
Just hit the YouTube.
You feel what I'm talking
about?
Bruh.
You feel what I'm
saying?
Gonna borrow some of
that.
Hey, don't be no hater now, I was like.
Big chocolate out here, man.
Real big chocolate out here, man.
You feel what I'm saying?
Straight up, your girlfriend's boyfriend.
Straight up.
What Trey say?
Let me stay focused before my wife call in next.
Be like, all right, you getting too comfortable over there on the radio.
You gonna be chained to the bed.
How long are we waiting before we get clarity, y'all?
You dating somebody?
Talking stage, what does that look like?
How many dates are you going on?
Ladies, how many meals are you accepting?
Before, you know, it's time to be like, all right, where are we going with this?
And I also think, oh gosh.
Milwaukee Amanda, my wife said, I just hopped in.
What we talking about?
How much I love you, baby?
How much I love you?
That's what we talking about.
That and that only.
Keisha called up here talking slick to me, baby.
And I was just telling them if they wanted to see some chocolate, they could come check it.
But anyway, the question is, how long should someone wait?
Before seeking clarity about the status of a relationship She's wife here must have been my ears ringing Ah How long we waiting so low key um since my wife is in the chat I Didn't waste no time Got to make you mine.
I got to have it
I feel like it was, we probably talked maybe a week, maybe.
She'll be like nah, hell nah.
How long was it brams?
Two weeks before it was official?
She'll respond soon.
But how long y'all waiting?
You going on?
I was spending money quick too.
Was buying her, you know digital fans.
We was young too.
I Had just got some my taxes back.
I pulled up to the crib with all the money spread out on the seat like I was doing something Like I was doing something special Like boy put that little three thousand dollars up.
Ain't no money How long you waiting
Somebody said, Meach says six weeks, four months.
Collector's reign said he wasn't four months before making Jesus.
He said most relationships don't even last three months.
Four months just.
So what are you doing in that four months, though?
Like, is you trying to, you know, sample the merchandise or you just like, you know.
Are you taking the car out for a spin?
Or are you just going to the dealership and, you know, say, I really like this guy?
Or are you trying to get in it?
Or are you getting in it and taking it around the block?
Like, what, four months seem a little bit, but I'm interested to know how old Collector's Rain is, because I feel like the younger generation, they got this weird thing that they do in relationships where they don't even necessarily really
make things official, they just kind of are.
You know, they don't, they don't speak on it.
I feel like that's what happened to me.
You see, you young, is that?
And then it'd be like, oh well, it wasn't like he was my boyfriend anyway, or we weren't together anyway, so.
It's like, oh, I think from what nieces and nephews have said is like, the younger generation don't get too caught up in titles, official titles.
of relationship.
And I wonder how that works.
How does that work?
How does that work?
She said, nah, it was about a month before we made it official by saying it out loud.
But basically, after two weeks, we were always together.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
It was all after two weeks.
DJ Meese said, payments due after three months, they gonna come repo that more.
After three months, me said, it's time.
It's time after three months.
So yeah, I just feel like four months seems like a long time.
You obviously probably dating other people in that four months, right?
Is that the only person that you're talking to in four months?
Because obviously, we're not talking about somebody you officially with.
This is just somebody that you hanging with.
And it's like, how long do you wait before you ask for clarity?
Like, yo, what are we?
Some people say six weeks, four months.
Misha just saying, man, listen.
But Misha like, we ain't never going to be a thing.
You hear me?
But yeah, how long?
How long are you waiting?
Two days.
two months and you got some women that's like, okay, I feel like the more seasoned women, I'm not gonna say older or elder or whatever, right?
The more experienced women who have been here and been through enough relationships probably is what I will say.
From the conversations that you see in groups and podcasts, it's not like they tied them in and they don't got time to play.
Like 30 and up 35 and up they not I'll even say 28 because they say women mature a little bit earlier than men But I feel like around that 30 year age they ain't too much playing games with with fellas they they looking for something they've had their fun they've been outside Chat going kind of crazy.
What's going on here unofficial titles will have you in your feelings and that's what's wrong with these
This generation they all in a feelings because they got a bunch of unofficial titles They got a bunch of unofficial titles going around and and they get in a feelings when somebody be like well, you know, we ain't together so I could kick it with her Right after I kick it with you.
It takes months for the facade to fade.
So yeah, three to four months
I get it, yeah.
And when you say, I'm assuming this person is talking about the honeymoon stage, right?
When you still holding hands all the time, she's still putting her leg on your leg.
Y'all, y'all like.
You
better not stop doing that.
What?
You know, sometimes you ain't just holding hands 100% of the time.
Like, you go to a restaurant and y'all sit next to each other, not across from each other.
You know what I mean?
That's super honeymoon.
They're like, I want to sit next to you.
Like, man, scoot over so I could get at these ribs, man.
Go sit on the other side.
Social media and the internet has ruined relationships.
100%.
100%.
Everybody want to show the highlight reel.
Everybody wants the, you know, fancy, whatever.
Everything got to be big for the gram.
I can see a world where women, younger women can start treating first dates as if it's like a engagement proposal.
It was like, you taking me out on the first date?
I need to have balloons, I need to have this, I need to have that.
I can see that happening somewhat in this generation.
It's like, when did gender reveals become a thing?
When did that become a thing you want the gender revealed and a baby shower?
You said 2022 after two babies after two babies a gender reveal I'm like, why do I matter just give them the stuff from the last baby?
What are we talking about?
No titles no rules no boundaries is how people end up with hurt feelings.
Yep And that was from Shannon
Shannon said that.
Wow.
Shannon, I don't know if Shannon, Shannon seemed like she, she don't like rules.
Bitch, you a rule breaker.
How long y'all waiting?
How long y'all waiting?
I've heard some people say they waited years before they've talked to somebody for years before making it official.
Was I use that you've done that break bro.
All right, we're gonna go to break We're gonna go to break y'all Zach has waited years to get to this break.
So don't go anywhere You will listen it to the tap in on truth 101.7 FM What up y'all what up y'all
You are now back listening to The Tap In with Jazz Tyler.
Every weekday, y'all, from 4 to 7 p.m., make sure you tune in to The Tap In.
On the Truth 101.7 FM, I'm your boy Ray Nitty filling in for my homegirl, Jazz.
Get well, Jazz.
I'm just one half of the lunch break.
It's kind of like the dinner menu tonight.
What we serving tonight?
We got some more stuff in the chat.
Let me go see.
Meach said, some titles include Bay, My Little Yeah Yeah, Girlfriend, Fiance, Wife, Collector's Ray said, can folks be mature enough to wait for the official title is the real question.
Man, some women might feel like you just stalling them out.
long enough.
What's long enough?
And I don't know if you immature because you like I ain't trying to be waiting forever.
You know, I was like, OK, if that's what you that's what you want, that's cool.
But, you know, I got a I got a timeline.
Lavender Sterling said seasoned women usually know what they want.
and can spot the red flags early so it's over before it gets started with a lot of men.
A business meeting, first date, asking all the hard questions.
I could believe that.
Shannon says Zach went right to break when the seat got hot.
He did say, go to break!
What's our last question?
Oh, what are your relationship non-negotiables?
What are your relationship non-negotiables?
833-212-1017 is the number to call 833-212-1017 is the number to call.
You could also text that number and we will read your text messages.
We ain't getting no text messages today.
What are your relationship non-negotiables Chapman?
Collectors may say baby take your time baby.
Take your time.
What's the rush?
Damn mutt A man who knows what he wants A man knows what he wants.
It doesn't take months Oh cast is a man knows what he wants period.
It doesn't take months
and years, he's trying to make sure he can't find anything better.
I've heard night men say, what is a night man?
Men know what they want.
And most of the people I know who are married say they knew she was their wife very quickly.
Men know.
I'm assuming that was a man who don't love or respect his mom.
Or God That's a deal good deal breaker heard heard many men said she's heard many men say Show deal breaker a man that doesn't love God Love or respect his mom or God.
That's a good deal breaker What some of the deal breakers out there in the chat What are some of your deal breakers?
I go through some of my deal breakers
for
sure.
Cigarettes.
You smoke cigarettes, beat it.
Beat it, you camel mouth.
I'm straight.
Smoke cigarettes, nope, can't do it.
And another deal breaker of mine is I have no... Let me start by saying this.
I have no problem.
I have no problem with black men who date outside the race.
I have no problem
with it.
It's okay, because Dr. Umar is not a real doctor anyways.
I feel like Zach feel attacked today, man.
I just had it let it be known.
Dr. Umar is not a real doctor and do with that information as you please.
Oh, I feel like I've been through that.
There's some people that don't know that.
I don't even understand why they don't but he's he's great internet TV, though But yeah, another deal breaking for me is I I I don't I don't you know, I Don't like I don't like white women.
I don't do it.
I don't like it.
I don't like them I don't like I'm sorry.
I don't like I don't like him.
I don't like
her.
That's Ray's opinion.
Not anybody else's It's first first.
I don't like whole ones
That's even worse.
No, it's not.
This is Ray's opinion.
No, it's not.
It's not worse.
My wife's half white.
Yeah, that's curveball, isn't it?
Yeah.
That's like, I can say it.
I can say it.
You know, that's like, that's like a mixed person.
I could use that word.
But no, it's nothing against that.
It's just, you know, it's just not my, I don't want to, I didn't want to hold one.
Alright, I didn't want a whole one and You know, she's also mixed with Africa so it kind of you know keeps me on the right side of history um Yeah, man, what's y'all deal breakers cigarettes?
Somebody said retreat sir wrong path talking to me.
No, that's just my wife talking to me It's like the same way you want to take it
But, yeah, what's your all D breakers, man?
That's my opinion, as Zach said.
That's my opinion.
That is not the opinion of Truth or Zach or anybody else on this station, huh?
I said, I love my white woman.
See, there you go.
Man, some of my good homies, some of my good homies, they prefer them.
They prefer them like mother's milk, you know?
If Bro was listening right now, he would be calling in and be like, here's my reason why.
Real Uncle Ruckus.
Real Uncle Ruckus.
What's your deal breakers, y'all?
I know some people say financially irresponsible.
That's a good one.
Because they say money is the number one leading cause of divorces.
And they say that's within the first two years of marriage.
A lot of marriages don't last due to financial burdens and stress.
Ian Amanda going crazy in the chat.
Quit distracting me.
What are your deal breakers?
833-212.
1017, that is the number to call 833-212-1017.
You've heard women say they don't want bald hair, guys.
They don't want receding hair and lining.
If you don't got a car, if you don't got a job, if you got too many kids, some dudes be like, oh, I don't want nobody with, if you got a baby, it's over with.
I'm like,
dang, that's a...
That's a very You limit in the pool boss you want somebody with no kids.
Yep
What is it?
What is the stats?
What is this?
Do we know the stats on that?
It's always some data Girl you over here acting like Sherwin after dark
I resent that.
What does that mean?
Have you listened to Sherwin after?
It is wild over there.
That's where it came from.
That's what Sherwin after dark.
I listen.
I listen.
Yes, I do.
I ain't gonna lie.
It's entertaining that.
Hughes Views.
He streams at 7, 7 p.m., right?
Hughes Views 414 on YouTube.
If you if you look at for some good mess.
And some entertaining like professional mess.
Hughes views for for I'll be over there tonight.
I'll be over there tonight.
Low intellect people, old people who litter.
Oh, my God.
If you litter, you might as well cancel crew.
I might turn you into the cops if you litter.
I would also add bad hygiene for sure.
What if it ain't really the hygiene, but they just got a tooth that they haven't pulled or something?
People that think R. Kelly should be free.
Oh my God, the chat is going crazy.
Shannon!
She said, people who think R. Kelly should be free is a deal breaker.
I was just going to say, I know my wife doing the Holy Ghost dance, reading that.
She said, say it again, Shannon.
Ann Torri Lane, Apologist.
to the list.
She said, add Tori Lane.
Apologies to the list as well.
Yeah, I don't.
People that that think our Kelly should be free.
A lot of people try to say they can separate the man from the music and I just can't.
I got a daughter.
I got a daughter and it's funny, somebody called me the other day and they were asking me a question about.
the conversation me and Shannon was having on the lunch break and the question was in reference to they were responding to the topic of the guy that had been allegedly accused of messing with his daughter
And then being on the run or in the community and everybody still kicking it with him and supporting him and so forth.
And then turned around and killed a young team who was stepping in because the guy was allegedly getting fresh with his sister, his younger sister again.
And he killed this young man.
So they called in and they was asking questions and they was like, oh
man, you know sometimes.
You know, these these women be.
You know, blah, blah, blah.
And.
And I'm like, man, we got to stop making excuses, bro.
We got to stop making excuses because you got a daughter.
You you wouldn't.
If you could say that you would send your daughter off with R Kelly.
OK.
Didn't say that but if your answer to me is nah my daughter ain't gonna be in that position.
So why?
Why would you not have the same energy for somebody else's daughter?
Not your daughter your daughter She can't go with the podpiper.
She can't go with kills not your daughter, but
You don't mind somebody else daughter doing anything.
It's like, oh, they let their daughter go with it.
They let their daughter go with him.
But my daughter wouldn't have did that.
I'd have killed him.
But you gonna step in the name of love still.
But because it wasn't your daughter, you could still... Dibble and dabble.
I'm just asking questions.
If it's not good for your daughter, then it shouldn't be good for somebody else's.
Bad teeth.
Poor grammar.
Too flashy.
The list can go on and on.
Not really a city girl.
It's good to see you city girl in the chat.
Welcome back.
We ain't seen you on the breakfast.
Look, here you go with that rabbit.
The lunch break in a minute.
People who refuse to learn to try new things.
Within reason, Trump supporters.
Ah, Trump supporters are a deal breaker.
Can't date one, huh?
100% red flag.
Maybe Shannon says facts.
As soon as they say free kills or Tory, I don't need to hear nothing else.
Shout out to y'all.
I thought I was alone on that island.
Yeah, I can say he made great music, but I'm not gonna continue to stream it and support it.
I'm not gonna spin it in the clubs when I DJ.
I'm not gonna do it.
I'm not gonna do it, y'all.
But don't go anywhere.
We'll be back with the last half hour to tap in.
It's your boy Ray Nitty filling in from his jazz.
We'll be back.
This is a sick Negro
welcome back y'all welcome back y'all we having a real good conversation This is the tap in on truth 101.7 FM.
I am your host Ray needy half of the lunch break filling in for Miss jazz get well jazz man.
Happy birthday homer blow man homer blow celebrated his birthday yesterday
Happy birthday to my daughter.
Her birthday is today.
Happy birthday, Ivy.
20th birthday to my daughter.
Yeah, man, me and Mitch was just talking about some... I don't even want to say his name because I just feel like I don't even want to talk about him over the airwaves.
But I feel like we might save it for another segment, man.
We'll save it for another segment.
It's
only two segments left.
You mean another
show?
Yeah, another day.
This could be a lengthy topic.
But I will tease the topic, though.
I will tease the topic, though.
And then we'll get back to these relationship questions.
Why do certain people in our community, they can separate R. Kelly.
Damn, I said I wasn't going to say his name.
They can separate the man from the music But like when you ask the question would they allow their daughter to You know Go hang out with them to answer be no and then It's like
Why are we okay?
We're not okay with our daughters being around the person.
But soon as if somebody else's daughter is like, oh, you know, she went over there.
Her parents took them there.
And I still like his music.
Someone who lacks politeness and manners.
Someone who is always on edge.
Not really.
A city girl said, those are her red flags.
Yeah, how can we continuously separate the man from the music?
I don't know how we could do that.
But that's for another conversation, though.
And anybody can be, do we add Diddy to that list?
Is Diddy on that list now?
Is Diddy on that list?
People that we can't.
And at one point I used to say, Diddy was my favorite artist.
He was my favorite entertainer.
Now it's like, all right, I got this R. Kelly stance.
Like, am I being a hypocrite for, you know, not taking the exact same stance with our Diddy?
And I feel like I gotta put him on the list.
I gotta put him on the list.
What we saw in that hotel was unacceptable.
I gotta put it on the list.
I gotta put him on the list, man.
Some people might not like it, but it is what it is.
That's why it's my list and not yours.
Question, 833-212-1017.
We'd love to hear from you.
What's one conversation every couple should have before a problem
forces them to have it.
What's one conversation every couple should have before a problem forces them to have it?
That's a. That's an interesting question.
I can't even not really a city girl says I can't even hear the music the same.
And yeah, you can't.
You can't agree with you.
And then sometimes I catch myself like singing random songs and be like, ah, can't do that.
Can't do it.
What's one conversation every couple should have before a problem forces them to have it?
That's kind of a difficult question.
I don't know what they talking about over there, but it looks interesting.
One conversation every couple should have before a problem forces them to have I guess The low-hanging fruit is like tell her if you got a baby mama Before you know don't hide no kids That's a conversation that's probably should have before a Problem forces you all to have it If you got kids or if you got a
A crazy ex not even kids.
I think if you got a crazy ex like a real crape like stalker and this ain't even funny.
This is like just serious for people's safety because we are living in a world where people are very, very unstable and.
You know, humans, men in particular are, you know.
We've created a space where we we liked we started saying women are unstable creatures.
I think it's men.
Men are the unstable creatures Men are the unstable creatures in my opinion Can't can't tell them no Women should not to be in fear because she told you she didn't give her a number.
She is she don't want to give you her number She should have to be in fear and it shouldn't be met with I f you then be
political perspectives, talk about possible health issues.
What you mean, city girl?
Health issues with, oh, you saying before a problem, like if you just met somebody and it's like, oh man, you know what, I got cancer or something like that.
If you got money problems, city girl said, if you got money problems, we need to talk about that right now.
because we need to figure that out.
Should discuss how you intend to raise your children and definitely money.
If you got money problems, if you got health problems, yeah, that's true.
If you might not be here in two months, that probably is something you should discuss with the person you're now talking to.
or any health things that are transferable.
That would be a terrible surprise.
833-212-1017 is the number to call 833-212-1017.
I think I'm gonna go live on YouTube tonight.
I've been testing how to stream, you know, take some inspiration from Hughes Views.
Shout out to everybody that's in that group.
That's where we actually went to get a lot of feedback from the Truth Nation and seeing how they felt about, you know, how things were going and y'all didn't spare no, y'all didn't spare any thoughts and we really appreciate it because it is truly what made us better.
It is truly what made us better and helped us grow even more understanding the things that you all wanted to hear.
And so forth.
So, you know, we'll be we'll be.
Streaming live tonight, it's going to be a short should be like an evening bite.
You know, we're going to talk about some of the things that's been going on on the truth, the shows, the topics, the new team.
You know, we're going to be wrapping things up like that.
I just want to give you all a unfiltered perspective of things and then still promote.
You know to show more as well so we could cultivate what else y'all want to hear what other things do you all want to discuss?
What is important to you truth nation?
So I think that's what we gonna be on Streaming about live tonight on YouTube.
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Health things that are transferable.
Yep.
You got to tell them about that, Rhea.
We should keep in mind that healthy relationships don't wait for problems to start difficult conversations.
I feel like Erica need a segment.
Let me do a segment with Erica and Amanda.
Call that, call it something creative.
But yeah, man.
Follow, follow, follow.
That Ria?
Because that Ria, yeah, that gonorrhea, that's transferable.
You don't want to just pass that around, Bobby.
You got to tell somebody that that's what you're handing out.
Not saying that you got it.
Just saying.
You asked what the real was.
And I wasn't trying to, you know, get us fined.
But don't go anywhere, y'all.
We'll be right back enjoying this last 15 minutes of the tap in.
It's your boy Ray Nitty filling in for Jazz Tyler.
We'll be right back.
Milwaukee business owners.
This is your moment.
What up, y'all?
Welcome back.
Welcome back.
Welcome back to the tap in.
It's your boy Ray Nitty filling in for Jazz Tyler.
Man, we had a pretty good show today, man.
I was nervous.
I ain't gonna lie to y'all.
I was pretty nervous about today.
It was like we coming in we gonna make it happen but What are conversations every couple should have before a problem forces them to have it What is it gonna be somebody said like they was talking about more health examples like sick of cell Somebody says for example if they're facing health issues that the partner may need assistance with long term
Someone may not want to sign up for it or reproduce with that person.
That's fair.
That's fair.
Like if you if you, you know.
If you got to get out of somebody might not want to give you your diabetes shot in your stomach every day, somebody might not want to do that.
I think your segment would be lit.
I think they would.
We're going to figure it out.
I'll be wondering what do these people be pointing and laughing at when they just be outside the glass?
Y'all don't realize y'all are the ones that look funny.
Clothes and thoughts, y'all.
Clothes and thoughts for today.
A healthy relationship isn't measured by whether conflict happens.
It's measured by how people communicate, take accountability, and move forward.
when it does.
One thing my wife always used to tell me is like, yeah, you know, I don't want to hear.
I'm sorry.
I want to see changed behavior.
And that's stuck out.
That's stuck out on me.
It was like, so now you like hesitant.
Maybe before you say sorry to somebody like, oh, I got to say sorry again.
But did the behavior change?
So.
Change behavior.
Change behavior.
And that's what I've been working on getting better at.
Still leave some socks around the house and stuff like that.
Still working on stuff like that.
Still use her socks occasionally, so that behavior hasn't changed yet.
I don't feel like I should have to wash dishes if I got kids.
I'm sorry.
I'm gonna say it.
If I got kids, I don't feel like I gotta wash dishes.
I'm just saying.
When I had to wash dishes, we didn't even have a dishwasher.
And we had about 12 people living in the house.
But like I said, a healthy relationship isn't measured by whether a conflict happens.
It's measured by how people communicate, take accountability and move forward when it does.
How do we communicate?
How do you take accountability?
How do you move forward?
Communicate healthy.
by making sure that man in the chat by making sure that you communicate your issues, problems, discrepancies in a healthy manner that isn't becoming combative or just each other starting to insult each other because that's how things escalate.
I feel like we're gonna have a conversation about dishes when I get home.
She says, until they're gone, then who gonna wash them?
Is what she said.
The dishwasher will, the dishwasher will wash them.
My wife's a boss in the house, man.
I just live there and do as I'm told, or kinda do as I'm told.
They haven't tell me a few times.
It is a lot of humans walking around.
A healthy relationship isn't measured by whether conflict happens.
It's measured by how people communicate, take accountability and move forward.
As we said, communicate healthy, no violence, things of that nature.
Take accountability.
What does take accountability mean?
Like, you know what?
I'm sorry.
I apologize.
I did.
I did mess up.
I did.
I didn't put that away.
You know, take accountability.
Don't say, oh, yeah, but I feel like that should be a thing.
Accountability doesn't come with butts.
Right.
That should be a thing.
If you if you take in accountability, don't add no butts to it.
Just take accountability.
And then when it's time to have the discussion that you want to have, then you you just you discuss it.
But.
Remember it.
Remember it.
Remember to have your part of the conversation.
Because sometimes we have to give our partners the space to say what they need to say and not just rebuttal right away because sometimes they can feel like you're just saying something because you want to get your stuff off and not hear that person.
And then that person feels not listened to.
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Or they say, you did a good job holding it down for three hours.
Great topic.
CC, thanks for the topic, CC.
They said, great topics.
We almost had a discrepancy about these topics.
Happy wife equals happy life.
Unharmed husband is crazy.
That's crazy work.
I saw anybody follow Walo?
Wallo said, anybody who subscribed to that happy wife, happy life thing, he's like, that's a nut.
He's like, that person goofy.
He's like, I don't believe in that happy wife.
He's like, yeah, your wife should be happy, but don't forget about your happiness is what he was saying.
Like Cece looked around the screen like, what are you trying to say?
He's saying nothing, Keisha.
I ain't saying nothing, Keisha.
Yeah, he was saying, don't forget yourself in the happy wife, happy life.
Because if you're not happy, how do you keep your wife happy?
So happy wife, happy life.
Unharmed husband is crazy work, though.
Unharmed husband.
Does that mean not really a city girl does that mean like I'm not getting beat is that is that what you You say keep her happy so I don't get beat That's what it sounded like man But yeah, don't forget about your happiness in relationships.
It's about Understanding each other giving each other the opportunity to be heard the opportunity to to share
the opportunity to listen and the opportunity to feel respected and feel safe.
We want to give our partners a safe space where they can feel like they could grow with us in the past, present, and future.
I'll say the Boyns is our modern-day huckstables.
You know, Bill got a reputation.
Build appeal is what they called him.
Balance.
Somebody said, Keisha.
But yeah, man, had a good time today.
Once again, get well, Jazzy.
Happy birthday, Ivy.
Happy birthday, Homer Blow.
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Even when she pissed off, she take care of me.
She might not want to.
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It's like, you ain't even want to talk.
Now you won't get off the mic.
We're trying to go.
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See you at the bar.
