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Sad Songs and Popcorn Picks with Jeopardy Champ Ben Chan
Nite Lite with Pete Schwaba and Greg Bach · Thu Sep 25, 2025
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My guests tonight, this is fun.
You know, sometimes a guest just slips through the cracks.
We have not had our guest at 635 on probably for what, nine months or so?
Yeah, it's been a while.
And he is Ben Chan, Jeopardy Champ Green Bay resident, maybe Depear resident, Ben Chan.
He's also a professor at St.
Norbert's.
He will be here in the studio to make this week's popcorn pick of the week.
We'll talk to Ben about how he watches movies, what kind of movies he likes.
and I'm sure we'll get into Jeopardy a little bit and I hope Ben can stick around because coming up in the second hour as well, guest wise, our pal Norm Kopesky from Appleton Cigar.
Norm is going to tell us about a really cool contest that is taking place at Appleton Cigar this weekend and I don't want to spoil it but we'll have some cigar talk.
And we'll talk about this contest and a lot of other stuff you can do if you check out Appleton Cigar.
I'm going to ask them about their poker nights.
I really am.
If I didn't live an hour and a half from Appleton, I would totally go.
You should show them that picture of Kim Kardashian.
See what he thinks.
Let's save that picture.
That's a good one.
You know, it is also National One Hit Wonder Day.
I know.
And
I made a little quiz where you have to guess.
what that one hit wonder is.
Should we do that with Ben though?
Yeah, we could do it then.
Yeah, I'll tell you what, give me a couple.
And then Ben and I will do it when he's here too.
So I mean, what comes to mind when you think of one hit wonders?
I mean, one hit wonder like, you know, Betty Davis eyes or we talked about that a little bit last night with some of these bands.
I'll tell you a great song.
A one hit wonder is the band or the song Laid.
The band is James.
It was this huge hit in the 90s.
Stuff like that.
That's a one hit wonder.
You know, we have a, I believe we have a one hit wonder that we use pretty regularly for the bumpers.
Oh, I think I know what you're going to
say.
And it's, uh, you get what you give, right?
Yeah.
You get what you give.
What
is
that?
I can play it for a second.
Oh
yeah.
Oh, that's a total one hit wonder.
I
didn't even know the
name of that song.
Yeah, you get what you give.
And
it's by the new radicals.
The new radicals.
I did remember the band, because when I sent you that song, I was like, I remember the band, but I'm like, for the life of me, could not remember the name of the song.
It's
such a good
song, too.
Oh, it's a great tune.
It's like an anthem almost for the 90s.
Yeah, there's a ton of them.
Laura Branigan,
Gloria.
I stick kind of towards the 90s, maybe one out of the 90s for
a
couple songs, but mainly 90s and 80s.
Sweet.
Well, you know what, before we get too caught up in the one-hit wonders, let's do our question of the night.
Let's talk about the question.
Okay, question.
Question.
Question.
Pregunta.
Question.
Question.
Okay, I have a question.
Questions.
This question.
Domanda.
Question.
Question.
Questions.
What is the saddest song ever written?
Saddest song ever written that is tonight's question of the night.
I don't even know what inspired this But I'm curious as to what you guys come up with 8 5 5 7 5 2 4 8 4 2 8 5 5 7 5 civic Let us know what you think the saddest song is sometimes they're great to listen to sometimes you just want to be sad instead of trying to cheer yourself up Fraudulently you crank on a sad song and you just embrace it in your sad
And you belt it to the moon.
And you belt it to the moon.
Yeah, absolutely.
All by myself who hasn't belted that out.
I don't... I did think about this.
I can't remember what I said on social media.
What was your... God, I can't believe I just asked
for you.
Yes.
All right.
Well, do you want me to play the clip right away?
Because... You could play your
sadist song.
Let's get that out of the way because it's going to be in people's heads all night.
You know, I'm a regular How I Met Your Mother watcher.
Yes.
And one
of the saddest songs I've ever heard is it's called Cat Funeral.
Let's hear 20 seconds tops, 30 seconds tops.
Let me let me set it up a little bit.
Yeah, no one could ever follow.
Marshall, Marshall Erickson, he's one of the he's Jason Siegel and I met your mother.
And in one of the episodes, he goes through a phase where he likes to make photo montages and sing to the photo montage.
And it's it's just hilarious.
Cats sitting for lilies mom cats sitting for lilies mom It's gonna be fun.
It's gonna bring us all closer together
Yeah, that's sad and a funny
way.
It's pretty sad.
Really?
Did that make you tear up when you were watching us at
home?
You know, the photo montages, he's cat sitting for the mom and he leaves the window open in his third story apartment and the cat jumps out the window.
Yeah, funny, not sad.
I don't think you grasp.
But then
they have the funeral in the apartment and they have the little cat's casket.
in front of the window that the cat jumped out.
OK.
That's that's that's quite that's quite enough.
So I'm going to say I'm going to go first.
I'll just my favorite my saddest song.
And it's not I'm probably not going to be on an island here is Danny Boy.
Terribly sad song but in a beautiful way.
Kind of a father son song.
And Ireland just had so much tragedy.
over the years song it's just great it's and I tear up every time I hear it almost no matter even if a bad singer is singing Danny boy I will be brought to tears so that's my saddest song but I have others I had a couple runner-ups too cats in the cradle Sam Stone from John Prine very sad so much so Sam Stone is so sad it's just like
soliloquy.
I don't even really like it's not nearly my favorite John Prine song, but it's very sad.
But a guy who comes home from Vietnam and gets hooked on smack.
Old Lang Syne is kind of sad, but in a good way.
It's a beautiful song about unrequited or first loves reuniting in a grocery store.
Great song.
Tears in Heaven.
And I went online and looked for this because Tears in Heaven is often called the saddest song ever.
Eric Clapton wasn't such a butt munch.
I would probably maybe have put that like number two because it's a very sad song.
Do you know that story, Conrad?
I don't.
Eric Clapton, his son fell out a window in New York City like 30 floors up.
Then somebody left the window open.
You know, Eric Clapton, and I don't want to judge him because accidents can happen.
I don't think he was even there.
He's probably off touring, but the housekeeper or the nanny left the window open.
And the kid died.
So Eric Clapton wrote Tears in Heaven, a horribly sad song.
But a good song.
I mean, Eric Clapton's great.
Anyway, those are my runner-ups and my favorite is Danny Boy.
We've heard from Conrad, the cat, whatever.
Cat funeral.
So what do you guys think?
8-5-5-7-5-2-4-8-4-2-8-5-5-7-5 Civic?
Let us know what you think the saddest song ever is.
We'll have some fun with this one.
Today it is National Daughter's Day So I would like to give a shout out To my beautiful daughter Kate happy National Daughter's Day If you have a national if you have a daughter if you have a national daughter you can wish her a happy day on the text line as well and This is exciting Conrad we have I don't know if you knew this.
This is Kristen Lyrely was on the show the other night correct on the social media The Facebook I like to call it.
Yeah
She said would it be weird like you know what I gotta find out how did she say this?
What we'll look it up is something to the effect that she wants to be the official nightlight gynecologist And I think it's high time we had
yeah, I think so too.
We've been on the air almost two years.
We've never had an official gynecologist You and I most likely are never gonna need one however You never know
You know, I love that she volunteered her services.
She's kind of stretched in anyway.
She has her own show on the weekend here called the Dr. Kristen Lyrely show.
She's on like all these gynecological and medical boards, but she wants to be the nightlight, you know, official nightlight gynecologist.
And I think it's high time we had one.
We got a call?
Yes.
Time to take a call.
Let's try to get this through.
Oh, fantastic.
Ollie, how are you?
Oh, I'm hanging in.
Except I might start crying now with these sad songs.
One song that always makes me cry is Hearing Taps.
Oh wow.
My dad was in army for 22 and a half years.
That's always a sad song.
And then I have another song.
Hey, Ollie, hold that thought.
We got to do a really quick break, and I don't want to cut you off.
So we're going to do a fast break.
We'll come back and get your other song, OK?
OK.
All right, my friend, we're coming right back.
This is Nightlight with Peach Waba.
Ollie, phone call part two coming up
next.
This is Nightlight with Pete Schwabba on the Christmas Eve of weeknights.
It is a Thursday edition, folks.
We are asking, what is the saddest song you've ever heard?
That is tonight's question of the night.
I'm going to give you contest information coming up in hour number two.
You're not going to want to miss that.
It's our multi-state go for the green and gold text to win contest.
More details coming up after the news at seven o'clock.
How's that new tower in Milwaukee doing?
100.3.
If you're in the Milwaukee area, W-A-U-K, we're on the FM signal there, and it's outstanding, apparently.
That's what I'm hearing.
I heard good things.
I had nothing to do with it.
It's all Corey Hartman, Casper, and Drew, and all the Eric, you know.
You didn't bring your tools out there?
I own like a hammer, and that's it.
So we were in the middle of a phone call with Ali from the Northwood.
So let's get back.
Ali said Taps was a very sad song for her.
And what else do you say, Ali?
This other song is an old song.
I remember listening to it when I was a kid.
And I think it's a newer version that Elvis Presley sang and it's called Old Shep.
And it's about his dog.
Everybody
should listen to that.
That is a sad one.
I haven't heard that in years.
I remember that's a very sad song though.
Those are outstanding choices, Ollie.
As always, I expect nothing less.
Thank you so much and have a wonderful evening.
You too.
Take care.
All right, thanks.
We got great social media responses to our question of the night, too.
Ben Chan, ladies and gentlemen, is going to be here in about 10 minutes.
Jeopardy!
Champ, St.
Norbert Professor.
Ben Chan will be here in the studio, very much looking forward to having Ben back on the show.
And then Norm Kepesky at 7.35.
He is going to bring sticks for all.
You know what a stick is, Conrad?
One of those cigar things.
That's Tim
Wright.
Remember, we had Hank and Herschel in here.
Yeah.
I've never heard that term before.
Someone asked Norm about that.
But Norm will be here at 735.
Our question of the night, what is the saddest song ever written?
Please feel free to share folks and we will read your text on the radio if you're listening on the stream or watching the radio on the stream at ex Facebook or YouTube you could drop us a stream comment there and Give us a like or a follow if you're so inclined in the best way to text also I Don't know if it's the best way.
It's a good way.
It's a good option.
Yeah, you got to have the app anyway to play the contest so on Social media rich our bell rich teller Rico says blind man in the bleachers that was like
A really cheesy 70 song, but it was about a guy who loses his dad and his dad was blind and could never see him play sports.
It was a very sad song.
But I don't know if I heard that now.
I might think it's cheesy.
I shouldn't say it's cheesy because when I was a kid, it really affected me.
Obviously rich too.
Thank you, buddy.
Danny Weals says let down by Radiohead.
The song paired with the end scene of the bear season one.
I gotta go back and give that another look.
Thank you, Dan.
I said Danny boy Tom Clark a very funny Tom Clark Milwaukee native son says tangerine by Led Zeppelin great choice Tom What is one was Tom on the show last?
He was on I believe he was on for a popcorn pick
was he yeah, let's get back on Allen wiper.
It says alone again naturally.
Yes, great choice Allen
And what else we oh Vince Moranto Vince's response last night on the text for the spring scene song was outstanding Really did his homework and he says today.
I tear up when I hear mr. Bojangles probably cuz I drinks a bit Thank You Vince Vince by the way is making the popcorn pick next week on red mark that in your calendars.
That'll be fun Our pal Eric Rathsack the front man for ask your mother says he stopped loving her today George Jones.
Yeah, that's a
That's a sad one, too.
Oh, my pal, Matt Hansen.
From the Marinette School District Conrad, we rarely hear from the Marinette School District.
Actually, scratch that.
He is no longer with the Marinette School District.
Okay.
I think he's with the Linus.
He's just a school district kind of guy.
Matt Hansen says, Teddy Bear.
Red Sovine.
I don't know that song.
Matt, great to hear from you, though.
Please continue to text on a nightly basis.
Happy to read them.
Boris Hamilton.
Our pal on very funny Boris Hamilton says operator Jim Croci.
That's a great choice.
But that's not the way it feels.
And wildfire, Michael Martin Murphy.
I've heard that song my whole life.
I don't even know what wildfire is about.
But the Simpsons made fun of it once.
I've never really listened to the lyrics.
I will now though.
Thank you, Boris.
Tony Zimmerman, Civic Media's own Leonard Cohen, famous blue raincoat.
I don't know.
You know what?
That's one of those songs I might know.
He put a YouTube link.
Can you pull that?
Yeah.
At least we could do.
Thank you, Tony.
And then we'll get to the text line here.
Ben Chan coming up in just a few minutes.
We gotta do a thing on Nepo Babies.
This Steven Spielberg's son, Sawyer Spielberg.
Here's the deal.
Acting is acting, music, whatever.
You're a Nepo baby, that's fine.
But I cannot stand when the Nepo babies say, well, if anything, my last name worked against me.
Sure it did.
Just not true.
Ridiculous.
Although I do applaud people like Nicholas Cage, who his actual last name was Coppola, but he changed it.
I admire that.
I think people probably still knew who he was.
Anyway, we'll get to that.
I'm going to do a whole Nepo baby segment, folks.
You're not going to want to miss that.
Uh, popping over to the stream.
Daniel Barry sports highlights.
Happy Thursday.
Hey, everyone.
Hey, Daniel.
Happy Thursday to you as well.
Dave on the stream says, when beneath my wings.
That's a sad one.
Absolutely.
What do you like, Dave?
The Bette Midler version or the Lou Rawls version?
I like the Lou Rawls version.
Dave also says Brian's song.
I don't, I know that's a movie.
I didn't know there's a song.
Sydney, Sydney Frankenstein says, uh, Frankenstein, I should say, I just did the.
Young Frankenstein yeah, it's Frankenstein Sidney says putting the dog to sleep by the antlers I Don't know that one, but thank you Sidney Sidney says also.
Oh, we got that one fixed I think Sidney says have you ever seen the rain by CCR?
Creighton's Clearwater Revival underrated sad song.
Yes another great one Sidney love CCR And Dave Coon is verifying good one said that's kind of fun
when the textures talk to each other.
Yeah, I love that.
We're all friends.
Hey, when we come back, Jeopardy Champ, Ben Chan will be here to make the popcorn pick of the week.
Don't go anywhere, folks.
It's Peach Wabba in Nightlight on the Civic Media Radio Network.
It's time for the
nightlight popcorn pick of the week where we recommend a movie that you'll either enjoy or won't Here's your host Pete Schwabba.
I like those options.
You'll either like it or you won't Welcome back to nightlight.
This is exciting folks.
I'm very thrilled to welcome my next guest here to make the popcorn pick of the week
when it comes to appearing on Jeopardy, and also being a professor at Lawrence University, this guy is top notch and an absolute rock star, Mr. Ben Chan.
Welcome back, buddy.
Hey, thanks for having me, Pete.
It's always nice to be here.
I think I was banging on the window about a year ago.
And I was like, oh, wait.
Were you doing a bar crawl or
something?
You're in here and just like, God, I'm on the air right now, dude.
That's right.
I forgot about that.
So we'll talk about the Jeopardy stuff.
We'll talk about your new position at Lawrence.
That's exciting.
But how are you in general?
How are you doing in this thing called life?
Things good?
Yeah, things are really good.
It's a transition.
It's been kind of a transition.
uh, after my last jeopardy appearance, I'm kind of out of the immediate central jeopardy pool.
And also my job is with transitioning at the same time this past, you know, six months.
Um, but it, you know, life is all about transitions.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
I'm not even smart enough to know what the central pool of jeopardy
is.
So we'll talk about that too.
It's too complicated after we
do the, uh, the popcorn pickles.
So let's jump in.
Um, let's talk movies.
What?
Yeah.
Ben Chan, you're obviously an incredibly bright guy.
Jeopardy or not, you're a college professor.
You're well-schooled.
You've impressed us on a national level on a game show.
What kind of movies do you like?
I like a lot of movies.
I think Roger Ebert had a really good attitude about this, right, that he would review movies on their own terms, right?
So, you know, there are a lot of genres that he probably wasn't a fan of, but if...
he would try to judge whether the director accomplished what they were trying to accomplish.
Interesting.
And so I think I'm the same way.
There's genres I enjoy more, genres I enjoy less.
But I like to have a wide exposure to things.
But the things I really love, there are movies that can really change your perspective in ways that not many art forms can do.
I know, I think, you know, of the popular recent movies, I think Parasite was like that.
Parasite, I think Parasite's given like a framework for millions like changed people's framework of thinking about power and income, right?
And it's a very powerful kind of metaphor and very powerful struck narrative structure that is like
global implications in terms of how people cope with life.
Absolutely.
And it did well at the Oscars,
too.
I mean, it
was very well recognized.
That's a great answer.
And I expect nothing less than a well thought out answer from someone like you, Ben.
So do you prefer to go... So basically, you don't stick to typically one genre.
You like... And I'm the same way.
I'm not really a horror guy.
That doesn't mean I don't really enjoy an occasional...
really well done horror movie at times, if that makes sense.
Yeah, my wife is really into horror and she's gotten me into it, which I'm glad for, because I think I wouldn't.
There's so many choices, right?
So it's hard to take that step on your own if it's something, you know, aren't drawn to naturally.
So, but it's opened my eyes to things, right?
Because it, you know, horror, I think, you know, is deeply kind of Freudian generally, right?
And kind of is a working out of.
our, you know, personal or cultural deep fears in a way that often we don't get to raise in a polite, polite conversation.
Yeah,
right.
Do you have, did you see weapons?
Oh, yeah, I did see weapons.
Yeah, I think that's the last thing I saw in the theater.
Yeah, same here.
I enjoyed it.
Again, not a horror guy, but really solid movie.
I really liked it.
Um, all right.
So how do you like to watch movies?
Ben, are you a theater goer?
Do you like the comfort of your own home?
I would prefer the theater, but you know, probably the ratio is nine to one home to theater.
Yeah.
And I think I went to grad school at UCLA in Los Angeles and sometimes people ask me, like, Oh, do you miss things about Los Angeles?
And there are a couple of things I miss.
But the number one thing that comes to mind is that they still have a lot of beautiful single screen theaters.
And they do.
you know, nice restored prints.
And because it's a film town, you'll go to like a Saturday revival of Meet Me in St.
Louis and the theater will be full at 10 a.m.
And you might be sitting next to like Jason Siegel.
And you know, it's a bunch of film editors.
Yeah.
And they're super, you know, they're great audiences.
They're super appreciative.
And then sometimes you might get, you know, somebody who did the casting for a 1960 show, be in the audience and do Q&A after.
Right.
That's really
I'm totally
with
you.
I one of my best experiences or when my wife and kids would leaving back to the Midwest and I was out there alone I would take full advantage in terms of going to movies like and I remember specifically I saw Mission Impossible 3.
I think it was 9 a.m
at a Hollywood
theater.
I get
coffee.
I saw Collateral in the morning.
I saw South Park with my buddy Mike Siegel.
Yeah, you can see anything almost any time of day.
And that is something I
do.
In the full theater, too, right?
In the full theater, yeah.
And that's nice to watch with other people.
Absolutely.
All right, so what is your favorite snack?
Let's say you're in the theater.
What kind of snacks do you go for?
Ooh, I like everything, you know.
usually money is
these prices.
Oh, it's insane.
But that's a good question.
I mean, I think the first thing that pops in mind is, you know,
pretzel bites, pretzel bites with some nacho cheese.
With the cheese, oh man, I
wish I didn't like that.
It's so,
so bad.
And nachos too, like that
cheese is what it is.
Yeah, if they would just
sprinkle shredded cheese on there and heat it up, it'd be different, but
I
don't know what the hell I'm eating when I'm eating nacho cheese.
I wish they had more, you know, I'm a big caramel corn fan, right?
Yeah.
I'm kind of surprised that more theaters don't have that.
Actually, that's one of the things the Arclight Theater in LA was famous for.
They had like fresh made caramel corn.
And love that you know these L.A.
theaters.
That's where
I saw collateral is at the Arclight.
I don't think it's open anymore.
Or is it the Cinerama dome?
I think Cinerama.
Yeah.
Oh, that's a great.
All right.
So you're not fussy when it comes to staying.
What about at home?
Do you watch it?
Do you make different snacks when you're at home?
Uh, we used to make popcorn.
One of the things, if any listeners have tips on, um, dealing with dogs, two dogs in the house who are resource guarding and getting into arguments about that.
So we can't have snacks on the couch anymore because they'll, they might have a disagreement about who gets to be closer to the human snacks.
But, um, uh, at home.
I've actually, that's been one of the things I talked about.
I've been attending to a lot of deferred maintenance.
Some of it is home projects, some of it is my body.
I think I put on 20 pounds.
Living that celebrity life.
Yeah, during my jeopardy life.
And so I've been trying to avoid the movie snacks at home, at least.
But do it other ways.
Have a movie snack.
But if
you do figure it out, let me know.
I could drop a few pounds.
So I'd say, could the go-to snack right now?
If you go to one of the Asian markets in town, they have these things called jackfruit chips.
Jackfruit's a tropical fruit, and it's like a pretty healthy thing, but it's delicious.
It's like a sweet tropical fruit.
They're only like three ingredients.
Jackfruit, salt, and chips.
I didn't know they came
in chip
right.
Yeah, that's great.
You should look for jackfruit chips.
Oh, that's really cool.
Okay.
What about, all right, let's talk about this.
I know you like to enjoy a cocktail every once in a while.
What do you have?
Have you ever snuck?
Booze into a theater or or what do you make when you're at home?
Oh, I Have I probably have snuck booze into a theater when I was younger It's been a big development that now Marcus theaters sells booze which is nice so I can
And it's actually, that's the most reasonably priced item at the concession stand.
Is booze.
Yeah, it's hilarious.
Yeah, it's under 10 bucks for like, you know, a tall boy or whatnot.
So if
you want a box of goobers, it's $12.
If you want to drink, it's nine bucks.
That's pretty,
okay.
I'd like to, Greg Marcus seems cool.
I want to meet Greg Marcus.
That's on my bucket list.
Don't
you run in those circles now?
You guys are both, he's a celebrity.
I gotta put it out there.
Yeah, come on.
Yeah.
Let's use this as a platform.
Conrad, take a memo.
We gotta
get, we gotta get Ben in touch with Greg
Marcus.
Doesn't he seem?
He seems like a real nice guy.
He's seen his Instagram.
He's doing Instagrams with his employees, and it seems not forced.
Seems
genuine?
Yeah, all right.
All right, so what about at home?
What do you made?
Do you have a favorite cocktail or something?
Ooh, it kind of changes.
I think the first thing that pops to mind, I would, a martini.
Nice gin, classic gin martini.
You go gin at the vodka, huh?
Yeah, I like, you know, I like that.
A lot of people I know don't like the, you know, the, what is that?
Juniper in the
gym.
Oh, okay.
And, but I like it.
I like both things, the vermouth and the jam.
You're saying that defensively, and I don't mean to make you defensive about
your cocktail of choice.
Ben Shannon's here, folks.
He is a Jeopardy champ and also a professor at Lawrence University.
He's here to make the popcorn pick of the week.
Norm Kupesky is coming by at 7.35 for some cigar talk and a talk about a really cool contest.
They're having an Appleton cigar this weekend.
And stick around because after the news in hour number two, I'm going to give you the keyword for our civic media go for the green and gold text to win contest.
Our multi
state text-to-win contest keyword coming up after the news in hour number two.
But for now, we are inching eerily close to Jeopardy Champ Ben Chan's popcorn pick of the week.
So how do you feel about previews when you're in the theater?
Do you like them?
This is such a
divider.
No, I mean, they're just, I guess I could go.
The main complaint is many of the previews are bad now.
Yeah,
like trailers are they give away too much.
Totally
like the art of the way
and that's an art to
cut a
trailer without giving too much away.
It's an art form.
Absolutely.
So the trailers, there's some good trailers, but most of the trailers are just trash.
Who's make that's it's very surprising.
My trailers are so bad.
All right.
One more question for you, Ben.
People are being loud nearby you and your wife are there trying to enjoy yourselves.
What do you do?
Do you confront them?
Do you shush him?
Do you give him the stare?
Do you get security?
What's the deal?
We probably go at times where it's not that busy anymore.
We typically go like Saturday afternoons, and so maybe the main thing would be the only loud people we run into are, you know, seven-year-olds.
Kind of
movies.
Did your wife ever get out of line?
Do you ever have to shush
your wife
in a movie?
No, I mean, I think that the main tension is at home, right, where...
Sometimes we'll be watching a movie and then she'll look at her phone and be like, we're watching a movie
together.
But the worst thing is when someone looks at their phone, my kid used to do this.
Wait, what did he say?
I'm
not telling you.
Sorry, put the phone down.
She doesn't do that.
All right, that's good.
All right, Conrad, I think we are ready for Mr. Ben Chan's popcorn pick of the week.
Conrad, if you please.
All right, Ben, the kidding around is pretty much over.
What is the popcorn pick of the week?
It's tough.
Can I give two?
Yeah.
All right.
So there are two.
They're streaming.
They're both classic.
They can be streaming, right?
Absolutely.
Any movie.
There are no rules.
So one that came to mind recently.
Actually, this is something I saw.
It's an old movie, The Red Shoes.
I think it's 1948.
Wow.
I've
never seen
that.
Oh, Red Shoes.
Yeah.
That's one of the great.
I don't know.
It's top.
50 movies of all time.
Yeah, exactly came back to my attention Ken Jennings.
It was one of his five picks But it's one of my favorite movies.
I saw it a few times But one time I saw it had a special screening at the Smithsonian in DC and the editor Who was married to one of Powell impressive burger?
I forget which one and I forgot her name.
She's Martin Scorsese's editor.
So she's won a couple of Oscars
But she was in attendance.
She gave a little talk before the screening.
And she said, Powell and Pressburger, they're coming out of World War II.
And they had been told that there's so many things worth dying for.
Democracy, Great Britain, whatever.
And they wanted to make a film that showed that art was worth dying for.
That is so
cool.
So yeah, the red shoes, I think it's on HBO Max.
The red shoes on
HBO
Max.
Maybe I'll stick with that one.
And it's
got a 98%.
So we're
going to
do a really quick break.
Then we're going to come back and get pick number
two.
You're
getting two picks.
Didn't this happen a
couple of weeks ago?
Somebody gave two picks.
That's even better.
Get more referrals.
Definitely.
So, OK, Ben Shannon's here, folks.
Jeopardy Champ.
We are coming right back to get his second popcorn pick of the week.
We'll talk about Jeopardy.
We'll talk about One Hit Wonders or, no, Sad Songs, right?
We'll
do Sad Songs.
I have a pick
for that, yeah.
All right, sweet.
It's Peach Bob and Nightlight.
We're coming right back on the Civic Media Radio Network.
great to have you with me on this beautiful Thursday night here we're coming to you live from downtown Green Bay Broadcasting statewide on a popcorn pick Thursday night folks in just a few minutes after the news at the top of the hour I'm gonna
We're going to dig into the Go for the Green and Gold text-to-win contest, our multi-state text-to-win contest here at Civic Media.
Great prizes.
I'm going to give you more details after the news, and then I'll give you the keyword as well.
So make sure you don't go anywhere.
Right now, my guest in studio here is celebrity champ Ben Chan.
And I'm not just saying celebrity champ.
Aren't you like the third highest grossing person ever on Jeopardy or something like that?
No.
In the regular set, when I...
Left I was the 16th highest
in the
regular season But that's pretty good
It's really good cuz Conrad went on that show about ten years ago and how'd you do buddy?
Yeah, I was 16 16th from the bottom right above me All right, Ben is here.
He just made the popcorn pick of the week.
He's got two of them We heard his first choice was the red red shoes from 1948
I'm putting that one on my list, and then you had another one.
Ben, tell us what your other popcorn pick of the week is.
So this is, yeah, this has shaped, I'm a big foodie, actually, despite, maybe.
That's my number one
passion.
You're a medium-sized foodie.
I wouldn't call yourself ripping on your health earlier.
I don't think that was
warranted.
So one of these movies that really kind of shaped my culinary sensibility.
I think it's the best food move.
There are a lot of good food movies, but it's a Japanese movie.
It's also an HBO Max.
It's called Tampopo, T-A-M-P-O-P-O.
It's from the 80s.
It is...
The genre is a Western.
It's it's
a
ramen Western.
So it has like the trappings of Western as
opposed to speaking.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So somebody exact.
It's quite funny.
Oh, wow.
And the main it's kind of altmanesque in that it has many different interlocking threads and vignettes.
But the main plot line is a young mother, single mother who's trying to open a ramen shop.
And her son is being bullied.
She's not very good at making ramen.
And then a trucker happens to roll into town.
Wow.
Who's a ramen expert and helps both her and her son get, get, you know,
her son in school and her with the
ramen shop.
I know some stuff about movies, but mostly I'm just a fan.
And you just named two films that I have not seen that I can add to my list.
I appreciate that.
So great choices.
Ben Chan, his choices are Red Shoes and
Tampapo.
Tampapo.
Tampapo.
Tampapo.
I guess it means dandelion in Japanese.
Tampa police officers.
Tampapo.
Okay.
Tampapo.
Ben is great to have you here.
Let's talk.
So what is the latest?
I know you made a return appearance on Jeopardy.
For those that don't know, a couple of years ago, Ben had like an incredible run.
And here's what I love about your Jeopardy run.
It was packed with drama.
because you went, I was reading about this, you went up, then you lost big, then you came back and cleaned house.
So you had that drama.
Then you see you forgot about your jeopardy greatness.
And then you couldn't play because of COVID and you had to get back in the game and you went on a run again.
It's like you've had a really cool run.
Yeah, I think it's, it was very eventful.
Yeah, it's more eventful than...
Most runs on temporary
so all right.
So well, yeah, obviously if you're like 16, that's incredible So what do you have a favorite memory coming out of that whole experience?
You've had time to reflect on it now
There's so many actually it's filled with good memories.
I think you know The it's hard to beat the first win Because there's that opens up everything
I mean, I think that's the you know, I don't know if it's That was my biggest fear because I knew I was pretty well prepared.
I knew I could you know make some noise, but That it's hard to get the first one because
you're
playing some against somebody who's already played they're probably pretty good Interesting in the subsequent games You have advantage because you're not playing against somebody who's played before and
They're also random.
Whereas in your first game, you're guaranteed to play a non-random person, namely somebody's one.
Right.
Wow, that's interesting.
And then I would imagine your first time, too, is when your nerves are at peak, or is it when you get close to setting some kind of milestone?
Like, how did you do that?
Yeah, no, it's
definitely the first time.
And then after that, the thing about it's like, if you've been in...
show business or whatever.
It's
a
well oiled machine, right?
So it's like, you have got 10 minutes till the next show.
And so it's, you don't have time to think about
what's happening.
You have to have, and I'm just saying this, I'm, I'm guesstimating, but, or making a presumption, but you have to A, be really smart, but B, be able to answer these questions quickly on the spot on national TV.
So for people that can do that, you may be played people that were smarter than you, but they couldn't handle the pressure of
thinking quickly on TV, maybe?
Yeah, it's I think it's I had the advantage of I got I played fake practice games with people.
So
you get
into that rhythm.
You know, I think, you know, good people.
It's it's hard to do that if you're not in the groove.
Yeah,
it's like, you know, ring rust or whatever, right?
Like you have to be in that mindset and have the right threshold for.
guessing or buzzing in when you're not sure you know it, because you are confident enough that it'll
come
in time.
And then if you're not in that groove, you're going to be either too hesitant or too aggressive.
That's so cool.
Can we keep you past the news?
Can you do another second on this?
We'll do a little kind of put together a one hit wonder sort of thing we could we could square off.
I know, you know.
I would love to, I would love to, I would love to
bring
it.
All right.
Ben, uh, we found a chink in the armor.
Uh, Ben just admitted his weakness on the air.
So folks, we're going to come back.
He's going to do another segment with us.
I'm going to give you all the info on the, uh, civic media.
Go for the green and gold text to win contest.
Our multi-state contest that is coming up next.
And we've got Norm Kepesky here at 7 35, uh, talking cigars and a really cool contest at Appleton cigars.
Peach Waba in nightlight.
We're coming.
Coming back for act two after
this.
Broadcasting live from the Civic Media Studios in Green Bay.
This is Night Light with Peach Wabba.
Your inside source on everything entertainment from Wisconsin to Hollywood.
And now, a guy who once tore his ACL playing chess, Peach Wabba.
Welcome back to Night Light, ladies and gentlemen.
Oh, we are having a time tonight.
This is so much fun.
It's great to have you here on this Thursday night.
A fun show, two great guests, and a fun question, some great topics.
We're having a blast here.
For those of you just joining us in the first hour, we did the popcorn pick of the week with our pal Ben Chan, Jeopardy Champ Ben Chan, who picked the movie The Red Shoes and Tampopo.
So two films I have not seen.
I'm very excited and two classics.
So those are great choices as usual.
We usually get pretty good responses on the Popcorn Pick of the Week are great choices.
Norm Kepesky will be here.
We'll be back to Ben in just a few minutes.
Norm Kepesky will be here at 7.35.
The owner of Appleton Cigar.
who also joins us frequently on the show.
And he's going to tell us all about this really cool contest they have going down there.
And it's this weekend.
So you won't want to miss that.
And as I mentioned, we'll be right back to Ben shortly.
What else did we miss Conrad?
What are we talking about in the first?
You're standing right next to me.
You can just tell me.
Conrad
is trying to, we're having an issue with the screen and we're trying to hone in and figure out what it is.
So if we have some technical difficulties, stay with us, folks.
You can tune in on the app as well, though, if that's easier or just the old fashioned radio.
What's up, Ben?
You seem concerned.
Your browser can't access your devices.
Try restarting your browser.
Con, have you tried that?
We've
got a Jeopardy
Champ
in here giving us technological support.
I'm reading from the screen.
So, folks, this is exciting as all of you, or most of you probably know, all week we've been talking about our civic media go for the green and gold text to win contest.
It is our multi-state contest where we give you a keyword during the hour and you have to text in that keyword on the app, on the civic media app, that is the only contingency.
You have to have the app to play.
And then I'm going to give you the keyword in about 10 minutes.
You text that in and you are eligible to win 200 bucks in cash and gold jewelry.
Do you do jewelry, Ben?
I think watches are my
jewelry.
I don't know.
I have a Fitbit.
I don't
know if that
counts as jewelry.
But if you enter the keyword, you're eligible for the daily prize of the cash and jewelry, and you're also automatically entered in the grand prize drawing.
And the grand prize is pretty cool.
It's two club level indoor seats to Green Bay versus Minnesota.
That's professional football.
And it's a Green Bay home game on November 25th at 12 p.m.
The Green and Gold squares off.
against, as Conrad would call them, the purple people eaters.
We're even throwing in a gas card that will get you to the game, so it really, there's nothing coming out of your pocket there.
I'm too mature to make a joke.
I
was just
about to make, but all right.
So I'm going to give you the keyword, folks, in just a few minutes.
Text that in.
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Good luck everybody keyword coming up in about 10 minutes We have some more time here with our pal Ben Chan so Conrad is our question of the night also by the way folks is You got to get in this we we have so many texts.
This is
a
great question What is the saddest song ever written?
And this is not based on, there's no inspiration for this really, except I probably heard, you know, an Eric Carmon tune yesterday, and I thought I got to get this out there.
So we've gotten a lot of text responses.
We'll read some of those after I give the keyword as well.
So keep the texts coming.
What is the saddest song you've ever heard?
And now we are back to our guest, Ben Chan.
Thanks for sticking around, bud.
Oh, I heard that on the way over.
I've got to pick for that.
I cover the waterfront.
sung by Billie Holiday.
I cover the waterfront.
It's
an old...
I love Billie Holiday.
She's got one of the coolest voices.
I don't know that song though.
I don't think.
I'm not gonna try to sing it.
It's about her just walking on the waterfront, being real sad.
Alone?
Okay.
Looking at the water.
It's kind of like sitting by Dr. Bae, but very sad.
That's not sad though.
Yeah, that's kind of like... It's Billie Holiday, being real sad.
I said Danny Boy.
Conrad said a song from this show he loves.
It's
called Cat Funeral.
I'm Marshall Ayrton.
Oh, yeah.
Ben, do not bond
with
Conrad
over this.
I had no, you know, when you're writing your dissertation, it's real.
You're just like in a cave, 10 hours a day writing your dissertation.
I had my roommate who was nice.
And then I had the good folks of Howie and my mother, they were my friends.
Oh, there you go, Con.
Yeah,
they're definitely my
friends, too.
See, now you should be on, what if this was like a situation where Michael Scott on the office became obsessed with Jim and you just became obsessed with Ben and you started doing everything and
trying to get on
Jeopardy.
Everybody's obsessed with Conrad.
Hey, you're on a mural here in downtown
Green Bay.
They took it down for the draft.
Oh, are they gonna put it back up?
No.
The draft is one year, buddy, but your
accomplishments last a lifetime.
I'm trying to...
trying to get some sort of gigs as being generic local celebrity.
Is that how's that work?
You should easily.
I mean, that's like you've done something that's kind of different and
unique.
It's cool.
I mean, the cool thing.
I think, you know, I've now met a lot of people who've had similar success, but I don't think anybody had as much community support.
Yeah, like there's nothing like it.
You know, you can't.
Green Bay is special in that way, right?
Listen, I had hoped that you know, that's why I talked a lot about Green Bay because I want you know, I was one of my motivations for Doing well was like hype Green Bay and I did that the best I could and it was really cool that you know a lot of people here appreciated it
I remember the woman that used to manage this property Christie Barlamint told me it introduced me to you and she was telling me about these you know
watch parties you would have.
Like the support you got was incredible.
That must have made you feel like, yeah, Green Bay's home.
Yeah, I think that's the thing.
That's the thing I joke about is, you know, when I first moved here, one of somebody who's multi-generational Wisconsinite was like, you know, and he knew I loved Wisconsin.
It's like, ah, the problem is you'll never be a Wisconsin native.
And that's going to be different.
And I think like I kind of got to skip the line by and now I think, you know, I get the.
the perks of being a Wisconsin.
Yeah.
Right.
So that's cool.
Through your fame.
Yeah, that's so cool.
All right.
So Ben is here.
We're going to before we do this quiz.
Conrad is getting his steps in today.
What what do you want to talk about Lawrence University?
You got a new position.
How's that going?
Yeah, Lawrence is great.
I thought that's actually why I'm in Wisconsin is that was what first moved me there.
Then I made to stay in Norbert.
So now I'm going back and
It's cool, you know, I'm glad it was 12 years ago.
I think when I was last there, it still feels like another home for me.
So I was glad to see I still knew a lot of people there.
The culture is very strong there.
Yeah, liberal arts.
It's a great school.
So it's been it's been great so far.
We just finished.
We're just finishing up week two right now.
So.
Can I give you advice?
I'm not a Jeopardy winner.
I know I'm not as smart as you.
I'm fine with that, but we're friends.
I would like to give you a piece of advice.
Will you take it?
Yeah.
Okay.
Pace yourself on the Diet Pepsi.
That's like your third
one.
You're going to be up all night.
You can laugh.
That's okay.
It's like stifling
himself.
No, I was going to cough.
Oh, okay.
Where's the cough button?
We don't have a cough button.
I know, right?
All right.
We're working on it.
So all right, so can we do a quick quiz here?
I think this will be our
question
tomorrow night
because we've gotten such incredible response on this, but let's have fun with the quiz with Ben.
So this is the one hit wonder quiz I made.
And you can either say, I'll take the artist or the name of the song.
Either
one.
So both of us are, should we alternate?
Because we don't have buzzers or anything.
This isn't like Jeopardy, Ben.
I mean, you know,
I'll just whoever says it first
or whoever says it first.
Oh, I like that.
Yeah.
Yeah, let's make it adversarial.
Absolutely.
Very polarized on the side
of the glass.
Ten seconds of the song.
Okay.
Okay.
All
right, you ready, Ben?
Yep.
Nightlight, one hit wonder quiz.
Conrad, go.
And a one, and a two, and a three.
Boom, boom, boom, baby.
I know
a
baby on board, Simpsons.
I could send it like you at first.
I thought it was Conrad.
All
right.
It's the B-sharps.
Maybe we should
just end it right there.
I'm not one to nothing.
That one was that one was for you because I know
it's like a fictional one
hit.
Within the Simpsons.
It was a fictional
Barbershop Quartet from the Simpsons.
And I know them, but I was like, oh, they were hit in the universe of the Simpsons.
All right, here we go.
Con.
I ran flock of seagulls.
Would you have gotten that one?
Rigged.
No, I wouldn't.
We
weren't
even going to have it.
Conrad was just going to quiz me.
So far,
so
good.
You're killing it.
I thought that would be fun.
I have you do this.
OK.
Number three.
Here we go.
Sounds
like a
porno I watched about 30 years ago.
Wow.
This is the last time I've seen a porno.
What?
I don't know.
Do you know Ben?
Nope.
Play it one more time.
That's
OK.
What is that song?
Black Betty by Ram Jam.
I don't know the song and I don't know the band.
Really?
I like the name of
the band, Ram Jam.
That's a great
name.
Well, that's that's the one I wonder.
Yeah.
That's why they scored.
What are the other ones?
Yeah.
All right.
So I am beating Ben.
You're
killing me.
I kind of feel bad about this.
No, it's good.
Whenever we have someone take a quiz in the show, it's pretty easy.
Like, we like the
guests to feel.
You knew it was coming.
This was just sprung on me at the last minute.
Listen, Jeopardy, don't make excuses.
You're doing
great.
OK, here we go.
What is love?
Hataway.
That's good.
Would
you have gotten that
one?
Eventually.
I mean, I would have gotten the title pretty quick.
All right.
Hataway, I kind of know,
yeah.
OK.
All right, let's do, uh, let's do one more.
Take the
glove.
That is on the board, ladies and gentlemen.
Tainted love, soft
sell.
Yeah, that's a good song.
Are they one hit wonder?
I thought they had other things.
Yeah, I, you know, they, this song had like a billion.
Oh, right.
And the other songs that they have are like 12.
It's pretty different.
All right, cool.
All right, three to one.
I'm not proud because he's a guest.
They're great.
And let's, all
right,
here we go.
Oh, man.
Oh,
this
is, aha.
I know the music
video.
Go ahead and
say the song, because I,
oh, I do know it now.
The music video with that, you know, sketchy.
And
then the acoustic version of that is phenomenal.
The lead singer of AHA is singing, you take on me.
And the lyrics are very beautiful.
It's great.
They're almost wasted with that techno stuff, you know.
That's a great song.
Yeah.
All
right.
Yeah.
Should we do one
more?
Yeah, we can do one more.
I can't see the plot.
If he ties it up, then we have to do it.
No.
Just do one.
I think it's
a good one.
All right, it's like ready?
Yeah.
It's
embarrassing.
I know
this.
I knew this.
I wouldn't.
I don't know it.
I can't think of it.
I mean, I know the song, but what is it?
I put the lyrics in there on purpose because she's so high.
That's what I was that's
just a trick question.
All right.
This has been fun.
Ben, thank you
so
much.
I
did
be you, but I've won no money.
You're hundreds of thousands of dollars ahead of me in the
game show.
So, Ben Chan, thank you very much.
Don't be a stranger.
We'll get this again
soon.
All right.
Fantastic.
Norm Kepesky coming up in about 10 minutes.
The keyword.
Do I have time to give the keyword or should I wait Conrad?
All right,
we'll do it on
the other side of the break.
Just to tease you a little more.
It's Beach Wabba and I like on the Civic Media Radio
Network.
Because I want it all It started out with a c-
Welcome back.
I'm Pete Schwab.
This is Nightlight.
It is great to have you with me, ladies and gentlemen.
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We'll give you the keyword again later in the show just to just to refresh your memories We got to get through some text con.
I would say so it's it's high time Our question of the night.
What is the saddest song ever written?
I have no idea This is gonna strike such a chord with people but John from the 608 says bye-bye American pie interesting
Edward from the 414 says, tub thumping by Chamba Wamba.
That was a total one hit.
No, that's a one hit wonder.
Yeah, that one.
See, I knew this was going to happen tonight.
When I was looking up one hit wonders, that one was like at least every single time I was in the top
five.
Edward says, James are most certainly not a one hit wonder.
Really?
Alright, I stand corrected Edward.
I do remember the song Laid which was great and I liked other songs on that album I didn't think any of them were hits though, but you're obviously probably referring to other albums.
So thank you for the clarification Mothers of the disappeared by you two from the Joshua tree Edward says is his most sad song.
That's a great choice.
That's a horribly depressing song, but a great song Sometimes they're just depressing and sometimes they're great songs and depressing
John from Madison in the 608 says, careless whisper.
Great choice, John.
Mike from Cottage Grove says, how about the way we were?
Yeah, that's a sad one too.
All those songs about like Old Lang Syne is kind of the same way or Operator by Croci, someone said earlier.
The way we were is another one too.
And there's a song by Jim Croci called These Dreams.
And one of the lyrics is, and sometimes at night, I think I hear you calling my name.
These dreams keep me going these days very sad song, but a very beautiful song too Patrick in the 608 says all by myself Eric Carmen I knew it was a matter of time before we heard that one.
Thank you Patrick John Murray from Madison also says relationship destroyed not cool I don't know John is probably referencing something I said earlier.
I've killed quite a few Tyler from Wisconsin Rapids says one hit wonder Olka polka
Gold is badass weed, according to Chee-Chung.
Okay.
I had to refresh my memory on that one.
I still don't quite recall that, but thank you, Tyler.
Melissa from Willy Street says, ooh, I got this one, Joni Mitchell Blue.
Yeah, that's a sad song.
My next one is another Joni song, River, but I only feel real, but I only really feel it around X-Mad.
Christmas and Madison?
Yeah, I think that's what she means.
Thank you, Melissa Chris from the 773 says if you're a dog lover like me Chris Stapleton Maggie's song gets me every time I Don't know that song to you.
I do not yeah, it's anything about pets.
Yeah, you know those are tearjerkers terrible John John says got the giggles anyone
And then Melissa from Willie Street says, Christmas.
Geez, I thought so, Melissa.
I knew.
Jim from Appleton, the 920 says, the saddest song ever is without a doubt, Alone Again Naturally by Gilbert O'Sullivan.
O'Sullivan.
Alone Again Naturally.
I feel like I know that song, but I can't, I can't place it.
Jameson from Pennsylvania.
He's in the 814 says only because we know the context.
It must be tears in heaven by Eric Clapton.
I cannot imagine the overwhelming grief of feeling responsible for your young son's death.
And then Jameson says kudos on Danny Boy.
Thank you, Jameson.
And you're right.
Tears in heaven is a really sad song.
John from Madison says Clapton is an irresponsible Jack.
He's judging him.
for his son falling out the window.
Oh, dear.
Edward from the 414 says, the fields of Athenary, now that you mentioned Danny Boy.
Oh, I don't know that song.
Thank you, Edward.
Ollie from the Northwood.
Oh, that was a phone call.
Tyler says, saddest song, My Funny Valentine, sang by Ricky Lee Jones.
Yep, that's a sad one, too.
I think other people covered that, too.
John in Madison says, he is not great, more of an a-hole, really, truth.
All right.
I've already covered that.
I'm in kind of in cahoots with you, John, but I already talked about that.
DaddyO from Windsor, his area code is six.
Oh, eight says, long, long time by Linda Ronstead.
Yeah, but that, you know what?
DaddyO, that's one of those songs that is sad, but a great song.
You got the violin in there.
They played that on The Last of Us on the HBO show.
That's a great song, great choice.
John...
I'm not gonna read John's last text.
Jameson from the 814 says, toss in two more just like suicide by Soundgarden.
Got a lot of Soundgarden stuff, it's depressing.
And nothing compares to you.
Prince Sinead O'Connor, best cover ever.
Also Chris Cornell.
Well done, Jameson.
From the 608, Steve says, the song is A Daisy A Day by Judd Strunk, who may himself be a one hit wonder.
Come out early seven.
It came out early 70s.
Thanks.
Thank you, Steve.
Appreciate that.
Scott from Green Bay says, puff the magic dragon.
Yeah, that's a sad one.
I just sing that.
Like,
did you really
in like elementary school?
Yeah, we just sing that in like music class.
There's a song called day is done, which is very sad by Peter, Paul and Mary and also by John Brown, Brian, two different songs, but the same title.
They're both sad.
Ronnie from Horrican says nights in white satin by the Moody Blues.
All right.
We will keep at these texts.
We're going to get through them.
Norm Kapaskey is coming up next to tell us about his awesome contest at Appleton Cigars, Peach Wabbit and Nightlight on the Civic Media Radio Network.
Welcome back.
This is Nightlight with Pete Schwabba.
We are jamming through a Thursday night here, the Christmas Eve of weeknights, folks.
It is great to have you with me.
Just to finish up those last texts from our question of the night, what is the saddest song ever written?
Mike from Cottage Grove says, Bob Dylan, Tangled Up in Blue.
Let's go back and listen to the lyrics for that.
I'm not sure what to thank you, Mike.
Jameson again from Pennsylvania.
He is owning the text line tonight.
Sorry, one more.
That's how I got to Memphis, Tom T. Hall, following love to be end and never getting her back.
Yeah, it's always losing someone.
These are all great.
Thank you, Jameson.
Christine from Slinger says the prayer sung by Andrea Bicelli.
Beautiful song.
Great one, Christine.
Lori from Hayward says, Pete, there's an Irish song called The Parting Glass that is really sad.
It's sung at a lot of Irish funerals.
There's also a wonderful song by Mike Manuel that's called If There's a Phone in Heaven, Put My Mama On when he wants to talk to his mama.
That's great, Lori.
Thank you.
All right.
We are going to ask this question to my next guest.
He comes to us bearing cigars and a bad-ass beard and a really cool hotel.
tattoo.
My next guest, folks, is the owner of Appleton Cigar, and he is a frequent guest on the show, and we love having him here, especially when he comes into the studio.
Norm Kepesky, hey, buddy.
Hey, thanks for having me on again.
Always fun.
I appreciate you coming in.
I appreciate your sponsorship for the show.
I love reading your ad every night.
If you have not been to Appleton Cigar, folks, check it out, especially if you like to play poker.
or if you like contests because they have a really cool one happening this weekend.
Should we jump right in and talk
about it?
Let's do that.
Yeah, absolutely.
And then we'll ask your saddest.
Sounds
good.
I made notes.
All right, cool.
So Norm is here.
They have a great event at Appleton Cigar this weekend involving Beards.
Tell me about
it, Norm.
Yeah, so Appleton Cigar is kind of the home base for Northeast Wisconsin bearded villains.
Bearded villains was a
kind of an online social media beard club.
Okay, they started throwing up chapters across the US and now it's worldwide.
And one of the one of the key principles that we have is as this organization is that we do charity work.
Yeah.
And so we're a nonprofit and we we do fundraising to support other nonprofits, which would be courage incorporated is who this year's beneficiary is and courage incorporated if you kind of follow all the different
companies here.
Courage Incorporated helps veterans and citizens, civilians, who've either gone through something traumatic, like a PTSD type event or catastrophic physical injuries, whatever like that, who just don't quite get to enjoy the outdoors again, the way they would before this before their injuries.
So Courage Incorporated, it's all volunteers, they go out and they take these people kayaking or
uh, white water rafting, fishing, camping.
Some people want to stack stones on the North Shore of Lake Superior.
And so they go up there and they just, just help these people touch grass again and just kind of regain some inner peace.
Courage incorporated.
That's where the proceeds will go from this year's Bearded Villains.
That's a second annual
or four.
No, wait,
this is our first beard competition.
Oh, okay.
This is our first year with the beard competition.
And so, um, this is kind of all.
kind of coming together for us.
And yeah.
So all right.
Now let's talk about that's so cool that you guys are doing that norm.
And I know you do a lot of that kind of work.
You're a believer in charity and all that kind
of stuff is just
outstanding.
What made you explain the title bearded villains?
What does that mean?
So the original core of the group was kind of these big bearded husky dark clothes wearing kind of Johnny Cash personas, some tattoos and right and
We often get kind of mistyped as hard people.
Yeah, we're pretty gooey inside.
Right.
And we love our families of our kids and love the brotherhood that we've got going on.
And so we we really work hard to kind of create a just a space for anybody, you know, to come in.
You got to have a beard, though.
And so or be the wife of a bearded person.
Right.
So all right, so how does this work?
I'm curious because I had a beard years ago Yeah, but how do you just like what goes into the judging?
It seems like it's kind of a subjective thing.
You got a really awesome beard You've obviously been working on it for a
long
time, but does that come into play is
how trim it is or Yeah, so so each judge is gonna kind of have their own criteria But but by and large the three categories that we have competitions for this weekend six inches and shorter
Okay, so beard length from the chin down six inches and longer and then best styled So guys will come in and their beards will be made into like octopus tentacles or it'll look like a bowl of ramen That would look good
on you Conrad
go for the octopus beard when you can grow a beard
So all right, so all those different factors, but like
it seems kind of subjective like there's no definite criteria for judging just
well I mean there kind of is like when when a person looks at a beard you can put seven beards in a room and you can kind of go through and like that's a good one that's maybe a little sparse or doesn't look like you've trimmed it in six years
taking care of your
beard right you know and so
it may work for them and that's what they're after but it's kind of up to the judge like how how dense do they want it right you know is it doesn't need to be full and thick all the way through does it need to be uncut from your from the sideburns all the way to the chin and it's just you know six in chair the whole way through i mean it there's different criteria like that
how long did it take you to get your beard to where it is today like how long a timespan to get to that length
it takes me about a year to grow it out this long
Oh, okay.
So I keep I'd spend this link for about four years now, but I keep it trimmed up every couple months I go in and get it cleaned up.
And do you
ever not want it?
The armpit heat up August.
Just so hot.
That's so funny.
And what about your wall like some women like beards, and some women don't like your wife is obviously I met your wife.
Yeah, she's obviously a beard lover.
Yeah, she is.
She's she's pretty protective of it.
So yeah, no one gets close to it except for her and my barber.
Are you in the contest?
I won't be.
You can't be okay.
No, we'll be playing host.
Okay.
Yeah.
That's
so cool.
Norm Kupaski is here, folks.
Check out Appleton Cigar.
He is one of the owners.
It's a great spot.
And they have this great event going on this weekend bearded villains all the proceeds or
A substantial amount of the proceeds go to Courage Incorporated, a group that does great things for people suffering from PTSD or physical ailments.
It sounds like just an outstanding event.
The last time you were here, Norm, you had this great, we talked about poker.
I'm a huge poker fan, but due to where I live mostly, it's kind of remote.
I'm playing online and I'm almost intimidated to play with real.
I mean, I'm playing against real people.
You can't read anybody.
It's all avatars and maybe people have the real.
Tell people if they wanted to come and check out a poker night
or if
they're curious, what is that
like?
So Tuesday night at seven o'clock, we start setting up the poker tables and it's a $10 buy-in.
All the winnings go to the players.
The house takes no cut of it.
Wow.
It all goes back to the players.
Same thing with Courage and Corporate.
All the proceeds from this go 100% goes to them.
Wow, that's not taking the cut of anything.
That's
great.
And so it's we want a friendly game.
We want a nice sociable atmosphere.
So it's very manners driven.
We have house rules that follow World Series poker rules.
Okay.
And so like those are just the standard rules.
I mean, it's we want a friendly game.
And do
they always turn out that way?
I mean, you seem like you get great clients out.
Yeah,
people get get what it is read the room and that kind of stuff.
You had I checked with you about two guys that have their own cigar company too and you deal with these guys Hank and Herschel.
Yeah, they were great guests
and they were
in here and you were like, yeah, we do business with them.
It's fine.
And so it was really fun to have them.
Hank kept referring to cigars as sticks.
Yep.
And I just love that.
I don't I've never I'd never heard that before.
Is that a new term or is that like a throwback?
Sticks has been some of the some of the lexicon for as long as I've been smoking cigars for the last 20 years.
Sticks, doggies, cigars.
Yeah.
Yeah.
What do you have a cigar like do you alternate?
Like do you have a favorite and then you'll smoke that for a while and then you kind of find something different or what what what are you into now?
Um, so I still, my, my standard cigar, my, my daily, you would call it.
Um, that's my roma craft, uh, whiskey rebellion in the Washington size.
Um, and then in my weekly slash monthly rotation is going to be lovely cigars.
It'll be 12 tribes, Hank and Herschel's.
Yeah.
It'll be, um, crown heads like a lot of Perotza, Tatawahe that I gave you guys tonight.
They make a lot of great cigars.
This is so cool.
I wish the
stream was up.
I would hold it for effect.
But anyway,
some you lose some.
But
yeah, there's just there's a ton of great cigars out there.
Yeah.
And and life's too short to just drink one can of coke, right?
Try it
out.
especially if you, someone who has like a nuanced taste for cigars, I ask you this every time you come on because people might be listening that have not smoked cigars.
But if they want to try it, what should they start with?
I mean, obviously,
they
should go to Appleton cigar and you'll steer them right.
But what would you have them or what advice would you give them?
So unlike in high school, when your buddies were trying to get you to smoke a cigarette, and they were they were looking for you to turn green and get sick.
We actually don't want that.
We want you to enjoy the experience.
So we're not going to
play some kind of crack at your expense on it.
So we're going to help steer you into a lighter cigar, like a Connecticut rapper, a lighter filler and binder.
So it would be like an Esteban Carreras cashmere or a Perdomo champagne or a Prolo Del Mar shade.
Lovely Mike Guem cigar.
Him and his buddies.
Okay.
Um, it would be their lovely elegante.
It would be something that's on that.
There's some flavor.
There's some complexity, but it's not so strong that you want to turn green on it.
It's kind of, is it kind of like the same with alcohol, like whiskey?
You could just make straight up alcohol whiskey with no flavor really.
And okay, that's fine.
But is it the same with cigars?
You want a little hint of something?
You
do.
Yeah, you do.
And you can go all the way from
from the Evercleers through the vodka's.
So you're slowly incorporating more and more flavors into an Irish whiskey.
And then you have bourbons and rye and scotches.
And they all have little subtleties going on in different
ways.
You told me, I think the last time you were here, your choice of beverage with a cigar is coffee.
That's right.
Is it still
that way?
Still is coffee.
What if you were going to go for a cocktail?
What would you match with a cigar?
I would do maker's mark original.
Two thirds of the way full of ice and then just cap the ice and bourbon.
See, it's interesting.
I'm not, I don't have near the, it's not, I can't, I'm not even in the same conversation you with cigar knowledge, but whenever I did have a glass of like Irish whiskey or something, I liked it room temp with a cigar.
I don't know, is that in my outside the lines there?
It's to each their own.
Yeah.
It really is.
Okay.
What serves your palate the best and what facilitates your enjoyment?
I think last time you were here, you said you smoke a cigar every day.
And, oh, here we go.
You got some, you're getting some love on the text line.
Oh, very cool.
Thanks,
guys.
J.B.
Thompson.
I am, I said, Neil Diamond.
Norm is a master of cigars.
Oh, we certainly know that, J.B.
I think J.B.
introduced us.
Yeah, he did.
Thank you, J.B.
The guy behind the guy, Conrad.
Behind the
guy.
Behind the guy.
Thank you, JB.
And I could not agree more.
Neil, you were talking about Johnny Cash.
Yeah.
Neil Diamond has a song called Solitary Man
about the
guy who broke up a sad song.
Johnny Cash does a version of that with that Johnny Cash voice.
Forget
about it.
It's fantastic.
It's like I want to look them up.
Oh, it's great.
It's for your ride home norm.
Yeah.
Solitary Man, Johnny Cash.
I've been listening to it at the gym because it's a sad song, but his voice.
Still get you pumped up because it's Johnny Cash, you know All right, so we'll have more we'll have a few more minutes with our pal at Norm Kopaski when we come back and we'll give you a reminder of the Really cool event bearded villains going on at Appleton cigar this weekend highly recommend it once again folks tonight's keyword is chill CH ILL for the civic media text-to-win contest be part of the fun and text that word in on the app
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Steady Eddie chiming in here.
He's in the 6-0-8, Pete.
I'm remembering the sad, mysterious, and haunting song, Ode to Billy Joe.
It was released in 1967 by singer-songwriter Bobby Gentry.
I remember listening to it back then on the radio.
It was the number one song on the charts for four weeks.
Oh, good memory, Steady Eddie.
Jeez.
It's about Billy Joe McAllister, a young man who jumped off the Tallahatchie Bridge.
I don't think I'd write a song about something like that.
It's just like...
Really
tragic, right?
I like that steady gave you the phonetic of that.
Yeah, thank
God.
He says look for it on YouTube.
Bobby Gentry saying it live and in color and on the Andy Williams TV show 1971 steady Eddie.
Thank you, buddy.
I want to show this to Norm.
Norm Kepesky is my guest from Appleton Cigar.
Look at how Kim Kardashian plays poker.
She wore mirrored sunglasses while playing poker so everybody could see.
That's usually helpful.
You can tell if she has a poker face, too.
Norm Kepesky is my guest.
Check out bearded villains, folks.
If you love beards, if you have a beard, even if you don't love beards, it's gonna be a fun event at Appleton Cigar this weekend.
The actual beard judging is Saturday at 12.30.
And it's so hey put your beard out there all the proceeds go to a great cause courage Incorporated it's a it's a really fun event and it's a bunch of great guys that hang out at Appleton cigar and girls I would assume
your wife
smoke cigars.
Yes, that's right.
I remember.
Yeah.
Well, probably smoke out smoke me Conrad when are you gonna smoke your cigar?
I guess probably tonight.
Okay.
I think I'm gonna
say we'll watch in some football.
Yeah, I'm gonna
All right, so Norm, I have to ask you, do you have favorite people to smoke a cigar?
I'm sure you smoke alone sometimes, but are there people in particular you can't wait to see and light up a cigar with?
Because I have those people and I
don't
smoke cigars that often.
Yeah, so it'd be my dad, my brothers, or the three of my children that are old enough to smoke.
Wow, so
your kids are into it too, which makes
sense, yeah.
That's so awesome.
All right, so you have another...
incident, event coming up at Appleton Cigar on the 18th of October.
Tell us about that.
Yeah, so LaGloria Cigars is one of the brands that we carry and does really well for us.
Our rep, John Curtis, is coming in and he's going to be putting on a big show that afternoon with some door prizes and buy ten get two cigar type deals going on.
We do we do box price which is 10% off of off the box box purchase a little glory or any
How much is a box typically of good cigars like that
a box of cigars like that could be 180 to 400 Wow, but you're getting 20 cigars out of it 20 to 30 cigars, right?
Yeah
Yeah, that's so cool.
All right.
Well, so check out that too folks on the 18th at Appleton cigar La Gloria a fun event to especially if you I think it's a great place to go if you want to learn I think I told you one time when you were here on the show before norm
The first time I went to a cigar lounge, I didn't know what to expect.
I ended up having the time of my life.
It was just like, if you just like shooting the whatever and hanging out, it's just a great way to kill some time, but still enjoy life.
That's right.
There's some great storytellers and every cigar lounge I've ever been to.
Yeah.
Talking about current events, pop culture.
Right.
I mean, all kinds of different stuff.
Military stories, career, you know, their life is a career, whatever.
Irreviation pilot down the basketball coach, etc.
That's and that's the best place I remember that too because I love being around people You know, we all have our regulars people were with there's no surprises.
It's so great when you meet people You don't know where they're coming from what story they're gonna lay on you and it just I love meeting people like that and a cigar lounge is a great place to do that.
Do you have a You just said you're you're a big burly guy.
Yep
gooey on the inside,
like a
lot of you villains.
What do you have a favorite sad song?
It'd have to be either traveling soldier or whiskey lullaby.
Who sings those
now?
Traveling soldier, I know it by the Dixie Chicks.
It was came out in the 70s, though, post Vietnam.
And I don't know who the original performer was,
but they covered it.
Yeah, Dixie Chicks covered it and it's so mournful.
And then whiskey lullaby is Brad Paisley and
Ah, just spaced your name.
A duet.
It's a duet.
Okay, Brad.
Alison Krauss.
Thank you.
Yes.
Oh, I love Alison Krauss.
And the Dixie Chick.
And Brad Paisley.
That's fantastic.
Alison Krauss, though, has a phenomenal voice.
Oh, that's cool.
Okay.
You want to play a one hit wonder song, Conrad?
Let's see if, let's see if Norm can, can, we were doing this contest before with Ben.
I don't want to put you on the spot, but these are pretty easy.
I heard you whiff on Ram Jam.
That
was a big time whiff, but I did let him have soft sell.
I knew that one, but I, I don't
know.
How
nice of you.
Completely outclassed.
I'll class a jam pretty jam.
All right.
Yeah, I could go, do you want,
let's just
do one.
Sure.
Cause I know we're, maybe we can get two and let's see how, let's see how Norm does.
But
what is it I don't know the song that it's a weird weird name that they have for the band It's not the start it's not the end it's the middle That's the name of the band that's the name of the song
The band's name is Jimmy Eats World.
Oh, Jimmy Eats World.
Yeah, I remember them.
All right, well, we can do one more.
Let's get one
more.
Yeah, let's do it.
1,000 miles.
Yes.
Correct.
Wait, what, 10,000?
10,000 miles.
That was 500.
No,
it's
5,000.
Oh, 5,000 miles.
We're kind of both, right?
Yeah,
there we go.
Norm Kopecki, best of luck this weekend with your event.
Check out Bearded Villains, folks.
If you're into Beards, cigars are just hanging out and having a good time.
Hopped down to Appleton Cigar this weekend.
Everything starts tomorrow, but the contest is 12.30 on Saturday.
Yeah, so we kick things off with a meet and greet, kind of open house style.
Appleton's doing their Oktoberfest, so we block off downtown one end of the other, and it's licensed to cruise, so it's a car show, and then Saturday
starts up with the beer tents and great food and then we have a great
time.
My thanks to Ben Chan and my pal, Norm Kepesky, and all of your texts.
We didn't get to all of them.
We will, whatever we didn't get to today, we'll get to tomorrow.
It's a bar ban Friday night.
We'll be back on behalf of the lovable producer Conrad.
I'm Pete Schwabba saying good night, Wisconsin.