Meals with a Friend(Hour 2)

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Meals with a Friend(Hour 2)

Nite Lite with Pete Schwaba and Greg Bach · Mon Feb 24, 2025

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And now, a guy who believes in an eye for an eye, but only if they're lowercase, Pete Schwabba.

Pete Schwabba

Welcome to Night Light, ladies and gentlemen.

Happy Monday, everybody.

Thank God the weekend is over, so we can get back at it and talk about the things we love to talk about in our lives.

Movies, TV, comedy, theater, sports, all, all things entertainment here at Nightlight.

Finally, we are back on the air after a long, arduous weekend.

And it's beautiful today.

It's like 50 degrees.

Conrad, why aren't you wearing shorts?

That's a good question.

Yeah, come on,

Conrad

man.

I was going to, but then I realized...

I realized it was going to be colder at night.

So I was like, eh, probably shouldn't do it

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yet.

Colder at night.

Just yet.

Because when I was here last week, there was like three feet of snow right next to the cars out here.

It's gone after one day.

That's so amazing.

Conrad

You know, it's funny.

I went and visited a friend last night and his, his, uh, his driveway was kind of full of snow.

So I had a hard time getting over it.

He's like, I'm not going to shovel.

She's going to melt tomorrow

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anyway.

That's how I was.

I had a friend come over.

Um,

on Saturday.

Nathan Deming, who came over, we had a screening on Saturday of his film, February, which he talked about here last week.

So I kind of had to shovel the stairs, which was frustrating because we were gone a lot, and so I just didn't even bother, and it was gonna warm up.

But Nathan's coming over.

I wanted to fall and break his cockyx right before his big screening, so I had to shovel a little bit, but.

That's all right.

Yeah, it's beautiful today.

And guess how I spent the day knowing it was so beautiful outside.

Inside.

Inside doing absolutely nothing.

Conrad

There you go.

Pete Schwabba

Except prepping the show.

That's how worn out I was from the weekend.

We had, it was a fun weekend.

We had our Christmas party for Civic Media here in Northeast Wisconsin.

And Sage and Aaron came up from Madison.

That was fun in Jacqueline.

And we had the whole Northeast Wisconsin crew here down at the Heights.

Boy, what a cool place that is,

Conrad

huh?

I never went.

Upstairs that's awesome up there.

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I think I had a burger there once but the spread they put out was like oh,

Conrad

yeah,

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it's really really good and you know pretty healthy which No argument there, but really fun to see everybody a great time that started my weekend and then on Saturday I introduced Nathan's film at the Mariner theater in up in Marinette We probably had about 30 people show up, which isn't too bad had a nice Q&A the film went over really well And then I got in the car and drove to Steven's point to see my daughter

Pardon me.

Which was phenomenal.

They had a show in the theater.

It was great.

We got to hang out.

And here's, okay, this is true sickness at its best.

The next day we went out to eat.

My wife, my daughter and I. We're about to head back to Marinette.

I decide I need a chocolate shake in the world's worst way.

Okay.

Just to kind of nurse on the way home.

It's two hour drive, you know.

So we go to Cold Stone and

There was one person working and there were about 12 people in line in front of us.

That did not stop me.

We were there for 30 minutes, I'm not kidding.

Wow.

It was true, like, just addiction at its best.

I needed a chocolate milkshake.

Conrad

Could have just went to McDonald's and got one of theirs.

Pete Schwabba

No way.

Conrad

You were determined for the cold stone.

I needed

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some kind of designer milkshake.

I'm not going to McDonald's when I have a milkshake a year, right?

But my wife and my daughter are both just standing there rolling their eyes waiting for me.

But when you're doing the driving, I can call those kind of shots.

I

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can say, I'm getting a

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milkshake.

And then of course they both ended up getting something too.

But oh my God, it was a little ridiculous.

I don't wait in line for anything.

I don't wait in line to get into nightclubs, restaurants.

I don't care how good the food is.

I've never had food that was good enough for me to take 45 minutes waiting for a table.

I just wouldn't do it.

I waited 30 minutes for the milkshake.

Conrad

You know, I've had the Cold Stone one in Appleton.

Yeah.

And I agree.

It'd be worth it.

It's good stuff.

It's good.

If you're

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not in a hurry.

Yeah.

If she had said it's gonna be 30 minutes, I would have turned around and left.

I didn't know that though.

I got the family of five, five kids in front of us, probably all under five years old, and the kids are taking their time making up what their mind, what they want.

I'm like, oh dear God, please, let's go.

You're the mom, just say vanilla ice cream, five vanilla ice creams, and be done with it.

You don't let a kid choose at three years old,

Conrad

do you?

That's their biggest decision in their life right

Pete Schwabba

there.

Conrad

I guess it is, yeah.

They want Oreos or M&Ms.

Pete Schwabba

Right.

Hey, welcome to Nightlight, folks.

It's great to have you with us wherever you're joining me from across this great state, this beautiful tropical warm state today.

It's good to have you, folks.

And you can catch us on, hey, how can people watch the radio?

Conrad, we should really square that away.

Conrad

Yeah.

So on Facebook, we're under Nightlight with Pete Schwabba, WGBW or WISS.

On YouTube, it's Civic Media or WGBW.

And on Twitter.

Just twitter just

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twitter

Conrad

wgbw or civic media.

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Yeah, phone lines are open Let us know what you're thinking folks 8 5 5 7 5 2 4 8 4 2 You're welcome to chime in on anything.

We're talking about It's just good to have you or text us 8 5 5 7 5 2 4 8 4 2 same number and text us on the app if you have the app It's so easy to use so I have I have to say we got a great show tonight Mariah Gates will be here.

She is a published author She has a new book that is out tomorrow It's called

Cinema Herway, visionary female directors in their own words.

Mariah is a film critic for RogerEbert.com.

She has a great sub-stack.

She's going to join us at 635.

Talk about our new book.

We'll talk a little Oscars, which are now officially less than one week away.

But I'm excited to have Mariah on the show.

She's always a good convo.

And then at 735, a guy from my hometown named Chad Francker will be here.

Chad has a new business.

He's about to launch.

And it's great.

And I'm gonna just say it is, Chad is hoping to help cure loneliness.

So we will do that.

I think it's called, he sent us the information and now I've lost it.

It was in front of me.

Meals with a friend.

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Where is this?

I am

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sorry, Chad.

But Chad will be here at 735 talking about this really cool new idea he has.

He's about to launch it.

And it's just a way that Chad wants to give back and help people who are lonely by connecting them, doing something that's good for the community, helping people make meaningful connections and combating loneliness.

And what's wrong with that?

I ask you, nothing.

So Chad will be here in the studio.

Oh, it's called Meal with a Friend.

That's it.

Chad will be here at 735 in studio.

He's making the drive down from Marinette like I do every day.

And it will be great to have him here talking about his new, very cool business.

Boy, I had a, somehow, don't ask me how I did it.

With all my traveling and introducing a movie and going to the Civic Media Party, I still managed to watch.

Green and Gold, a little film you might have heard of by our

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pal,

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Andrews Linwall, went to see it last night with my mom and my wife.

Very sweet story.

Very, very sentimental.

Have you seen it yet?

I have not.

Yeah, I'd be interested to know what you think.

I enjoyed it.

It is very heartwarming.

I will say that.

And I kind of knew it wasn't going to be controversial or edgy because I knew that Culver's helped finance it.

So I thought it would be sort of more of a heartwarming thing.

And it certainly was.

Craig T. Nelson is great.

Brandon Sklenar is great.

He is not in it as much as I thought, though.

I will say that.

Actor who stole the show, in my opinion, was the female lead, Madison Lawler.

She was great.

And I don't know where they found her, but I was watching the film and I felt like I had seen her in something.

But she was really good.

And she plays a girl living on a farm, or grandpa's farm, who has a dream.

She wants to get out there and sing.

And that was a huge component in the movie, really more than the Packers.

So I understand why they...

build it as kind of a packer movie because there was certainly that element.

There was a lot more going on in this film too, but we watched that.

Love to know what you hear, what you thought of Green and Gold folks.

If you saw it in the theaters, I think that's the only place you could have seen it so far.

I do believe it is out on streaming very soon though.

We've had Anders Linwall on the show.

He was a great guest, very hardworking guy, and I applaud him for getting this film made because it's quite an achievement.

filmed in beautiful Door County.

And great performances, Craig T. Nelson, Brandon Sklenar, Madison Lawler.

It was Emmett Walsh's last film.

That's kind of cool.

But let me know what you thought of Green and Gold.

I would love to hear your thoughts on that.

I also saw a film last night called The Gorge.

And I'll talk about that after the break, because right now, young man, we need to get to our question of the night.

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Let's talk about the question.

Okay, question.

Question.

Conrad

Question.

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Pregunta.

Conrad

Question.

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Question.

Conrad

Okay, I have a question.

Questions.

This question.

Domanda.

Question.

Question.

Pete Schwabba

It's National Tortilla Chip Day, folks.

Everywhere in this great country of ours, amid political turmoil, we celebrate the tortilla chip, which leads me to our question of the night, which is, what is your favorite chip?

I'll be honest.

I wish I could go the rest of my life without eating a chip.

I don't need them.

They're not good for you.

They're salty.

Most of them have tons of ingredients.

Having said that, what are you going to have with the sandwich?

Just a pickle?

I doubt it.

Some fruit?

Wow.

Who wants that?

What is your favorite chip?

That's our question of the night.

Let us know.

Conrad, you said you liked...

Conrad

Yes, the Frito-Lays

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twist.

Something from the Fritos family.

Conrad

Frito-Lays twist, and it's the honey barbecue.

Pete Schwabba

I've had that.

That's a dynamite chip.

Conrad

It is so good.

If I see it, I'm always like, do I get it, or do I not?

Pete Schwabba

Yeah.

You know?

Conrad

There's not a chip that makes me actually do that besides that.

Pete Schwabba

Okay.

See, I'm sort of... I've got three different...

It's a three-way race.

Organic Doritos with no red dye 40.

Conrad

Yep, the white cheddar.

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White cheddar.

Really good.

It's a good chip.

And you know what?

In some strange way, I get sick of those quicker than regular Doritos, so I have like 10 of them, I'm fine.

Because most chips, I go to town and I can't stop eating them.

I polished off several Pringles last night.

I do like a good Pringle.

Conrad

There's so many different flavors of Pringles now.

I can't even decide which one I want.

It's

Pete Schwabba

true.

It's like the Ben and Jerry's of chips.

Yes.

So I would have to say probably, and you know potato chips are relatively healthy.

Typically the least, the fewer ingredients in a chip, the healthier they are.

And most potato chips have like potatoes and salt.

Same with Fritos.

I think it's just like corn and oil and salt.

And I like Fritos.

I'm gonna have to noodle this for a couple minutes, maybe through the break.

Conrad

So I tried to make my own tortilla chip once.

Pete Schwabba

Oh, really?

How'd that go?

Conrad

Because I just was like, all right, I had the low carb tortillas.

Pete Schwabba

Yeah, oh yeah, okay.

A low carb chip.

Conrad

Oh, it turned out so bad.

Pete Schwabba

Really?

Like how?

Like soggy or just tasted bad?

Conrad

Tasted bad, kind of soggy.

And I made the whole batch.

I didn't even try it to make sure it was good.

Pete Schwabba

Did you eat them

Conrad

all?

I got through them, but needed a lot of salsa on it.

Pete Schwabba

All right, I'll give mine after the break.

I'll give my favorite chip.

We'll talk about, there's so much to talk about.

Cocaine Bear came out on this day two years ago.

The SAG Awards happened last night.

Reacher, there's a new Reacher season out.

And I did kind of like this movie, The Gorge, but we've got Mariah Gates coming up at 635.

We'll talk about her new book.

Send him her way.

I can't wait to read it.

So we'll do all that.

We got a lot to get to.

Great to have you with me on this Monday night edition of Nightlight with Pete Schwabba on the Civic Media Radio Network.

Hey, Pete and Conrad, my favorite chip is ranch Doritos.

If I had to wage your money on the number one answer tonight, I think I would probably guess people would say ranch Doritos.

Conrad

They're dynamite.

Pete Schwabba

You know, they're good.

Yeah, there's no question.

I think if I had to go with the Dorito that wasn't the organic, you know, I'd forget the organic.

This is favorite chip.

I'm going to go nuts here.

I'm going to say Pringles.

Conrad

Is there a certain just

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regular?

The

Conrad

right old

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school, you know the og

Conrad

I really like Their cheddar sour cream and onion Pringles.

Pete Schwabba

Yeah,

Conrad

those are really good

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that I've had those those get overwhelming after a while though It's almost like too much of a taste.

Do you know

Conrad

what too much cheddar too much sour?

I think so

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like with the regular Pringles you can suck those things down and all of a sudden you're like is that

everything in the canister I just ate, like what happened there?

Do you put your whole arm down it to make sure?

I do, it's hard to get out, you know, luckily.

Anna says her favorite chip is ranch Doritos, and I do think that would be number one, but I'm gonna go taco Doritos.

If I had to pick a taco, I think that was the first flavor, even before nacho cheese.

Conrad

Those are really good.

They are good.

I think it was the first because they always make that retro bag for it.

Pete Schwabba

Yeah, exactly.

And you feel like you're...

The bag looks like a Mexican restaurant.

It has a cool colors and like Monica from Mount Horrib.

She's also in the 608 says, Ms.

Vicki's jalapeno potato chips.

I've seen those and they look too fancy for me, Monica.

Conrad

I'm not gonna

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lie.

The bag is like a designer bag.

It's overwhelming.

Those,

Conrad

I mean, but I'll try them out.

The sub shops like Jimmy John's or not Jimmy John's, but Subway.

Subway, yeah.

They have those, Ms.

Vicki's chips, and I've tried the jalapeno one.

Pete Schwabba

It

Conrad

is

Pete Schwabba

really good.

Okay.

As long as we get a voucher.

That's a great one.

And those actually, those are chips I do mean to try, because I like a good jalapeno chip.

But I haven't tried those yet, Monica, but keep those texts coming.

What is your favorite chip?

It's International Tortilla Chip Day, folks.

We could not let this question fall by the wayside.

So yeah, I saw this movie last night called The Gorge, and it's Miles Teller and Anna Joy Taylor.

Is it Anna Taylor Joy or Anna Joy Taylor?

Let's go to the IMDB.

Taylor Joy.

Okay, Anna Taylor Joy.

They're both charged with manning a watch tower, one on the east side of a gorge, the other on the west side of a gorge.

You can barely see the tower.

And the contract is for one year.

They each replace someone who kind of fills them in.

and says you're basically, there's bad things in the gorge, there's like this mysterious fog over the gorge, and one guy tells Miles Teller, you're guarding the gates of hell.

You're not trying to stop people from going into the gorge, you're trying to stop or kill anything that comes out of there.

And basically what happens was it was a nuclear meltdown in the 40s.

And you have DNA from plants, animals, and humans all kind of meshing together in these crazy weird creatures.

Anyway, the two people in the watchtowers are not even supposed to communicate.

But they do, obviously, they fall in love.

That part of it kind of drags.

But it's a good film.

It's a great Netflix movie.

Like one of those things you could just watch at home, you don't have to go to the theater.

And I feel like, I hate to say this, but when I find a great Netflix movie, I don't expect it to be perfect.

Yeah, I just expect it to be passable and not buffer.

So I really enjoyed it and I can kind of recommend it because it's a great concept.

It looks cool.

Miles Teller is great.

Anna Taylor-Joy is great.

And they figure out a way to get over and see each other so they have contact.

They break the rules.

Sigourney Weaver plays the head of the whole project.

It's like this like mercenary group.

Kind of a cool film, but far from perfect.

Conrad

It sounds like a really cool story.

to it

Pete Schwabba

yeah i like what they did like that what the gorge is and what's down there and there's water there's an old like chem lab a missile silo it's just crazy you saw that in the theaters no i saw that last night on netflix

Conrad

oh so it is netflix okay

Pete Schwabba

yeah i was gonna watch nickle boys if i want to see the last three oscar films that are on then i'm i've seen all 10 and i will but it's probably gonna cost me 60 bucks

And that really ticks me off you 20 bucks a pop to rent nickel boys and I Can't remember if it was the brutalist or I'm still here one

Conrad

of

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them

Conrad

They are doing at Marcus where you can go see the films, right?

And I think it's like a $25 package and you can see five films.

Pete Schwabba

That's pretty good.

Conrad

Yeah

Pete Schwabba

Unfortunately

I live an hour from the closest Marcus theater.

Conrad

I

Pete Schwabba

don't have that luxury, but you could have a really late night

Conrad

after night.

I could do that or I

Pete Schwabba

could come down early, which is what I'll probably do.

I almost came down early to see I'm still here today.

That would be a lot cheaper than sitting on my butt and renting it at home.

Um, and I have one episode left in white lotus season two.

Conrad

Oh, real news.

Great conversation from the walkie and beyond.

Everything

Pete Schwabba

comes to a head.

And I'm kind of excited.

I'm gonna watch that tonight.

Conrad

Well to discuss tomorrow if you enjoyed season one or season two more

Pete Schwabba

You know what it's been a couple years I don't even remember I remember season one and the characters and I love the guy who was on his honeymoon Who couldn't let it go that he didn't have the honeymoon the main honeymoon sweet guy at the front desk is messing with him I left hysterically I thought I know it's gonna sound

Because I used to date her but city sweetie was

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really

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good.

She played that really snotty brat Steve Zahn was great.

You know, what did you like better?

Conrad

I like season two.

Okay, there's just so many more twists and turns You just never know where it's gonna go.

Yeah, and then the finale is just insane

Pete Schwabba

All right now you got me excited All right, so I'll watch that later.

We'll discuss that tomorrow white load of season two Let us know if you see what did you think a white load of season two folks chime in if you like?

Uh, and I would give, I'll give green and gold a thumbs up.

It was a nice movie for the area.

It was heartwarming.

It was beautifully shot.

Great cast.

Um, I will say Craig Nelson was not particularly likable, but it worked within the story because it made his granddaughter even more likable, but you'll have to see that.

Conrad

It kind of, what, from what I saw, it looked like in the trailer that he was going to be a grumpy old farmer.

Pete Schwabba

And he is.

Yeah.

That's exactly what he is.

And the only thing I would say, it would be better if, like, because the Packers are such a prominent subplot, embedding the farm and the Packers going all the way, it would be nice if they could get more NFL films footage.

Because they kind of they faked it really well.

They

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We're gonna check out one of our friends, Mariah Gates, is joining me next to talk about her new book, Cinema Her Way.

visionary female directors in their own words, and then we'll talk some Oscars too with our friend Mariah Gates.

That's coming up next.

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The 920 Paula says I love salt and vinegar chips does not matter what brand That's a serious chip connoisseur right there.

I can't do some vinegar.

No, it's a little overwhelming You got to be in the right mindset.

You also cannot have any no-chap lips No cracks.

Yeah That is an assault on your taste buds the salt and vinegar you have to be as serious as that's like smoking non-filtered cigarettes Love them both

Hey, this is exciting.

I'm very happy to welcome my next guest.

She's been on the show before a few times and I just love talking to her about movies.

She is a film critic and writes for RogerEbert.com as well as her own sub-stack, which I encourage you to follow.

But recently, I think she's publishing, I think this is her second book.

It hits.

Shelves tomorrow?

Do we still have books?

I don't know.

But you can get her work.

It's available tomorrow.

Cinema Her Way, visionary female directors in their own words.

She's here to talk about it with us right now on Night Light, Mariah Gates.

Hi, Mariah.

Mariah Gates

Hi.

Pete Schwabba

How are you?

Mariah Gates

I'm good.

I also love salt and vinegar potato chips.

And it was very dangerous during road trips as a child because I would open the bag and my whole family would be like, no, roll down the windows.

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So.

Pete Schwabba

Some people can handle that.

Some people can't.

It's like the ghost pepper of chips, I think.

It is pretty intense, but I appreciate you sharing that.

Are you like me?

Like, I wish I didn't even... If I could scratch a food that I never craved again, it would probably be chips, because there's like zero nutritional value.

Mariah Gates

No, there's nothing good about eating chips, but I do love them.

Yeah, it's probably the most dangerous especially corn chips like you know chips and salsa at a restaurant I Always like eat that and then I can't eat my meal

Pete Schwabba

your meal comes you're already like 4,000 calories in yeah tons of sodium It's ridiculous.

Do you have as a writer?

You know something when I

Used to drink I would have a glass of whiskey when I sat down to write a script Some people smoke cigars or cigarettes Do you have something you do when you write like whether it's eat chips or smoke or drink or what do you do?

Mariah Gates

I usually drink water Sometimes it is the afternoon.

I'll drink tea.

I love drinking tea I actually have spilled tea on a lot of books But the main thing I do when I really want to get plugged in

to write something as I have to find the right playlist, like whatever the vibe I'm

Pete Schwabba

feeling.

And

Mariah Gates

sometimes it takes a bit to, like today I was working on a piece and the playlist I had chosen was wrong.

And I was like, this is wrong.

And I had to like take, take, got to me out of it.

I had to restart, find a new playlist.

But once you hit the right, I don't know if I necessarily write to the rhythm of the music, but I definitely like get into sort of a fugue state.

Pete Schwabba

Okay,

Mariah Gates

the rhythm of the music is aligned with whatever my brain is feeling that makes sense.

Pete Schwabba

It absolutely makes sense.

That makes total sense.

Yeah I will say I used to write Same deal I'd have a playlist and then I found that I got excited about the songs and I'm like I'll never be able to forward these in the script So I kind of and I would get caught up in the music instead of my story So I switched to jazz

Mariah Gates

Which

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is great because it's kind of hard to follow and it

Mariah Gates

was

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I found it was just a great

mood enhancer for whatever I was writing, but it took me like 15 years to find that.

Hey, it's great to have you here.

Thank you for your time tonight.

How have you been?

Mariah Gates

Cold.

This winter has been brutal.

Pete Schwabba

Absolutely.

Do you have, all right, so this is exciting.

You've written other books, correct?

Mariah Gates

I've contributed to other books.

This is my first completely me.

Everything is my work.

It's interviews though, so half of what you're reading is the words of the women I interviewed and half of it is either my contextualization or questions.

But it's the first book that is wholly like, I don't know, come out of my head like Athena.

It's been really difficult.

Pete Schwabba

Well, congratulations.

That's so

Mariah Gates

exciting.

Pete Schwabba

The book is called Cinema Her Way, Visionary Female Directors in their own words.

Tell us how you concepted this.

You write about film all the time.

You're a great

Mariah Gates

writer

Pete Schwabba

when it comes to movies.

This seems like a natural book to write, but to hone in on women directors and to track them down, it seems like an overwhelming amount of work.

Mariah Gates

Yeah, well my specialty really is female directors and it stems from several years worth of, well it started in 2013 when I saw two documentaries that just really made me rethink the entire film canon and all of the women that I didn't even know about.

The films were not about female directors, they were about women in history and women in the arts and

how they're excluded from Cannons and that made me start thinking about film Cannons and then the next year there were this all these lists of like the best films ever and there would be like one film directed by a woman and I'm like well I know there's more than one out of every hundred films that are like this is wrong and then I started seeing like there was a little bit of a movement of like here's 10 women you should know and it was always the same 10 women and I'm like well I know there are more than 10 female directors this is none of this is working out and so all of that kind of

started me writing every week.

I wrote about a different woman director.

That was 2014.

And then in 2015, as sort of a bit of a social experiment slash protest, I only watched films directed by women for the entire year, whether it was in theaters, a rewatch, older films, partly to discover the women that I hadn't seen, partly to support the women who are currently making films and partly to show that you could do that.

And I did not run out of films.

I didn't even come close to running out of films and at the time I lived in LA So there were some weeks where I could have gone to a different theater every night and seen a film Directed by a woman whether it was a rep theater or a new film and so after the end of that year I had been hoping to take you know, my knowledge and put it into Book form and I spent years sort of dabbling on different ideas And mostly not being able to have the time because I was working at first I was working at Turner classic movies and then I was working at Netflix and I was just doing too much

work for other people, you know?

With an emphasis on filmstract by women, I got a lot of films by women on filmstract.

I marketed a lot of filmstract by women when I was at Netflix.

But then I quit.

I quit the corporate wheel and just sort of became a full-time writer.

And around that same time, an agent reached out to me and said, do you have a book idea?

And I was like, I have a half finished

Proposal, what do you think and and originally the idea was to to do small profiles of 365 different women So like you could flip through it like a page a day calendar kind of thing, but in book form Nobody thought that was sellable, which is probably fair, but Rosoli was interested in

putting out a book about women directors.

And they found out that I had this interview column that I do for rogerieber.com, where I interview women every month.

And they were like, why don't we combine those two and do interviews?

And then that way, it's the thing that you're already kind of known for and a strength of yours, and you're still highlighting a variety of women.

And so that's really the genesis of the book.

But in the back of the book,

There is an appendix with another 360, I think, eight names.

It's supposed to be 365, but I kept adding more women than I wanted to highlight.

So if you did want to do the experiment of a film a day by a different female director, I have given you some names.

Pete Schwabba

That's fantastic.

Yeah.

So, all right, so you're obviously, this is what you do.

You're a film historian and a critic, and you know a lot more about films than most of us.

What did you learn?

that you didn't already know.

I imagine.

Mariah Gates

I love that question.

Yeah.

I mean, partly I learned a lot about each individual filmmaker's process, which was really the goal.

I wanted to allow them a space to talk about process because I have found in the past that women directors are often not.

asked about their process they're mostly asked what's it like to be a woman and like you know that's boring you're talking to an artist talk to them about their art you know so that was part of it but the other thing that I found really fascinating and a little sad was I spoke to women who've been working over five decades and I talked to someone who started out in the 70s and they talked about how hard it was to be listened to and to get their projects off the ground and to be taken seriously and then I talked to someone who started making films 10 years ago and

They told me almost the same story.

And these women didn't know they were talking about the same things.

And I didn't ask them to tell me this.

This is what they shared.

This was their story working in the industry.

And it was a bit depressing to hear someone 50 years apart and women are still having kind of some of the same hurdles.

But then there were also several women who started working later.

that I talked to you know like women who start making films in the 90s and 2000s who were inspired by some of the women that I spoke to who were making films in the 70s and 80s and so it was nice to see also the way these like earlier pioneers really did influence these other women and so there's this big conversation.

In fact the cover of the book is a Karin Kusama film and the back of the book is a Martha Coolidge film and part of the reason those are the two images is Karin Kusama saw

Martha Coolidge's Valley Girl in theaters as a teenager and that's how she knew she wanted to become a filmmaker and she knew she could become a filmmaker and so what I really loved was seeing not just the sort of sad commonalities but the the happy commonalities and the influence that these women had on each other whether they knew it or not.

Pete Schwabba

Do you?

My guest is Mariah Gates.

She writes for RogerEver.com.

She writes for herself.

Check out her sub-stack.

And she has a new book available tomorrow called Cinema Her Way, Visionary Female Directors, in their own words.

Mariah, just keeping the subject about women for the time being, what...

As opposed to female directors, do you find there are a lot of women writing about cinema or more than there used to be 20 years ago maybe or 40

Mariah Gates

years ago?

Yeah, I definitely think there is.

I think there's a lot more outlets for women to write and obviously a lot more self-publishing that's available.

I think Rotten Tomatoes in particular has found a way to amplify more women who write about film or who use

TikTok or YouTube or what have you.

I actually used to do the social media at Ron Tomatoes.

And long before they were called out by Meryl Streep for not having enough women on the tomato meter, I actually audited their critics database and I was like, I think you have a problem.

And then like a year later, yeah.

And then like a year later, Meryl Streep was like, you guys have a problem and that was a public problem.

But sometimes that's what it takes, you know, to get, and it went, I don't want to

say that it was not my boss's fault.

I want to make that very clear.

It was the people who owned Rotten Tomatoes at the time who did not want to address the issue.

Actually, my boss at the time was the person who first hired me to interview women because he had taken over a different outlet and was like, I want to continue helping you amplify these voices.

So he's an amazing person.

But I think the main thing really is there are a lot of gatekeepers and there are a lot of

specific hurdles.

And most of the time it's not on like, I don't think the people know they're doing it.

They're just not noticing that it's a lot of internal bias that's, you know, the problem with most.

Yeah, systemic subconscious.

Pete Schwabba

Yeah.

So you do the social media for rotten tomatoes currently?

Or are

Mariah Gates

you?

No, I did in 2015 when I did it with women.

That's when I worked there.

Pete Schwabba

Do you think

This is off topic, but I have noticed, I feel like films get better reviews now than they used to.

Mariah Gates

I don't know if it's

Pete Schwabba

critics are scared

Mariah Gates

to- No, I think a lot of that has to do with people being afraid to lose access.

Pete Schwabba

Yeah.

Mariah Gates

And which is another systemic issue.

I think there is retaliation done by some of the studios where if you trash their previous film, they won't invite you.

to the next screening, things like that.

So people tend to do like milder criticism or like mixed positive a lot more than they used to, which is unfortunate.

Pete Schwabba

Yeah, that's interesting.

So all right, so you are a very well, like people read you, you've got a lot of eyes in your work to begin with.

Mariah Gates

Now you

Pete Schwabba

have this book.

What do you enjoy writing more?

Like how rewarding was writing this book compared to the writing you do on a

Mariah Gates

daily basis?

Oh, it was so rewarding because my favorite thing to do is interviews.

I really do love finding out how, why people do what they do.

I love sort of going deeper.

And you can do that if you're a think piece writer or doing analysis, but I, you know, I love...

Hearing what the filmmaker intended whether that's what came across or not who knows but I love to hear what a filmmaker intended I love to hear the like Maybe gritty like I went to film production school So I know how hard it is to make like a two-minute short let alone, you know, three-hour epic or whatever So I love to hear the those stories of how they got it together or in the book There's a few different casting stories that are fascinating where you know like what I one thing is what they wanted but then

they got someone else, and then it turned out that was the right person.

And some of that magic, I think, is really interesting.

Pete Schwabba

That's so cool.

All right, when we come back, I'm going to ask Mariah if she thinks more women are finding directing opportunities now.

I know the numbers.

I'm sure she knows the numbers, but you might be surprised at the numbers.

We'll have more in just a couple minutes with Ryder and author of the new book, Cinema Her Way, visionary female directors in their own words, Mariah Gates.

This is Nightlight with Pete Schwabba on the Civic Media Radio

Network.

T. Schwabba (host)

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Thank you for the text.

And then Laura Enright, a recent guest on the show, who's also a Chicago-based author, says this is interesting.

My discussion here with Mariah Gates about her new book, Cinema Her Way, visionary female directors in their own words.

Mariah, so the book is available tomorrow.

People can get it, I assume, on Amazon.

Where

Mariah Gates (guest)

else?

Is

T. Schwabba (host)

there a mom-and-pop place you prefer

Mariah Gates (guest)

people

T. Schwabba (host)

go?

Mariah Gates (guest)

I love bookshop.org.

If you're going to order online, they help support.

You can type in your local bookstore and they'll work with them.

It should be in most local bookstores, hopefully.

I definitely would encourage getting it at a bookstore if you can.

There will be signed copies eventually in MZS Press, which is Matt Zoller-Zeitz's online bookstore, the writer.

those that are not in stock yet, but they will be.

So if you'd like a signed copy, refresh his online bookstore and they'll be there soon.

T. Schwabba (host)

That's so exciting.

Well, I wish you luck with the book.

Let's talk about this for a second.

I think people assume that Hollywood, they think it's this progressive, liberal place where everybody has a voice.

But I was surprised a few months ago when I read what the percentage of women who

direct big Hollywood films are.

I think last year out of the 250 films made at the studio level or the top 250 women directed something like 14 or 15 percent.

And that was up, I think, from the year before.

So I was like, oh, it's getting better.

But the year before was down from the previous year.

So what

Mariah Gates (guest)

is going

T. Schwabba (host)

on?

Do you see that getting

Mariah Gates (guest)

better?

Yeah.

The issue there, it's sort of multiple prongs.

The data comes from, I'm sure you got this data from the cellulite ceiling, and it's this amazing survey that has been done out of the San Diego State, this research for, I think, 27 years.

And it is for the top 250 grossing films, which to put that in context, I think the 250 usually makes about $500,000.

Actually, not a huge amount.

There's you know, you know, your phone doesn't actually have to make that much to make the top 250 What it shows is a handful of things one the study doesn't actually take an account streaming And a lot more streamers hire women.

So the data is a little bit flawed The studios are not hiring like they should and you know, if you were alive in the 80s or 90s, you might you might think there were a lot then and

you would be not wrong.

There were a lot more in the 80s and 90s because of a group of women known as the original six who sued the entertainment industry.

Their suit was thrown out because it was supposed to be a class action lawsuit and some judge decided that Hollywood was not a class.

However, there was so much pressure that the big studios Warner Brothers, Sony, what have you, started hiring a lot more women.

And so you saw Penny Marshall made a bunch of studio films, Nora Efron.

Penelope Speris, a bunch of women.

Then basically it fell out of the news and so in the 2000s you saw a dip again.

What we're seeing now is that dip has remained but a lot of women are being hired by streamers.

A lot of women are being hired by television.

They'll make their small independent film and then instead of going to the studios like a lot of men get that offer they make the jump.

The women tend to make a jump into working in television and in fact

streaming television, so It's not great, but it's not as dire as the study shows partly because they don't take an account streaming And I think they don't take an account streaming because the data is really based on box office and the streamers as you know or probably know don't Say how many people stream they sometimes don't release data sometimes they won't same with the television So it's hard to get an accurate picture because the streamers withhold data

in terms of streaming.

So you don't know who are doing the highest grossing.

The highest grossing is kind of a hard metric now.

But on my newsletter, I write about two to three usually new releases directed by women every week.

So the fact is, minimum, there are two to three films directed by women being released in theaters, online.

VOD what have you every week and I think the problem with the study is it tends to scare people and make people think there aren't the aren't women and the whole kind of point in my book is that there are so many women like even whittling the back appendix to 368 women is limiting there I could put thousands in there who are currently making films I think the main takeaway is we can't force

Warner Brothers to hire women, we can't force Marvel to hire women, but what we can do is support the women who are making films and make those numbers go higher because the higher the box office is, even if it's just a couple hundred thousand, that's better than, you know, not making any money at the box office.

Critics can review more films by women.

They tend to struggle to get some films directed by women, struggle to even get five.

You have to have five to get a raw tomatoes rating.

I reviewed a film a couple of weeks ago where I was the 40th review.

So it is now going to be certified fresh, but an independent film needs 40 reviews.

And so I think it's important to have that data and to say, to see that the studios are not doing a good job.

But it's also, I think more important for probably the people listening here to just support the women who are making films to find out how they can put their money towards the projects that are being made.

Because I think it's more important to focus on what is happening than things we can't we can't change.

I mean that that's that I've spent the last I think 10 years doing is is supporting all of these women and there's I think a lot more women who get to make their first film than ever before and the struggle is always that second that third that fourth film and I think the more we support that first film it doesn't matter if you haven't heard of them before are they is it playing at a festival is it

on 2B.

It doesn't matter.

Watch it.

And the more views, the more you log it on Letterbox, the chances are that filmmaker will have some metric to show the next producer, and they'll get to make their second film.

And I think that's really what I- That's great.

Mariah, we

T. Schwabba (host)

have to do a quick news thing.

Can I keep you for a few minutes and do a little Oscar talk?

Maybe some Catherine

Mariah Gates (guest)

McAulay talk?

T. Schwabba (host)

Absolutely.

All right, fantastic.

Mariah Gates is going to stick around.

We'll talk more with her.

Chad Frank is here in the second hour, too.

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All right, my guest right now, we have a few more minutes with our guest, Mariah Gates.

Her book is out tomorrow.

It's called Cinema Hurtway, Visionary Female Directors in Their Own Words.

You can buy it in bookstores, online.

There will be signed copies available soon.

That's exciting.

Mariah, I wanted to ask you, you list a lot of the directors that you talk to in the book and that you write about.

I have to admit, I haven't heard of many of them, but I've always been kind of

just in awe of Catherine Bigelow.

She is such a phenomenal director, and she directs films that typically, or stereotypically, you might say guys, it seems like director, Hurtlocker, Point Break.

I didn't even know she did that in 1991.

I think that was her first major Hollywood studio film.

Zero Dark Thirty, I really liked the movie Detroit.

And I didn't even realize she'd direct it until I was watching the credits.

Where does she rank on your list of not just female directors, but directors?

She's had a pretty incredible career.

Mariah Gates

Yeah, I think she has definitely been an influence.

A lot of the people I've interviewed, not for the book, but for my column, have cited her as one of the reasons they knew women could make films or an example of the kind of films they would like to do and didn't.

necessarily think they could but they saw her do it and so they're like okay I can do this too.

So I think she's definitely been an important figure in terms of visibility of women directing films and of women directing films that make a really big wave.

Obviously she was the first woman to win Best Director at the Oscars and since then there have been several.

and a lot more women nominated.

I think she was the only the fifth to ever be nominated.

So Jane Campion who is in the book was the first woman ever to be nominated twice for Best Director.

I think it'll be really wonderful when that statistic changes and we have multiple women with multiple nominations the same way we do with men.

So I think she definitely broke a really big glass ceiling with the...

hurt locker.

Unfortunately, it seems like every once in a while, they try to put a new glass ceiling up, but I don't think that that will be successful.

Pete Schwabba

I want to ask you about the Oscars, but I want to ask you, who in your book, Cinema Her Way, who did you enjoy talking to the most?

Mariah Gates

Oh, I mean, it was Julian Armstrong, not said...

dismiss all the other women who are amazing.

But Gillian Armstrong directed Little Women, which is my favorite movie and has been my favorite movie since I was eight years old, which is 30 years.

And it was, I can't even believe she said yes.

I was, I literally screamed.

So, and she talked to me for three hours and she

like,

talk to me about the most minute thing.

She's like, you have seen this movie too

many times.

Yes, I have.

Please answer my question.

So it was as wonderful as all the conversations where it was really surreal to talk to the person who made a movie that I've loved.

on a molecular level for 30 years.

That's

Pete Schwabba

so great.

All right, so we have a few minutes left.

What are your thoughts?

Do you have a best picture favorite in the Oscars?

Mariah Gates

Did the SAG

Pete Schwabba

Awards do anything for you?

I,

Mariah Gates

in the perfect world, I feel like Nickelodeon should have been nominated for...

every Oscar.

I wish Joe Mulfrey had been nominated for his cinematography.

I think Nickel Boys' head and shoulders above everything that came out like literally everything that came out last year.

However, of the ones that did get nominated, I do think Inora is probably going to sweep, I think, mostly because the brutalist is really long and I don't know that everyone's going to sit through the three hours or they're going to think it doesn't deserve to be three hours.

Inora is nice and brisk.

It does a lot of interesting things with tone.

It really lands it.

I think it's been winning so many.

It won the DGA and the PGA.

The one surprise that I think might happen, especially because it won the SAG ensemble, is because they, for best picture, they do a weighted ballot.

I do think conclave is gonna be like a lot of people's number two or number three And that could potentially make it the winner.

That's what I think would happen with spotlight about 10 years ago where no one saw spotlight winning But I think what happened was it was probably a lot of people's number two and that adds up The weighted ballot is really or the preferential ballot is really why you get a film like in the spotlight year mad max one I think like six Oscars and then spotlight won best picture because of the

the chaos of a preferential ballot.

So I think you could see conclave come out, but I think Enora is probably the safest, like sweet

Pete Schwabba

moment.

Mariah Gates

So

Pete Schwabba

you think Enora is a safe bet?

How did you

Mariah Gates

feel about

Pete Schwabba

Enora?

I think so.

Mariah Gates

I really love that Sean Baker is a filmmaker who was able to follow the old school path.

His very first film premiered at Slamdance, which is the micro indie film festival.

And then his most recent film, Won the Palm to War.

And I don't know that that's a path any filmmaker gets to have anymore, I think.

Because the financing and economics of filmmaking has changed so much.

So I think it's a real...

I don't want to say like a career capper because he's a young man and he's going to probably make another 40 years with the films.

But he's put in 20 years of like consistently good work.

And I think it would be a really, he could be a really great thing to see him really just sweep this year.

Pete Schwabba

You know, it's so weird.

Like I saw Nora.

when all the hype was around it.

Florida Project, which I just saw about three months ago, is one of my all-time favorite movies.

I think it's a masterpiece.

I liked Tangerine, I liked Red Rocket, but Inora, I liked, but I don't think I liked it, Best Picture liked it, because I don't know, it's just a weird thing, but then I noticed that Conclave, and I saw this statistic recently, the films that win Best Ensemble at the SAG Awards, something like 26 of the last 30 years have won Best Picture at the Oscars.

So,

I feel like

Mariah Gates

that has to do that really has to do with two things.

One, the last 15 years with the preferential ballot and two, the fact that the actors make up the largest percentage of the Academy, the actors branch.

OK.

And so the in terms of the how many actors are in SAG that are also part of the Academy, that number is a lot larger than, say, the number of directors who are in the DGA who are also Academy members.

You know, so the correlation is a lot higher.

And again,

I do very much think Conclave is going to be probably some people's number one, but it's going to be on a lot of people's number two, number three.

And I think that's going to add up because it's such a crowd-pleasing film.

Pete Schwabba

Right.

Mariah Gates

It's so weird.

As far as I know, nobody hates it.

Like some of these films, people hate, right?

And so it's going to be all at the bottom.

Pete Schwabba

Yes,

Mariah Gates

the substance.

That film, I don't know anyone who hates Conclave.

I think everyone at minimum thinks it's a fun film.

I feel the same about a

Pete Schwabba

complete unknown.

Like I really liked it.

I thought it was a really solid film.

And I like Conclave, but I was talking to someone recently that said, well, the big twist at the end.

I mean, come on, what are they doing?

I'm like, that's what made it a great film for me.

Like I just thought it was okay and well acted until that, that to me.

Mariah Gates

Yeah.

And then you, it's very unexpected for how pulpy the rest of the film was.

Yeah.

and they pull it off.

Pete Schwabba

And I haven't seen Nickel Boys, I'm still here or The Brutalist yet because I live in kind of a remote area, but I probably will pay the 20 bucks to watch Nickel Boys on my TV

Mariah Gates

based on what you just said.

I mean, if you can at some point, somehow see it in the theater or listeners, if you haven't seen it yet and you want to see it in a theater, that one is such a special experience and so immersive.

And I think truly,

innovative in a way that once you see it, you'll see what I mean.

And I don't think any other film in terms of artistry and innovation can touch that film.

But obviously artistry and innovation isn't always what ends up being Oscar voters.

Favorite thing, you know, I think this is a beautiful film.

And it's not, I think a lot of people maybe are afraid because the subject matter is heavy, but it's not a heavy film.

It's a really beautiful empathetic film that

is about the persistence of joy and the persistence of just life.

It's an extraordinary film.

Pete Schwabba

I'm so excited to see it now.

One other film I want to ask you about, Amelia Perez, 13 nominations.

Did they totally lose it with the Twitter scandal?

Are they

Mariah Gates

done?

I think they did.

I also, that's a film that was very divisive.

I think not with older voters.

I feel like a lot of older viewers really love the film.

And I think a lot of younger viewers are more, I think, perhaps aware of the various ways that film is not, shall we say, as progressive as it seems.

There's a lot of a lot of trans writers have written about why it's actually a regressive film.

A lot of Mexican writers have written about how it's really a terrible version of their country.

It does them no favors.

But I don't know that a lot of

voters cared about any of that, you know, because they they love the film and they don't care about criticism and that's perfectly fine.

That is, you know, they don't have to read criticism to enjoy film.

That's everyone's prerogative.

I personally did not like that film.

I didn't understand.

Specifically, the nomination that is the wildest to me is is cinematography because I think it's a garish film.

It's a weird

Pete Schwabba

looking film.

Mariah Gates

Yeah, I don't think.

Visually it works.

Whereas when you see Nickel Boys, I think you'll see what I mean about Joe Mofrey who did the cinematography.

I think he is a poetic filmmaker and an emotional filmmaker and Does something with the camera that is so unique and he's won almost every other award.

It's really weird.

He got the American Society of Cinematographers Award.

He got the independent spirit It's I think the biggest snub that came out of the Oscar nomination thing.

It's baffling

but he didn't get that nomination.

I think he'll probably get nominated for his next film, whatever that ends up being, because he's another consistently great innovative filmmaker, but I think maybe, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know what's going on with the cinematography brand.

It'll be

Pete Schwabba

interesting to see what happens either way.

The book

Mariah Gates

is called

Pete Schwabba

Cinema Her Way, Visionary Female Directors in Their Own Words by Mariah Gates.

You can find it in bookstores tomorrow or online.

I'm sure it will be just as outstanding as everything Mariah writes.

So much fun having you on the show all the time.

Good luck with

Mariah Gates

the book and let's

Pete Schwabba

talk soon.

Mariah Gates

Yeah.

All

Pete Schwabba

right, Mariah Gates.

Coming up next, Chad Franker, a young man from Marinette, Wisconsin, a place I call my hood.

He's got a great new business that helps combat loneliness.

We're going to talk to Chad about that because I thought it was really inspiring.

And we'll read your texts and all kinds of fun stuff.

Who knows, maybe Conrad will do a little soft shoe.

Did you bring the cane in the hat?

Conrad

I did not.

Oh,

Pete Schwabba

killing

Conrad

me.

I forgot in my car.

Pete Schwabba

Yeah, likely.

Sorry.

Conrad

I'll just have to run out there

Pete Schwabba

quickly.

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same Listen dude, I love hummus.

Yeah, that is the voice of my next guest Chad Franker is here ladies and gentlemen We're gonna talk about a really cool business Chad has created

He's about to launch it.

What is your favorite chip, Chad?

Chad Franker (interviewee)

Well, I would say something that has health consciousness.

Peach Waba (host)

See, all right, I admire that, but that's what I was going for too at first.

And then I realized if I'm gonna eat chips, I'm

Chad Franker (interviewee)

not

Peach Waba (host)

thinking about health.

I've seen you at the gym.

I see how hard you work too.

So I appreciate the health thing, but AJ from the 608 says, Hey Pete, if you can find them, Lil Baby's brand of wrap snacks are out of this world.

His flavor is salt and...

Is that supposed to be a little baby raise?

No, it's a little

baby.

Okay.

She says his, or AJ says, his flavor is salt and vinegar, barbecue, onion, garlic, and more.

Yes, altogether in one chip.

Now that sounds like a taste explosion

in your mouth.

And Kenneth chimed in on the film, Green and Gold.

So if you have an opinion on that film, I finally saw it last night.

Did you see Green and Gold, Chad?

No.

Okay.

Are you a Packer fan?

Yeah, and you like farming?

Not to do for yourself, maybe, but just in general, it's a good thing.

Chad doesn't really see the necessity for farming, so that's okay.

All right, from the 608, Steady Eddie, checking in.

He says, Pete Conrad, love chips, but we all know eating chips is not quite as bad as smoking cigarettes.

The snack food manufacturers want you addicted.

They don't care about your health.

They want your money.

Steady Eddie, come on.

Big business wants our money, get out of here.

He says that being said, chips are delicious if not nutritious.

I like Nacho Cheese Doritos the best.

I have a strategy where I buy two one ounce bags of chips when I shop at the grocery store.

That way when I get home, I can eat two whole bags of Doritos and not feel too guilty.

It works for me and then in all caps, sometimes happy tortilla chip day.

Steady, hold the cheese dip, Eddie.

Thank you, Steady Eddie.

Keep those texts coming, folks.

It's fun.

Chips are fun.

What's not to like about chips?

Chad Franker (interviewee)

Yeah, nothing.

Peach Waba (host)

Nothing, exactly.

All right, I'm gonna bring in my next guest here.

I'm excited because this guy is from my hometown and where I live right now, Marinette, Wisconsin.

He made the drive to be here in the studio because he has a new business that he is launching called Meals with a Friend.

And it's a great idea.

I absolutely love this.

Chad, tell us...

Tell us about Meals with a Friend and tell us when it'll be officially launched.

Chad Franker (interviewee)

Well Meals with a Friend is We're in the early beginning stages where we trying to get volunteers lined up with people who are experiencing loneliness and isolation and the pandemic was the first indicator of how loneliness and isolation can impact the

cognitive health, mental health, and a whole slew of things.

Peach Waba (host)

Right.

You really did your homework.

I saw where you did all this research.

And is what you learned about the pandemic, what gave you the idea for this business?

Chad Franker (interviewee)

Well, okay, so retract that.

I mean, so...

When I was 16 years old, I got hit by a truck and suffered a traumatic brain injury.

Peach Waba (host)

So

Chad Franker (interviewee)

I've always known of the helping profession where how community can help build and help aid someone to be better and right and so I mean then I

When I was in school to get a bachelor's of science in psychology and human development, I did an internship With the hospice advantage and that was with hospice clients.

Okay, and I sat with people that were near that that had that passed away and I Say that reluctantly because I I

I loved it that the families respected me enough to sit with their loved ones.

Right.

But they, and they love me to give that to them.

So, and...

Peach Waba (host)

You saw how much it impacted.

Chad Franker (interviewee)

Yes.

And how that could impact the love of the... How they didn't want to have the...

like the final idea of their loved ones so better.

Peach Waba (host)

Right.

You talked about that too, and we'll get into this more after the news, but how community and people being there for you after your accident helped you heal and get to a place where you could create meals with a friend.

So we'll talk about all of that.

Chad Franker is my guest.

He is a fellow.

He's from my hood.

He's a fellow Marinette native.

And don't let the fact that that was it.

I remember hearing about that accident, but you should see this guy at the gym.

I wish I worked half as hard or broke half the sweat you break because I see how hard you work.

So we'll talk more with Chad about his new cool business called Meals with a Friend, a business that is.

It's just such a great idea to help others who are feeling lonely.

We'll talk more about the nuts and bolts of the business and get to know Chad a little bit more after.

Civic Media's award-winning news team keeps you informed.

It's Peach Waba and Nightlight on the Civic Media Radio Network.

Pete Chihuahua (host)

Mike Starr, the actor from Goodfellas and Dumb and Dumber schedule.

Mike had to reschedule because he has a work commitment, which often happens with actors.

You have to take the money when you get it.

But Mike is awesome.

I cannot wait to have him on the show.

But in the meantime, we have more awesomeness filling in.

Dr. Kristen Lierly will be joining us from Minnesota over the stream.

I always have fun with Kristen.

She's definitely a nightlight frequent flyer.

And then mob expert and urban legend expert Bob Dennis will be here in the studio.

So, lots of fun guests coming up this week.

Jamie McShane will be here from the show 1923.

Rich Tallorico from Key and Peel.

And, of course, Barbie on Friday night on Friday.

So, a fun week on nightlight here.

So, great to have you with me, folks.

Wherever you're joining us from, we are broadcasting live statewide from beautiful downtown Green Bay, especially beautiful.

Was it still warm out?

Sort of yes getting a little colder.

Okay, but a gorgeous night here in the state of Wisconsin What better way to celebrate good weather than to sit inside and listen to the radio folks and talk about the things that make us happy like movies and TV and a really cool new business That my current guest created a Chad Frank or is here.

He's a Marinette native The business is called meals with

I wrote it down.

Oh, Meals with a Friend.

Chad, I got lost because I wrote my note down here.

It's a meal with a connection.

Yes.

Right?

Yes.

All right.

Tell us about Meals with a Friend in case people are just joining us.

Chad Franker (guest)

Okay.

Well, Meals with a Friend is where we pair volunteers with people who are families that are worried about their loved ones and they're just missing that connection piece because

as the pandemic has shown.

Loneliness and isolation is like the silent pandemic.

No one really talks about it, but it's like blurring in your eyes and people still don't talk about it.

They don't talk about how depressed they are or sad they are.

All they need to do is just talk to someone and

Pete Chihuahua (host)

interact.

And you have an interesting, in this package you have, you haven't quite launched the business yet, but you're getting close, you talk about how loneliness affects people's cardiovascular and neurological makeups.

Explain that a little bit, that's fascinating.

Chad Franker (guest)

Well, okay, so loneliness and isolation, they did a study, they did a study in the University of Michigan, and they did a six year longitudinal study where they showed that

It's equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

How is that possible?

That's insane.

Ask the researchers.

Pete Chihuahua (host)

I mean, I know you didn't do the research.

But that's amazing, though.

And so 15 is just from loneliness.

So here's what I think this is so great.

And this is why I wanted to have Chad on the show, because there are so many lonely people out there that you don't know about.

Because they're lonely.

Yeah, they're not out there.

They're not putting themselves out there Let me ask you this though chat.

I don't know if you thought about this like you pair people up together Yeah, what if they sit down and try to make a connection through a meal.

It's called meal with a friend What if a fist fight breaks out do you anticipate anything like that two people throwing down?

Chad Franker (guest)

Yeah, sure.

Pete Chihuahua (host)

I mean

Chad Franker (guest)

Don't know what's happening with between us, right?

Are you gonna take a

Pete Chihuahua (host)

swing at me when you walked in here?

I didn't realize sure

But anyway, you're still with someone though.

It's still not loneliness.

So that's no

Chad Franker (guest)

but and We try to pair because we're so new at this.

I mean we'll eventually create a website.

Oh well like Website there people can log in and Where they can actually say hey, I want to have a meal with someone who who plays

I'm who's it now doors meant or

Pete Chihuahua (host)

okay have a volunteer like there's something yeah, yeah, they

Chad Franker (guest)

come in thread and And we the other service that we provide is like a wellness check and a wellness check is like is something where like the person Goes into their hopes and they just make sure that they're that they're That's everything is culture and they're not gonna like do any trip hazards or

Anything that's gonna be problematic in the future

Pete Chihuahua (host)

Was there something that gave you this idea like something that you like you obviously Is there something to put this on the map for you like you said I have to do something about this like when did you notice so many lonely people to the point where you thought this would be a good program well

Chad Franker (guest)

my TBI When happened when I was 16

Pete Chihuahua (host)

and

Okay, let's stop you right there.

Let's talk about that because that's the second time you brought that up.

I remember this because Chad and I have family, friends, mutual family, friends.

You were a really good athlete in high school.

You were a good student.

You come from a, in Marinette, there are a lot of Frankers are synonymous with being good athletes and you were one of those.

You had a traumatic brain injury when you were snowmobiling, correct?

All right, so talk about how that affected you and changed your whole life.

Well, okay,

Chad Franker (guest)

so I was doing 28th of 2004.

I was hit by a truck and I was put into a drug induced coma for six weeks and spent 120 days in the hospital as an inpatient.

But the battle doesn't end there.

All like my whole high school career.

I was still doing physical therapy occupational therapy and I mean to this very day, I still bust my butt every day Doing

Pete Chihuahua (host)

something.

Yeah, I

Chad Franker (guest)

mean, I went to spin class today at the Y Yeah, and

Pete Chihuahua (host)

I just want to sorry I want to say to for people for those of you listening I don't know Chad that well, but I see him around town

and I see him substitute teaching and you went like you said before and you got your degree in psychology.

Like this did not, you're just tenacious.

Like you have a zest for life.

I see how hard you work at the gym.

And now when I saw you in the grocery store and you told me about this new business, I thought this is great.

We have to talk about this.

So have you, because of your accident, experienced loneliness, did that change your life as you said?

Chad Franker (guest)

Yeah, because I have a physical disability on my left side.

partially paralyzed and when I say partially paralyzed it's It's like I can move it, but I don't have fine dexterity movement.

Okay, and And and so I'm still So recovering but I mean it's been 21 years so Being a popular kid and

then like the whole stages of like that honeymoon phase of the accident, people were all wanting to interact with me and stuff.

That was like my whole high school.

And then when the day after graduation and all of us presented where it was Chad's friends, they were nowhere.

Yeah.

So I mean, so yeah, I said, and then I went to college and

So still nothing happened.

No, no, no, no, no I mean there were there have been a few I mean, so don't get that don't don't don't don't misconstrue that idea.

I

Pete Chihuahua (host)

mean, I

Chad Franker (guest)

mean like like you said Mike Corwin.

He's fantastic

Pete Chihuahua (host)

and

Chad Franker (guest)

like Unique people who?

Who see past my my inability are our people who?

who helped me help

Pete Chihuahua (host)

them.

Right.

I mean, yeah.

So I think that's great.

So what you want to do, my guest, by the way, is Chad Franker.

He has a new business called Meals with a Friend.

It's a great business that will provide wellness checks and emotional support to lonely people.

He has dealt with loneliness in his own life and came away.

wanting to help others, and I think that's so great.

He says loneliness affects people cardiovascularly and neurologically.

People who are lonely enough, it can affect, it can have the same effect according to a study at Michigan, at University of Michigan, as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

How close are you to launching this?

Does it take a lot of money to start a business like this, Chad?

I mean, with the lawyer fees and stuff.

Chad Franker (guest)

Yeah,

Pete Chihuahua (host)

because other insurance things if you're gonna go into someone's home and I'll see and stuff

Chad Franker (guest)

and to get to get everything Yeah, you have to get a lot of volunteers.

Okay, so that's that that's kind of where I'm at right now so and You see a functional website, okay?

And

Pete Chihuahua (host)

I don't

Chad Franker (guest)

have either of them.

Oh, wow.

Okay, but so but I have like a Makeup of that.

Okay, so I have ideas

In a start but not like a functional website.

Okay,

Pete Chihuahua (host)

or how are you?

Do you have people helping like are you business savvy?

I'm not I've tried to create businesses in the past.

I haven't been very good at it How are you in with those skills?

I You got a nice packet here.

You got a lot of great information.

You obviously know what you're doing

Chad Franker (guest)

Well, I I know I I'm very resourceful.

So okay, I know and I'm not I'm not lazy so

I know what to do, I know how to get things done.

Pete Chihuahua (host)

Yeah.

Well, when do you think this will be up?

And what if people, if they want to volunteer, or if they want to help you get the business up and running, how can they find you?

Well, they can search

Chad Franker (guest)

me, search on Facebook, Meals with a Friend.

Meals with a Friend.

Pete Chihuahua (host)

Meals with a Friend, okay, on Facebook.

It helps, you're hoping to build stronger communities?

Yes.

That's pretty cool, and you're hoping to do it one meal at a time.

I love that and you know, I mean breaking bread together is like The the foundation of community yeah a lot of ways right you talk it's social So So how can if people wanted to all right, so if people wanted to volunteer I assume when you go to people and you ask them for money or help or setting up the LLC or whatever it is

You want to tell them, hey, I've got so many people here.

I've got 100 volunteers ready to do this.

Is that something they can sign up for on Facebook?

Totally.

Chad Franker (guest)

And that's what I want to do with my website, a functional website that can maintain that load and keep the data of the clients.

Because we're dealing with humans.

Yeah.

So they have...

like everyone they have wants and they have things that they don't want and so you can keep in track of that always would be anyone who has like experience with that would be very helpful talking

Pete Chihuahua (host)

in.

So if I told you I expect this business to be operational in three months and we set a date for you to come back on the show and say Pete my business is a go.

Thank you for cracking the whip.

Not that you need it, but would that help?

I mean, are there people in Marinette that are helping you with this?

Chad Franker (guest)

Yes, yes, like Tim Stouse and I'm the philanthropist at a company that Mr. Tom Bear move set me up

Pete Chihuahua (host)

with.

Oh, yeah.

Yep.

So,

Chad Franker (guest)

I

Pete Chihuahua (host)

mean, there's Tim Stouse has got a ton of money.

We should encourage him just to give you a blank check, I think.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So if he's listening.

Chad Franker (guest)

Yeah, he should be.

But I mean...

Pete Chihuahua (host)

Here's what we'll do.

Conrad, let's do this.

We can do our part, I think, tomorrow night on the show.

We do a question every night.

Maybe our question tomorrow night should be, what person would you want to have a meal with?

What lonely person in your life?

Or even if you see someone on TV that you think is lonely, I think that could be a great... Who have you done this?

I assume you've done this on your own just to get it going.

Have you met with other people who you could see are lonely and how did that go over?

Chad Franker (guest)

Well,

Pete Chihuahua (host)

I met with

Chad Franker (guest)

my... Yeah, so I met with clients and...

Pete Chihuahua (host)

You seem like you didn't want to say someone's name because you didn't want to... Okay, yeah, it's totally fine.

So,

Chad Franker (guest)

um, they, they love it.

Nice.

I mean, they are, they were born in the, in the late, like in the depression.

Pete Chihuahua (host)

Oh, wow.

So,

Chad Franker (guest)

so, so they're not really aware of the, of their.

I

Pete Chihuahua (host)

don't know I mean it's a different generation right like they're not gonna ask for help they're just gonna sit there and be lonely as opposed to because they associate that with toughness probably they don't know how to

Chad Franker (guest)

help themselves yeah and yeah I mean

Pete Chihuahua (host)

what if I go in to have dinner with a friend I mean with a friend and they just start yelling at me

Chad Franker (guest)

well then

Pete Chihuahua (host)

what do I do

You throw the mashed potatoes at him, or what?

Chad Franker (guest)

No, no, you can leave.

I mean, this is all volunteer base.

Yeah, OK.

And then we would, I mean, because hopefully both would be civil enough to do that, that we are going to need something to do.

Pete Chihuahua (host)

Right.

I'm totally kidding, anyway.

You know I wouldn't do that.

And sign me up.

All right, we're going to be right back.

We've got a couple more minutes.

Chad's going to help us close the show down.

We'll read some text.

And we'll do that in just a couple minutes.

It's so great to have you with me on this Monday night on Nightlight with Pete Chihuahua on the Civic Media Radio

Chad Franker (guest)

Network.

Conrad (producer)

Alright,

Pete (host)

welcome back.

Conrad (producer)

Doesn't

Pete (host)

feel like a Monday, does it, Conrad?

Conrad (producer)

I mean, yeah, it feels nice because it was warm outside, so it doesn't feel like a...

It's not

Pete (host)

as sucky as usual.

Conrad (producer)

Not a cold Monday.

Pete (host)

I'm saying exactly.

Chad Francker is here.

He has a new business called Meals with a Friend.

It's just a great idea to help combat loneliness, build community.

do wellness checks, emotional support for people who need it.

He has a website called Meals with a Friend on Facebook.

Check that out.

If you're interested in helping Chad in any way, being a volunteer, writing a blank check, whatever, find him on Facebook and reach out to him because this is just a phenomenal idea.

And we've set a date.

We're gonna do this.

Probably in about three months we'll have you back and I will expect your business to be up and running and you to be the CEO.

Chad Francker (interviewee)

Well, I'm our the

Pete (host)

CEO.

You're already the

Chad Francker (interviewee)

CEO.

Pete (host)

Exactly.

How is your, are you, like, you're such a social guy.

Would you consider yourself a lonely person right now, Chad, or?

Chad Francker (interviewee)

Well, I, before I started this business, yes.

Pete (host)

Okay.

Chad Francker (interviewee)

I mean, I did my normal routine.

I saw people like working out and stuff, but...

I still felt lonely.

Yeah, I went home to my apartment To for who is there to greet me?

Pete (host)

Yeah,

Chad Francker (interviewee)

so so that that that's what I'm I feel like I'm helping combat right giving giving something For other people to look forward

Pete (host)

to right and that's so amazing because like you come from a good family You know you're you're loved and you have a family around you extended and immediate but still

You can't be around your family all the time, just like most people can't, and a lot of people probably are going home to an empty apartment or an empty house.

And I'll say even like...

I knew who you were but I didn't think you knew who I was so like I'd see you at the gym and I'd nod if I saw you but I didn't know if you even knew who I was so I didn't want to be that guy that just walks around saying hi to everybody when I probably should be right because you're okay uh so all right Chad so what I do with most people who come on the show I try to find out what they're watching where do you find entertainment this is an entertainment based show you said you don't watch a lot of tv no movies do you ever watch movies podcast

Podcasts.

Okay.

What are you listening to?

Chad Francker (interviewee)

Well, I'm a human lab podcast.

What is it the Huberman lab

Pete (host)

humor

Chad Francker (interviewee)

man lab podcast?

Who's that Andrew Huberman?

Pete (host)

And is it

Chad Francker (interviewee)

a comedy podcast?

No, it's it's all right here.

So,

Pete (host)

oh, okay.

So What kind of topics does he tackle how to enhance your immune system?

Yeah, and

Chad Francker (interviewee)

he's

Pete (host)

a doctor dude.

Does that get boring after a while?

Chad Francker (interviewee)

No, I mean

I

Pete (host)

mean we all need a good immune system, but I would think after like an hour of that

Chad Francker (interviewee)

You

Pete (host)

might

Chad Francker (interviewee)

want any in his his episodes are like three three hours long and You know, I just listen listen to him when I go down to Green Bay or I'm gonna drive.

Pete (host)

Okay How often do you come down here to Green Bay?

You're not in school

Chad Francker (interviewee)

anymore, so no, but quite a bit cuz before my doctors and so

I mean Every couple weeks, okay,

Pete (host)

so you were as I mentioned earlier You were a good athlete and you played sports Like a lot of kids in Marinette.

You probably played like four sports in one year.

Are you still a sports fan?

Do you follow sports?

Okay

Chad Francker (interviewee)

hockey for sure.

Oh, that was my best sport really yep and Side note I was better than my brother so

There's the little caveat there.

Pete (host)

And your older

Chad Francker (interviewee)

brother.

Yep.

That's Ryan.

Pete (host)

Yes.

Chad Francker (interviewee)

Okay.

Conrad (producer)

And

Chad Francker (interviewee)

would he say the same thing?

No.

It's a few that we have between each other, but that's cute.

Yeah.

And I mean, football based on hockey is what I play.

Pete (host)

Okay.

And you still follow sports?

Like, are you a Packers, Bucks, Brewers, all those teams and badges?

Okay.

What's your favorite team, would you

Chad Francker (interviewee)

say?

Okay,

Pete (host)

so I'm gonna give you I think I just saw the movie green and gold about a guy who bets the farm He literally bets his own farm that the Packers will win the Super Bowl in hopes that the bank will let him keep it because he didn't have any more money So I think you should check that out the ice ball, right?

It was not the ice balls like in the 90s.

It was

Conrad (producer)

when five was

Pete (host)

quarterback.

So it's not that old but

I think you should check it out when you come back on to talk about Meals with a Friend.

We can talk about that movie, because I know you're a Packer fan.

Chad Francker (interviewee)

Yeah, I agree.

Okay.

And I actually have a bread for signed football.

Oh, really?

Yes.

And I actually have, like, during my accident, I saw them inside the animal stadium.

Like a tour?

Conrad (producer)

Yeah.

Oh,

Chad Francker (interviewee)

nice.

But like, deep from Red Baddie, he was a...

Packers athletic trainer.

Pete (host)

Oh, okay.

Yep.

Was he helping you with through your

Chad Francker (interviewee)

injuries or whatever?

No, he okay is mark hueson Who was it a trainer at there and stuff?

Pete (host)

It's mark hueson.

Isn't he the guy that's on with mino in the mayor?

Yeah, we he was at the party the other day.

So do you know mark?

Yeah, all right.

Let's get we should get mark on the show by the way I don't think he liked me personally, but I'd still like to invite him on

Conrad (producer)

He was

Pete (host)

really avoiding me at the party.

Yeah, did you notice that

Conrad (producer)

it was that look you had in your face?

Pete (host)

Chad, thank you so much for coming down.

You drove all the way down here to be on the show.

I really appreciate that.

I wish you luck with this business.

I think it's great.

I think it's just a beautiful idea, and I hope you're incredibly successful with it.

Thank you very much, Pete.

You're welcome.

All right, that's Chad Francker.

Check out Meals with a Friend on Facebook.

You can sign up, volunteer to have meals with another person who might be lonely or help Chad out business-wise if you have business skills or a blank check or whatever.

But he's a great guy and good luck with the business.

I'd also like to thank Mariah Gates, who, go ahead, you got about 15 seconds.

Chad Francker (interviewee)

I have a website, twomealswithafriend.com.

Pete (host)

Mealswithafriend.com.

Chad Francker (interviewee)

Yes.

Okay.

Because it's a startup website.

So, I mean, it's in the process of getting going.

Pete (host)

Okay.

Do you want a picture of me for the website, Chad?

Chad Francker (interviewee)

Always.

Pete (host)

All right, very good.

Thank you also for all your texts and all the talk about chips.

You can't go wrong with that.

Tomorrow night, it's Tuesday, but it won't feel like a Tuesday if you join us.

I promise that.

It's Peach Wobble with Nightlight on behalf of the lovable producer Conrad.

Good night, Wisconsin.

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