The Hitchhikers Guide to Not Hitchhiking (Hour 1)

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The Hitchhikers Guide to Not Hitchhiking (Hour 1)

Mornings with WFHR · Wed May 7, 2025

Good morning, Wisconsin. Morning, world. It's a new day. Thanks for kicking it off with us at WFHR.

Got your host, James behind the mic. I am joined in studio by our head of news, our co-host,

Melissa Kay. Good morning. And our head of production, our co-host, Seth Habagger.

Good morning. And the best listeners and radio. Thanks for being here. Everybody, let's kick

things off the way we like to with our great friend, Brittany Milo. Uh, Brett, how you doing today?

Pretty good. How was your day yesterday? Did you get outside in that heat?

As much as I could. I enjoyed it. My, uh, fur brother Sam got a haircut recently when he gets a

haircut and the nicer weather he likes to be outside even more. I let him out on the deck. He was

out there for 10 minutes. Like, no, no, no, no. He literally did the grandpa Simpson where he comes

into the room, grabs his hat, puts it back out of walks back in. Like he just, he just wanted

nothing to do with it. He was not ready for it. I kept looking over my shoulder waiting for like

mother nature to throw a snowball at me. Uh, but we're here, Brittany. We, it's safe to say we're here.

Uh, you know, we've got nice weather now. Yes, we do. It is set in stone. We've got this amazing

high pressure system that isn't moving. And it's giving us plenty of sunshine all throughout the

week into the weekend for Mother's Day. I mean, it is perfect timing. And of course, we're enjoying it.

We've got a little bit of a breeze pulling out of the north. So in a few clouds out there this

morning, those will be gone by this afternoon. It will be mostly sunny today. Highest look to

flirt with 70. Still seasonably warm. And then tomorrow, we take a little slide. Just a little

bit down to the mid 60s will rebound for Friday climbing to the low 70s. And then we keep climbing.

We're looking at mid 70s on Saturday and potentially 80 degrees on Sunday from Mother's Day.

And I just think that is so beautiful for them because they deserve a beautiful day for such a

hard job. And I like that everybody can just go outside and not worry about the weather destroying

any plans. Nice. Oh, that's beautiful. Brittany, would you help me out? My mom is, I mean, 40 some

years. I've been getting her Mother's Day gifts and everything. And it's tough to come up with

stuff at the end here and everything. Would you help me out? And like, mom, I talked to Brittany.

And she's Mother's Day. We're giving you a nice weather for Mother's Day. I need the points,

Brittany. I really, really need the points. Pick her out for like a picnic or something. So

then really soak up Mother Nature's gift. And then it's like a cute thought. You know, Patrick's

nice. Her favorite. And the problem is is because he's already given her his Mother's Day gift that

he got for her like two months ago. So now we need something that he can deliver on the day. So

Brittany, that was the perfect suggestion. God, just you know, good idea. Good idea. That could have

been true. That's so right. Brittany, we appreciate you. Have a great morning. You too.

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kind of had to start here even though there is no. I don't know if this is the best place to start.

But I was a little I don't get blown away by surveys very often. But I was blown away by the

survey not only in the numbers of it, but the subject matter. And it's something that I don't know

the last time in society we've really talked about, but hitchhiking. Oh, that's curious.

I haven't really thought about it at all. Now, there is a very small list of things I haven't

done in my life. And then there's an even smaller list of things I'll own up to. I've never

even come close to hitchhiking. I've never never done anything. I honestly don't even know

anybody who ever even has. And that's so wild to think about for me. It was something that

used to be when we were kids. I don't know if we even knew anybody that did it. But it was a thing

in TV and movies and songs. All of that. I don't know how much this really existed in America.

Like for how much like how much it was and how much it was actually just something that we said

or what have you. But I'm guessing and God it's so good to have you in studio, Melissa. I wouldn't

get this over this clear feed. I feel like Melissa's got some. I have a hitchhiking story. She has a

story she does. Yes. Yes, it involves a cross country trip and a hitchhiker and a forest fire

and a very devastating car crash. Oh my gosh. For me personally. Wow. That's curve ball. Wow.

And then I ended up married. So you know what? That's that was the end. That sounds like a

pitch for a movie actually is what that sounds like. Off air. We have so many fault. And you'll be

joining me during the rapid support to discuss all this. That's awesome. And that is an interesting

story. Yeah. It's one of the stories I tell in every first date I go on so that people know how

absolutely crazy I am. But you know what? Like just get it all out there right away, right?

Good. Get it out of the way. Smart. This is smart. Hi nice to meet you. I'm Melissa and I'm in

sane. It's a little similar to how the and now you know why all my first dates are only first dates.

My I would say my first 10 15 girlfriends or whatever. I started all out the same way. You know

we're having conversation things are going well and then oh by the way here is my closet of

skeletons. Introduce you to every single bad thing I've ever done. Do you see this pile of

suitcases under the table here? This is my baggage. And I figured if I didn't scare them away,

well this is the you know this is this is not a good dating method. Don't do that. Don't do that.

But speaking about hitchhiking there was a time when hitchhiking wasn't absolutely terrifying.

I just at least said that's what we're told. Right. Right. Right. In a new poll only 11% of people say

that they have hitchtiked and would do it again. Another 20% have in the past but wouldn't do it

again. 11% of people have never hitchtiked but have considered it and 53% of people have done it

and would never consider it. And would never consider it. Never. Have done it and would never

consider it. Thank you. Right. That's what you said. Yes. Okay. I just wanted to make sure because

and and so when asked if they'd hitchhike 73% of Americans say that they would definitely not do

this. 73% that's a pretty high number. Well I mean it's a little bit scarier out there now.

Well I wouldn't say that. The impression of it being scarier out there now is what we hear.

Whether it is or not is is you know to find out yourself but that's a scary thing to find out

yourself. I think about Route 66 the most famous route in all of America and and so many of the

stories both positive and negative that we've heard about that over the years and one of the first

things I think about that is is this kind of stuff like right there's certain places where I

probably would feel comfortable hitchhiking and then there are places you know what I'm hoping it

like I'm just going to hope this I am not even I'm actually putting my thumbs in my pockets just

in case anybody gets the wrong idea I right well you know I'm I'm thinking that there was probably

because I I believe I heard my grandpa talk about this there was a golden age for hitchhiking yeah

and I think it was during World War II because a lot of a GI's they would come back and they

you know had to get somewhere and people were very willing to pick up guys in uniform yeah for sure

to oh hey can I give you a hand you know can I get you to wherever you're going or I can take you

this far or that kind of thing was a way of helping the war right exactly so I remember my grandpa

talking about doing that when you stationed you know at a base in California he said oh we wanted

to go to this thing so a couple of us hitchhiked you know up to Monterey or whatever it was you know

to see this show was like wow and it seems like it seems like there was a lot of that going on but

then later after the war you know then we start hearing the horror stories you know and there

was a couple like it wasn't there like a hit the serial killer that did you know like the hitchhiking

thing and there's a bunch of like just stories written that aren't factual or that you know just

kind of fear mongering type stuff to just make it scary because it's a it's a potentially scary

situation you're trusting a stranger and you're in and then close space right I would say off

the top on the surface I would think in some ways you can make an argument that it's never it's

safer than it's ever been just with all of us walking around with cell phones and location devices

and all of this but that also doesn't mean that that's I would never want to give this is not

an endorsement to hitchhiking yeah that's what I was afraid of I as I didn't catch it as I was

saying it out loud right but yes I don't want to do that although isn't isn't like ride sharing

just like one step up from that I guess I mean you can make the argument I mean you're you're

paying them to do something right yeah yeah and but there's a register but there's a

red you know like you're paying them to do it there's a record of it somewhere there is a record

too but there's somebody knows where you are and why you went there right if it's catching a

ride to work I mean it's just something you do every day you probably get to know those people

after a period of time but basically anyone can do it it's not like a taxi you know who's bonded

and licensed you know taxi services are different because they have all those things with them

this is just a person yeah you know just so it's maybe you're right there's a little bit more

there because like you said there is kind of a record in the the ephemera but yeah yeah I haven't

I haven't thought that much about it but I would feel more comfortable taking a cab than doing

Uber or any of those things and and it just I've never done Uber or any of that so I don't know but

I just I've taken a cab a thousand times in my life right yeah that's nothing you like what's

familiar yeah yeah yeah for sure let's take a call we love those are familiar good morning you're on

the show yes I I grew up about thirty something years before you guys by just like it was a common

thing when I was again okay I never did it myself but I have picked up hitchhiker oh okay how was

that experience I love to receive you stand on I 94 with a gas can and the gas of a bundle later a

gas that was just this prop oh yeah yeah I'm worried about that and taking them all the way to

Milwaukee wow that's nice then that way anyway okay oh good good good but that that was good

of you and thank you very much for sharing that sir that's a great story yeah that we that's

more data than we had between the three of us all that to be sure yes appreciate you have a good

morning thank you guys yeah that's awesome that's interesting that's interesting so that is one

of those things too that I know what happened to me I I pick somebody up and I'm thinking I'm

going to take him a couple blocks or whatever it like oh you know actually I've got to go to

Albuquerque and and and because of the situation you're in there the this kind of goes back to

something that I find one of the most fascinating things about people I think this idea of

it's a complete stranger but we still don't want to be rude you know and in the in the extents will

go to to not be rude to a complete stranger like for for all the the talk of the downfall of society

and some of these things and everything there is so much if you take a step back and you actually

think about it that we've normalized and that we do as human beings that are really actually

pretty cool and like and as simple as holding a door open for a stranger or stuff like this where

we're just you know we'll just go ahead and do it um anybody asked you to grab something off

a top shelf or something like that they'll ask you that James maybe Seth but not me nobody asked me

that um I need the bottom shelf that didn't that did remind me of the one time that I did pick up

strangers off the side of the road I was I don't remember which way I was going I think I

must have been coming from work because I didn't have any timeline to be anywhere and there was

a little old couple that was like stranded on the side of the road their car had broken down

and so I stopped to see if I could help them and they gave him a ride to Sparta so I mean it was like

you know and added 40 minutes to my day but they were so grateful and and I just felt so bad for them

because they were stuck on the side of the highway that is that is really cool that it that is

uh I think not only good karma and go what you put into the universe and certainly helping them

and all that that's that's really cool that actually they reminded me thank you um Melissa so there

was a time I was driving and I I pick up these two guys with these really funny haircuts and we're

driving and they were so darn annoying in fact one of them's like you ever heard the most annoying

sound in the world like no I've never heard oh no I that was dumb and dumb are so so all right

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host for many many years yes very good at what he did and um uh the and not only arguably one of the

greats i believe tied for with Tom Brady now for most uh wins of all time because the NFL recently

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in this day nice johnny you oh man one of the all-time greats johnny you yep one of the all-time

great nicknames yes that's that's a great it was great terrible haircut terrible hair yeah but

other than that he was awesome yep and one of the strongest greatest actors you will ever see

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every one of them westerns no 35 year career uh the the the the phrase strong quiet type uh all

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participation with that one and this one right here us news and world report does a study each year

that ranks all fifty states based on everything from education and health care to infrastructure

and economy and this year they according to us news and world reports the number one state in

america is Utah yeah who had that on their bucket list on my big car Utah tops the list mostly

because it landed in the top ten and five eight of eight categories it's first is fiscal stability

third in both economy and infrastructure fourth in education seventh in crime but it's

fifth forty-eighth in natural environment yeah right um seventh in crime that that's that's

high to me like for Utah I really I really have no idea I'm really showing my cards here that I

know it like I really don't know you talk that well new hamster is second followed by Idaho

Minnesota Nebraska Florida Vermont South Dakota Massachusetts and Washington all right new

Minnesota was going to be on the list and according to they make all these they do they always make

those I'm telling as far as the worst states to live in according to the u.s. news and world

report of course yeah I just want to make sure we're getting this really clear I don't want to

sound like I'm from one source especially because their number one state is probably the number one

state I want to visit Louisiana really I've never been to Louisiana but we wanted to check that out

it's very interesting I was there once as a young I think I think it was like seventeen or eighteen

and it was it's beautiful the moss and the trees was absolutely gorgeous I mean it was just so

cool Spanish moss yeah it is gorgeous they also have dried through daiquiri shops which really

blew my mind the even even the cemeteries are beautiful oh yeah oh yeah oh that was so cool growing

up my bad my first best friend was his family was from there and they just I don't know if they

romanticize it to me or what it is but I've always wanted to visit there but apparently you don't

want to live there according to this list according to the list right Alaska is second worst followed

by Mississippi New Mexico West Virginia and Alabama and as I we note on these lists more often than

not how many of our southern states show up in these and because of many factors we've talked about

a lot but certainly not not positive ones right now that's that's the shame but I think that

there anybody in any of those states can make an argument for why it's you know a good to live

there I don't I agree yeah I'm looking for with okay so Wisconsin is 17th on the list 17th

best overall okay so that's at the top you know yeah that's not bad at all yeah we're in the top half

yeah right they finished 27th in crime and corrections 7th in education 26th in health care 25th

in natural environment 27th in economy 18th in fiscal stability 13th in 31st in infrastructure

time dyslexia see what I did there with 31th and ninth in opportunity 31 in infrastructure

something we need to work on I think yeah yeah fix the being roads yeah right they're working

on it they're trying yeah we need the well of course the budget is going on right now but yeah

they're take note and take note you know I would say our last two mayors have been working very

hard in the infrastructure in this area where it comes to our roads and everything so certainly

on a local local level I know that this is being addressed but I know I know Wisconsin level it

definitely needs to be addressed much more yeah I understand that it's not the sexiest topic but it's

probably the top five top three most important topics I think the first thing you think of

as roads and it's the first thing I think of two but right after that I think of a report that I

read in a study a piece that I saw about dams in this country oh yes bridges isn't that terrifying

I know bridges is a whole other terrifying topic yeah but dams like they talked about Alabama

there in Alabama there is one guy in charge of like 11,000 dams I know like it's insane man that's

not that there's no logical reasoning for that like yeah that's insane so you wonder why infrastructure

gets lift up to the wayside and all that yeah when we have that kind of good points yeah I think

that there's there's a lot of interesting data with this oh yeah there's so much we could dig

into with that so so much just move to Minnesota that's what now no desert remember there's no

desert in Minnesota no no none in Wisconsin either is there a is there is there a overall factor

that makes you because I feel like it's jobs that's that's one of the main things that makes us

move to a whole other state because I'm not thinking about moving even up and down the state I

mean you're moving to a completely different state I feel like it's the number one thing is jobs

that gets us to do that I know that you know that there's love and in other things I just blot say

over a month just yeah I love and that's the whole love thing and I'm okay about that jobs

that's one up talking I can't think of other ripe I'm not I'm just talking taxes maybe especially

for businesses yes ding ding ding yes and well quality of life I think it has a lot to do with it

honestly and for some people temperature yeah oh that's very that's very true yeah absolutely true

so that's the downside yeah so is the weather is I totally agree with you on that one although the

weather from then most northern part of Minnesota to the southern part of Minnesota are quite

different yes and we have the same is true here in Wisconsin that giant lake you know can really

cause problems telling you right now problems and beauty yeah well I love it but yes minutes which

is bad Minnesota is the only state I've been in where I feel like when I go to their major cities

I don't recognize the state I've been I feel like everywhere I'm in Minnesota I even in the

nice times I've been though there's ice like there's ice everywhere but then I get the

St. Paul or Minneapolis or something like that and it's just a major city yes like any normal thing

yeah it's just but what you you had to be paying attention because it's the people I note this

all the time about Chicago because Chicago is a big city but it's still a Midwest city and and so

people are still 100 percent Midwest kind but in a fast pace you know yeah it's like fast forward

complete opposite in Minnesota where they like niceness comes first like if they're not just holding

the door open for you they will wait for you while holding open the door much like here in the Midwest

in small towns people for sure just we're just seeing a major city yeah you know I'm not used to

that uh they they yeah just admit it it's let me say this is better Melissa you can't do it

the Minnesota so much better I can't go that far I can't hold me back James hold me back

because he's right there and I can get him below as much as I'm a hover and as much as I love

Illinois you've never heard me say that Illinois because we both jump across the desert yeah yeah yeah

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Reginald a seven-year-old great-dane and Pearl a four-year-old Chihuahua came together for a record

breaking puppy play date at regional's owners house in Idaho I that Chihuahua's owners brave man

yeah or that dog is just fierce they could be which is also possible as Chihuahua's can be they

can be Reginald's owner Sam told Guinness World Records that the canine is just a big baby who acts

like a human toddler wait tantrums and I hope not to your point Melissa they say I'm not worried

that Reggie won't be careful around Pearl he's very very cautious and aware I anticipate that he

will be ready really good with her and probably more interested in Pearl's owners than maybe Pearl

herself people dog the two canines were introduced on the couch at Reggie's home and quickly hit it

off oh that's so cute I expected it to be like a mastiff or something like that aren't those

sometimes bigger than their gains they weigh more okay they might not be tall

proteins can are just really tall dog that little Chihuahua is so tiny showing some

yeah video of this oh my gosh that that's a big boy he's taller than the kitchen counters yes

that is a massive dog right there he put his head right in the kitchen sink like he doesn't

need a water dish he can just turn on the faucet he's bigger than her own their owner yeah she's

not a very big person you know he's sitting on the couch and he's taller than oh my god he's

like two heads taller than her that is definitely what a glorious dog and such great face yeah

and he looks so friendly this is one of my favorite things about dogs yeah little dogs have no idea

how big they are or how you know how little they are little they are big dogs have no idea how

big they are okay that his his food dish was as tall as a garbage can yeah that's amazing I

mean I guess that's so we have to get down on the floor to eat the only thing they missed is that

I thought all great Danes were named either Scooby or Marmadou yeah so what

Reginald's a little no that's the perfect name for that dog what a gentleman she's feeding

uh feeding him while drinking he's drinking out of the sink he was yes that tall that he's just

drinking right out of the sink I told you don't want to don't want to be licked by that dog you get

drenched man yeah it's nothing like the bone they don't have to they don't have to jump up on

their hind legs to lick your face though they could just do it from standing I love big dogs

oh I've always wanted to see now for you that would be fine but like if you're like six feet

tall like James you know like halfway there he would jump up and completely plow you over

this one I run into this with my little fur brother Sam that's a head butt situation

waiting to happen yeah that's just you look you look down at the worst time of open to come up

this lick years I'm there um that is a great dog that's amazing cute dog too yeah that little one

oh we'll take our final time out of the hour when we come back we're talking baby names and ones

that grandparents don't really like I like those all right coming up on the morning show here WFHR

welcome back everybody morning show here at WFHR locally grown radio Melissa set the James

hanging out with you we're going to take it right to the top of the hour we will have some fun

stuff lined up for you in the 10 o'clock

oh baby names they're wonderful they're fun and it's also something that note you know there's

always going to be somebody that doesn't like the name you try create tension in the family you

know the only thing harder the naming your child is revealing the name to the kids grandparents

yep they definitely have an opinion in a survey 69 percent of grandparents think that it's

fine for grandparents to give their opinions to their grandchild's name on their grandchild's name

sure when they can give their opinions yeah business meaning has weight exactly 38 percent

parents say that it's none of their business and 31 percent of grandparents also agree with that

oh mom okay might get that to each throw yeah yeah sure I mean what's the harm of just saying

about your thing I'm with you it's not nice like why did you name your child that that's awful

like that that's kind of what's a negative why would you do that number one to your kid number two

to your grandchild you're a hundred percent right Melissa and I am also just now realizing how

how me my family could be sometimes this is this is nothing to me my family would never hold back

out any of this like it's true like if anything we go to my grandparent or would go to our grandparents

right everything for opinions like again I don't try to do this very often but I I gotta say that

this is a stereotype I do see a lot in Italian families where there is no it's more shocking when

you don't know something an opinion that somebody has because as soon as they have the opinion it's

out there and everything so yeah 15 percent of a parents admit that that that one of their

child's grandparents or on their side of or in the in-laws dislike the grandchild's name many

grandparents get over their initial opinion only 4 percent of grandparents say that there's a

child named that they just can't accept even over time wow 28 percent grandparents say that

their main objection would be would be if the name was ugly quote unquote ugly and 17 percent

would want it to be don't like it when it's too weird quote unquote too weird well I thought that

was where this was going like weird spellings of me oh okay well yeah I can see that but you're not

spelling it when you say it that's true so I mean what would the problem well but you also

were gonna know yeah you're gonna see it I can eventually know how that's what's bothering you but

ugly but it wasn't ugly name thank you thank you I I don't think I've ever heard anything you know

words described as ugly I don't know right yeah I mean unless the name is ugly yeah yeah why would

you do that you like yeah you got to be there have you met you know have you met my son Tar Pit you

know nothing like that I mean that would be pretty ugly kind of thing right and uh it did

to hear so here you met my son weren't here's frank and oh wait somebody had that name and

sword in the stone yeah I'm just right disgusting what what oh it's a family name it's handed down

you're disgusting he's the third disgusting in the family other common complaints include they

don't want it to be old fashioned like them so that's an interesting one okay I want to keep

it new yeah old fashioned like them why wouldn't they okay they get annoyed if it's a family name

uh oh and they also get annoyed if it's related to the other grandparent not well that I can

see a little family rivalry there but why would they get annoyed if it's a their own family name

maybe they really just don't like it you know if you know egg burt is in the family they're like no

please don't do that don't use egg burts no and the final two reasons that grandparent may not

like the name they don't like that it reminds them of someone they don't like yep okay there's that

that was my mom when it was one of the names we were floating by for for our first ron which we

ended up naming ron he uh Beth was one of her grandfather's name was Eugene and we thought maybe Eugene

would be a good one my mom was like no because she had a bad experience with a guy named Eugene

okay that kind of thing so we can understand why that would yeah I mean some names have a bad

connotation because of his past history or you know but that would be the only reason why or

that relative in the family was a serial killer I don't know about that I would go oh man

that would really create some issues that Thanksgiving yes don't want to name him that just trust us

please please don't do that have we ever told you about uncle Tom I didn't mention that name oh

well that's a reason um and the final one they don't like the spelling up there you go

yeah I know that was going to be in there somewhere right so how do you know if a grandparent

it doesn't like a name well we got three easy ways to tell for you here maybe eight percent of

grandparents admit that they have have pretended to love that name when they didn't let all um

and nine percent say that they simply said what four percent I like that and four percent say

that they just remained completely silent which is quite the answer itself yeah they didn't do

this in the Midwest if they had it would have been oh that's nice yes that's what they would have

done yeah well isn't that nice that nice there's also a random list of the top names hated by

grandparents and they include Aurora Charlotte Elijah Finn Jack Lindsay Noah Sally and Tabitha

seriously what's wrong with all of those names are beautiful yeah those are good

all those classic name summer classics are newer you know what the nice mix yeah Aurora is a

you know like a fairy tale princess right yeah I got nothing they had a problem with the name

yeah Tabitha like I'm just Sally what's wrong yeah Sally that's that's kind of very that's the

one that threw me the most for some reason like why I don't know they don't like Dick Jane and Sally

although I love those books that's why I learned to read in yeah I feel like I feel like you've got

to almost work to dislike the name Sally like you've got to like find something you know maybe there

was a Sally in their class yeah they were a kid that they just didn't get a little at one point

there were a lot of Sally's around right that was a very common name for a while very popular name

I should say but so maybe that is something to do with it like all the kids that name Sally in

their school like that name anymore with um I give my parents a lot of credit on this one it

actually kind of brought the family together I joke a lot about my name but my first name coming

from my great-grandfather that when he first came to this country all he had was his name and a

couple of cents in his pocket and the first James of that James is always going to name his son James

I did that my father did and all that but in with my mom and dad them having a lot of other factors

that kind of kept them apart and were very divisive in the both families with them being

different religions and races and all that um they chose to go with the middle name of my

grandfather my mom's dad so I have both of their names now my father but you know has a different

reason for my middle name uh it still works still works but it covers both bases exactly um and

so my my ex and I we sort of tried to do something similar with that together and with our kids names

and uh my son's name James Kavan and uh Mandy chose the middle name Kavan which is a Celtic name

and kind of brought both creeds and both you know houses together and everything we really like

that and then Isabel my daughter Isabel her name is Isabel Rain um and Isabel obviously very

traditional Italian name and everything had nothing to do with why we chose Isabel

but we let the family think that hey well exactly hey they look what we did over here

and then the kid Isabel even the traditional spelling of Isabel right right back going back to the

food huh you do try I think um especially as young parents it is something that you think of a

lot of oh I want the family to like everything I'm doing and I want okay and I it's one I want

to bring up it's always important as uh older parents to treat younger parents well give them

some grace support goes much farther than critique um anybody can get anybody can critique a young

parent anybody can do that uh support encouragement that goes a lot farther and do and builds a lot

stronger bond so you get to see the kid more probably if you want and everything um but but also

uh understand that it's not about you it's not about it's about the kid it's about the then

this young family starting their own tribe right and I like the fact that my my mom and dad chose

to name all of um my me my me and my brothers all our middle names are grandparents um right on

our own yes we did that with with our two sons where are both of their middle names are from

grandfather my for my grandparents um the whole reason we rain we name roan roan is because

that's best maiden name roan oh well differently but but they're help to carry that well it does

because on her both my my father-in-law and his brother all girls the name is dying out on that

side of the family so they to honor that what's one of the reasons why we we may name his first name

roan so yeah my uh my oldest bria her middle name is Ann because uh her mom and I uh both uh both

of our grandparents were named Ann so yeah right yeah I love I love the what what is happening with

like with bria and mech because I actually I should mention journalistically I am a grandparent

technically I can say on this and I love the name they chose they chose an awesome name I think

it's fantastic and everything had I not liked it nobody would know exactly nobody would know

I'm not even telling strangers or you know the you know that person on the train you meet that

you're never gonna see again or something like that right because I'm on a train so much why yes

yes where did that come from do we do here box car jane strangers on the train that's

okay from that that old that old uh you know it's cock movie it's all it's cock movie I couldn't

help myself I knew it come from somewhere um I don't know interesting list you can see the whole

list if you like in the complete article at grandsnet dot com grandsnet dot com you could just not

judge other people's choice in their new child I mean what what a thought yeah stop judging me

being judgmental stop judging me stop it look okay okay you're the only person I enjoy judging

Seth deal with it they named the kid eight off or something they know you want to say something

sure okay I like that it's like um uh but no I don't know that there's really any scenario that

you really should be speaking up a lot of what another what another set of parents are going to

name their kid it's it's their thing it's their thing um we are going to have some fun in the

nine o'clock hour looking forward to it got a bunch of great little ten o'clock hour it will do

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