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My way of thinking is that the parents do all they can.
But once the kids leave off that door, whatever have you, they make their own decisions.
I don't care if you nine or 99, it's still your decision about the situations that you get involved yourself in.
Look into their taxes.
Look into this.
We talking about elected officials doing backdoor deals and somehow she still wanna blame immigrants.
That's what we talking about right now.
We following the money and you still wanna blame black people and immigrants and welfare and all of these things for policies and backdoor deals that put poor people in worse position.
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become an issue?
Here are your hosts, Ray Nitty and maybe Shannon.
You can hear me over
OK.
You see, I got the DJ.
I want to know.
here.
It was a cold black night.
Something
up.
knows.
Do you
No, no, no.
You know, what's in my cup is in my cup, you know, oh, yeah, but you know what next time T Lou and time we gonna kick how about that?
We gonna go to the show and I'm gonna show y'all how I can now I Don't wild out like Sherwin and a Xavier and Zach might wild out, you know, but I'm gonna be outside.
I'm gonna join the evening, you know, I'm in dodge.
I'm gonna Be a agitator, you know
So I know how to have a good time.
But when it's time for me to go, I'll be ready to go.
Did you get your invite
wife got no business being in the club.
Unless she's there to watch me DJ.
Even if she
I think I just need.
It was like, you know,
He was like, when the last time I pulled up on one of my homies, and he was like, why you ain't hug him today?
I was like, yeah, so usually, you know, I hug a homie or something.
And whenever I'll go over there and pull up on a homie, you know, the homie be giving hugs and whatnot.
So I guess I didn't the other day and he asked, why didn't you?
I was like, well, technically he be forcing me into the hug.
But then
Today.
Right.
This morning.
Like last night.
All the time.
He was like, really?
I'm like.
Yeah, I'm like I at this point Amanda from the jump out the back because this is just gotta be a prank, right?
Right, gotcha He doubled down like so you telling me you just Saw your wife was like come here.
Give me a hug It was interesting man, it just made me think man, I'm trying I wonder how many married men are out here that just don't like
You know, I'm not saying they don't love their partners.
than
that's not the way I
A lot of people, you just said a lot of them do not like their wives.
And I'm saying.
That was what the discourse was.
A lot of men, like even in dating, they don't really like the women they're with.
They love them and they're sexually attracted to them, but they like their homies better than they were.
They like, I don't want to deal with this.
Like it's just the interesting thing that you pointed that out and had that epiphany because, yeah, a few months ago, people were saying that online.
People do not, well, men specifically do not enjoy a lot of them, not all of them.
Don't enjoy women for real.
They just be like, yeah What's my homeboy doing it?
I don't like
Wow.
Listen, just follow it.
He just accused us of liking.
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Hit up Sierra, man.
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Book the lunch break crew, man.
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Sierra
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nitty r a y n i d t i is where you can follow Ray across all platforms and then myself maybe Shannon m a y b e s h a n n o n across all platforms and don't forget Addison YouTube as well man we be hanging out in the chat that's that's our YouTube channels we be responding to y'all from so make sure y'all hit that and subscribe to us on YouTube as well man let's get back into Ray was he was saying
for the first segment and then try to blame me for summing it up and comparing it to what was going on on TikTok.
And I said, it reminds me of this course that was happening on TikTok a few months ago where people were basically saying a lot of guys and I didn't say wives because they didn't specify wives.
You specify wives.
That's why I said they said a lot of guys don't like the women that they were dating or their wives and they would rather hang out with their homeboys.
They are attracted to women sexually and they also love them like you said.
love them, but they don't like them, like you said.
Jesus, ready to tussle?
See, I got this.
Listen.
OK.
For real, you gotta put tape on that, girl.
Turn that around, man.
Gave us none.
Wait, no, I got it.
Go ahead, put it back in the corner.
Put it back in the corner.
Put it back.
I'll fix
There we go.
Truth,
I was looking at a question in the chat, Shannon.
She says, the clock is moving too slow.
I'm so ready for the weekend.
Well, it's about to speed up right now because you see Shannon on her mess, not really a city girl.
What takes a man?
to the point of them not liking their wives.
That's an amazing question.
I think that she she put it so eloquently.
And I don't think it's just let's not just put husband and wives, right?
Because there are very long relationships that that are existing right now where, you know, people aren't married.
So I don't want to just limit it to just.
You know.
people that are married because I do believe people that aren't married could still be very deeply in love and probably still put the truth on it and still not like the person they are with even though they're not married, right?
So that's what I feel like I want to get into a little bit, Shannon.
Then I want to, it brings another question.
This is random.
This is a random one.
I'm gonna save it.
We're gonna do it one at a time.
We're going to do
Wait, what
know, walk too slow,
But I do think in the conversation we have and right, a lot of people just put up with people because they think it's what they supposed to do.
That's what I think.
I don't think nothing takes a person to a certain point.
I think people like during the courting process don't really like evaluate, do we have the same values?
Do we have the same morals?
Are we heading in the same direction?
Like when it comes to like spirituality, when it comes to work ethic and stuff like that, I think people don't really take that, um, in account a lot of times and they just kind of date people because they feel like, okay, well, I'm at that age.
It's time to settle down.
It's time to start dating or you feel like, okay, everybody else around me is dating or doing whatever XYZ.
Maybe I should also do it and they don't really, you know what I mean?
I feel like they don't really do.
Do the interview process the right way do the quarter process the right way?
That's what I'm thinking happens and then they look up and realize Oh, I really don't like this person.
It was cool in the beginning, but Yeah, no, thanks.
That's what I think happens
the
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We're talking about relationships today, and it feels like a battle of the sexist type of show, because the women is on dirt.
Dirt.
talk to my honey
We got a lot of catch it up to do already.
So we just got, you know, introduction, everybody greeting each other in the chat.
Look, I'm doing the AI when they be summing stuff up.
Anyways, Jasmine said the clock is moving so slow.
I'm ready for the weekend.
Not really a city girl.
Hopefully we can get this clock moving a little quicker on the lunch break, man.
not really a city girl also said what takes a man to the point of them not liking their wives.
We did talk about that a little bit.
Jasmine Jazz West says super slow.
She's on her two hour break, but she won't be done until five y'all.
We getting y'all through these breaks.
We gonna get y'all through them.
Not really a city girl said I can't speak from a woman's point of view, but I want to know from a man's point of view.
She also said nitty.
You ain't slick.
How you gonna just turn the question back around and just drop it on shannon That's all I was saying.
You see y'all see what's
Happy Friday to you.
I'm going to be honest with you.
nothing less.
Lazyness.
People let they self go.
They lose the fire.
They give up.
uh lack of initiative everything seemed like a chore so i would say to women uh always keep yourself looking good and if your man has to get drunk or high to have sex he's not in love with your body if he uh cannot get it up in the ghost lamp he's not in love with your body because he can mess with somebody 600 pounds and as long they have a depot he can mess with it
I also think on both sides, people just get bored and they need some spontaneous ecstasy.
So you have some people when they get in relationships, they let themselves go.
They gain weight or if I'm tired or I'm old, but then when they see somebody full of youth.
Now they out there tapping that ass.
So I think on both sides, y'all both got to keep it adventurous.
You got to keep it sexy.
You got to keep it you.
Because when you give up and you say, oh, well, I just gained weight and I get comfortable, that's when people step out.
So everybody got to stay on their game and tell people stop getting comfortable because that's when everybody started cheating with somebody who looked opposite of you.
And then that's where all the infidelities come in and outside babies.
And sometimes the baby's be in the back of the mouth, not with the pregnancy test.
So just stay focused.
And if they cannot get it up, go your separate ways and find you somebody to sleep with.
Have a good day.
And don't beat up on
yourself.
Bye-bye.
Listen, so today what we're going to talk about is Gypsy Rose Blanchard.
I was surprised to hear that Ray did not know who this was.
I think most people know who Gypsy Rose is, but we're going to get into who she is just in case you missed the memo.
Gypsy Rose Blanchard became internationally known because of the murder of her mother Dee Dee Blanchard in 2015.
Gypsy said that she suffered
or Gypsy has suffered, it was proven in court, I should say.
I can't make it seem like she ain't actually suffered.
She did.
She suffered years of what people call medical abuse at the hands of her mother who convinced the doctors and others that Gypsy had numerous serious illnesses and disabilities that she didn't have.
Gypsy ultimately pleaded guilty to second-degree murder after helping plan her mother's killing with her then-boyfriend Nicholas.
She served years in prison and then she was released December 2023 since then her relationships marriage divorce pregnancy and life as a mother has become a massive reality TV so basically like people watch her because she's a hot mess basically she got out of jail in 2023 and continues to be
a mess.
That's really what it is.
Between her having a boyfriend in jail, getting out, leaving him, finding a new boyfriend, getting pregnant, and between that, it's just been a hot mess.
But yesterday, October 1st, or look, I don't even know what the day is, y'all.
Y'all don't have to help me out on my days.
I'll just say this.
October 1st.
Ken, who was her baby's daddy, was found unresponsive in Louisiana on his 34th birthday.
Authorities have confirmed his death and say an investigation remains ongoing.
Gypsy told people that she believes Ken died from a suspected overdose, although she said she does not know whether it was intentional.
That has not yet been established and his official cause of death has not been released yet.
Gypsy says she's devastated and she described Ken as her soulmate and emphasized that beyond everything people watched online.
He was still the father of their little girl.
Yeah, so people how people are reacting is interesting, right?
Because some of the reactions online has, you know, pointed out that their relationship has been extremely complicated.
There are people expressing genuine sympathy because the child is involved and has lost their father, but others are kind of.
Discussing Gypsy's extremely public life and how audience have treated the people around her like characters in an ongoing reality show.
There's also speculation about the circumstances surrounding his death.
I also have a video.
You know, I got a little video from TikTok for you all to check out.
Brother Z, do you got the video?
Yeah, one second.
I got to just do the audio of it because it wants me to sign in to TikTok and it's not letting me on the other computer.
Alright, so in just a second we gonna play that video for you guys that I got from tiktok, but some people are questioning Whether or not she has something to do with it.
She ain't mine killing her mama in 2015 So people are now like they did have a rocky situation going on and they looking at her kind of side-eye and from people speculating they don't even believe that they were together at the time they looking at it is like something's weird going on because he was kind of a
He was he was he was talking about how he wanted custody of his baby and all of a sudden this happened So we're gonna go ahead and play the video.
Let me know what
think Gypsy Rose was married to this other guy while she was in jail
Her boyfriend, whatever, she gets out.
Then she's unhappy with him.
She finds her little side piece, finds him getting knocked up by that dude.
They move it together, start their little family.
That quickly falls apart within a year or two.
And old boy decides he's going to move out last week.
He moves out and threatens to sue Gypsy Rose for a full custody of the baby.
And then they found him dead today.
So
yeah people are questioning what's really going on over there because mind you her mom was brutally killed basically at the hands of her boyfriend who she convinced to take out her mom because you know which which like I said I can't
Sweep under the rug that her mom was definitely like evil.
Her mom convinced doctors and medical staff.
She had feeding tubes and all types of stuff going on that she just didn't even need because her mom was crazy.
Like I think she had her teeth pulled out because her mom was like, oh, she has all these medical conditions.
She's so sick.
Yeah, her mom was also crazy.
But to have your boyfriend take your mother out, put it all together.
and get out.
And like I said, since she's been out, she's constantly in some type of drama, right?
It's always something with her.
So I don't believe she was rehabilitated.
I think she's still, yeah, still a menace to society if you ask me.
And then on top of that, you know what?
they said her social media had been down for a little bit as well because recent video or I'm sorry audio was leaked from jail phone calls of her and her ex-husband being extremely racist so I don't know you racist you got all this other stuff going on you probably did kill that man much I could put past her so I guess we gonna watch and see what comes of this but until then the internet is talking and they want to know what's going on
What you think about that right
paying
It's
So they
The
box.
But I'd be like, where is that same outrage from a community when these white criminals and murderers and these killers that's killing babies and.
busting people heads open with asphalt, like why there's no highlight of the violence that is going on, the thuggery that is going on in these communities.
And I think, you know, media has failed.
We media has told the wrong story consistently.
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if they can't keep up with that Persona or whoever they act like they are in the beginning that'll definitely like make me look at you weird because it's like The first few months it was this way and then all of a sudden you something completely different But that's what people do.
I remember somebody did call him like yeah, you meet their representatives the first few months
Right, but after the first few months, if you completely changed because you was acting and just so focused on getting somebody, I think that's weird.
I don't like people that do too much acting.
So that'll make me not like somebody.
And this person was just always like, oh, yeah, like I'm.
willing to like like work out and things like this like I'm like okay cool or like we would like do I'm a very active person even when I'm in my laziness I'm still active I like to go do things I like to move around I'm like excited to get up and do stuff and they act like that was them and then like a few months later he was like oh yeah I'm real lazy actually it was the weirdest thing and I'm like why would you act like this like what do you mean like
It was it sound petty, but it's also like you kind of fake the entire personality knowing you
ain't
So I had a home girl tell me she was dating somebody for months and he would like take her out all the time, pick her up, but the things you do when dating.
She said after a few months she found out that man ain't half a car.
He ain't even had no money.
People started basically telling her he was borrowing other people money to take her on dates, borrowing somebody else's car acting like he had a car.
The persona was like.
Not him at all basically like when they finally like got together and she now she's too deep in she found out like It's one thing being like I really like this girl.
I'm doing what I can to make things happen But to find out this man had nothing No, no things.
Oh My god, she was like now we in love and I be having to borrow him money.
I'm a
no,
even
Mm.
Set the draws, though.
Maybe
That's true love, man.
Oh, y'all are.
To borrow everything.
That's a win.
That's a win.
They used to write
out if
Choose
and it was
the fruits
Okay,
What'd you say?
Thank you.
Let's catch up with the comments.
This is the only stuff that makes sense these days.
Talking about that's a true love
You're like, okay.
I could see myself like in this person I'm falling for this person and once they get you where they got you and they pull that rug from under your feet Now you feel like you too deep in and you end up sticking around I personally think she felt duped but now it's too far gone.
I ain't going nowhere
up?
Okay, what about it?
it takes
Y'all be.
It's
new papers.
With the balloons.
Yeah.
Making a little globe.
Making a pinata.
Yes.
try
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Man Welcome to our two with the lunch break crew your favorite crew in the brew Ray nitty Maybe Shannon DJ brother Z holding us down with the production and sound it is Friday and it is lunchtime Boy are we eating the date and the women is serving junk
Junk food, fellas, do not recommend.
One out of 10, I do not recommend.
Shots out to Alfonzo.
He says, nitty all facts.
When you find out the truth, the true person is crazy.
I told you, Shannon, when we meet y'all representative, the representative is way different.
I'm so glad.
The person I met is the person I'm
We gonna catch up on these comments, all right?
Somebody said Alfonso said he must have got the draws and played her and she loved it.
Somewhat super fun fans said if love is blind was a person, literally.
Somebody said, well, how long did he fake it?
And they said, but she ain't borrowed a wig.
True.
At least they ain't borrowing wigs.
Yes, y'all are.
Borrowing the wigs, the wigs.
Say, man.
in
What?
Not in a
bum.
Yeah, I'm black and the black because I'm black y'all
y'all.
That was a good help to y'all.
sir
Hey, love and righteousness, brother.
But listen, I only got a few minutes.
But if you take an assistant to swimming, don't be surprised that she walked out with a lot of Walmart bags topped around her head.
So she's still committed.
And the other thing about it is you mentioned something about Denny.
What's up with these deep tissue massages in jail from the inmates?
He back at it again.
That's
I overheard that, I overheard that on the newscast and it left me stopped.
I'm like, these tissue massages.
that's what they call these these days.
Can't
tissue.
So he's really having his way.
Ain't nothing changed.
You can't change a leopard strikes.
So he's having his way in that institution there.
But hey, live righteous Milwaukee.
Have a great weekend
We crack and dance to just kick back.
We're going to have to the last security guards.
You ain't even heard what happened to the last
Sure.
your phone call.
interrupt.
Hello.
Hello, hello, hello.
We
never
get this phone call.
He's not calling.
Hey!
He let me in, yo!
He gave me a temporary.
I got temporary.
I gotta be on point.
Yes, sir.
please.
I got temporary.
And thank you so shout out to DJ.
Brother Z. Brother Z, I apologize.
Thank you.
It's Friday.
It's a special show today.
We're
gonna have a good weekend with the white balls.
If the white balls don't get in my face.
We're singing that song.
So we got our capers.
What?
And we got our smile.
And we don't do caring.
We don't fuck.
Oh, oh, oh.
And we ain't ready.
And penalize myself.
Excuse me.
I feel like women from what I've heard and seen.
I've even experienced it on this show.
Women will take a sentence and add a whole different thing to it.
Now we're arguing because you done said something that I didn't say.
So now there's two in one, actually, I just gave you both of them.
Unnecessary arguing, just arguing, just bickering, just.
Get your socks.
Oh, I see a man in the chat.
Hey, I'm not.
Time out.
Time out.
I dumped it.
I dumped it.
It's OK.
Cool.
point.
That's the point.
Amanda, stay.
Hey, cousin.
Don't go anywhere.
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The first comment we got is, what's going on?
That was Milwaukee a man.
I think she came in during the East Side Quarry calling right after that we got out that said, what in the Diddy party is going on?
We got RC creations.
Why did that feel like a Dave Chappelle skin?
It did.
Some of our shows feel like that.
Aaron, it's him said, DJ Brothers, you got to do better at screening these calls.
Now look
I literally just told I was like all right, you psychore You know, I'm not supposed to let you on but I'm gonna let you on you know what to do.
Just keep it clean Just keep it clean.
I don't want to have to you know, re-bend you for an even longer time Sounded like
He had to have been drunk.
I'll say it.
Amanda.
Happy Friday.
Just you know, greetings.
Greetings, everybody.
Amanda dropped the sock in the chat.
What that mean?
Right?
Chill out.
You in trouble.
And then I'll find myself there.
When I was a liar, I have plenty of women now that I tell the truth.
They hate me.
take for a man to say hey gang, let me use your car Can I use this jacket?
Can I use you?
Can I wear your Jordans for this date this weekend?
I got this bad shorty that I'm really trying to impress and it's really not even like that bro She really could be the one but the way that she be living.
I don't got it like that.
You got it Patrick got it
Henry got that jacket that I wanted since high school.
Let me wear it for the weekend.
You go get it back on Sunday.
I
keys.
Do you know how like how
don't
would
I feel like that's what's happening.
I think that I do think she broke up with him now, though.
This was like two years ago, all this was gone.
What?
She broke up with him.
I think they going through their own thing now, but what I was saying was happening like a few years ago, that was a situation and now she at the point where she resents him.
And I think they are breaking up.
So it's not a love story.
It's a, I got STEM story.
I'm in love with this person.
And then you watch the trajectory of their relationship, how it falls apart because it was based on a lie.
That's still a love
Mind you, it was stuff that they could have
could have double checked and fact-checked them.
You know what it is, right?
Tell me, man.
Man, people just so used to lie that, you know, that's what they're accustomed to, man.
They're accustomed to.
But when you start keeping them one-handed and start telling them the truth, then they look down on you because, then now, you gonna start finding out that what they was talking about, that they own, they own life, ain't nothing but lies, man.
That's what it is about.
It's about exposure.
It's about exposing these women.
Some of these women don't want, don't want no honest man because it's like Michael, Michael Jackson's talking about the man in the mirror.
It's the woman in the mirror.
You start looking at that man like, oh, he, she started being run honey with me and telling me the truth.
Now I got to start telling them, I ain't no better bone face life.
When you wake up in the morning and she got that bunny on her head, one of them eyes, the dog fell off.
When you look at your feet, you're like, oh my god.
I thought this was maybe Shannon.
This ain't no maybe, Shannon.
This ain't no maybe, Shannon.
Oh my god.
This is your name name.
This is your name name.
Get up.
Get out of here.
This is crazy, man.
You bumping and farting in my house and swabbing on my throat.
You got the ghost.
I'm bluffing you.
got something about that too.
Because he said, I know we having a good time.
I know we having a good time.
But, brother, my D said something in there that was very, very important that I don't think women catch because women listen to respond, not to understand.
When we come back, y'all, we'll get back to the conversation right after these messages.
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How would that man be viewed he could say I'm I'm in between jobs right now.
I'm still looking for a job But I'm trying You know, so y'all don't want that person shannon Exactly, y'all don't want the man that's gonna tell y'all crazy
Because first and foremost, when I'm in my mode where I'm grinding and finding jobs and finding my way, I don't even want a day.
Why would I want to be around a man that ain't got nothing together?
But you know what?
Me and Havad, I sent you a video this morning of that man sitting in his van talking about he, the date, Mrs.
just like this is what we deal with men that feel like they deserve these top tier women And I'm pretty sure he'll go on a date and be like, you know, this is my ex-girlfriend And this is the caliber of woman I deserve and then when he takes this unsuspecting woman back to his van she probably like excuse me like This is what I'm talking about.
What's so bad about actually getting on your feet and then taking people on a date
Ain't nothing wrong with
Get get get all your baggage that you carry.
Get all them bad relationships that you hang over the new boyfriend had all them standards like get all get all of that out your system before you come over to this man that's working on himself and on the don't come over here talking about what the next man did.
Anybody that is looked for a relationship needs to work on their self individually.
That's just my take on relationships in general.
That's why back to the question in the beginning why people feel like
later down the road things change you just be disgusted with somebody because y'all didn't work on yourselves individually y'all come into these relationships with so much baggage so much all this and that expectations not clearly stating what you expect in a relationship not even having communication enough to be like this is what's going on this is who I am as a person because y'all want something like a relationship so bad people don't have these real-life conversations
And now you in a van with this man that claimed to date Miss Tanzania.
He was in a van, y'all.
He said, he
And in the screen time doubt, bro.
You have reached your limit for the day.
He said women on my phone.
Oh my God, Doug, that is hilarious.
And at the end of that conversation, he literally said he deserves a woman like that again.
That's what Calibra woman he deserves.
While he's sleeping in his van, ain't showered or brushed his beard in about a year and can't even say it's just a mess.
Hey, I was.
thinking about what Shannon said and guess what and they defense these guys they're like guess what if she can rock with me in this van with no job homeless just imagine when I come up this is chick I want to share it with so they just figure like I'm gonna get that chick when I'm at a bottom
So that's probably where they're going with all of this.
He says, once you make it, once guys do really, really good and you know, they got the house, they got the job, they got everything good, then it's like they just have women auditioning for the role of wife or girlfriend or main chick, side chick or whatever, but they're never going to get that role because their ego is where it needs to be.
And now they just think, oh, you women are just accessories.
So he just trying to get that at the bottom.
He's just trying to get that check
at the
bottom.
That's why.
Yeah, that's my hypothetical thought process where all this is going because me personally, if I don't have a job, I really don't have time to be thinking about dating.
I'm trying to work on myself.
I'm trying to better myself.
I'm trying to get from the 1.0 to the 5.0.
I'm working, filling out job applications.
I really don't have time to be distracted.
That's my thought but maybe it's what I said.
They at the bottom and they gonna have that chick who rise to the top because Jay-Z wasn't always Jay-Z, you know, so
it is
no started from the bottom wide to the top.
you guys.
Have a nice
Have a good one.
Don't don't rush her off We like when when people come here and call and have common sense conversations with us Theresa any time you want to call truth
Please do you are always welcome here, especially on this show, the lunch break.
All right.
Thank you very
to
If you if we be honest, I think she was saying just kind of where the guys were starting from.
And then she still went on to say, OK, once they have gotten to this point, then, you know, she's like.
They looking at women as accessories now, you know, I could I could have said calm down there right there, but you know Yeah, thank you, Sharice You got some comments in your favor I do
Before I get to the comments in the chat, so I don't lose my train of thought I do want to respond to the call
And this is just with the question because she did and was saying because I'm too busy working on myself I don't even date and that's kind of what I was saying when I'm working on myself I'm not dating because I'm working on myself and I think most people in general should be doing that if you know you're not even at a stable position as far as Livelihood you should not be dating you should be working on yourself and it's okay to focus on getting where you are where you need to be right
Boom then I'm gonna go into the second part Most men are probably looking for somebody to hold them down today come up.
Do y'all know how many women?
Literally think of all the women that held men down today come up They got movies about this and just get cheated on or left when they do come up and then they over there getting the words like well I held them down and I thought I was gonna reap the benefits and they never reap the benefits Or you get a man that's in a van after you finally leave them still talking about how he deserves better from his van
But that's what I look at it as.
I don't believe in holding nobody down.
I'm not looking at potential.
What are we doing right now?
say
She said The man is possibly wanting the woman to have somebody to come up with
Yeah,
that's not what you said,
But in your initial response, you didn't respond saying a man wants a woman to come up with.
when a man wants a woman to come up with, basically they want somebody to sit there while they act like they're working on their selves, hold them down.
That's what I'm getting at.
They want somebody to hold them down until the come up happens.
And sometimes when the come up happens, they end up cheating or just leaving them because thanks for holding me down.
Thanks for coming up with me.
Now, scram.
I'm responding with what I'm saying happens when people are like, I'm looking for somebody.
I didn't colonize our sentence.
I responded to what I feel like happens when somebody is like, I need somebody to come up with as many times if I've heard the story is he was just looking for somebody to.
work with him and get him on his feet and help him come up in the world.
That's what I'm saying, what happens after that.
I ain't changed her sentence, I responded to it.
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Somebody, look, Alfonso said, maybe Shannon, nothing but facts.
No lies detected.
People want you to work on yourself and them.
It's crazy.
Facts, come on now.
When you watch the NFL draft, the girlfriend next to the player is the one who's been there the whole time.
She was there before the star.
Some of those women wait until you made it.
Yeah, and y'all know what happened.
Y'all know this story is all this time.
The one right at the draft be the one getting cheated on and everything else all throughout the season.
Next.
We have abstract said people could just have platonic relationships if they don't want to get that serious Facts just be platonic be fresh really get to know each other.
I am an advocate for that then we have I Feel like I missed some trying to you know get through get the would you see any that we missed that we should get to
I do like this one though.
Robert said, y'all came a long way in a short time.
Thanks for another great week of entertainment.
use it.
Hold on,
it
You see what?
Get it!
Get it!
Fellas!
Get it!
She is not a team player, bro.
She's gonna make your life way more difficult.
We was trying to record a commercial using our chat.
I'm with our cousins at it.
She just... Can I do it now, Ray?
Sure, Shannon.
Read the comment now.
Now that people can see how we really act.
We're not using it no more.
We're not using it no more.
Might as well delete the comment, Rob.
Rob, thank you, bro.
We tried.
Thank you, Rob, bro.
We tried, bro.
But you see how women, they want to do things on their own time.
It's like, Shannon, just.
It's all good, Shannon.
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205 new comments y'all clap it up clap it up for our Cousins man lunch break crew you all are showing out man Shedden, I'm proud of us.
Oh, that's right proud of us.
I'm proud of the team brother Z. Thank you man Appreciate we appreciate you brother Z holding us down keeping us on point.
I know that's a hard job
As much as you hate men, Shannon, we love you, Shannon.
to call
Hey, Ray Nitty.
What's happening?
Hey, talk about that with you and Shannon and then all of the relationship stuff.
Why?
Why?
Why somebody got to be built up?
Why they can't build together?
Because that's where I'm at right now in my relationship.
Me and my girl, we've known each other for a minute.
But we came in, she got her keys, I have none.
So I'm playing stepdad.
And I feel like I'm a great stepdad.
And why can't a king and a queen build a castle together?
Well, because clearly what we was talking about earlier was somebody coming up together.
And that's what Cherise was even saying as well.
And you went and took it to a whole other level.
And Dame just came and asked the question.
So Shannon, why are you here?
I do believe.
Go ahead, close this out.
Say what you got.
I have nothing else to say.
I do
believe two people at the same level or two people that have an understanding of what they're working toward can build together.
But the example that I gave before of somebody faking like they were somewhere else, and then another person finding out later on down the road that they ain't the person they said they is, it's completely different from the example he just gave today.