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Ray vs. Everybody: The Gaslighting Olympics
Lunchbreak with Ray & Shannon · Fri Sep 18, 2026
Welcome back y'all welcome back to the award-winning one-on-one seven the truth live from the American family insurance studios It's hour two with your favorite crew in the brew the lunch break crew Ray nitty Maybe Shannon DJ brother Z holding us down with the production and sound And it's not like a bunch of BS going on Shannon
Oh
We got to catch up on these comments.
I was just we got so much going on.
I don't know what the word is here.
you know, you sound like.
I said, I'm not bringing anything.
No, I said I'll bring something, but I'm not making anything from scratch, especially when it comes to somebody that is like rum punch.
Never made that in my life.
And I know how people get, if you come to a black home with soul food and you are not black, people gonna be like, what is this macaroni and cheese?
I already know how I go.
You're not about to embarrass me.
I'ma bring you, I could bring them a Mosa set up.
I got you.
Let me bring some chips and dip.
I don't know, but I'm not making nothing that is like from your culture because I'm going to mess it up.
It ain't going to be as good and you won't be judging.
And that's what I already know.
the only point I was making.
You know what?
It was like wrong punch.
You said the specific.
I didn't say
me bring about
Where do I find passion fruit extract, Ray?
I'ma bring you some rape Kool-Aid.
I might bring you some fried chicken.
I'm not playing!
about.
That's
can do.
No,
hold on, because everybody don't drink.
What you can say is that what we're gonna do is we're gonna start off with a white Chardonnay first.
And then we will move to a red wine when we start dealing with meat, because that helps with digestion, because I don't know if you are a drinker of rum.
Or what she could do is to say, well, I don't really drink rum, but I will bring something.
So what if she did bring a Jamaican rum called Big Black D-I-C, and then put it on a table with five flavors?
I'm not drinking that.
But it's from Jamaica.
But what you could do is just control the direction.
Well, we're going to start off drinking a white Chardonnay because we're having conversation.
And then we're going to move to the red wine because that helps with digestion.
Because certain men of a certain class and a certain tax bracket, they're going to
kind of move it, but they're going to try to make it look exquisite.
You know what I mean?
So it depends on how you want the delivery to go.
She might not be a drinker, so she might not drink well, but a lot of people drink chardonnay.
Some people might drink red wine.
So I would just maneuver it like that, because some men would say, well, we'll start off.
drinking shawty nay we are toast with shawty nay and then we're going to change the champagne glasses and move to the red wine because now you're making it a strap again so it depends on how you want it to be and then also if mama's there
You know, then you got to keep this in mind.
She's not dating your mother.
She's dating you.
I'm going to give you that hug, but we just not going to let our breath touch.
And once we, once we get to know each other, then I could think about bringing some, because now ain't nobody disrespected.
Everybody is, everybody is met cordially.
Cause see, she might not come back.
She might, she might get diarrhea.
You never know.
You might be turned off, but at least y'all could remove each other gracefully and still have the peace.
set
like you see as soon as I'll offer some big black DIC you ain't won't why would I do that?
you know a lot of people have a lot of people have that they have a shot of that with their ribs if they're out on their yacht or they out on their boats down in Connecticut on the water they always have that with their ribs especially if they're from Brazil or the Dominican Republic
might have that while they're sitting in a jacuzzi and there's you know slapping glasses So it's all about how you want to deliver it and then you got to think about this meeting What's the tax bracket of the people you are around are you messing with somebody who's mid-level?
Are you messing with somebody who's all about class?
So you got to take all those things into consideration and then the dessert might even be better How
that?
But I just want you to appreciate it and a buzz ball tropical one and a passion fruit juice because you know what man did in the midst of Addressing this nonsense that we're talking about.
I Just said you can I simplified I said go get some packs
Think of passion fruit juice.
He said, where am I going to get passion fruit juice from?
He found it right outside the door.
He didn't even have to go
to
Man, I don't know too much.
I can't even pick.
I can't even pick what I bring to you.
I was rum, punch, passion
fruit, mojito
mixed with a little mint and extra lime.
See what I mean?
I can't even bring nothing from my heart.
I can't even be like, you know what?
This is what I know how to make.
I want to bring this.
This is what I'm good at.
I want you to find the recipe, build a house, win a tree, and bring me this.
We got
I can't
y'all really voted for this and saying, I'm the one
Y'all,
right now.
Thank you, my good people of Truth Nation.
They just being nice to Ray cause he got on here, zooming in, tear coming down, they trying to bully me and they
feel
bad.
This is what I mean about how, but you see how what I mean about politics and how they start using stuff to make people feel bad to get that vote.
That's what just happened.
That's what happened.
This is what y'all
This is what y'all witnessed in today.
He acted like he was getting bullied.
People came in feeling bad and was like, you know what, Ray, let me give you that vote.
This ropes back to what we was talking about the other day.
we never got to these comments,
What
What sign are
you?
I am a real
I can't believe it.
I can't believe
to get to the chat
What is it, Akpine Blake said, ah man, must do no excuses, always bring, always have, always, oh, men must do no excuses,
always bring,
always have, can cover, always can be considerate, and courteous, gentlemen always.
That's what I'm talking about.
Anita said, saying jungle juice is crazy.
Robert said y'all cutting up Ray.
You are wrong, sir.
Mmm.
Somebody's tight that in
I need to say ain't nobody coming to see you.
Oh, there's no rum punch for you.
But thank you partner.
Someone who exhibits strong emotional maturity clear boundaries and self-esteem making them an attractive and reliable long-term companion At a key acupunct Blake Look, I'll be butchering his name Mary makes it even more no ma'am.
No, sir Robert said she would be great in studio.
I think she was he was talking about the first caller.
She listen a ray up y'all I can't wait to get my room punch on the house
Because of what I have to go through here in studio Sorry Anita said exactly Shannon wants to make it from scratch So she's thoughtful and considerate Anita understands me.
That's what I'm talking about
That's what I'm talking
That's exactly what I was hinting at.
That's why I was like, I can make it.
I don't want to lie to you and say I can make something that I cannot.
Look, man, not really a city girl.
Blake said men can't get pre-treatment.
Oh my
When you
I say, what about passion fruit
You wanted me to make rum punch from scratch.
yeah, I just
phone
Listen, it's okay.
Everybody can be the rum punch making passion fruit finding person that you seek to find I was just trying
to
That's right Babar said it's given Leo.
Definitely.
I am a Leo.
Thank you.
It sure when definitely dropped the ingredients in there.
I ain't got none of that.
I ain't got no freshly screened orange juice
Freshly squeezed.
This
is done.
This
all.
No, no,
Don't go anywhere.
When we come back, we'll get in to the meat and potatoes, because obviously women like to do the most.
So we're going to get into some other things here.
Carmen School incident, five o'clock steakhouse owner sentence.
Don't go anywhere, y'all.
We'll be right back on the award winning one on one, seven to
truth.
what up
menu
Hopefully we got the ingredients for it.
Google where
to go
I won't just be like, I don't know why.
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These comments popping up while you reading got me giggling.
I'm trying to be quiet so don't catch it on the mic But these comments are hilarious y'all if you are listening make sure you head over to YouTube and join our chat They're
one.
They're gonna have to replay this
Man, I wish they could keep the comments because that's that's where that's where the riot be
Yeah after like the after the live video
Cycles generates and stuff.
The live comments will actually show back
on.
They brought him passion fruit juice.
Now they saved the world.
Right
through this segment where Shannon makes Rom live on
You know what?
You know, I'm ready to go.
I do it with three ingredients, and I guarantee you, I wouldn't even give it to Ray to try because he would try to fake.
See, it was easy.
I bet you if I gave it to anybody else, they'd be like, this is all.
This ain't good.
bro.
I
even let you try it, because you would fake like it's good after all this.
You would fake like it.
Like, see, it was easy.
I'm gonna make some rum punch off the top of my brain what I think rum punch is and I'm just handed out to people get their reactions.
They don't like
punch
Rock
is my friend, okay?
Rock will be on my side.
You know what I'm gonna do?
After this episode, I'm gonna play the clip to Rock and ask Rock's opinion on it.
Since we're going to
Ask Rock.
Brother Z, please send me that clip.
I'm gonna be like, Rock, what do you think about this?
I'm like
sure you prompt it
of Yeah, trust it.
We
gonna trust it
Make
Thursday.
And Saturday.
Speaking of violence.
Sorry, guys.
I keep laughing.
Carmen School Gun Incident, y'all, if you are familiar, there was a video floating around the Internet yesterday.
where some guys were jumping one student.
And Shannon, if I'm not mistaken, it was somebody online who knew the student or something like that.
You know what's crazy about that video is that what I see you online, we originally thought it was the same incident.
That's a separate incident all in the same week.
really?
So this might, yeah, because.
This woman on Facebook said she needed help finding some kids that robbed her son at Carmen Park.
They put a gun to his head and made him strip.
She said she called the police already and there was a separate video going around of that incident.
And yeah, so this was all in one week.
on.
but both incidents dealing with teenagers
and Jumping and potential guns involved Yeah, so yeah the video the video that was going around was at least the one that I saw was Looks like about good five six kids jumping on another one, right and since one kid is like
covered up, blocking himself.
And it's a few other kids just constantly kicking him, punching him.
And then you hear somebody say, oh, he got a gun.
He got a gun on him.
So a few of them run off.
You know, a couple of them were still here until they realized he did have a gun.
Then you ended up seeing it.
You ended up seeing the kid was.
It looked like as if they were trying to pull the arm, he was trying to pull the gun out or get access to it.
It came loose and was trying to grab it.
But then one of the other people that was fighting basically stayed on top.
Then eventually the video cut off.
So I don't know how that situation ended.
I didn't hear of no additional violence or anything.
Shannon, I don't know if you heard of anything like that.
I didn't but that's super unfortunate and I did see like the comments before the video was removed I tried to revisit it this morning It's actually removed now and people were asking like why aren't teachers and adults jumping in and Like I said in the separate incident Somebody was just saying a lot of these people are scared of these kids now
and it's
super unfortunate that it has to go that far Yeah, I'm lost for words and these are teenagers these are young kids that
I think this type of behavior is okay.
And yeah, just bringing this up, right?
It's been a couple incidents involving... It's two separate ones.
It's a Carmen South Middle School, and then it's a Carmen Northwest High School.
May 23 to 17 year old Derek.
Was arrested after a staff member at Carmen Northwest High School found a loaded nine millimeter handgun in his waistband.
Acting on rumors he'd be bringing.
He'd been bringing a firearm to school.
He faced a felony felony charge for possession of a firearm on school grounds.
May 20, 25.
The weapon was found at Carmen South Middle School during a routine metal detector screening before school started.
Police were notified immediately.
The school said they were no threat.
There were no threat to the students or staff and the involved student was pulled from classes pending discipline.
I think.
So he was.
They said they did charge him with the felony and like the discipline that they're talking about would be separate.
So this one was from May of 2025 for another incident.
This was at Carmen South Middle School.
But yeah, just I wanted to give our listeners an update of what's been going on, man.
It's very unfortunate.
We need to pay more attention to our kids.
We need to pay way more.
Attention to our kids.
Let's start looking through them book bags again, man.
Start getting
to know who your kids.
Start getting to know who your kids hanging around with.
When we come back.
When we come back, y'all, we got some more meat and potatoes about the former five o'clock steakhouse owner sentenced.
Yeah.
Sent to this in the fourth district.
It's one of Bob's boys.
I'm not making this up.
Bobby's boys.
It's one of
Bro.
Five o'clock's so
It's so mid.
I've never been
Don't go anywhere.
What's up?
What's up, y'all?
You are listening to the lunch break on the award-winning 101.7, The Truth.
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Man, I'm happy to have y'all locked in with us.
We've been having a great conversation.
We were just getting into the meat and potatoes of it all.
We talked a little bit about children just needing parents to guide them a little better.
We talking about how kids are being caught with guns and jumping people and doing things that I don't remember.
Remember us doing this, kids, but hey, it's happening.
But we were also getting into the five o'clock steakhouse drama slash... What would you call that, Ray?
I wouldn't call it drama.
I would call it
Evil that's going on at a five o'clock steakhouse.
That's what we're at the top of getting into.
don't know.
He was the owner, right?
He was a former owner, yes.
I wouldn't trust it.
I wouldn't trust it.
There's some evil going on with the
Exactly, because you know how they say when you cook, if it's made out of love, you feel it, because what you consume, that's why I wasn't good.
It was cooked by the hands of somebody doing some strange things.
I don't think
I don't know his hands
Nope, I ain't never been there.
Can't say I have.
Was sentenced to 18 years in federal prison for receiving child sexual abuse material as part of the nationwide Project Safe Childhood Initiative.
According to the U.S.
Attorney's Office, Cal Conas met a 16 year old girl online in 2022 and paid her for sexual activity at Racine County.
at racing county hotels.
A separate case involved a 16 year old girl who told him she was a minor and almost immediately he continued soliciting explicit material for her regardless.
He was ultimately caught after traveling across state lines expecting to meet a 14 year old who was actually an undercover officer.
He pleaded guilty in May 2026.
U.S.
District Attorney James Peterson called the crimes very disturbing at sentencing noting Calconas pressured victims into acts.
They did not want to perform and Treated them cruelly Yeah
Is that place still open
See, you know
These places that be like all the old owner went to jail will blah all they do is sell it to their brother That's probably into the same strange things.
I don't know who bought it, but a lot of the times That's what happens.
I would be like absolutely not I'm not even patronized in a place that has that type of stuff tied to their names
of Milwaukee,
city
city of Milwaukee.
It's bad enough.
Look, Bobby's boy.
Hey, hey, hey.
Anyways, up.
All right, my bad.
But it's bad enough you're soliciting minors, but then for the reports to come out that you were pressuring them to do strange things, it really makes me wonder what strange things was happening.
Is this why the FBI changed their, you know what?
Stop before I say too much, but you put two and two together, what strange things?
It's already strange enough you messing with a minor.
It got stranger.
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Put these
Under five o'clock steakhouse.
One of Milwaukee's most popular restaurants serving diners in style since 1946.
and tonight the man who runs five o'clock faces indictment accused of sex trafficking a minor.
CBS 58's Jenna Wells is live outside the West Side restaurant with what we know right now.
Jenna.
Natalie and Mike, 51 year old Stelio Calcunos is the managing partner here at five o'clock steakhouse in Milwaukee.
We learned he was arrested on Wednesday at a hotel in Hollywood, Florida on charges for sex trafficking a minor and producing child pornography.
According to the US Attorney for the Western District of Wisconsin, Calcunis recruited a minor knowing she would be made to engage in commercial sex acts.
That timeline was from July 16th, 2023 to March 1st, 2024.
The release also says Calcunis used a minor to create child pornography.
He's currently being held in jail in Broward County, Florida until he's transported to U.S.
District Court in Madison.
This isn't the first time Calcunis has been charged with sex-related crimes involving a minor.
He was convicted in 2006 after traveling to meet who he thought was a 14-year-old girl for sexual acts.
Instead, it was a Milwaukee police detective.
If convicted of this new sex trafficking charge, Calcunis could spend a min-
maximum of 10 years to a maximum of life in prison.
Now I did reach out to employees at 5 o'clock steakhouse earlier today.
One employee who answered the phone told me they don't know what happened and they don't have any information to share.
The restaurant did open at 4 30 this afternoon and it seems to be business as usual with customers coming
in
easy.
You know what caught my attention.
first crime was found Wait 2006 and he was allowed to come be oh my god flourishing our community be free and come on out about people still patronized him when man This
video is from May 17th, 2024
But they said in that video
Correct me if I'm wrong that the first act was here in racing and that was in 2006 And he was allowed to continue on his business flourishing our communities and people continued to patronize this business and act like nothing was nothing was wrong.
He was he continued to have these Friends that are of status here and nobody called him out on it and then he got caught what two more times
And like, we
got not
really a city girl in the comments.
She said, I thought it was more going on with that place.
I still think it's deeper than that.
And I agree, because when somebody has been caught in 2006, you can only imagine the line of things he's been up to.
And then he only is in jail now is because he went across state lines and did something weird.
So I ain't no telling what he was doing here and no telling what the trafficking network looks like here.
That this was known and he was just serving up stakes.
fourth
years ago.
Come
So ain't no telling how many children Have been trafficked or what nobody network he's involved here
And it took for out of state to catch him and lock him up.
I'm pretty sure that was where he missed step because here he was probably protected and doing whatever he was doing for the past 20 years.
former
Hmm I wonder
here You know, you know what nope
We don't go into that thought it was out that silk still you know, man, they focused
Hmm, I'm gonna let you choose.
Okay.
All right, cuz I don't want to get too deep in anything.
Yeah,
because I'm
Right, right, right, right.
Um, maybe we'll give him some high level.
Um, we'll give him a little sample platter of the two items left on the menu when we come back and
We'll tease something for Monday.
Don't go anywhere, y'all.
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Whoo, I'm full man.
I'm full, Shannon.
Oh my.
Listen.
Yeah, you're full, all right.
And you did that full course meal today in the Monday's movie.
Y'all full of s. Nice.
of.
Look, you know what?
Man.
Listen, what I feel like is men just want they cake in to eat it too.
That's all.
That's all I'm gonna say.
I don't want to go into the logistics of it.
Y'all just, nothing's ever good enough.
that
you say?
Dirty Dangan.
No, we're
She's
old lies.
We're gonna have a one-air versus
by no damn
point You be over there sipping in this nasty you was a crazy lady to brought me
already said don't know nothing about the wrong
I need to say it really Ray.
Yeah, I thought it was better than
man are a piece of work.
y'all are a
now
What was supposed to be chips and dip turned into a full meal.
But it was a good one.
I think it was a good conversation.
And we got some calls that that really like I feel like it showed the versatility of our truth nation
played in three times
refused to hear the truth.
Y'all are going to be my cousins forever.
I love y'all, Truth Nation.
I heard they doxed him.
Did you see that?
that mean?
Like they doxxed him and now he's like,
it's something they do online.
They put all like your information out so people know your address, your phone number, where you work, and it makes it easier for like everybody.
You
right.
Sometimes they'll even swatch you.
You think so?
I think he went into hiding.
I mean, they put all the Lindsey Clancy stuff
I mean, she's in jail.
Oh, she's in jail.
Is that what she's in?
She's been doxxed already.
I think so.
he got doxxed for
Oh my gosh.
Boy, oh
It's a man's world.
nothing.
What do you say?
What do you say after that?
Come on
this
was listening to Beanie Man.
What he say?
Oh, dog like
y'all
with you.
Not really a city girl said, go home,
I am home.
Go home, Ray is mad.
Go home, Roger.
You'll recover.
to
Man, the chat got my back today.
you
man.
He's a law y'all accountable.
Blake did try to see both sides in his defense.
I'm going to take up for Blake.
He
sides.
work.
He said, I'm actually on lunch.
I gotta go, click.
out
man.
Definitely.
So what we didn't get to on the menu today, right?
What we didn't get to.
I think it's good to save.
We was pretty full today.
We had a pretty full menu today, right?
But what we didn't get to was filters self-worth and rebuilding our dignity, right?
And we want to save that so Monday we gonna get into that Shannon and then we had another story Monday that we was gonna bring you want to tell them about that one Shannon?
Yeah, so what the appetizer was gonna be was about Christiane Rock and I know we did it
Yeah, we
did.
We talked about doing it.
We talked about doing it.
Oh,
Oh, look at him trying to gas.
He tried to gas like me and to believe it.
We already talked about what to talk
Yeah, let's hear this.
I need to hear it.
Basically, we were going to talk about Christiane Rock and...
Her her diagnosis her son's diagnosis and how she felt like she wasn't claiming a diagnosis and how that can be detrimental
to a
child's development that has some type of you know delay We definitely were gonna get into that because there was a video of her saying this child is in therapy and Somebody actually had a rebuttal that the child cannot be in therapy because of the
Problems that we are witnessing are things that need surgery and things of that sort So we just wanted to get into the criticism in the backlash that Chrissianne Rock is facing due to her son's delays and how people Try to pray things away instead of actually getting children help sometimes But we do speaking of Monday, right?
Speaking of Monday.
Don't you got a giveaway?
Oh,
yeah, the
people the cousins after after witnessing this this
on-air crash out between us two.
They deserve to
that's why I was in here.
They
taking a picture of the pole.
I
need a pose that the pole is rigged.
We demand a week out.
I had
I'm sorry.
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but something just happened to a near to the coast comment about a poll being allegedly rigged.
I don't know
happened.
What?
Don't bring them a fan, according to Ray.
When
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Excuse me, Cletus.
Hoppa, who this man?
Yeah, I wasn't doing it.
So I was like, I'm not paying $1,000 to sleep on somebody couch.
Grab your lunch, hit send on that email, and get ready for the best hour of your day.
My way of thinking is that the parents do all they can.
But once the kids leave off that door, whatever have you, they make their own decisions.
I don't care if you 9 or 99.
It's still your decision about the situations that you didn't bob yourself in.
Look into their taxes.
Look into this.
We talking about elected officials doing backdoor deals and somehow she still wanna blame immigrants.
That's what we talking about right now.
We following the money and you still wanna blame black people and immigrants and welfare and all of these things for policies and backdoor deals that put poor people in worse position.
Live from the American Family Insurance Studio at the Third Street Market Hall.
Like you said, they want to pad their pockets, but they need a reason to push things through.
And I guess the low-hanging fruit is, OK, well, this is a problem, right?
Y'all want to fix the problem, and they just hope nobody looks into it like, wait, when did food trucks
become an issue?
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Happy birthday, Xavier, man.
He's celebrating his birthday today, man.
He shared some of the stories that he's
about to
he a Virgo.
My baby birthday tomorrow.
OK, Xavier.
OK, OK, OK.
to
I'm the most twins.
Man, I'm feeling good.
It's Friday night.
Hey.
Gonna grab me a buzz ball.
Make my problems everybody
Grab a tropical one today, y'all.
Shout out to Elle, man.
Gonna grab me a tropical buzz ball today, man.
I want to have a good time today.
I want to have a good time today, Shay.
We have a good time all the time, but I want to have a real good time today on the show after the show.
Just all around real good time, man.
Um, a three three.
Yeah, it's going to be an amazing day, man.
We want y'all to be energized up today.
All right.
We want y'all to leave this show today feeling motivated to take that first step.
All right.
Keep that in mind.
So we preparing this table today as we getting ready to eat.
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Yeah.
It's a happy Friday, right?
What you reading over there?
Man, every time.
I'd be on air like, oh, I turned it down.
They're in your lawn.
Too hungry
for Wisconsin.
Too hungry.
He bit off more than he can chew.
He
Oh my
god.
I'm happy to see you coming over to the dark side of the conspiracy theory.
Oh man, you know
a dark
I was born on the dark side.
We gon' get into some of them dark jokes.
John Burrow, students used to hit me up with when I first made it to this city.
On the menu today, Shannon, we got a pretty full menu, man.
We got an appetizer that y'all gon' love.
I'm telling y'all y'all gon' love it.
And actually it was requested in one of the chats, if I'm not mistaken, before.
It was like, man, we need to talk about Christiane Rock and... Is it Christiane Rock?
That's Christiane Wright,
So we got that appetizer too, right?
Then we want to get in to the meat and potato segment, right?
If you all have been familiar.
Actually, you sent it to me, Shannon, the Carmen School incident, right?
Where it was a video floating around or something like
that.
And now it's like we've been seeing multiple videos coming from Carmen.
So yeah, we're going to get into that as well because from what we heard or saw, there was something involving a weapon being found which prompted staff to go into a different mode.
And it was interesting to actually see it play out on video.
So we're going to talk about that in the meat of the potatoes and also in the meat of potatoes.
Ironically enough, Shannon.
Four more five o'clock steakhouse owner sentence.
Were you familiar about that case?
I was not.
I saw you send it and I was like, wait a minute, excuse me.
Very busy man.
to the chat.
That's a suggestion.
I saw to
after
But we're going to be talking about that as well, Shannon.
And then also.
It brings up.
The question about filters, self-worth, and rebuilding our dignity, right?
I saw a video the other day where my wife sent me a video of this lady.
She was just showing the different examples of all the filters people lay on and stack on, right?
And how it just changed how she looked.
So we want to get into that a little bit, Shannon.
I know you can, you will definitely be informative on that side, because I don't,
you know, I don't do...
so I don't.
I love my glam, I got you.
I got you.
You know, you can
to get into that, right?
Don't do much now.
And then Ryan Clark's pivot story, ironically enough, the name of his podcast is, well, started as a podcast is The Pivot.
and it's showing the resilience of going from fired to founder.
And this is what we want to really energize you all at, right?
Our listeners, our cousins.
Like when you feel like everything is caving in on you and you don't have no real other choice in there, like a sudden change.
A sudden change happens in your life, Shannon.
You know what I'm saying?
And we just want to encourage them.
It's something on the other side.
And we gon' talk about some of that, Shannon.
And then we got
a little
Man, I'm feeling great.
I also have some chips and dip.
A little snack before we get into the menu, right?
How much do I like
So before we head off to break, I came across a video earlier, right?
I feel like you might have sent it to me.
But it was this woman explaining that it's
Not undesirable, but it's not right for you to come over a woman's house and not bring anything.
And she was like, if you're being invited over somebody's house, especially if it's in the beginning stages of a relationship, you should bring things.
And I was like,
Definitely, but I also know how people be acting up in my comments sometimes and there's people that are like, oh, people just begging, people just want free things.
Like you even have these arguments about people going 50-50 on dates these days.
So I was very curious as to what our listeners would think about that.
Her saying like, if you're still in the beginning phases of relationship and you're invited to somebody's house, is it expected for you to bring something?
Just want to thought up the chips and dip out there.
So what you think, right?
When you was courting your wife, you was bringing stuff or you was just like, shoot.
Well,
know
Hey, this boy got a good head on his shoulder.
And he don't mind digging in his pocket.
You know what I'm saying?
But.
Oh, that's right.
Yeah, I didn't, I was always like, all right, what can I bring?
You know what I'm saying?
To, you know, just show, I ain't just over here with my spend the night bag.
You know what I'm saying?
Brother
Z, I sent
think that's
I feel like a lot of people too, like we live in an age where a lot of people are very selfish and they don't even think of others right now.
You know what I mean?
Like they'll come over and just kick their shoes off, put their feet on your, uh, what is it?
The living room table, the coffee table, socks dirty.
You'll be looking like, uh, people don't even ask, Hey, like.
It's a barbecue.
Do you need anything?
But
when we get back we gonna show y'all that clip so y'all can give us your opinion on that and then we gonna move on to the appetizer But after these messages don't go anywhere.
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Y'all.
Yes, it's time to eat.
It is time to eat live from the American family.
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It's your favorite crew in the brutal lunch break crew.
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Shannon, how you feeling?
Man feeling great.
It's a great Friday great start to the days.
It's already taken off yesterday was a good conversation as well I was excited to get back to our cousins man.
I was like, you know what in another thing?
I was man I think we got a very exciting show for y'all today as well cuz so once again 833 212 1017 is the number to dial 833 212 1017 is the number to dial man get involved bring somebody to lunch with you.
All right
Shannon We still um it was still a little bit of chip chip on my a little bit of dip on my chip So let's let's uh get get back to that real quick because we have we got some things to say brother Z You was able to pull that video up cannot
stress this enough If you're going to a woman's house Do not go empty-handed.
It's very simple flowers a candle wine
fruit platter I don't know if she's making you an Italian dinner you should probably bring some red wine if she's cooking you brunch maybe bring over stuff for mimosas but you do not do not ever go to a woman's house empty-handed now of course there's times when this it would be acceptable to go empty-handed
For instance, if you've been dating for a significant amount of time, but if it's your first, second, or third time to a woman's house, you should most certainly be bringing something with you.
Me personally, I have lots of great amenities at my house, okay?
You come to my house, you are more than likely probably going to be fed food.
And I have great amenities, okay?
Avion water.
Clearly Canadians.
A towel warmer.
My house is clean.
Continuing to go over to a woman's house.
Empty-handed.
I don't know.
It leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
I don't know about the rest of the ladies but fellas don't show up with nothing.
What you mean right
there?
No way.
What's going on here?
He said it.
see no time.
I did say no way, but it was cause he did something in the background where he like dropped something.
Missed the table and then did some matrix stuff and caught it with the next hand.
So he was explaining it to me and I was like, no way.
No way.
So she was like, don't come over to.
You should bring something inside of like, I was like, no way.
I'm not bringing anything.
You're like changing my stance.
100%.
But no, man.
That's funny.
I think I gave my answer.
I would bring something.
I remember it was hot.
at her spot.
And this was like when we first met.
So when we went to Walmart, I bought a fan.
So I'm like, all right, you know, then she felt like she saw that that was, you know, me like seeing something and, you know, taking initiative.
So that's probably
why
pick your damn
it's just
I won't even go to my friend's house, right?
Without offering especially like if my friends are like, oh, we cooked or like we're gathering here.
We're all pre-gaming We need to draw a party.
I'm not gonna show up and just bring myself I'd be embarrassed to at least not try to bring something even when they're like, no, don't worry about I'm like, you sure you want to bring some wine?
Let me bring a what is it the charcuterie board
some cheese something like I'm not coming into anybody's space and not bringing an offering of some sort like and then
I feel like when it comes to dating, you're supposed to be putting your best foot forward.
You supposed to, like you said, it's showing that you could, listen, I'm a problem solver.
Let me go grab you a fan.
You know what I'm saying?
I ain't hurting.
Let me get you a little $20 box man, something.
Like it's the small things like the lady said in the video too.
It's one of those things where it's like, she said something small like a candle.
Y'all know where to find candles at?
Don't
to nobody house empty handed especially when you are still in the very beginning stages where impression is everything and people want to feel thought about like Nobody's saying like it dropped me off a couple thousand dollars every time you pull up or you know go out of your way Walk on water.
Would it be nice?
Yes.
Would it be?
Would it be
kind thing
Let me.
OK.
Let me ask this question.
Your pockets are moving you.
some kangaroo tail.
I don't know how to make no rum
man.
Now let me go to the store, see if I can find it.
You see what I'm saying?
I would end up poisoning you.
You're gonna be like, why would she try to make something she knew she couldn't make?
I would offer something.
alternative.
She didn't even say,
didn't even go to that.
What is a red
All you need is the blue.
The blue Kool-Aid.
Come on, man.
The blue Hawaiian punch.
You'll be all right.
Come on, man.
I want to get... Now I
know.
I'll get you some blue Hawaiian punch, okay?
It's too late
now.
Like I said, it's too... You already said
If somebody invites me to their home, anybody, I am offering to bring something, especially if it's something like dinner.
Let me bring some breadsticks or something.
I will always offer.
I will always offer, especially if I'm going to be in a space and it's hot.
And I'm like, let's go grab a fan.
the buzz balls.
Like anything.
Listen, buzz balls for everybody.
Goodness.
Next time I come in studio, I'm bringing buzz balls for everybody.
don't
know
how to make
no rum punch, boy.
You grabbed a box fan and you want me to create a whole rum punch.
You want me to make you some jungle juice.
That's too much.
If I could just stop at Walmart and grab something, sure.
But I'm not sitting there and making rum punch.
I don't even know what goes in it.
I feel like I'm about to get ganged up.
This is nasty.
to be a gang beam.
I don't want this.
Hyacin, how you doing?
What going on?
Ray, brother, what going on?
Medea, I mean, I deal with one of your many of them that say, so I was trying to give the example.
Hyacin, I don't know if you've ever met maybe Shannon.
You live on the lunch break with Ray Nitty and maybe Shannon, right?
Hey, Shannon.
don't
Oh, look at that.
I think we
So, right.
So, we played your video, right?
Dating a high value woman.
Right?
And we talked about you said, bring something with you.
Don't come empty handed.
I'm like, you know what?
Yeah, she asked me would I come empty house?
Like, no, I said, I don't come empty handed.
As a matter of fact, I look around and see what other needs I could address.
I said, I brought a fan in some of the first days of talking to my wife.
And then I propose this question to Shannon, right?
Y'all can hey and key key all y'all want after this.
But I want you to see.
What you promoting Hyacin right now?
I asked her I said okay, Shannon Let's say the tables reverse a nice young Caribbean man say he cooking you jerk chicken some cabbage plantains peas on rice I was like would you go and pick up some red pump rum punch?
And you know what the first
thing she said make jungle juice and some
shit
First
said
I don't know how to make no rump
I ain't got no tail, girl.
I don't.
How is it I needed to call to have you call in and had his conversation so we can Expound on a little bit more what you talking about now We gotta go to break so I said if you come if you could just give us two minutes of your time, please when we come back All right, we'll be right back.
Don't go nowhere fellas.
I got y'all We not gonna let them get away with it.
We always gotta come bringing all the groceries in and I don't go anywhere y'all this is a lunch break on the award-winning 101 70
true
Hey, you got to kick the sand under your feet.
So we having this.
We're having this conversation, y'all.
833-212-1017 is the number to dial.
This is just supposed to start out as a little chipping dip, but they don't put too much chip on they dip, Truth Nation.
So we got Ms.
Boss Lady Hyacinth, owner of Tropic, by the way.
Shout out to Tropic downtown Milwaukee.
A little
people.
And it's dip on the chip, bro.
It's dip on the chip.
Let's get it right.
Look.
I know that's
exactly what happened.
Long story short.
Long story short.
I could, I completely agree with the video.
Everything she said was spot on, but raised it after Rose was a reverse.
And I was like, I wouldn't go anywhere without offering something.
He was like, you wouldn't
make jungle juice, rum punch,
red wine juice.
I don't even know what that is.
about to make something I don't even know what it is and then I bring it over there and you like this girl can't even make this she can't make jungle juice rum punch coconut milk nothing y'all y'all be quick to judge somebody so I'm gonna get something safe and I'm gonna bring it over and now we are here
that is all
That's
a
man asked a woman to bring some juice To dinner and you think he asked you to go grow the tree pick the fruit squeeze it juice it and anybody said make anything I said bring bring some rum punch
I don't even know what that is.
You see what I'm saying?
Do you see what I'm saying?
How is it?
No.
How is it?
Hear me
out.
original clip, brother Z.
brah.
Or some kangaroo tail.
mobby.
I don't know how to make no rum
do it.
This is what she wants.
Is that not what happened?
I just admit it.
I don't know how to make something, but I will bring things.
And I feel
Z?
Also.
this live.
She did not say she wasn't bringing nothing.
She didn't say she wasn't bringing nothing.
She just said she wasn't making the romp because she don't have the recipe.
But she didn't say she wasn't bringing
You didn't have to Google how to get a box fan.
Easy what come to women we supposed to be going above that fan was digital.
Right, you know you my brother, but you know I'm gonna tell you You know I'm gonna tell you when you're wrong, right?
And let me let me tell you how you wrong here cuz you ain't even wrong on how you trying to be wrong You talking about you being gaslit you right now are dodging the real question here
ain't about
Her making rum punch from scratch and none of that.
Okay.
And really, we shouldn't be having a conversation about the woman bringing nothing to the man's house.
Well, me personally, yes, I'm going to come during something.
That's just how it was raised.
But to be quite honest, if a man asked me to bring something, that would be a no for me.
Don't ask me to bring nothing.
I'm going to do it on my own.
So that's the problem.
But the real question here.
I
bring
Right.
Right.
You asked me to make the rum punch.
Can you please tell me and maybe you have to go to the congregation and ask but I would like to know why you men Act like y'all don't know what a high value woman is because every time I make those posts the men come for me tell my son What's a high value woman?
What's the problem?
Why don't understand that?
I think This is why I think a high value woman is right a high value woman is a hot is a woman that would appreciate a man who say hey
He's making me dinner.
He's invited me over to his house.
Let me take the initiative.
I ain't asked for her to bring it I said would you if the tables was turned would you I ain't say bring me anything I said would you if the tables would turn bring me some and I think a high
way
Listen to what?
You know what?
I'm going to let you get a pass because you married, bro.
You just don't understand this lane.
This ain't your lane.
It ain't
your
lane no more.
That's why you, that's why you, you know.
Wait, time,
time up.
Time up.
Y'all got, y'all got your whole knuckles in the dip
The whole knuckle is in the dip right now.
You telling me that I'm wrong for saying, literally, the video said, the video said,
appreciating a high value woman.
Don't come to the house empty handed.
I agreed with that.
We got the transcript.
I know y'all just completely ignored what Shannon really said in front of us.
You know, she was, Shannon is one of them juries that looked the other way in the Lindsey Clancy.
I said I cannot make a wrong punch.
I'm not in there on top of this.
Me not making a wrong punch.
You know how people are when they ask that they think, Zach, play it again, please.
But you're playing again.
some kangaroo tail
You feel me?
Are you going to say, you know what?
Let me bring this nice island.
Why I rum punch some rum.
Pause it.
I didn't say, I didn't, I said, are you going to be like, are you going to take the initiative to even have the thought and the immediate response was, I don't know how to make no rum punch, not.
Oh, I'm going to kill you.
I'm going to kill
you.
Stop.
Stop digging your hole.
Stop digging your hole.
I'm going to kill you.
I'm going to kill you right here.
Are you done?
Are you done?
Are
Shannon, do y'all, do y'all add you like this every day?
No, y'all showing y'all tails
right now.
Let's
see.
Let's see what I did with you.
I'm in a hostile workplace.
Am I?
Am I?
you ready?
Are you
maybe not.
All I need you to say is finish him.
him.
I'm going to finish you right now.
I'm going to shut you down, brother.
But like women always do, okay?
That's just what we do.
She said I don't know how to make it so that right there.
Let you know.
She thought about what you authentic.
Yeah Help me authenticity.
Did you Caribbean?
She went right to I gotta make the run punch.
She didn't even think let me go buy some rubber She thought let me make some run punch.
So now you trying to you you really try to tell me really guys like me
the
Oh my gosh
Hey, how are you turning what I just said into that?
I said, she wanted to make it from scratch.
That's not what
said.
Her response
was, I don't know how to make it.
I
And
Why can't it just be like why can't it just be like okay?
I'm gonna Google the ingredients for that and be like that's what I asked I simply asked if the rose was reverse Would you then be like you said okay?
Um Bring the ingredients for mimosas
You said, bring red wine if a woman is cooking you Italian.
Can you ask me specifically about rum punch?
I can't make that.
And I know how serious people get about that stuff.
I just gave an example of a Caribbean man house with a butcher rum punch.
Like, here you go.
Look, I was saying jungle juice.
Like I
I'm
I said,
house.
Now, don't make me blow my whistle.
Just give me a minute, Miss Lady and Shannon.
I understand where y'all coming from.
Ray.
I understand what you said.
You said thought process.
Okay, so here we go.
When you're dealing, and then miss Lady, you said, are you married?
This ain't your lane.
When you're married, that's the lane.
That's how you get there, is to get y'all.
So we can be all right and be married and be happy.
So let me breathe, just give me a minute.
Y'all ladies have y'all point.
Ray, you have your point.
The point is it was a thought process, or if the shoe was on the other foot.
Just like, oh girl, just pull with the,
You did the thing with the babies, and now all the men go get custody of their kids.
I've been waiting for custody of my kids.
That's a whole other thing.
But what I'm saying is, with the bringing stuff, when you're dealing with a man, the woman coming to your house is the gift.
Now, coming to her house, coming to her house is a privilege.
Because a man is a prize.
The woman is the treasure.
And when you're dealing with, when you're dealing with men, you don't have to have no, he just said, I want to issue it.
It's a thought.
So right now y'all just bickering, but it's okay.
Cause that's what your, your conversation and my thought process and my advice and everybody can be different.
But, but when you, when you try and say.
They ain't your lane no more that's that's what we try we don't try to do a man come in life Don't know when you don't get a woman because women they come and get us and leave us and then y'all have a we have our kids Men don't take care of the kids and y'all mad and we want our kids y'all take them from us
so
A
man is always always take care of a woman a man gonna take care of a woman You know me a man gonna take care of a woman But it's just a choice of man.
You ain't gonna worry about him bringing them because you're already coming over out of the house If you come into a man house, you already trust me him coming to your house.
That's a privilege You really trust him to come near so it shouldn't matter what somebody is bringing.
He just said it was a thought
That's it.
That's why I love the radio.
Y'all be good.
I'm on my lunch break.
I gotta go.
Don't leave
me here alone with these!
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Man, see.
Oh, my God.
Are
I am.
I am.
OK.
read
we leave.
I
even have a roster because they gotta go.
She got a
I ain't
with us.
Listen, when y'all hear the authentic rum punch, just come to chop it.
You ain't gotta worry about it, okay?
It's gonna be that simple.
518, North Water Street.
You can also head over to Cancactions.
1316, East Brady.
Get all your frozen drinks to go with or without liquor.
Thank y'all so much.
And listen, Shannon, I owe you a rum punch just because I don't know how you putting up with my brother.
I really don't.
I be
stressed out.
I'm gonna be at the bar.
I live with my rum punch.
Rum punch is headed.
Wow.
Don't go
Thank you so much.
to
Welcome back welcome back to your favorite two hours of the day You are kicking in with your favorite crew in the brew the lunch break crew right here on the award-winning one-on-one seven the truth live from the American family Insurance studios.
It's your boy Ray nitty.
Maybe Shannon DJ brother Z holding us down with the production and sound If you just joining us a 3 3 2 1 2 10 17 is the number to dial I can't believe
I can't believe
what I just
it.
Ray just tried to gaslight the entire radio station and to believe it.
these
closed the door
He definitely did.
leave me
leave me here alone
with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
I asked fellas.
I tried we are cooked fellas.
I want y'all
You're just as good a Tom Timmy over there playing like you heard.
Bro,
I said yes, men should.
I even gave my examples of bringing a fan when it was heat.
I was met with steam, my boy.
I said, let me cool it down in here.
Do you feel me?
I said yes, men should not come empty handed.
And all I did was say if the, let's.
Change the tables a little bit.
If a guy cooked for you, if he cooked for you, would you be like, let me bring?
I ain't say he asked you to bring.
Do you see what I'm saying, fellas?
You didn't make rum punch.
That's not what I said.
See, they refuse to hear the truth, fellas.
She just said again, make.
Where would I even bring
rum punch from?
I don't even, what do we do?
You gotta get to these comments, right?
Gaslight in the nation.
You see all these people in the chat.
You're trying to gaslight these people.
Fellas, I want
bring a vote what did y'all here?
a polo.
What did y'all
I can't make Make rum punch or bring something if it was bring something I could bring anything and go to Walmart grab something sure what you think you said make
You know, rum punch is
what you have
some kangaroo
I don't know to make no rum
man.
Now let me go to the store, see if I can find it.
Bro!
Bro!
I didn't even think I've never heard of anybody going to the store for rum punch.
I feel like that is something you have to make.
I feel like, you know what?
This is what I will give you, right?
This
is what happens when we ask to be thought
about.
It may have been a
misunderstanding.
That's what it could be, because from my understanding, rum punch is something you make from scratch.
And that's why I was like, listen, I'm not going to send myself off and be like, yeah, I'm going to bring this Caribbean man some rum punch that I just made, that I don't even know what I'm doing, because I know how people
went in their mind.
Y'all would go around if I came with some rum punch.
You'll be like, what is this?
There ain't no rum punch at
Oh my God.
I hate the y'all are making me have to call and chime in on this because technically my shift is over my weekend is started but I just I have to give an opinion on this so if a woman requests something of me to bring to her house and it's something that I don't know how to make
I'm going to problem solve, and I'm going to figure out how to make it or how to get it.
And if you ask whomever a woman to bring rum punch, and if her answer or excuse is, I don't know how to make that, cool.
That means that she's not a problem solver.
And why am I involved in myself with a woman that can't solve a problem?
Because she's probably going to be a problem herself.
It's really simple.
If she
do it.
Because look, it's a whole bunch of stuff that we may not be able to do.
But then that's when you got to use your noodle and you figure out how to solve the problem.
Because if you're inviting somebody to your house because you're exploring a relationship, you do not want a human being that can't solve a problem when faced with something they quote unquote can't do.
If they're going to quit, I don't know how to do that.
OK, please stay at
Sure.
But here's a social experiment, right?
There was no ask.
Play it again, Zach.
I asked what they think of us.
And when you ask a woman what they think of you, in their mind, they process a whole list of activities or work that they have to do.
Play it again, Zach, please.
Let me bring this nice island boy.
A rum punch.
Some rum punches.
No, no.
some
or
kangaroo tail
even that's even worse
I originally heard
And then people are
telling me I'm
wrong, Sherwin.
Women create a problem in their mind.
It wasn't even there.
All I ask is, would you think of it?
Yeah, I agree.
Bring some stuff.
I'm coming to your house.
I'll bring them the most of stuff.
Yes, I agree.
High value woman.
High value woman, would you think of men?
Think of men?
I
think it's just, here's the thing, and I'm getting the hell out of here.
Otherwise, y'all gonna have me on this damn phone all day.
Please come back.
If I'm inviting a woman to my house and let's say I'm cooking, I should even have to ask her to bring anything.
She should just bring something out of courtesy.
And that also shows that she's not selfish, right?
But if she doesn't bring something, I'm gonna make note of that because in the event that I invite her to meet my mama, if she don't bring my mama something, then me and her cannot be involved no more.
If she don't bring me something, I'm like, okay, I'm gonna charge that to the game.
But if we go to my mother's house, you better bring my mama's home.
Period.
Don't be selfish.
See that's understandable.
So listen,
completely agree
Let me
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It's a happy Friday, right?
What you reading over there?
Man, every time.
I'd be on air like, oh, I turned it down.
They're in your lawn.
Too hungry
for Wisconsin.
Too hungry.
He bit off more than he can chew.
He
Oh my
god.
I'm happy to see you coming over to the dark side of the conspiracy theory.
Oh man, you know
a dark
I was born on the dark side.
We gon' get into some of them dark jokes.
John Burrow, students used to hit me up with when I first made it to this city.
On the menu today, Shannon, we got a pretty full menu, man.
We got an appetizer that y'all gon' love.
I'm telling y'all y'all gon' love it.
And actually it was requested in one of the chats, if I'm not mistaken, before.
It was like, man, we need to talk about Christiane Rock and... Is it Christiane Rock?
That's Christiane Wright,
So we got that appetizer too, right?
Then we want to get in to the meat and potato segment, right?
If you all have been familiar.
Actually, you sent it to me, Shannon, the Carmen School incident, right?
Where it was a video floating around or something like
that.
And now it's like we've been seeing multiple videos coming from Carmen.
So yeah, we're going to get into that as well because from what we heard or saw, there was something involving a weapon being found which prompted staff to go into a different mode.
And it was interesting to actually see it play out on video.
So we're going to talk about that in the meat of the potatoes and also in the meat of potatoes.
Ironically enough, Shannon.
Four more five o'clock steakhouse owner sentence.
Were you familiar about that case?
I was not.
I saw you send it and I was like, wait a minute, excuse me.
Very busy man.
to the chat.
That's a suggestion.
I saw to
after
But we're going to be talking about that as well, Shannon.
And then also.
It brings up.
The question about filters, self-worth, and rebuilding our dignity, right?
I saw a video the other day where my wife sent me a video of this lady.
She was just showing the different examples of all the filters people lay on and stack on, right?
And how it just changed how she looked.
So we want to get into that a little bit, Shannon.
I know you can, you will definitely be informative on that side, because I don't,
you know, I don't do...
so I don't.
I love my glam, I got you.
I got you.
You know, you can
to get into that, right?
Don't do much now.
And then Ryan Clark's pivot story, ironically enough, the name of his podcast is, well, started as a podcast is The Pivot.
and it's showing the resilience of going from fired to founder.
And this is what we want to really energize you all at, right?
Our listeners, our cousins.
Like when you feel like everything is caving in on you and you don't have no real other choice in there, like a sudden change.
A sudden change happens in your life, Shannon.
You know what I'm saying?
And we just want to encourage them.
It's something on the other side.
And we gon' talk about some of that, Shannon.
And then we got
a little
Man, I'm feeling great.
I also have some chips and dip.
A little snack before we get into the menu, right?
How much do I like
So before we head off to break, I came across a video earlier, right?
I feel like you might have sent it to me.
But it was this woman explaining that it's
Not undesirable, but it's not right for you to come over a woman's house and not bring anything.
And she was like, if you're being invited over somebody's house, especially if it's in the beginning stages of a relationship, you should bring things.
And I was like,
Definitely, but I also know how people be acting up in my comments sometimes and there's people that are like, oh, people just begging, people just want free things.
Like you even have these arguments about people going 50-50 on dates these days.
So I was very curious as to what our listeners would think about that.
Her saying like, if you're still in the beginning phases of relationship and you're invited to somebody's house, is it expected for you to bring something?
Just want to thought up the chips and dip out there.
So what you think, right?
When you was courting your wife, you was bringing stuff or you was just like, shoot.
Well,
know
Hey, this boy got a good head on his shoulder.
And he don't mind digging in his pocket.
You know what I'm saying?
But.
Oh, that's right.
Yeah, I didn't, I was always like, all right, what can I bring?
You know what I'm saying?
To, you know, just show, I ain't just over here with my spend the night bag.
You know what I'm saying?
Brother
Z, I sent
think that's
I feel like a lot of people too, like we live in an age where a lot of people are very selfish and they don't even think of others right now.
You know what I mean?
Like they'll come over and just kick their shoes off, put their feet on your, uh, what is it?
The living room table, the coffee table, socks dirty.
You'll be looking like, uh, people don't even ask, Hey, like.
It's a barbecue.
Do you need anything?
But
when we get back we gonna show y'all that clip so y'all can give us your opinion on that and then we gonna move on to the appetizer But after these messages don't go anywhere.
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Man feeling great.
It's a great Friday great start to the days.
It's already taken off yesterday was a good conversation as well I was excited to get back to our cousins man.
I was like, you know what in another thing?
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All right
Shannon We still um it was still a little bit of chip chip on my a little bit of dip on my chip So let's let's uh get get back to that real quick because we have we got some things to say brother Z You was able to pull that video up cannot
stress this enough If you're going to a woman's house Do not go empty-handed.
It's very simple flowers a candle wine
fruit platter I don't know if she's making you an Italian dinner you should probably bring some red wine if she's cooking you brunch maybe bring over stuff for mimosas but you do not do not ever go to a woman's house empty-handed now of course there's times when this it would be acceptable to go empty-handed
For instance, if you've been dating for a significant amount of time, but if it's your first, second, or third time to a woman's house, you should most certainly be bringing something with you.
Me personally, I have lots of great amenities at my house, okay?
You come to my house, you are more than likely probably going to be fed food.
And I have great amenities, okay?
Avion water.
Clearly Canadians.
A towel warmer.
My house is clean.
Continuing to go over to a woman's house.
Empty-handed.
I don't know.
It leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
I don't know about the rest of the ladies but fellas don't show up with nothing.
What you mean right
there?
No way.
What's going on here?
He said it.
see no time.
I did say no way, but it was cause he did something in the background where he like dropped something.
Missed the table and then did some matrix stuff and caught it with the next hand.
So he was explaining it to me and I was like, no way.
No way.
So she was like, don't come over to.
You should bring something inside of like, I was like, no way.
I'm not bringing anything.
You're like changing my stance.
100%.
But no, man.
That's funny.
I think I gave my answer.
I would bring something.
I remember it was hot.
at her spot.
And this was like when we first met.
So when we went to Walmart, I bought a fan.
So I'm like, all right, you know, then she felt like she saw that that was, you know, me like seeing something and, you know, taking initiative.
So that's probably
why
pick your damn
it's just
I won't even go to my friend's house, right?
Without offering especially like if my friends are like, oh, we cooked or like we're gathering here.
We're all pre-gaming We need to draw a party.
I'm not gonna show up and just bring myself I'd be embarrassed to at least not try to bring something even when they're like, no, don't worry about I'm like, you sure you want to bring some wine?
Let me bring a what is it the charcuterie board
some cheese something like I'm not coming into anybody's space and not bringing an offering of some sort like and then
I feel like when it comes to dating, you're supposed to be putting your best foot forward.
You supposed to, like you said, it's showing that you could, listen, I'm a problem solver.
Let me go grab you a fan.
You know what I'm saying?
I ain't hurting.
Let me get you a little $20 box man, something.
Like it's the small things like the lady said in the video too.
It's one of those things where it's like, she said something small like a candle.
Y'all know where to find candles at?
Don't
to nobody house empty handed especially when you are still in the very beginning stages where impression is everything and people want to feel thought about like Nobody's saying like it dropped me off a couple thousand dollars every time you pull up or you know go out of your way Walk on water.
Would it be nice?
Yes.
Would it be?
Would it be
kind thing
Let me.
OK.
Let me ask this question.
Your pockets are moving you.
some kangaroo tail.
I don't know how to make no rum
man.
Now let me go to the store, see if I can find it.
You see what I'm saying?
I would end up poisoning you.
You're gonna be like, why would she try to make something she knew she couldn't make?
I would offer something.
alternative.
She didn't even say,
didn't even go to that.
What is a red
All you need is the blue.
The blue Kool-Aid.
Come on, man.
The blue Hawaiian punch.
You'll be all right.
Come on, man.
I want to get... Now I
know.
I'll get you some blue Hawaiian punch, okay?
It's too late
now.
Like I said, it's too... You already said
If somebody invites me to their home, anybody, I am offering to bring something, especially if it's something like dinner.
Let me bring some breadsticks or something.
I will always offer.
I will always offer, especially if I'm going to be in a space and it's hot.
And I'm like, let's go grab a fan.
the buzz balls.
Like anything.
Listen, buzz balls for everybody.
Goodness.
Next time I come in studio, I'm bringing buzz balls for everybody.
don't
know
how to make
no rum punch, boy.
You grabbed a box fan and you want me to create a whole rum punch.
You want me to make you some jungle juice.
That's too much.
If I could just stop at Walmart and grab something, sure.
But I'm not sitting there and making rum punch.
I don't even know what goes in it.
I feel like I'm about to get ganged up.
This is nasty.
to be a gang beam.
I don't want this.
Hyacin, how you doing?
What going on?
Ray, brother, what going on?
Medea, I mean, I deal with one of your many of them that say, so I was trying to give the example.
Hyacin, I don't know if you've ever met maybe Shannon.
You live on the lunch break with Ray Nitty and maybe Shannon, right?
Hey, Shannon.
don't
Oh, look at that.
I think we
So, right.
So, we played your video, right?
Dating a high value woman.
Right?
And we talked about you said, bring something with you.
Don't come empty handed.
I'm like, you know what?
Yeah, she asked me would I come empty house?
Like, no, I said, I don't come empty handed.
As a matter of fact, I look around and see what other needs I could address.
I said, I brought a fan in some of the first days of talking to my wife.
And then I propose this question to Shannon, right?
Y'all can hey and key key all y'all want after this.
But I want you to see.
What you promoting Hyacin right now?
I asked her I said okay, Shannon Let's say the tables reverse a nice young Caribbean man say he cooking you jerk chicken some cabbage plantains peas on rice I was like would you go and pick up some red pump rum punch?
And you know what the first
thing she said make jungle juice and some
shit
First
said
I don't know how to make no rump
I ain't got no tail, girl.
I don't.
How is it I needed to call to have you call in and had his conversation so we can Expound on a little bit more what you talking about now We gotta go to break so I said if you come if you could just give us two minutes of your time, please when we come back All right, we'll be right back.
Don't go nowhere fellas.
I got y'all We not gonna let them get away with it.
We always gotta come bringing all the groceries in and I don't go anywhere y'all this is a lunch break on the award-winning 101 70
true
Hey, you got to kick the sand under your feet.
So we having this.
We're having this conversation, y'all.
833-212-1017 is the number to dial.
This is just supposed to start out as a little chipping dip, but they don't put too much chip on they dip, Truth Nation.
So we got Ms.
Boss Lady Hyacinth, owner of Tropic, by the way.
Shout out to Tropic downtown Milwaukee.
A little
people.
And it's dip on the chip, bro.
It's dip on the chip.
Let's get it right.
Look.
I know that's
exactly what happened.
Long story short.
Long story short.
I could, I completely agree with the video.
Everything she said was spot on, but raised it after Rose was a reverse.
And I was like, I wouldn't go anywhere without offering something.
He was like, you wouldn't
make jungle juice, rum punch,
red wine juice.
I don't even know what that is.
about to make something I don't even know what it is and then I bring it over there and you like this girl can't even make this she can't make jungle juice rum punch coconut milk nothing y'all y'all be quick to judge somebody so I'm gonna get something safe and I'm gonna bring it over and now we are here
that is all
That's
a
man asked a woman to bring some juice To dinner and you think he asked you to go grow the tree pick the fruit squeeze it juice it and anybody said make anything I said bring bring some rum punch
I don't even know what that is.
You see what I'm saying?
Do you see what I'm saying?
How is it?
No.
How is it?
Hear me
out.
original clip, brother Z.
brah.
Or some kangaroo tail.
mobby.
I don't know how to make no rum
do it.
This is what she wants.
Is that not what happened?
I just admit it.
I don't know how to make something, but I will bring things.
And I feel
Z?
Also.
this live.
She did not say she wasn't bringing nothing.
She didn't say she wasn't bringing nothing.
She just said she wasn't making the romp because she don't have the recipe.
But she didn't say she wasn't bringing
You didn't have to Google how to get a box fan.
Easy what come to women we supposed to be going above that fan was digital.
Right, you know you my brother, but you know I'm gonna tell you You know I'm gonna tell you when you're wrong, right?
And let me let me tell you how you wrong here cuz you ain't even wrong on how you trying to be wrong You talking about you being gaslit you right now are dodging the real question here
ain't about
Her making rum punch from scratch and none of that.
Okay.
And really, we shouldn't be having a conversation about the woman bringing nothing to the man's house.
Well, me personally, yes, I'm going to come during something.
That's just how it was raised.
But to be quite honest, if a man asked me to bring something, that would be a no for me.
Don't ask me to bring nothing.
I'm going to do it on my own.
So that's the problem.
But the real question here.
I
bring
Right.
Right.
You asked me to make the rum punch.
Can you please tell me and maybe you have to go to the congregation and ask but I would like to know why you men Act like y'all don't know what a high value woman is because every time I make those posts the men come for me tell my son What's a high value woman?
What's the problem?
Why don't understand that?
I think This is why I think a high value woman is right a high value woman is a hot is a woman that would appreciate a man who say hey
He's making me dinner.
He's invited me over to his house.
Let me take the initiative.
I ain't asked for her to bring it I said would you if the tables was turned would you I ain't say bring me anything I said would you if the tables would turn bring me some and I think a high
way
Listen to what?
You know what?
I'm going to let you get a pass because you married, bro.
You just don't understand this lane.
This ain't your lane.
It ain't
your
lane no more.
That's why you, that's why you, you know.
Wait, time,
time up.
Time up.
Y'all got, y'all got your whole knuckles in the dip
The whole knuckle is in the dip right now.
You telling me that I'm wrong for saying, literally, the video said, the video said,
appreciating a high value woman.
Don't come to the house empty handed.
I agreed with that.
We got the transcript.
I know y'all just completely ignored what Shannon really said in front of us.
You know, she was, Shannon is one of them juries that looked the other way in the Lindsey Clancy.
I said I cannot make a wrong punch.
I'm not in there on top of this.
Me not making a wrong punch.
You know how people are when they ask that they think, Zach, play it again, please.
But you're playing again.
some kangaroo tail
You feel me?
Are you going to say, you know what?
Let me bring this nice island.
Why I rum punch some rum.
Pause it.
I didn't say, I didn't, I said, are you going to be like, are you going to take the initiative to even have the thought and the immediate response was, I don't know how to make no rum punch, not.
Oh, I'm going to kill you.
I'm going to kill
you.
Stop.
Stop digging your hole.
Stop digging your hole.
I'm going to kill you.
I'm going to kill you right here.
Are you done?
Are you done?
Are
Shannon, do y'all, do y'all add you like this every day?
No, y'all showing y'all tails
right now.
Let's
see.
Let's see what I did with you.
I'm in a hostile workplace.
Am I?
Am I?
you ready?
Are you
maybe not.
All I need you to say is finish him.
him.
I'm going to finish you right now.
I'm going to shut you down, brother.
But like women always do, okay?
That's just what we do.
She said I don't know how to make it so that right there.
Let you know.
She thought about what you authentic.
Yeah Help me authenticity.
Did you Caribbean?
She went right to I gotta make the run punch.
She didn't even think let me go buy some rubber She thought let me make some run punch.
So now you trying to you you really try to tell me really guys like me
the
Oh my gosh
Hey, how are you turning what I just said into that?
I said, she wanted to make it from scratch.
That's not what
said.
Her response
was, I don't know how to make it.
I
And
Why can't it just be like why can't it just be like okay?
I'm gonna Google the ingredients for that and be like that's what I asked I simply asked if the rose was reverse Would you then be like you said okay?
Um Bring the ingredients for mimosas
You said, bring red wine if a woman is cooking you Italian.
Can you ask me specifically about rum punch?
I can't make that.
And I know how serious people get about that stuff.
I just gave an example of a Caribbean man house with a butcher rum punch.
Like, here you go.
Look, I was saying jungle juice.
Like I
I'm
I said,
house.
Now, don't make me blow my whistle.
Just give me a minute, Miss Lady and Shannon.
I understand where y'all coming from.
Ray.
I understand what you said.
You said thought process.
Okay, so here we go.
When you're dealing, and then miss Lady, you said, are you married?
This ain't your lane.
When you're married, that's the lane.
That's how you get there, is to get y'all.
So we can be all right and be married and be happy.
So let me breathe, just give me a minute.
Y'all ladies have y'all point.
Ray, you have your point.
The point is it was a thought process, or if the shoe was on the other foot.
Just like, oh girl, just pull with the,
You did the thing with the babies, and now all the men go get custody of their kids.
I've been waiting for custody of my kids.
That's a whole other thing.
But what I'm saying is, with the bringing stuff, when you're dealing with a man, the woman coming to your house is the gift.
Now, coming to her house, coming to her house is a privilege.
Because a man is a prize.
The woman is the treasure.
And when you're dealing with, when you're dealing with men, you don't have to have no, he just said, I want to issue it.
It's a thought.
So right now y'all just bickering, but it's okay.
Cause that's what your, your conversation and my thought process and my advice and everybody can be different.
But, but when you, when you try and say.
They ain't your lane no more that's that's what we try we don't try to do a man come in life Don't know when you don't get a woman because women they come and get us and leave us and then y'all have a we have our kids Men don't take care of the kids and y'all mad and we want our kids y'all take them from us
so
A
man is always always take care of a woman a man gonna take care of a woman You know me a man gonna take care of a woman But it's just a choice of man.
You ain't gonna worry about him bringing them because you're already coming over out of the house If you come into a man house, you already trust me him coming to your house.
That's a privilege You really trust him to come near so it shouldn't matter what somebody is bringing.
He just said it was a thought
That's it.
That's why I love the radio.
Y'all be good.
I'm on my lunch break.
I gotta go.
Don't leave
me here alone with these!
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They try to be the victim so bad.
Man, see.
Oh, my God.
Are
I am.
I am.
OK.
read
we leave.
I
even have a roster because they gotta go.
She got a
I ain't
with us.
Listen, when y'all hear the authentic rum punch, just come to chop it.
You ain't gotta worry about it, okay?
It's gonna be that simple.
518, North Water Street.
You can also head over to Cancactions.
1316, East Brady.
Get all your frozen drinks to go with or without liquor.
Thank y'all so much.
And listen, Shannon, I owe you a rum punch just because I don't know how you putting up with my brother.
I really don't.
I be
stressed out.
I'm gonna be at the bar.
I live with my rum punch.
Rum punch is headed.
Wow.
Don't go
Thank you so much.
to
Welcome back welcome back to your favorite two hours of the day You are kicking in with your favorite crew in the brew the lunch break crew right here on the award-winning one-on-one seven the truth live from the American family Insurance studios.
It's your boy Ray nitty.
Maybe Shannon DJ brother Z holding us down with the production and sound If you just joining us a 3 3 2 1 2 10 17 is the number to dial I can't believe
I can't believe
what I just
it.
Ray just tried to gaslight the entire radio station and to believe it.
these
closed the door
He definitely did.
leave me
leave me here alone
with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
I asked fellas.
I tried we are cooked fellas.
I want y'all
You're just as good a Tom Timmy over there playing like you heard.
Bro,
I said yes, men should.
I even gave my examples of bringing a fan when it was heat.
I was met with steam, my boy.
I said, let me cool it down in here.
Do you feel me?
I said yes, men should not come empty handed.
And all I did was say if the, let's.
Change the tables a little bit.
If a guy cooked for you, if he cooked for you, would you be like, let me bring?
I ain't say he asked you to bring.
Do you see what I'm saying, fellas?
You didn't make rum punch.
That's not what I said.
See, they refuse to hear the truth, fellas.
She just said again, make.
Where would I even bring
rum punch from?
I don't even, what do we do?
You gotta get to these comments, right?
Gaslight in the nation.
You see all these people in the chat.
You're trying to gaslight these people.
Fellas, I want
bring a vote what did y'all here?
a polo.
What did y'all
I can't make Make rum punch or bring something if it was bring something I could bring anything and go to Walmart grab something sure what you think you said make
You know, rum punch is
what you have
some kangaroo
I don't know to make no rum
man.
Now let me go to the store, see if I can find it.
Bro!
Bro!
I didn't even think I've never heard of anybody going to the store for rum punch.
I feel like that is something you have to make.
I feel like, you know what?
This is what I will give you, right?
This
is what happens when we ask to be thought
about.
It may have been a
misunderstanding.
That's what it could be, because from my understanding, rum punch is something you make from scratch.
And that's why I was like, listen, I'm not going to send myself off and be like, yeah, I'm going to bring this Caribbean man some rum punch that I just made, that I don't even know what I'm doing, because I know how people
went in their mind.
Y'all would go around if I came with some rum punch.
You'll be like, what is this?
There ain't no rum punch at
Oh my God.
I hate the y'all are making me have to call and chime in on this because technically my shift is over my weekend is started but I just I have to give an opinion on this so if a woman requests something of me to bring to her house and it's something that I don't know how to make
I'm going to problem solve, and I'm going to figure out how to make it or how to get it.
And if you ask whomever a woman to bring rum punch, and if her answer or excuse is, I don't know how to make that, cool.
That means that she's not a problem solver.
And why am I involved in myself with a woman that can't solve a problem?
Because she's probably going to be a problem herself.
It's really simple.
If she
do it.
Because look, it's a whole bunch of stuff that we may not be able to do.
But then that's when you got to use your noodle and you figure out how to solve the problem.
Because if you're inviting somebody to your house because you're exploring a relationship, you do not want a human being that can't solve a problem when faced with something they quote unquote can't do.
If they're going to quit, I don't know how to do that.
OK, please stay at
Sure.
But here's a social experiment, right?
There was no ask.
Play it again, Zach.
I asked what they think of us.
And when you ask a woman what they think of you, in their mind, they process a whole list of activities or work that they have to do.
Play it again, Zach, please.
Let me bring this nice island boy.
A rum punch.
Some rum punches.
No, no.
some
or
kangaroo tail
even that's even worse
I originally heard
And then people are
telling me I'm
wrong, Sherwin.
Women create a problem in their mind.
It wasn't even there.
All I ask is, would you think of it?
Yeah, I agree.
Bring some stuff.
I'm coming to your house.
I'll bring them the most of stuff.
Yes, I agree.
High value woman.
High value woman, would you think of men?
Think of men?
I
think it's just, here's the thing, and I'm getting the hell out of here.
Otherwise, y'all gonna have me on this damn phone all day.
Please come back.
If I'm inviting a woman to my house and let's say I'm cooking, I should even have to ask her to bring anything.
She should just bring something out of courtesy.
And that also shows that she's not selfish, right?
But if she doesn't bring something, I'm gonna make note of that because in the event that I invite her to meet my mama, if she don't bring my mama something, then me and her cannot be involved no more.
If she don't bring me something, I'm like, okay, I'm gonna charge that to the game.
But if we go to my mother's house, you better bring my mama's home.
Period.
Don't be selfish.
See that's understandable.
So listen,
completely agree
Let me
Get it right!
Get it right!
What up, y'all?
Welcome back.
Welcome back to the award-winning one-on-one, 7 of Truth.
It is Friday, and it is lunchtime, y'all.
Yes, it's time to eat.
It is time to eat.
Live from the American family, Insurance Studios.
It's your favorite crew in the brutal lunch break crew, Ray Nitty.
Maybe Shannon, DJ Brother Z. Holding us down with the production and sound.
Shannon, how you feelin'?
Man feeling great.
It's a great Friday.
Great start to the day.
It's already taken off yesterday was a good conversation.
It was I was excited to get back to our cousins man.
I was like, you know what in another thing?
I think we got a very exciting show for y'all today as well cuz so once again eight three three two one two ten seventeen is the number to dial eight three three two one two ten seventeen is the number to dial man get involved bring somebody to lunch with you all right
Shannon We still um it was still a little bit of chip chip on my a little bit of dip on my chip So let's let's uh get get back to that real quick because we have we got some things to say brother Z you was able to pull that video up cannot stress this enough
If you're going to a woman's house Do not go empty handed.
It's very simple flowers a candle wine
fruit platter I don't know if she's making you an Italian dinner you should probably bring some red wine if she's cooking you brunch maybe bring over stuff for mimosas but you do not do not ever go to a woman's house empty-handed now of course there's times when this it would be acceptable
to
go empty-handed
for instance if you've been dating for a significant amount of time but if it's your first second or third time to a woman's house you should most certainly be bringing something with you.
Me
personally
I have lots of great amenities at my house okay you come to my house you are more than likely probably going to be fed food and I have great amenities okay avion water
Clearly Canadians.
A towel warmer.
My house is clean.
Continuing to go over to a woman's house.
Empty handed.
I don't know.
It leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
I don't know about the rest of the ladies but fellas don't show up with nothing.
What
you mean, Ray said no way.
I didn't clarify that yet.
What's going on?
I
he
didn't
see.
I
I did say no way, but it was because he did something in the background where he like dropped something.
Missed the table and then did some matrix stuff and caught it with the next hand So he was explaining it to me and I was like no way No way She's like don't come over to you should bring something inside of like I was like no way I'm not bringing anything
like changing my stance
Um, that's funny.
I think I gave my ass I would bring something.
I remember it was hot
at her spot.
And this was like when we first met.
So when we went to Walmart, I bought a fan.
So I'm like, all right, you know, then she felt like she saw that that was, you know, me like seeing something and, you know, taking initiative.
So that's probably
why she be like, pick your damn
it's just
courtesy I won't even go to my friend's house, right?
Without offering especially like if my friends are like, oh, we cooked or like we're gathering here.
We're all pre-gaming We need to draw a party.
I'm not gonna show up and just bring myself I'd be embarrassed to at least not try to bring something even when they're like, no, don't worry about I'm like, you sure you want to bring some wine?
Let me bring a what is it the charcuterie board cheese something like I'm not coming into anybody's space and not bringing an offering of some sort like and then
I feel like when it comes to dating, you're supposed to be putting your best foot forward.
You supposed to, like you said, it's showing that you could, listen, I'm a problem solver.
Let me go grab you a fan.
You know what I'm saying?
I ain't hurting.
Let me get you a little $20 box man, something.
Like it's the small things like the lady said in the video too.
It's one of those things where it's like, she said something small like a candle.
Y'all know where to find candles at.
Don't come to nobody house empty handed, especially when you are still in the very beginning stages where impression is everything and people want to feel thought about.
Like nobody's saying like, it dropped me off a couple thousand dollars every time you pull up or you know, go out of your way and do some of that.
Did some of them saying that?
Walk on water.
Would it be nice?
Yes Sure Okay, let
question moving you
some kangaroo
know how to make no rum
man.
would end up poisoning you.
You're gonna be like, why would she try to make something she knew she couldn't make?
I would offer something.
alternative.
She didn't even say,
What
a red
Now I know I'll get you some blue Hawaiian punch, okay?
It's too late now.
Like I said, it's too... You already said no.
If somebody invites me to their home, anybody, I am offering to bring something, especially if it's something like dinner.
Let me bring some breadsticks or something.
I will always offer, I will always offer, especially if I'm gonna be in a space and it's hot.
And I'm like, let's go grab a thing.
the buzz balls.
Like anything, listen, buzz balls for everybody.
Goodness.
Next time I come in studio, I'm bringing buzz balls for everybody.
don't know how to make no rum punch, boy.
You grabbed a box fan and you want me to create a whole rum punch.
You want me to make you some jungle juice.
That's too much.
If I could just stop at Walmart and grab something, sure.
But I'm not sitting there and making rum punch.
I don't even know what goes in it.
I feel like I'm about to be ganged up.
This is nasty.
about to be a gang beam.
I don't want this.
Hyacinth, how you doing?
What's going on?
Ray, brother, what's going on?
Medea, I deal with one of your menia and them that I say.
So I was trying to give the example.
Hyacinth, I don't know if you've ever met maybe Shannon.
You live on the lunch break with Ray Nitty and maybe Shannon, right?
Hey, Shannon.
look at that.
I think we got
So, right.
So, we played your video, right?
Dating a high value woman.
Right.
And we talked about you said, bring something with you.
Don't come empty handed.
I'm like, you know what?
Yeah, she asked me would I come empty house?
Like, no, I said, I don't come empty handed.
As a matter of fact, I look around and see what other needs I could address.
I said, I brought a fan in some of the first days of talking to my wife.
And then I propose this question to Shannon, right?
Y'all can hey and key key all y'all want after this.
But I want you to see.
What you promoting hyacinth right now?
I asked I said okay, Shannon Let's say the tables reverse a nice young Caribbean man say he cooking you jerk chicken some cabbage plantains peas on rice I was like would you go and pick up some red pump rum punch?
And you know what the first
thing she said?
No, you said make jungle juice and some other stuff.
I was like, I don't know how to make that.
asked me to make something.
I was like, I will stop buying, grab some things.
will you bring rum punch?
Elbow grease into slime.
said
I don't know how to make no rum
back
on the
Shannon?
Hey, you got to kick the sand under your feet.
So we having this.
We're having this conversation, y'all.
833-212-1017 is the number to dial.
This is just supposed to start out as a little chipping dip, but they don't put too much chip on they dip, Truth Nation.
So we got Ms.
Boss Lady Hyacinth, owner of Tropic, by the way.
Shout out to Tropic, downtown Milwaukee.
Lil' Shameless plug.
That's me people.
And it's
dip on the chip, bro.
It's dip on the chip.
Let's get it right.
Look.
I know that's
air.
Long story short.
Long story short.
I could, I completely agree with the video.
Everything she said was spot on, but raise it after Rose was a reverse.
And I was like, I wouldn't go anywhere without offering something.
He was like, you wouldn't make
jungle juice, rum
punch, red wine juice.
I don't even know what that is.
I was like, I'm not.
I'm about to make something.
I don't even know what it is.
And then I bring it over there and you're like, this girl can't even make this.
She can't make jungle juice, rum punch, coconut milk, nothing.
Y'all be quick to judge somebody.
So I'm gonna get something safe and I'm gonna bring it over.
And now we are here.
That is all.
Oh my God.
And what's wrong with that?
That's not what happened.
I don't, that is, oh my God.
That's
a thing a man asked a woman to bring some juice To dinner and you think he asked you to go grow the tree pick the fruit squeeze it juice it and anybody said make anything I said bring bring some rum punch
I said even a red stripe.
I don't even know what that is.
You see what I'm saying?
Do you see what I'm saying?
How is it?
No.
How is it?
Hear me
out.
original clip, brother Z.
kangaroo tail.
You feel me?
Are you going to say, hey, you know what?
Let me bring this nice island wide.
A rum punch.
Some rum punches.
Some... I don't know how to make no rum punch.
I ain't got no time for that.
You see what I'm saying, Zach?
She ain't even saying... Let me try to Google it.
She went straight to... I don't know how to
do
This is what... See what she... Is that not what happened?
I just admit it.
I don't know how to make something, but I will bring things.
I...
Z?
Also...
not say she wasn't bringing nothing.
She didn't say she wasn't bringing nothing.
She just said she wasn't making the romp because she don't have the recipe.
But she didn't say she wasn't bringing
get a box fan.
Easy
come to women we supposed to be going above
was
Right you know you my brother, but you know I'm gonna tell you You know I'm gonna tell you when you're wrong, right?
And let me let me tell you how you wrong here cuz you ain't even wrong on how you trying to be wrong You talking about you being gaslit you right now are dodging the real question here
ain't about
Her making rum punch from scratch and none of that.
Okay.
And really, we shouldn't be having a conversation about the woman bringing nothing to the man's house.
Well, me personally, yes, I'm going to come during something.
That's just how I was raised.
But to be quite honest, if a man asked me to bring something, that would be a no for me.
Don't ask me to bring nothing.
I'm going to do it on my own.
So that's the problem.
But the real question here.
I
Right.
Right.
You
punch.
Can you please tell me and maybe you have to go to the congregation and ask but I would like to know why you men Act like y'all don't know what a high value woman is because every time I make those posts the men come for me tell my son What's a high value woman?
What's the problem?
Why don't understand that
Think this is why I think a high value woman is right a high value woman is a hot is a woman that would appreciate a man who say hey
He's making me dinner.
He's invited me over to his house.
Let me take the initiative.
I ain't asked for her to bring it I said would you if the tables was turned would you I ain't say bring me anything I said would you if the tables would turn bring me some and I think a high value woman I'll let y'all speak I'll let y'all speak see
High-value woman would appreciate when see that's a thing fellas.
They ask us for our opinion as soon as we get to something Oh my god, I can't believe what I'm experiencing
Listen to what?
You know what?
I'm going to let you get a pass because you married, bro.
You just don't understand this lane.
This ain't your lane.
It ain't your lane no more.
That's why you, that's
Wait, time, time, time, time, time, time, time up.
Time up.
Y'all got, y'all got your whole knuckles in the dip right now.
The whole knuckle is in the dip right now.
You telling me that I'm wrong for saying, literally, the video said, the video said,
appreciating a high value woman.
Don't come to the house empty handed.
I agreed with that.
We got the transcript.
I know y'all just completely ignored what Shannon really said in front of us.
You know, Shannon is one of them juries that looked the other way in the Lindsey Clancy.
I said I
cannot make a wrong punch.
I'm not in there on top of this.
Me not making a wrong punch.
You know how people
that they
please.
But you're
kangaroo
You feel me?
Are you going to say, you know what?
Let me bring this nice island.
Why I rum punch some rum.
I didn't say, I didn't, I said, are you going to be like, are you going to take the initiative to even have the thought and the immediate response was, I don't know how to make no rum punch, not.
Oh, I'm going to kill you.
I'm going to kill you.
Stop right, stop digging your
hole.
Stop digging
hole.
I'm going to kill you.
I'm going to kill you right here.
Are you done?
Are you done?
Are you done?
We not even being
Shannon, do y'all, do y'all, y'all ask you like this every day?
No, y'all showing y'all tails
right now.
Let's
see.
Let's see what I do
you.
I'm in a hostel work place.
Am I?
All I need you to say is finish him.
Finish him.
I'm going to finish Ray.
Finish him.
Now I'm going to shut you down, brother.
But like women always do, okay?
That's just what we do.
She said I don't know how to make it so that right there.
Let you know.
She thought about what you authentically Help me authenticity.
Did you Caribbean?
She went right to I gotta make the run punch.
She didn't even think let me go buy some rumpers She thought let me make some run punch.
So now you trying to you you really trying to tell me
really guys like me now So you telling me no that was who you just do so this high five dollar gas in my face just now
I'm literally asking about the thought like would you consider on your own?
No, the thought what no, no, I won't allow that the thought what would you just try to give a pass to the thought that she went to
And the highest they just tried to confirm is that you making her go look for some ingredients to make some.
No, not all.
Ray, Ray, Ray.
Come on, brother.
Listen, y'all.
Oh my gosh.
Ray, how are you turning what I just said into that?
I said.
You just said.
It's thoughtful.
No She wanted to make it from scratch That's not what
she
said Her response was I don't know how
make
think
Why
can't it just be like, why can't it just be like, okay, I'm a Google the ingredients for that and be like, that's what I asked.
I simply asked if the rose was reverse, would you...
Then be like, you said, OK, bring the ingredients for mimosas.
You said, bring red wine if a woman is cooking you Italian.
And you
asked me specifically about rum punch.
I can't make that.
And I know how serious people get about
Caribbean man house with a butcher rum punch.
Like, here you go.
Look, I was saying jungle juice.
Now we get jungle Blake I'm literally just asking would you consider I said yes, I said yes, we should be bringing things to women's house that we did I said yes, and then I asked a return and then the first thing was I don't know how to do that Otis Blake Blake what it is, please please if I'm wrong tell me I'm wrong
Now don't make me blow my whistle.
Just give me a minute
Miss Lady and Shannon, I understand where y'all coming from.
Ray, I understand what you said.
You said thought process.
Okay, so here we go.
When you're dealing, and then Miss Lady, you said, are you married?
This ain't your lane.
When you married, that's the lane.
That's how you get there, is to get y'all.
So we can be all right and be married and be happy.
So let me breathe, just give me a minute.
Y'all ladies have y'all point.
Ray, you have your point.
The point is, it was a thought process.
or if the shoe was on the other foot.
Just like, oh girl, just pull with the, you did the thing with the babies and now all of me ain't gonna get custody of their kids.
I've been waiting for custody of my kids.
That's a whole other thing.
But what I'm saying is with the bringing stuff, when you're dealing with a man, the woman coming to your house is the gift.
Now, her house coming to her house is a privilege because a man is a prize.
The woman is the treasure.
And when you're dealing with, when you're dealing with men, you don't have to have no, he just said, I want to issue it.
It's a thought.
So right now y'all just bickering, but it's okay.
Cause that's what your, your conversation and my thought process and my advice and everybody can be different.
But, but when you, when you try and say.
They ain't your lane no more.
That's what we don't try to do.
A man come in life don't know when you're gonna get a woman.
Because women, they come and get us and then leave us.
And then y'all have our, we have our kids.
Men don't take care of the kids.
Then y'all mad.
Then we want our kids.
Y'all take them from us.
So, now let me do that again.
But as far as, hold on.
I think I made a wrong turn back
there
somewhere.
Well, I was just gonna kiss him.
Hold on.
Hold on.
Let him do it.
Let him
do it.
Let him finish women.
Let him finish women.
Let him finish women.
Always take care of a woman.
A man gonna take care of a woman.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
A man gonna take care of a woman.
But it's just their choice of man.
You ain't gonna worry about them bringing them because you're already coming over out of the house.
If you come into a man house, you're already trusting him.
Him coming to your house.
That's a privilege.
You really trust him to come near so it shouldn't matter what somebody is bringing He just said it was a thought.
That's it.
I love the radio.
Y'all be good.
I'm on my lunch
my god.
This
I am.
I am.
You're
how
And she got a whole league and she ain't drafting none of them.
I ain't thinking about none of these players.
Shannon is like, what's the clipper's owner?
That was like, do the owners make the league or does the players make the league?
Oh, man.
I like that.
I said, thank you for calling in and spending some time
with us.
I
Listen, when y'all hear the authentic rum punch, just come to chop it.
You ain't gotta worry about it, okay?
It's gonna be that simple.
518, North Water Street.
You can also head over to Cancactions.
1316, East Brady.
Get all your frozen drinks to go with or without liquor.
Thank y'all so much.
And listen, Shannon, I owe you a rum punch just because I don't know how you putting up with my brother.
I really don't.
I be
stressed out.
I'm gonna be at the bar.
I live with my rum punch.
Rum punch is headed.
Wow.
Don't go anywhere.
Thank you so much.
I have nothing
to say.
I have nothing to say.
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I can't believe I Can't believe I Can't believe it
just try to gaslight the entire radio station and to believe
up
He definitely did.
I like Blake.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Don't leave me here alone with these.
Man, I can't believe.
Shout out to how you say.
We played it twice.
We played it twice.
I asked, fellas, I try.
We are cooked, fellas.
I want you all to know that.
I bring this nice island.
Why I run punch some run punches.
Some.
It's right there.
It's right there, bro.
I said I don't know how to make, I don't see the issue.
It's right there, bro.
And you saw what they did to me, bro.
You better
not.
You
trying to play the victim.
You just, you just as good as Tom Timmy over there playing like you heard.
Bro,
I say yes, men should.
I even gave my examples of bringing a fan when it was heat.
I was met with steam, my boy.
I said, let me cool it down in here.
Do you feel me?
I said, yes, men should not come empty handed.
And all I did was say, let's change the tables a little bit.
If a guy cooked for you, if he cooked for you, would you be like, let me bring?
I ain't say he asked you to bring.
Do you see what I'm saying, fellas?
Rum punch.
That's not what I said.
See they refused to hear the truth fellas.
I'm she just said again make where would I even bring rum punch
from?
I don't even what do we do?
Are you?
We got to get to these comments, right?
Gaslighting a nation.
You see all these people in the chat.
You trying to gas like these people
They
What did y'all
make rum punch or bring something.
If it was bring something, I could bring anything.
I can go to Walmart, grab something, show
make.
kangaroo tail
Are you going to say you know what?
Let me bring this nice island why I run punch some run punches some Let me bring this nice island why I run punch
Let me bring this nice island wide a rum punch some rum punches some Let me try to Google it she went straight there.
I don't know how to do this This is what we got to deal with now.
Let me go to the store see if I can find it
I've never heard of anybody going to the store for rum punch.
I feel like that is something you have to make
I feel like, you know what?
This is what I will give you, right?
This
misunderstanding.
That's what it could be, because from my understanding, rum punch is something you make from scratch.
And that's why I was like, listen, I'm not going to send myself off and be like, yeah, I'm going to bring this Caribbean man some rum punch that I just
with some rum punch.
You'll be like, what is this?
Oh my God.
I hate the y'all are making me have to call and chime in on this because technically my shift is over my weekend is started but I just I have to give an opinion on this so if a woman requests something of me to bring to her house and it's something that I don't know how to make
I'm going to problem solve and I'm going to figure out how to make it or how to get it.
And if you ask whomever a woman to bring rum punch and if her answer or excuses, I don't know how to make that cool.
That means that she's not a problem solver.
And why am I involved in myself with a woman that can't solve a problem?
Because she's probably going to be your problem herself.
It's really simple.
If she
do it.
Cuz look, it's a whole bunch of stuff that we may not be able to do but then that's when you got to use your noodle and you figure out how to solve the problem because if you're inviting somebody to your house because you're exploring a relationship You do not want a human being They can't solve a problem with face with something they quote-unquote can't do if they're gonna quit I don't know how to do that.
Okay,
There was no ask
It was nothing.
Play it again, Zach.
I asked what they think of us.
And when you ask a woman what they think of you, in their mind, they process a whole list of activities or work that they have to do.
Play it again, Zach, please.
Let me bring this nice island boy.
A rum punch.
Some rum punches.
No, no.
Go to the beginning of what I said.
Turn the table.
If a guy invites you to his house and he's...
You know, cooking something for you, cooking you some jerk chicken.
You know what I'm saying?
Some some or some kangaroo tail or some kangaroo tail plan.
You feel me?
Are you going to say, you know what?
Let me bring this nice island way.
I run punch some run punches.
Some.
Oh, wow.
That's
even that's even worse
I originally heard it.
And then people are telling me I long sure women create a problem in a minor wasn't even there all I asked is would you think of it?
Yeah, I agree bring some stuff.
I'm coming to your house.
I'll bring them a most of stuff.
Yes, I agree high value woman High value woman.
Would you think of me think of men?
I
Think it's just here's the thing and I'm getting the hell out of here.
Otherwise you're gonna have me on this damn phone all day, please
If I'm inviting a woman to my house and let's say I'm cooking, I shouldn't even have to ask her to bring anything.
She should just bring something out of courtesy.
And that also shows that she's not selfish, right?
But if she doesn't bring something, I'm going to make note of that because.
Welcome back y'all welcome back to the award-winning one-on-one seven the truth live from the American family insurance studios It's hour two with your favorite crew in the brew the lunch break crew Ray nitty Maybe Shannon DJ brother Z holding us down with the production and sound And it's not like a bunch of BS going on Shannon
Oh
We got to catch up on these comments.
was just we got so much going on.
I don't know what the word is here.
you know, you sound like.
I said, I'm not bringing anything.
No, I said, I'll bring something, but I'm not making anything from scratch, especially when it comes to somebody that is like rum punch.
Never made that in my life.
And I know how people get.
If you come to a black home with soul food and you are not black, people gonna be like, what is this macaroni and cheese?
I already know how I go.
You're not about to embarrass me.
I'ma bring you, I could bring them a Mosa set up.
I got you.
Let me bring some chips and dip.
I don't know, but I'm not making nothing that is like from your culture because I'm going to mess it up.
It ain't going to be as good and you won't be judging.
And that's what I already know.
the only point I was making.
You know what?
It was like wrong punch.
You said the specific.
I didn't say
me bring about
Where do I find passion fruit extract, Ray?
I'ma bring you some rape Kool-Aid.
I might bring you some fried chicken.
I'm not playing!
about.
That's
can do.
No,
hold on, because everybody don't drink.
What you can say is that what we're gonna do is we're gonna start off with a white Chardonnay first.
And then we will move to a red wine when we start dealing with meat, because that helps with digestion, because I don't know if you are a drinker of rum.
Or what she could do is to say, well, I don't really drink rum, but I will bring something.
So what if she did bring a Jamaican rum called Big Black D-I-C, and then put it on a table with five flavors?
I'm not drinking that.
But it's from Jamaica.
But what you could do is just control the direction.
Well, we're going to start off drinking a white Chardonnay because we're having conversation.
And then we're going to move to the red wine because that helps with digestion.
Because certain men of a certain class and a certain tax bracket, they're going to
kind of move it, but they're going to try to make it look exquisite.
You know what I mean?
So it depends on how you want the delivery to go.
She might not be a drinker, so she might not drink well, but a lot of people drink chardonnay.
Some people might drink red wine.
So I would just maneuver it like that, because some men would say, well, we'll start off.
drinking shawty nay we are toast with shawty nay and then we're going to change the champagne glasses and move to the red wine because now you're making it a strap again so it depends on how you want it to be and then also if mama's there
You know, then you got to keep this in mind.
She's not dating your mother.
She's dating you.
I'm going to give you that hug, but we just not going to let our breath touch.
And once we, once we get to know each other, then I could think about bringing some, because now ain't nobody disrespected.
Everybody is, everybody is met cordially.
Cause see, she might not come back.
She might, she might get diarrhea.
You never know.
You might be turned off, but at least y'all could remove each other gracefully and still have the peace.
set
like you see as soon as I'll offer some big black DIC you ain't won't why would I do that?
just
people have a lot of people have that they have a shot of that with their ribs if they're out on their yacht or they out on their boats down in Connecticut on the water they always have that with their ribs especially if they're from Brazil or the Dominican Republic
might have that while they're sitting in a jacuzzi and there's you know slapping glasses So it's all about how you want to deliver it and then you got to think about this meeting What's the tax bracket of the people you are around are you messing with somebody who's mid-level?
Are you messing with somebody who's all about class?
So you got to take all those things into consideration and then the dessert might even be better How
that?
But I just want you to appreciate it and a buzz ball tropical one and a passion fruit juice because you know what man did in the midst of Addressing this nonsense that we're talking about.
I Just said you can I simplified I said go get some packs
Think of passion fruit juice.
He said, where am I going to get passion fruit juice from?
He found it right outside the door.
He didn't even have to go
to
Man, I don't know too much.
I can't even pick.
I can't even pick what I bring to you.
I was rum, punch, passion fruit, mojito mixed with a little mint and extra lime.
See what I mean?
I can't even bring nothing from my heart.
I can't even be like, you know what?
This is what I know how to make.
I want to bring this.
This is what I'm good at.
I want you to find the recipe, build a house, win a tree, and bring me this.
We got
I can't believe y'all really voted for this and saying, I'm the one
Y'all,
right now.
Thank you, my good people of Truth Nation.
They just being nice to Ray cause he got on here, zooming in, tear coming down, they trying to bully me and they feel bad.
This is what I mean about how, but you see how what I mean about politics and how they start using stuff to make people feel bad to get that vote.
That's what just happened.
That's what happened.
This is what y'all
This is what y'all witnessed in today.
He acted like he was getting bullied.
People came in feeling bad and was like, you know what, Ray, let me give you that vote.
This ropes back to what we was talking about the other day.
we never got to these comments, right?
What
What sign are you?
I am a real
I can't believe it.
I can't believe
to get to the chat
What is it, Akpine Blake said, ah man, must do no excuses, always bring, always have, always, oh, men must do no excuses, always bring, always have, can cover, always can be considerate, and courteous, gentlemen always.
That's what I'm talking about.
Anita said, saying jungle juice is crazy.
Robert said y'all cutting up Ray.
You are wrong, sir.
Mmm.
Somebody's type that in you.
Oh my God.
Anita said, ain't nobody coming to see you.
Oh, there's no rum punch for you.
That is terrible.
I asked, would you, would you?
Anita said a high value partner.
Someone who exhibits strong emotional maturity clear boundaries and self-esteem making them an attractive and reliable long-term companion At a key acupunct Blake Look, I'll be butchering his name Mary makes it even more no ma'am.
No, sir Robert said she would be great in studio.
I think she was he was talking about the first caller.
She listen a break up y'all I can't wait to get my room punch on the house
Because of what I have to go through here in studio Sorry Anita said exactly Shannon wants to make it from scratch So she's thoughtful and considerate Anita understands me.
That's what I'm talking about
That's what I'm talking
That's exactly what I was hinting at.
That's why I was like, I can make it.
I don't want to lie to you and say I can make something that I cannot.
Look, man, not really a city girl.
Blake said, men can't get pre-treatment treatment.
Oh my
When you
I say, what about passion fruit
You wanted me to make rum punch from scratch.
yeah, I
got off
phone
Listen, it's okay.
Everybody can be the rum punch making passion fruit finding person that you seek to find I was just trying to
That's right Babar said it's given Leo.
Definitely.
I am a Leo.
Thank you.
It sure when definitely dropped the ingredients in there.
I ain't got none of that.
I ain't got no freshly screened orange juice
problems.
Freshly squeezed.
This
is done.
This
all.
No, no,
Dangerous fellas, dangerous world.
Don't go anywhere.
When we come back, we'll get in to the meat and potatoes because obviously women like to do the most.
So we're going to get into some other things here.
Carmen School incident, five o'clock steakhouse owner sentence.
Don't go anywhere, y'all.
We'll be right back on the award winning one on one, seven to truth.
What up y'all welcome back to your lunch break you are punched in your favorite
Two hours of the day, with your favorite crew in the brew, the lunch break crew, Ray Nitty, maybe Shannon, DJ Brother Z holding us down with the production and sound.
Shannon, if you may, I have something on the menu.
Please do, Ray.
I can't believe this.
Hopefully we got the ingredients for it.
to go
I won't just be like, I don't know.
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These comments popping up while you're reading got me giggling.
I'm trying to be quiet so don't catch it on the mic.
But these comments are hilarious, y'all.
If you are listening, make sure you head over to YouTube and join our chat.
Man, I love our
one.
Man, I wish they could keep the comments because.
That's that's where that's where the riot be
Yeah, after like the after the live video cycles, generates and stuff, the live comments will actually show back
there.
Moving
they brought him passion fruit juice now they saved the world Right
No, no.
boy.
We can tell.
All right.
All
segment where Shannon makes rum live.
Got me ready to go do it with three ingredients and I guarantee you I wouldn't even give it to Ray to try because he would try to fake see it was easy I bet you if I gave it to anybody else they're like this is all this ain't good
even
you try it cuz you would fake like it's good after all this.
You would fake like it.
Like see it was easy.
You know what?
I'm gonna
make
rum punch off the top of my brain.
What I think rum punch is and I'm gonna just hand it out to people and get their reactions.
They're gonna be like, what
this to my
Grock is my friend,
Grock will be on my side.
You know what I'm gonna do?
After this episode, I'm gonna play the clip to Grock and ask Grock's opinion on it.
Since we going to Grock.
Z, please send me that clip.
I'm gonna be like, Grock, what do you think about this?
Grock, I'm gonna be
of problems in there.
Yeah, I actually never mind.
I'm not that new dad.
You know what?
You can't be trusted.
We ain't gonna trust it.
know, they'll make
It's Shannon Saturday.
Speaking of violence.
I'm sorry, guys.
I keep laughing.
Carmen School Gun Incident, y'all.
If you are familiar.
There was a video floating around the internet yesterday where some guys were jumping one student.
And Shannon, if I'm not mistaken, it was somebody online who knew the student or something like that.
You know what's crazy about that video is that what I see you online, we originally thought it was the same incident.
That's a separate incident all in the same week.
really?
So this might, yeah, because this woman on Facebook said she needed help finding some kids that robbed her son at Carmen Park.
They put a gun to his head and made him strip.
She said she called the police already and there was a separate video going around of that incident.
And yeah, so.
This was all in one week.
But both incidents dealing with teenagers
and
Yeah.
So yeah, the video, the video that was going around was at least the one that I saw was.
Looks like about good five, six kids jumping on another one, right?
And this one kid is like covered up blocking himself.
And it's a few other kids just constantly kicking him, punching him.
And then you hear somebody say, oh, he got a gun.
He got a gun on him.
So a few of them run off, you know, a couple of them are.
was still here until they realized he did have a gun.
Then you ended up seeing it.
You ended up seeing the kid was.
It looked like as if they were trying to pull the arm.
He was trying to pull the gun out or get access to it.
It came loose and was trying to grab it.
But then one of the other people that was fighting and basically stayed on top.
Then eventually the video cut off.
So I don't know how that situation ended.
I didn't hear of no additional.
violence or anything.
Shannon, I don't know if you heard of anything like that.
I didn't, but that's super unfortunate.
And I did see like the comments before the video was removed.
I tried to revisit it this morning and it's actually removed now.
And people were asking like, why aren't teachers and adults jumping in?
And like I said, in the separate incident, somebody was just saying a lot of these people are scared of these kids now.
And it's
super unfortunate that it has to go that far.
Yeah, I'm lost for words.
And these are teenagers.
These are young kids that think this type of behavior is okay.
And yeah, just bringing this up, right?
It's been a couple incidents involving... It's two separate ones.
It's a Carmen South Middle School.
And then it's a Carmen Northwest High School.
May 23 to 17 year old Derek was arrested after a staff member at Carmen Northwest High School found a loaded nine millimeter handgun in his waistband acting on rumors he'd be bringing.
He'd been bringing a firearm to school.
He faced a felony charge for possession of a firearm on school grounds May 2025.
The weapon was found at Carmen South Middle School during a routine metal detector screening before school started.
Police were notified immediately.
The school said they were no threat.
There were no threat to the students or staff.
and the involved student was pulled from classes pending discipline.
So he was, they said they did charge him with a felony and like the discipline that they're talking about would be separate?
So this one was from May of 2025 for another incident.
This was at Carmen South Middle School.
Yeah, just I wanted to give our listeners an update of what's been going on, man.
It's very unfortunate.
We need to pay more attention to our kids, y'all.
We need to pay way more attention to our kids.
Let's start looking through them book bags again, man.
Start getting
to know who your kids hang.
One of
That's all I hear.
Oh.
Five
It's so mid.
I've never been there.
Don't go anywhere.
Right
on
time.
What's up, what's up, y'all?
You are listening to the lunch break on the award-winning 101.7, The Truth.
This is your favorite two hours of the day.
Man, I'm happy to have y'all locked in with us.
We've been having a great conversation.
We were just getting into the meat and potatoes of it all.
We talked a little bit about children just needing parents to guide them a little better.
We talking about...
how kids are being caught with guns and jumping people and doing things that I don't remember us doing as kids.
But hey, it's happening.
But we were also getting into the five o'clock steakhouse drama slash.
What would you call that, Ray?
I wouldn't call it drama.
I
it
Evil that's going on at five o'clock steakhouse.
That's what
we're
at the top
of respectfully not
Former.
I
don't know.
Former owner.
He was the
owner, right?
He was a former owner, yes.
Former owner.
I wouldn't
trust it.
I wouldn't trust it.
Exactly, because you know how they say when you cook.
if it's made out of love because what you consume.
That's why I wasn't good.
It was cooked by the hands of somebody doing some strange things.
But
No, I ain't never been there.
Can't say I have
was sentenced to 18 years in federal prison for receiving child sexual abuse material as part of the nationwide Project Safe Childhood Initiative.
According to the US Attorney's Office, Cal Conas met a 16 year old girl online in 2022 and paid her for sexual activity.
At Racine County, at Racine County Hotels, a separate case involved a 16 year old girl who told him she was a minor and almost immediately he continued soliciting explicit material for her regardless.
He was ultimately caught after traveling across state lines, expecting to meet a 14 year old who was actually an undercover officer.
He pleaded guilty in May 2026.
U.S.
District Attorney James Peterson called the crimes very disturbing at sentencing noting Calconas pressured victims into acts.
They did not want to perform and Treated them cruelly Yeah
Is that place still open
See, you know
These places that be like all the old owner went to jail will blah all they do is sell it to their brother That's probably into the same strange things.
I don't know who bought it, but a lot of the times That's what happens.
I would be like absolutely not I'm not even patronized in a place that has that type of stuff tied to their names
Milwaukee.
It's bad enough.
Look, Bobby's boy.
Anyways, up.
All right, my bad.
But it's bad enough you're soliciting minors, but then for the reports to come out that you were pressuring them to do strange things, it really makes me wonder what strange things was happening.
Is this why the FBI changed their, you know what?
Stop before I say too much, but you put two and two together, what strange things?
strange enough you messing with a minor.
It got stranger.
beast.
Put these
Under five o'clock steakhouse.
One of Milwaukee's most popular restaurants serving diners in style since 1946.
and tonight the man who runs five o'clock faces indictment accused of sex trafficking a minor.
CBS 58's Jenna Wells is live outside the West Side restaurant with what we know right now.
Jenna.
Natalie and Mike, 51 year old Stelio Calcunos is the managing partner here at five o'clock steakhouse in Milwaukee.
We learned he was arrested on Wednesday at a hotel in Hollywood, Florida on charges for sex trafficking a minor and producing child pornography.
According to the US Attorney for the Western District of Wisconsin, Calcunis recruited a minor knowing she would be made to engage in commercial sex acts.
That timeline was from July 16th, 2023 to March 1st, 2024.
The release also says Calcunis used a minor to create child pornography.
He's currently being held in jail in Broward County, Florida until he's transported to U.S.
District Court in Madison.
This isn't the first time Calcunis has been charged with sex-related crimes involving a minor.
He was convicted in 2006 after traveling to meet who he thought was a 14-year-old girl for sexual acts.
Instead, it was a Milwaukee police detective.
If convicted of this new sex trafficking charge, Calcunis could spend a minute
maximum of 10 years to a maximum of life in prison.
Now I did reach out to employees at 5 o'clock steakhouse earlier today.
One employee who answered the phone told me they don't know what happened and they don't have any information to share.
The restaurant did open at 4 30 this afternoon and it seems to be business as usual with customers coming
in.
Easy.
You know what caught my attention.
crime was found What 2006 and he was allowed to come be oh my god flourishing our community be free and
out about people still patronized him when man You
But they said in that video
Correct me if I'm wrong that the first act was here in race scene and that was in 2006 and he was allowed to continue on his business flourishing our communities and people continued to patronize this business and act like nothing was Nothing was wrong.
He was he continued to have these Friends that are of status here and nobody called him out on it and then he got caught what two more times
And like, we
got not
really a city girl in the comments.
She said, I thought it was more going on with that place.
I still think it's deeper than that.
And I agree, because when somebody has been caught in 2006, you can only imagine the line of things he's been up to.
And then he only is in jail now is because he went across state lines and did something weird.
So I ain't no telling what he was doing here.
And I'm telling what the trafficking network looks like here, that this was known and he was just serving
steaks.
years ago.
Come
So ain't no telling how many children Have been trafficked or what
network he's involved here
And it took for out of state to catch him and lock him up.
I'm pretty sure that was where he missed step because here he was probably protected and doing whatever he was doing for the past 20 years.
Man, I do think that it's very interesting that I would like to know when did this person no longer be owners in five o'clock steak.
I was like, when did managing partnership
like switch because I know it says former owner.
But what I do know is it looks very weird if a sitting order for 20 plus years knew this type of business owner was in the district trafficking.
On former accounts that still was allowed to operate in the district.
Right down the street from a strip club, by the way.
But anyway.
Hmm
wonder
Yeah, you know what nope
We don't go into that thought it was out that silk still you know
focused
Hmm.
I'm gonna let you choose.
y'all.
Because I don't want to get too deep in anything,
because... We ain't got that much
Right, right, right, right.
Maybe we'll give them some high-level... We'll give them a little sample platter of the two items left on the menu when we come back.
And we'll tease something for Monday.
Don't go anywhere, y'all.
When we come back, we'll get right back into it right here on the award-winning 10170 Truth.
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course mill today and a month
you're full of
ice.
That's what y'all fool.
You know what?
That's what y'all are full of.
Man.
Listen.
What I feel like is men just want they cake in to eat it too.
That's all.
That's all I'm gonna say.
I don't want to go into the logistics of it.
Y'all just, nothing's ever good enough.
that
you're saying?
one-air versus
is why I'll just you be over there sipping in this nasty.
crazy, lady, and brought me.
I already said don't know nothing about the wrong
And he just said, really, Ray?
Yeah, I thought it was better
man are a piece of work.
Man.
What was supposed to be chips and dip turned into a full meal.
think it was a good conversation.
And we got some calls that really, like, I feel like it showed the versatility of our Truth Nation
Y'all gonna be my cousins forever.
I love y'all true nation.
they doxed him.
Did you see that?
they doxxed him and now he's like, it's something they do online.
They put all like your information out so people know your address, your phone number, where you work and it makes it easier for like everybody.
Sometimes they'll even swatch you.
You think so?
He should be alright.
went into hiding.
I mean they
I mean she's in jail.
Oh,
that what she's in?
She's been doxxed already.
I think so.
probably a
Wasn't in this
with you.
Not really a city girl said, go home,
Go home, Ray is mad.
Go home, Roger.
You'll recover.
Y'all
got my back today.
you over,
accountable.
Blake did
see both sides in his defense.
I'm going to take up for Blake.
I'm actually your lunch.
I gotta go.
Click.
man.
Definitely.
So what we didn't get to on the menu today, right?
What we didn't get to.
I think it's good to save.
We was pretty full today.
We had a pretty full menu today, right?
But what we didn't get to was filters self-worth and rebuilding our dignity, right?
And we want to save that so Monday we gonna get into that Shannon and then we had another story Monday that we was gonna bring you want to tell them about that one Shannon?
Yeah, so what the appetizer was gonna be was about Christiane Rock and
I
know we did it
Yeah, we
did.
We talked
about doing it.
We talked about doing it.
Oh, look at him trying to gas.
He tried to gas like me and to believe it.
We already talked about
Yeah, let's hear this.
I need to hear it.
Basically, we were going to talk about Christiane Rock and...
Her diagnosis her son's diagnosis and how she felt like she wasn't claiming a diagnosis and how that can be detrimental
to a
child's development that has some type of you know delay We definitely were gonna get into that because there was a video of her saying this child is in therapy and Somebody actually had a rebuttal that
the child cannot be in therapy because of the problems that we are witnessing are things that need surgery and things of that sort.
So we just wanted to get into the criticism and the backlash that Chrishan Rock is facing due to her son's delays and how people try to pray things away instead of actually getting children help sometimes.
But we do, speaking of Monday, right?
Speaking of Monday, don't you got a giveaway?
Oh yeah
people, the cousins.
after after witnessing this this uh on-air crash out between us two we they deserve
was in
that the pole is rigged
I had
I'm sorry.
But yes, Truth Nation.
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Check out the last comments, Ray.
But something just
I don't know
happened.
Did y'all delete?
according to Ray.
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