Meet Exchange Student Dimitri

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Meet Exchange Student Dimitri

The Don Rosen Show · Thu Jun 12, 2025

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graduation season right now.

We got a graduate here,

Melissa Copril� who

you now you've had a, um, uh,

exchange student at your house

all this season. I did. And

now it's all over. If you'll

say that. Oh my goodness.

Yeah. My baby is graduating.

It is, it's hard because

it's not only is he graduating.

So it's definitely a moment

of celebration, but he'll be

going back home to Belgium.

And so what gives me a little

bit of I think I can suppress

some of the sorrow a little bit

is that I'm hoping in August to

go and visit and check out his

his homeland. So a little

tears. Oh, it's a yeah. I don't

think my family cried when

I graduated. I think the

thing was getting out now.

This is it. We got a push

amount of the house. Um,

Demetri, you're the graduate.

Yeah. Finally. How many years

have one year you graduated?

What high school in Kenosia?

So I went to Harbor, said

Academy. Okay. For one year.

It was, uh, it was really not

like, uh, I really wanted to

experience an American high

school with a big school, but

Harbor side was fully the

opposites. It was a fun

experiment, but I think I

would be better in a bigger

high school. But really, how

many people in your graduating

class? So 90 people. How much?

90, 90, 90. So it's similar

for the viewers aren't

familiar with Kenosia. It's

Harbor side. It's like Walden

here in Racine. So it's, uh,

you have to get in there through

a lottery system. So it's a bit

of a smaller school, more of an

alternative, but, uh, they have

a little bit of a different

structure to it, which is

appealing to me. That's where my

son goes, but my son is in the

sixth grade. How many people

were my graduating class?

970. Oh, goodness. It's really

in high school. We had over 4,000

students. Wow. I know. That's

a lot. That is quite a thing.

970. My yearbook is about

eight years, about eight years

after. I was, uh, yeah, thick.

And I'm sure you still have it.

I haven't. And I didn't know

most of the people there. Here's

a little tidbit story, though,

uh, girl, I went up marrying. It's

not my current one. My first

wife. I went to high school with

her and her twin sister for four

years. I never saw her in the

high school. Just, he didn't see

a lot of people. Yeah. 4,000

people in the school, you don't

see them. So I never saw him.

When I met her, I said, would

you go to high school? She goes

burner. I said, really?

Because that's the right way.

All right. So to meet you, you

graduated when to graduate. It's

I think one week ago. Come on.

Okay. And you already have a

job.

Well, you put up the work now.

He has a lot more free time for

me to put them to work. Now

realize he wasn't many sports

done. So it. You won a lot of

sports. Yeah. So yeah, I did a

four sport during my year and

abroad. And really, I really

enjoy it. And to be able to

the sport, even for free, like

golf, because it's very expensive

sports back at home. And to be

able to do it for free, it's

really so great. I really had fun

and to have this competition with

some ice cooler. It's really

amazing. It's just like putt

putt golf or real golf.

I really go. I got the windmill

hold down. I can get that bar

right through the window. Okay,

see, where's your home, by the

way? So my home is back in

Belgium. So what's it in the town?

So we live in, it's a really,

you're never going to be able to

pronounce it. It's. I don't know.

Was that the name? Yeah. Is that

the. I T T R E. It's in Belgium.

It's a little air now. What

big city is it near? So we have

Brussels. That's not far from

it. And for you, it's not far

because for us, it's too far.

It's like two hours from us. But

in two hours, we change country.

Well, I don't have a jetpack to fly

anywhere. So it's just it's two

hours for me, too. Yeah. Now, this

man who is sitting next to you

smiling with joy and being so

proud of you is who now. Say,

you dad. It's my father. Yeah.

From Belgium. Bella. Hello, Don.

What's your name? It's really

free pair. No, it's Philip.

Philip is more free. There's more

and more. Where do I get this

misinformation from? It came in

your head overnight. Yeah.

I don't care. And go, man, anything

you know. Now, you've been to

America before, right? Yes.

A couple of times because it's

the truth. It's Godfather is an

American. So really? And yes, I

met him a year ago in Brazil,

back in Brazil. And then we

stayed in contact. And since

then we're still in contact

with his Godfather. And I

visited him all the time. Here's

something I never understood. You

talk to most people in America

United States. They talk one

language. And they don't do that

well, either English. But you

speak to people in Europe and

they always speak multiple

languages. I mean, I took six

years of Spanish. All I know

is Albundigas is meatballs.

Oh, right. That's two years in

college. This is four years in

high school. Albundigas. That's

the only word I can remember

Spanish. If I'm an Italian

restaurant, yeah. That's that's

owned by Spaniards. The reason

maybe because America is huge.

Huge gone through the same

language English. Yeah, but

you, it's it's right. But you

probably what when you think in

English, don't you? Not really

now. I don't know in what

language. I'm thinking about

how to miss French, right?

French Dutch German. Oh, my

goodness. You know all those

languages. I do for my job. I

need them. But not everyone

do know all these languages.

But yes, I have to. How do

people know that? It's it's

impressive. Isn't it? But they

say people that are multi-lingual

have quick recall of

information and how they process

things is a little. I always

say I was a little more impressive.

It was impressed when the Pope

said I speak 15 languages.

I can't remember the names of

15 languages. And he speaks

50. I keep this in your head.

And again, a lot of people in

this country, their English is

poor. So. Well, this is very

interesting. So now you got a

high school graduate in your

family. Do you have any

brothers or sisters? So yeah,

I go to sister back at home

and a brother brother here.

Oh, brother. He's Melissa. So

it's really fun. I never out

of brother. So to experience

that then. 12 year old, my

years. Oh, the next year is the

really bad age 13. Yeah, that's

not a good age. I mean, sometimes

a fight between each other is

just like brother root. So really

we got so much fun and really

too. And now it's like my brother

I consider like my brother and

so yeah, I think it's going to

be for life. And I will never

forget him. And that's amazing.

Okay. So after you goof off for

the summer in the fall, what do

you plan to do? It's really, I

don't know. Yeah. It's really

great. So I still need to, to

see maybe a content. I will see

really. You want to go to college

or no? I'm thinking of it. Yeah,

but it's still. I don't know.

Well, I realized, Don, their

education system is definitely

a higher standard and a lot more

rigorous than what we're accustomed

to here. So I think he's enjoyed.

This is actually more of a gap

year forum here. He has already

respectedly graduated from Belgium

already. And then he decided to

do high school and hold another

year again. Oh, this is your

second graduation. So yeah, like

so here I came just for English

to learn English. So really when

I got graduated in second time,

I really didn't care. So I don't

need to embarrass you or anything

here. But did that French accent

really work you with the women,

the girls in high school? Hey,

word, but it's not for me. Really

people love it. But I really hate

it. I was like, I need to get off

of that because every time I was

just seeing hello, everyone was

like, are you from here? I'm like,

I just we say hello. Yeah, I'm

from the south side. I couldn't

know. That's for the action

come from you. It's charming,

isn't it? But he wanted to lose

his French accent. And but

everybody was so drawn to him.

And I'm young and all. The so,

it wasn't just the girls driving

Anton. We try not to think of

that. And we both have the

curly hair going for us. Yeah.

You know, in high school,

they always in school. They

was going, hey, curly top,

come here curly top. You know,

it's fun to me. I saw a high

school reunion pictures. Most

of those guys don't have hair

anymore. So who's got the last

last? Well, this is good. So

an accountant. Maybe you want to

deal with money? You want to

do that? I don't know. Yeah.

Yeah, because like in Belgium,

you know, when you study,

there are studies that's. It's

really long and really hard

to make money. And that

contents is really more, um,

I think you you're sure to

find a job and to make money

really fast. So I don't know.

I'm still figuring it out.

But yeah, I think he's, he's

an away to seeing it for the

moment. Yeah. Dan Young and

old. We're always still trying

to figure things out. So.

My mother used to tell me

she's this is what I'm

doing. My mother used to tell

me she's this is what you want

to do for a living. Do the

dish. This is what you're

going to do. Um, I might

live till 92. She passed away

a couple of years ago. She was

still saying, Hey, sure, this

is what you want to do. I said

yeah, this is the end of the

line. This is what we're doing

here. She said what you, you

know, your brother's a doctor

and you know, no, she never

pushed me. What she used to say

that to me. This is this is it.

This is the plan. Well, we're

grateful that it's your plan.

You you keep it lively here.

It's a good voice. But I started

cleaning toilet bowls. Um, and

this is what you, I said, no,

I'm planning to graduate from

toilet bowls to something else

eventually. So you got your

high school diploma. Yeah, where

is it? Are you with it? Yeah, I

didn't bring in the best. I

needed proof. Oh, he was a good

student. Yeah. It wasn't hard

to be a good student. You know

what my high school diploma is?

I tell the story a lot. It's in

a landfill somewhere. My mother

when she was moving from New

York to Florida was cleaning out

the house. Just throwing everything

out. She threw up my beetles

ticket stubs. She threw out my

high school diploma. And when I

said to her, how can you do that?

She goes, if it was important to

you, you would have taken it with

you. That's such a good.

That's mom. Remember, I'm the one

picking out the home for you.

So be very careful. Well, this is

just great. I'm very, I saw you

when you first came here and

you were starting school. That's

good. And so what you learn about

going to school in America, how

different is it from Belgium?

It's really like, there is a lot

of differences. And the level, I

think most of the time, it's we

don't study a lot. We don't have

to study so much. It's like really

relaxed. And they don't try to

put pressure on you. And they

really care about you. So which

school did you call to?

Yeah. Now my high school. It is

a lot different just from looking

at my, you know, my oldest is

31 and the education and how

it's laid out now compared to

what my, my 12 year old is going

through. And Dimitri had mentioned

early on. Some of the curriculum

that they were working with is

curriculum he did when he was in

the middle school. So a lot younger

and a lot of, and they do their

tests are usually longhand. It's

not multiple choice and they're

always having to study. So that's

more of the Belgium education

system compared to our education

system. Wow. You know, I just, I

didn't, I was not a good student.

I didn't study a lot. Um, I got

so, so great. Just somehow I

went up in the national honor

society. My mother couldn't

figure it out either. She even

said, you should Donald is the

you sure you want me to you

straight at the right son. And

he goes, yes, you do. So I was

just never a good student. But

you sound like you were a great

student. I saw the pictures of

you, all the sports and

everything. Yeah. I mean, Melissa

just post everything now. What

happened this past week? This

was like a special because I

saw these photos on Facebook.

You've been set up a whole

Facebook page. I do. Yes, because

it's his farewell celebration

for graduation. So we're all

the people being that his dad's

in town. Uh, Dimitri just wants

to show him as much as he can

in this time. So why not have a

celebration and, you know, we

got to keep that positivity up

so I don't crash with sadness.

So, um, but you know, what's

fascinating, Don, I think of as

a mother, um, with my child,

leaving my house and just being

hours away is so hard for me. I

couldn't imagine with Philip

having his son not knowing what

Wisconsin looks like or where

it's like here in America and

what family he's going to be

with. What are their rituals?

So, you know, I often think

about that. And I think I bond

over that compassion that he

must, uh, you know, have her

son and let me ask him to

fill up. Yes. Did you have a

great year when you're having

your son here? At the NIST is

now empty. We can do what we

want. Finally, we got him out

of here. We hoodwinked him

in America to take him for a

year. Listen, I eventually

started potting, you know.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no,

tell you the truth. I was really

scared and, uh, I, uh, I feared

to, to, to, to lose my son, I

that, uh, to, to, to, to, need

a step to go to America,

especially not knowing to whom

he was going to. And I had

really sound the phone several

times, but you can't, I am so

grateful to Lisa. She was even

more than, yeah, she took care

of him. She took more than

care of him. And with Gade, this

of brother, uh, it's, it's

amazing. Really, I really, I

was relieved and sad at the same

time because he was away, but

I really was relieved knowing

that he was with Melissa. He was

great, lady. I picture the

plane taking off with him as he

went to America and as he went

into the cloud, you said, he's

gone. Let's go. We can't see

if he's out of here. Let's go.

Start the party. Yeah.

Wasn't it neat? Wasn't I?

I know. Well, this is a once

in a lifetime opportunity.

A lot of people don't get this

opportunity. I mean, I, I

traveled over to, um, to, uh,

Israel once in the Netherlands

because of my, we had a relative

in the Netherlands. And I couldn't

speak the language. And I was

just, you know, people are

staring at me because I'd stare

back at them after they talked

to me. I know what you're saying.

And Americans seem to think if

you speak slowly enough, they'll

understand you, which is just

wrong thinking because it doesn't

work like that. Well, thank you

for coming in because I wanted

to meet you. I wanted to meet

the dad of this, uh, bright

young man who's got a great

future ahead of him. And I'm

going to say something to you.

Turn that mic around a second

here. You be good. Behave

yourself. No, there'll be no

problem. Make us all proud. I

know you're going to do that.

I know you're going to make

everybody. And I want to hear

updates. You're going to get

updates. Yeah. He's not getting

away. So we're going to hear

updates. If you ever come back

again, this room right here,

okay? We want to update on

your. Are you going to go

waiting for you back in,

Belgium? Oh, son. The

pressure. It would be too

long. Why would I want to

know? We got the parents

really good. I didn't say he's

doing anything wrong. I just

said you have a girl waiting

for you. No, it's too long

one year. I like. Who do we

20 years? Yeah. What woman

should wait around? I don't

know. No, no, no. No. But you

know what is a good plug? This

was a once in a lifetime

opportunity for, you know, for

many students that come through

the Foreign Exchange program.

This is the time they're

recruiting. So if any listeners

want to partake in foreign

Exchange programs, the one that

Dimitri comes from is the

Nassau Open Door NACEL. But

there's other ones. I think

the Rotary Club has it. I know

that the Racine Sister City

tends to try to place some

students for a short period of

time. And AFS, American Field

Studies Services. So there is

some great opportunity. I probably

won't be doing it for the next

year, but I'm looking into the

foster care system, which so the

viewers, if they want to tune in

to the County Board on July 9th,

if that's a Tuesday or July 8th,

whatever the Tuesday is around

there at 630, we're going to have

a presentation for Racine

County's foster care system. So

they're looking for foster

parents and also families that

would provide respite for those

who are housing some of the

foster kids. Well, I'm glad

you're doing this because I don't

have time watching date line

reruns. I don't have time to

do crime. Well, thanks for

giving us the platform stage

to highlight it. You're always

welcome here. Thank you. Just

show up at the door. I'll let

you in. Oh, sure. Yeah. Right,

you're just talking to me out

there. He's got this speaker

system now. So, yeah. Philip,

thank you very much. You're

welcome. I'm very glad to get

to meet you. Dimitri, you're

going to make everybody proud.

I know you will. I know you

will. I'm going to be

guys.

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